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    arnie got a reaction from Yukon21 in $300 versus $150/$200…   
    I will pay up to $300 max.  But I have found that over $200 what you are paying for is more the body than the experience.  You can't put a price on the connection you might or might no make.  The body will only get you so far.  Hiring can be of a ,whim and I will take the first guy available at whatever or sometimes I will see if several guys are available and go with the cheapest.  But I never haggle with a guy over his rate, and really don't like i if I say your are too high and he offers a lower rate.  I fear he will try to give less of him self, a discounted service for a lower rate.  
     
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    arnie got a reaction from DWnyc in $300 versus $150/$200…   
    I will pay up to $300 max.  But I have found that over $200 what you are paying for is more the body than the experience.  You can't put a price on the connection you might or might no make.  The body will only get you so far.  Hiring can be of a ,whim and I will take the first guy available at whatever or sometimes I will see if several guys are available and go with the cheapest.  But I never haggle with a guy over his rate, and really don't like i if I say your are too high and he offers a lower rate.  I fear he will try to give less of him self, a discounted service for a lower rate.  
     
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    arnie got a reaction from + APPLE1 in $300 versus $150/$200…   
    I will pay up to $300 max.  But I have found that over $200 what you are paying for is more the body than the experience.  You can't put a price on the connection you might or might no make.  The body will only get you so far.  Hiring can be of a ,whim and I will take the first guy available at whatever or sometimes I will see if several guys are available and go with the cheapest.  But I never haggle with a guy over his rate, and really don't like i if I say your are too high and he offers a lower rate.  I fear he will try to give less of him self, a discounted service for a lower rate.  
     
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    arnie got a reaction from ClapperCedar in $300 versus $150/$200…   
    I will pay up to $300 max.  But I have found that over $200 what you are paying for is more the body than the experience.  You can't put a price on the connection you might or might no make.  The body will only get you so far.  Hiring can be of a ,whim and I will take the first guy available at whatever or sometimes I will see if several guys are available and go with the cheapest.  But I never haggle with a guy over his rate, and really don't like i if I say your are too high and he offers a lower rate.  I fear he will try to give less of him self, a discounted service for a lower rate.  
     
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    arnie got a reaction from dbar123 in $300 versus $150/$200…   
    I will pay up to $300 max.  But I have found that over $200 what you are paying for is more the body than the experience.  You can't put a price on the connection you might or might no make.  The body will only get you so far.  Hiring can be of a ,whim and I will take the first guy available at whatever or sometimes I will see if several guys are available and go with the cheapest.  But I never haggle with a guy over his rate, and really don't like i if I say your are too high and he offers a lower rate.  I fear he will try to give less of him self, a discounted service for a lower rate.  
     
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    arnie got a reaction from + Axiom2001 in Age Limits?   
    I list my age  on RM as mid 60's so I leave you guessing as to the truth.   Once past the initial agreement, which is usually a week before the date, I do identify myself as older, also admit to having ED.  Never had a problem with an escort.  But if he were to cancel, I would look at it being for the best, don't want to waste my limited opportunities to hire to be ruined on a guy who is so judgmental.  
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    arnie got a reaction from thomas in Age Limits?   
    I list my age  on RM as mid 60's so I leave you guessing as to the truth.   Once past the initial agreement, which is usually a week before the date, I do identify myself as older, also admit to having ED.  Never had a problem with an escort.  But if he were to cancel, I would look at it being for the best, don't want to waste my limited opportunities to hire to be ruined on a guy who is so judgmental.  
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    arnie got a reaction from EastbayMike in Age Limits?   
    I am not sure who on this is being rejected for age, the client or the escort.  But as what definitely qualifies as older in almost any demographic short of a nursing home, I don't ever recall being turned down due to my age, unless they just did not respond to an initial request for contact as location and rates.  Several ads I have seen specifically say into older men.  As I have aged, I find myself seeking older providers.  I now don't really look at guys under 30!  Older men seem to be less impressed by themselves and are realistic about their no longer quite so great bodies and thus able to personally relate more than the hotter younger guys.   For many reasons I have rarely hired the same guy more than once, but one that I recently have and plan on hiring again is not that far from Social Security and my body is at least in as good shape as his.  
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    arnie got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Age Limits?   
    I list my age  on RM as mid 60's so I leave you guessing as to the truth.   Once past the initial agreement, which is usually a week before the date, I do identify myself as older, also admit to having ED.  Never had a problem with an escort.  But if he were to cancel, I would look at it being for the best, don't want to waste my limited opportunities to hire to be ruined on a guy who is so judgmental.  
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    arnie got a reaction from liubit in Age Limits?   
    I list my age  on RM as mid 60's so I leave you guessing as to the truth.   Once past the initial agreement, which is usually a week before the date, I do identify myself as older, also admit to having ED.  Never had a problem with an escort.  But if he were to cancel, I would look at it being for the best, don't want to waste my limited opportunities to hire to be ruined on a guy who is so judgmental.  
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    arnie got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Age Limits?   
    I list my age  on RM as mid 60's so I leave you guessing as to the truth.   Once past the initial agreement, which is usually a week before the date, I do identify myself as older, also admit to having ED.  Never had a problem with an escort.  But if he were to cancel, I would look at it being for the best, don't want to waste my limited opportunities to hire to be ruined on a guy who is so judgmental.  
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    arnie got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Age Limits?   
    I am not sure who on this is being rejected for age, the client or the escort.  But as what definitely qualifies as older in almost any demographic short of a nursing home, I don't ever recall being turned down due to my age, unless they just did not respond to an initial request for contact as location and rates.  Several ads I have seen specifically say into older men.  As I have aged, I find myself seeking older providers.  I now don't really look at guys under 30!  Older men seem to be less impressed by themselves and are realistic about their no longer quite so great bodies and thus able to personally relate more than the hotter younger guys.   For many reasons I have rarely hired the same guy more than once, but one that I recently have and plan on hiring again is not that far from Social Security and my body is at least in as good shape as his.  
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    arnie got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Providers that aren't into kissing nor giving oral   
    I just hired a guy.  Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral.  I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer.  He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause,  but I guess he needed the job.   But he apparently gets enough work to  pay his bills.  But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience.  Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?
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    arnie got a reaction from + Axiom2001 in What American city do you think has the hottest guys?   
    Looking for 10s is futile because unless you are a 12, they won't give you the time of day.  Every town has its place where the hot guys hang out and then there are the places for the rest of us.  
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    arnie got a reaction from peter831 in Providers that aren't into kissing nor giving oral   
    I just hired a guy.  Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral.  I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer.  He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause,  but I guess he needed the job.   But he apparently gets enough work to  pay his bills.  But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience.  Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?
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    arnie reacted to pubic_assistance in RentMen Membership   
    What does one GET for $240 a year ? The ability to peek at a few extra dick pix and post your opinions ? 
    Seems your money would be better spent actually hiring someone.
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    arnie got a reaction from + Tygerscent in Asking all bottoms: Natural BM, or Enema?   
    I don't get the opportunity too often but I do use an enema.  I have never had the pleasure of a prolonged bottom session.  I will use a suppository to initially clean out and then a few shallow enemas to get the rectum clean.  I try to do this a few hours before and also take an Imodium to prevent residual water leaking out.  Lots of water way up high, I never seem to get fully clean.  
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    arnie got a reaction from + bashful in Fitting Room Fun with Salesman   
    A whole long time ago there was a store in GV, I believe the Village Squire, which was one of the few places you could get anything sexier that BVD's   I was like 22, newly into the scene and quite naïve.  So I was trying on either some underwear or a bikini swim suit in the try-on room.   All of the sudden the curtain gets pulled open as the sales clerk came to "check to see how I was doing".  I was too taken aback to respond so he closed the curtain.  Not sure if he just wanted a peak or to do something.  Opportunity missed. 
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    arnie got a reaction from + Bryan Dube in Palm Springs 40th birthday bash   
    Sherman's Deli.  As a native and long time New Yorker,  nothing I had there, particularly the pastrami is fully spiced like in in NY.  Never find a Sherman's knish in NY either.  It wasn't bad, just very different.  
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    arnie reacted to + Charlie in Am I the only One   
    I have rarely enjoyed getting fucked, because I don't find it physically stimulating or comfortable. However, if I find the person really attractive and that's what he really wants to do, and I feel reasonably clean down there, I have sometimes done it and occasionally enjoyed it. If he really wants to get fucked, I am happy to do it, but I don't find it necessary to have anal relations--as top or bottom--in order to enjoy a sexual experience. I'm sure there are many people on this site for whom "top" and "bottom" don't necessarily refer to fucking or getting fucked, but to who is the person making decisions about what will happen, or who is orchestrating the action and who is playing the instruments.
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    arnie got a reaction from MassageAdam in Have you ever rejected someone because he was too big?   
    It depends on the situation.  If you are into the guy and not just his cock, both of you make it work .  You may not be able to do all the things you  night want to so you accommodate.  If you are just there for the sex, the activities become paramount and if you know you have issues then you choose accordingly.   If the guy is too big or too small, then you really were not into him that much.  
    When I am hiring I know my limitations and desired activities and I hire accordingly, and avoid guys that are too big, either too fat or long.  
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    arnie got a reaction from Marc in Calif in You can take your reward and shove it...   
    But there was no real loss avoided to the company.  No one is just going to hand 4 million over to anyone trying to cash that check.  They would have just re issued it. But they do lack class.  
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    arnie got a reaction from samhexum in You can take your reward and shove it...   
    But there was no real loss avoided to the company.  No one is just going to hand 4 million over to anyone trying to cash that check.  They would have just re issued it. But they do lack class.  
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    arnie got a reaction from MikeBiDude in You can take your reward and shove it...   
    But there was no real loss avoided to the company.  No one is just going to hand 4 million over to anyone trying to cash that check.  They would have just re issued it. But they do lack class.  
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    arnie got a reaction from + keroscenefire in keeping track of time.   
    Thanks for your input.  It was clear that it was for 90 minutes.  When the phone went off, I knew that we had been at it for close to the time but I did not know if he set it for like 75 minutes to ease into ending.   But there are some subtle but clear signals that our time together is ending, lets wrap this up.  I have hired more than enough guys to not only pick them up but have an eye out for them so to speak.  But here when the alarm went off, his vibe was lets get back at it, where were we.  If I was not hiring him again I really would not be concerned, but this might be an ongoing thing and I just wanted to be clear on this matter.     
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