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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from + glennnnn in TV Commercials You Hate?   
    Any pharmaceutical commercial advertising a product which may result in death.
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from + Just Sayin in 411 Vincent Stone   
    I spent a couple of very pleasant hours with Vincent and will repeat. He’s a bright, sweet guy with lots of empathy and emotional intelligence and totally focused on me.
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from Alex93108 in OnaNYC, anyone know?   
    I spent a couple of very pleasant hours with Alex today and recommend him; he goes back to LA tomorrow.
    He has removed his RM profile and sees clients only as a masseur.
    His masseur profile is at https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/24164/ .
     
    He is exactly as his masseur profile depicts. I found him to be very pleasant and charming. As has been noted above he has some unique communication challenges but we worked thru it and both had a nice time.
     
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from HoseMaster in Best opening text to get a response?   
    “Hi John, I saw your profile and would be interested in a 2-hr meeting if you are available. I am staying at a hotel in midtown and would love to meet on January 3, 4 or 5 anytime after 6:00 pm.  There is a lot of info about me in my profile including stats and what I’m looking for. Please let me know if you think we are a good match and what day/time works best for you.  Also please let me know the rate for 2-hrs of your time. * Thanks - I look forward to meeting
     
    * Many disagree but I just don’t buy that a 2-hr should be double 1 hr.  Many respond with a 2x figure and I accept or decline politely… never haggling. If I am on the fence about a new guy and hear $600 then I thank him for his time with kind regards.  A couple of weeks ago a new guy followed up from this, asking why and I patiently shared my thoughts and he suggested $500. It was an afternoon incall, if that made a difference, and we had a great time. He was fun, 100% engaged, eager to please and I so left $100 tip.  Win-Win. 
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Escort “pestering”   
    Perhaps a slightly different perspective:  I don’t think anyone decides to be a poor communicator; it’s simply a skill some lack and, with it, a lack of perspective of how this is seen by others.  
    I will struggle along with someone if I think they have good intentions because poor comms can be worked thru and doesn’t mean we won’t have a great time.  
    On the other hand an attitude of anger, disregard, lack of mutual respect, etc., is a hard stop for me.  I’ve made this mistake with a few guys and sat in a room and it’s awkward at best, usually becoming mechanical and impersonal.   You can’t fix attitude.
    I have had guys begin to badger me a handful of times - mainly SA guys - and never string them along for sport or hopes they will change. No good will come of that and I go radio silent but never block.  (To keep an eye out for any escalation that becomes concerning.) 
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from + FrankR in Escort “pestering”   
    Perhaps a slightly different perspective:  I don’t think anyone decides to be a poor communicator; it’s simply a skill some lack and, with it, a lack of perspective of how this is seen by others.  
    I will struggle along with someone if I think they have good intentions because poor comms can be worked thru and doesn’t mean we won’t have a great time.  
    On the other hand an attitude of anger, disregard, lack of mutual respect, etc., is a hard stop for me.  I’ve made this mistake with a few guys and sat in a room and it’s awkward at best, usually becoming mechanical and impersonal.   You can’t fix attitude.
    I have had guys begin to badger me a handful of times - mainly SA guys - and never string them along for sport or hopes they will change. No good will come of that and I go radio silent but never block.  (To keep an eye out for any escalation that becomes concerning.) 
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    + Keith30309 reacted to rn901 in Best opening text to get a response?   
    Every provider is different but I find it helps to give as much specifics and information as possible in the first text. It doesn't have to be a longwinded elaborate proposition either. Just the basics: what it is that you're looking for, what you like about them or their ad, the date and time you're wanting to meet, inquiry to their rates, hotel or area you're staying if you wish to host, possible restaurants if you would like them to join for dinner, ect. Providers deal with time wasters on a daily basis. There are also "clients" who are trying to get as much "free time" as they can over phone/text who end up never meeting. "Sup" or "hi" with nothing else said may not get a response either, especially if it follows with none of the outlined specifics ever reaching the conversation after multiple messages back and forth. I always very much appreciate a client who is very straightforward and to the point when and where they are wanting to meet. Most of the examples in this thread are good prompts. Relevant specifics coupled with basic manners go a long way with providers who are serious about meeting and their work. Also be patient if the provider does not respond right away. They're people with lives and schedules just like anyone else. A "?" or "???" or "?!!!" message if they don't respond immediately is kind of a red flag to a provider. If you wish to get to know the provider's life story then that can be done in person. If you wish the provider to know your life story, that also can be done in person as well. However, it does not need to be drawn out over text message or phone call prior to meeting. The arrangement should be able to be planned in just a couple of texts back and forth. If you keep it relatively simple, to the point, detailed, polite, and offer genuine interest in meeting then I don't see how you can go wrong with a legitimate provider. 
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    + Keith30309 reacted to + Coolwave35 in Ho Ho Ho of the year party!   
    So I decided to invite my 10 - 15 favorite providers of this year to a Christmas themed sex party in New York City to put on a live sex show and engage in other shenanigans for cash prizes. I’ve got substantial history with all of them so I think they’ll make it fun and lively. Working on figuring out the recording aspect, and how many spectators we can accommodate in the rented space. Ideas are welcomed. 
     
    Its going to be competition / elimination style with the best (subjective) provider walking away with $5k. 2nd place $3k and the 3rd place guy will get $2k. I have to figure out how best to compensate the guys that don’t make the cuts to stay active and willing to participate as the night goes on. 
     
    I’ll post participants as they RSVP.  
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from lonely_john in Best opening text to get a response?   
    “Hi John, I saw your profile and would be interested in a 2-hr meeting if you are available. I am staying at a hotel in midtown and would love to meet on January 3, 4 or 5 anytime after 6:00 pm.  There is a lot of info about me in my profile including stats and what I’m looking for. Please let me know if you think we are a good match and what day/time works best for you.  Also please let me know the rate for 2-hrs of your time. * Thanks - I look forward to meeting
     
    * Many disagree but I just don’t buy that a 2-hr should be double 1 hr.  Many respond with a 2x figure and I accept or decline politely… never haggling. If I am on the fence about a new guy and hear $600 then I thank him for his time with kind regards.  A couple of weeks ago a new guy followed up from this, asking why and I patiently shared my thoughts and he suggested $500. It was an afternoon incall, if that made a difference, and we had a great time. He was fun, 100% engaged, eager to please and I so left $100 tip.  Win-Win. 
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from + bigjoey in Best opening text to get a response?   
    “Hi John, I saw your profile and would be interested in a 2-hr meeting if you are available. I am staying at a hotel in midtown and would love to meet on January 3, 4 or 5 anytime after 6:00 pm.  There is a lot of info about me in my profile including stats and what I’m looking for. Please let me know if you think we are a good match and what day/time works best for you.  Also please let me know the rate for 2-hrs of your time. * Thanks - I look forward to meeting
     
    * Many disagree but I just don’t buy that a 2-hr should be double 1 hr.  Many respond with a 2x figure and I accept or decline politely… never haggling. If I am on the fence about a new guy and hear $600 then I thank him for his time with kind regards.  A couple of weeks ago a new guy followed up from this, asking why and I patiently shared my thoughts and he suggested $500. It was an afternoon incall, if that made a difference, and we had a great time. He was fun, 100% engaged, eager to please and I so left $100 tip.  Win-Win. 
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from + Yellowrod in What is your experience hiring transmen?   
    Two of my all-time, top-10 experiences have been with transmen.
    The first was with Cyd St. Vincent who was very active on the Forum for a time. He is perhaps the most sexually intense person I have ever met. I was merely curious when I saw a couple of his videos and he was incredibly hot. The fact that he has a pussy was secondary.  We went way over our 2 hours and the sheets were literally wet and in a knot on the floor.
    The other was a student I met on a business trip by happenstance and he was very inexperienced but curious. We moved slow and he got more and more into it and ended up spending the night with me at my hotel. We never fell asleep and he was insatiable for more orgasms long after I was exhausted..
     
    For me it is all about personality. What is between the ears is more important than what's between the legs.
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from rn901 in Best opening text to get a response?   
    “Hi John, I saw your profile and would be interested in a 2-hr meeting if you are available. I am staying at a hotel in midtown and would love to meet on January 3, 4 or 5 anytime after 6:00 pm.  There is a lot of info about me in my profile including stats and what I’m looking for. Please let me know if you think we are a good match and what day/time works best for you.  Also please let me know the rate for 2-hrs of your time. * Thanks - I look forward to meeting
     
    * Many disagree but I just don’t buy that a 2-hr should be double 1 hr.  Many respond with a 2x figure and I accept or decline politely… never haggling. If I am on the fence about a new guy and hear $600 then I thank him for his time with kind regards.  A couple of weeks ago a new guy followed up from this, asking why and I patiently shared my thoughts and he suggested $500. It was an afternoon incall, if that made a difference, and we had a great time. He was fun, 100% engaged, eager to please and I so left $100 tip.  Win-Win. 
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Best opening text to get a response?   
    “Hi John, I saw your profile and would be interested in a 2-hr meeting if you are available. I am staying at a hotel in midtown and would love to meet on January 3, 4 or 5 anytime after 6:00 pm.  There is a lot of info about me in my profile including stats and what I’m looking for. Please let me know if you think we are a good match and what day/time works best for you.  Also please let me know the rate for 2-hrs of your time. * Thanks - I look forward to meeting
     
    * Many disagree but I just don’t buy that a 2-hr should be double 1 hr.  Many respond with a 2x figure and I accept or decline politely… never haggling. If I am on the fence about a new guy and hear $600 then I thank him for his time with kind regards.  A couple of weeks ago a new guy followed up from this, asking why and I patiently shared my thoughts and he suggested $500. It was an afternoon incall, if that made a difference, and we had a great time. He was fun, 100% engaged, eager to please and I so left $100 tip.  Win-Win. 
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from Alex93108 in Best opening text to get a response?   
    “Hi John, I saw your profile and would be interested in a 2-hr meeting if you are available. I am staying at a hotel in midtown and would love to meet on January 3, 4 or 5 anytime after 6:00 pm.  There is a lot of info about me in my profile including stats and what I’m looking for. Please let me know if you think we are a good match and what day/time works best for you.  Also please let me know the rate for 2-hrs of your time. * Thanks - I look forward to meeting
     
    * Many disagree but I just don’t buy that a 2-hr should be double 1 hr.  Many respond with a 2x figure and I accept or decline politely… never haggling. If I am on the fence about a new guy and hear $600 then I thank him for his time with kind regards.  A couple of weeks ago a new guy followed up from this, asking why and I patiently shared my thoughts and he suggested $500. It was an afternoon incall, if that made a difference, and we had a great time. He was fun, 100% engaged, eager to please and I so left $100 tip.  Win-Win. 
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from claym in What is your experience hiring transmen?   
    Two of my all-time, top-10 experiences have been with transmen.
    The first was with Cyd St. Vincent who was very active on the Forum for a time. He is perhaps the most sexually intense person I have ever met. I was merely curious when I saw a couple of his videos and he was incredibly hot. The fact that he has a pussy was secondary.  We went way over our 2 hours and the sheets were literally wet and in a knot on the floor.
    The other was a student I met on a business trip by happenstance and he was very inexperienced but curious. We moved slow and he got more and more into it and ended up spending the night with me at my hotel. We never fell asleep and he was insatiable for more orgasms long after I was exhausted..
     
    For me it is all about personality. What is between the ears is more important than what's between the legs.
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in What is your experience hiring transmen?   
    Two of my all-time, top-10 experiences have been with transmen.
    The first was with Cyd St. Vincent who was very active on the Forum for a time. He is perhaps the most sexually intense person I have ever met. I was merely curious when I saw a couple of his videos and he was incredibly hot. The fact that he has a pussy was secondary.  We went way over our 2 hours and the sheets were literally wet and in a knot on the floor.
    The other was a student I met on a business trip by happenstance and he was very inexperienced but curious. We moved slow and he got more and more into it and ended up spending the night with me at my hotel. We never fell asleep and he was insatiable for more orgasms long after I was exhausted..
     
    For me it is all about personality. What is between the ears is more important than what's between the legs.
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from Bargara Leatherboy in What is your experience hiring transmen?   
    Two of my all-time, top-10 experiences have been with transmen.
    The first was with Cyd St. Vincent who was very active on the Forum for a time. He is perhaps the most sexually intense person I have ever met. I was merely curious when I saw a couple of his videos and he was incredibly hot. The fact that he has a pussy was secondary.  We went way over our 2 hours and the sheets were literally wet and in a knot on the floor.
    The other was a student I met on a business trip by happenstance and he was very inexperienced but curious. We moved slow and he got more and more into it and ended up spending the night with me at my hotel. We never fell asleep and he was insatiable for more orgasms long after I was exhausted..
     
    For me it is all about personality. What is between the ears is more important than what's between the legs.
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    + Keith30309 reacted to + E.T.Bass in Sexiest Foreign Accents and Dirty Words you Love   
    Yes!  When I was a lad living in Norcross GA I fell in love with this sweet Georgia boy.  His smile and his syrupy sweet Georgia accent melted me.
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    + Keith30309 reacted to + pdxleo in Seriously: How much sex are you getting right now?   
    Ya just need to get out more, my friend! Just returned home from a two-week vacation, including five encounters with different guys in four different states- jeez, I didn't know how much I needed to slut it up again haha. Don't worry, it's like riding a bicycle- it'll come right back to ya.
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    + Keith30309 reacted to BuffaloKyle in What Is the One Best Thing You Do Sexually?   
    Probably rimming, especially if it's a nice clean smooth ass, I get really into it. I had a hookup bud who would always shower once I got there, come out dripping wet and lay on the bed like that. I would go to town on that ass. 
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    + Keith30309 reacted to samhexum in What Is the One Best Thing You Do Sexually?   
    For some (many?) of the men on this site, I'm guessing the answer would be opening their wallets. 
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    + Keith30309 reacted to bostonman in What is your experience hiring transmen?   
    Your post is totally fine. And yes, in my experience they have had very good hygiene. They have also been very in tune with their bodies and seem to be very proud of the genitals they have. And, they've all been very supportive of the idea that I'm pretty brand new to this and want to learn. So hopefully you'd find yourself in the same kind of company, with a transguy who is eager to help you learn something new and different. :-)
    And btw, I have thoroughly enjoyed my experiments in "dining" down there. No, it won't ever replace sucking dick lol, but speaking as someone who enjoys using my tongue all over someone's body, it's nice to have finally gotten the chance to do this. 
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from Lfeegrin in M4M Message Forums and Daddy's Reviews de-Linked   
    Yep:
    Thank you Guy for giving us this sandbox to play in. And, as a side comment to Steve’s point around following the money, everyone here should recognize the fact that they’ve never had to stare at a screen full of banner ads. Someone has chosen to forgo a huge amount of money to sustain a platform where free speech is nurtured.
     
    And I concur that there will be a big “ahah” moment once the practical challenges of implementing this are realized by the general populace. When your Aunt Mildred is planning her spring garden and Google blocks her search for “seeding young plump tomatoes” because she’s suspected of trafficking and placed on a watch list then she’ll likely not be too enthusiastic about being surveilled. (Especially after being groped by a Federal TSA agent and having her blood pressure medication from Canada seized.)
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from TruthBTold in Condom Fit   
    I use Magnums ! (And a staple gun)
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    + Keith30309 got a reaction from thomas in Name 3 actors you'd like to bed   
    Ryan Kwaten, recently of True Blood.
    http://jessdee.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/ryan-kwanten-1.jpghttp://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cKq447Jy7i8/Te7hQ3j-1_I/AAAAAAAAMWI/iR6asIOBGFU/s1600/ryan_kwanten3.jpghttp://images2.fanpop.com/images/photos/5800000/Ryan-ryan-kwanten-5867942-267-400.jpg
     

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