What is your experience hiring transmen?

[+ robear]

Please no transphobic rants, we get it, lots of gay men have no interest at all in transmen and that's fine.  Just curious to hear experiences of those who have hired out of attraction, or even just curiosity, and how the meet went.

 

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I would be interested in this thread.

I had a one night stand with an man in his 40’s when i was about 18 or 19.  he said to me that I should experience the heat of a vagina even if I had to hire an escort - as its one of the great sexual experiences -  his words ….

 

I have started to consider hiring a trans man at age 60 to experience that sensation - and a trans man with a muscular chest and maybe a beard would be the only way it could do it.

 

looking forward to hearing of other peoples experiences 

 

[Wanderoz]

I’ll stick to jalapeños & habaneros for my exotic heat sensations.  

[goodsport]

In NYC I see soooo many cute trans guys so while I didn't have a curiosity in theory, after encountering or meeting some in person that are just so darn cute/good-looking, I am intrigued but have not had experience. I think I messaged a really cute trans guy on Grindr once but did not get a reply, and that might be the extent of how much I've pursued.

I have to admit, I do think some of the reason I haven't pursued it more is my own psychology getting in the way, b/c in many ways I think a trans guy would actually be a great fit for me sexually since I always say how I'm soooo not a size queen, and also that the reason I myself don't top more is because I'm not that big, but I think it would be less of an issue with a trans guy. 

I hope this doesn't sound bad, but basically I have a few different types of men/guys that I can be attracted to (e.g. daddies, jocks, twinks, otters), and I do find that of the trans men I've encountered the ones I am attracted to are almost always of the more "otter" type, for what it's worth or whatever that means.

Kind of cool that this thread prompted these thoughts. Anyway, @robearI'm gonna shoot you a private message. Coincidentally I stumbled on a profile of a trans guy yesterday that I thought was soooo cute, not sure where you're based but it appeared they traveled/visited a few different places.

[+ keroscenefire]

I hired one about a month or so ago and also briefly kinda had a FWB with another. I find it to be a pretty great experience. The two I was with were super horny and a lot of fun.

I consider myself bi/pan and had been with women for most of my 20s. When penetrating I think I prefer a vagina to an asshole, tbh. I can come much more easily with the other for whatever reason. So to me being with a transman is like the best of both worlds: They are often attractive dudes but they have the hot holes that I enjoy.

[+ StLouisOct]

4 hours ago, robear said:

Please no transphobic rants, we get it, lots of gay men have no interest at all in transmen and that's fine.  Just curious to hear experiences of those who have hired out of attraction, or even just curiosity, and how the meet went.

 

I’m glad you brought this up. I have no experience in the area, but I’m interested in the possibilities. I’ve seen porn that features some good looking trans guys that I would love to meet up with.

[bostonman]

I have hired a few, mainly because yes, as a very orally-centric guy, I do have an interest in exploring "down there" but never had with a cis woman - but I really liked the idea of trying it with a trans guy. (As I've told them, I really like the feeling of the male presence, even with the female parts.)

It's been fun. All three of the trans guys I've met have been very friendly, very sensual/sexual, and very eager to help me broaden my experiences. 

There are two trans guys currently advertising on RM in Boston, one I met recently and the other I hope to hire in the near future. The one I met, a few weeks ago - I told him that not only would I love some more experience (with some friendly guidance as well), but that my real dream would be to be able to bring a trans guy to orgasm. He told me (as the others have also) that just oral probably wouldn't be enough to do that. But guess what - I wound up giving him a clitoral orgasm, which he seemed very surprised about. That made me feel really special, lol. 

I am sure I will plan to continue hiring trans guys - I'm glad that they are more visible than they used to be. 

 

[BuffaloKyle]

I have posted on here before that it's at the top of my sexual bucket list to hire a ftm. Hopefully will be happening sooner rather than later. 

[rustyrex]

I enjoyed it a lot.  The "boy hole" as they refer to it does feel different than an ass.  It's naturally wet and if they are into the session it gets a little messy.  If your curious by all means go for it.  You only live once in this life and for me I don't want to have to wonder "if only I had..."

[pubic_assistance]

My interest in same sex partners grew out of my time as an athlete in High School. I like the look of muscular men but I always preferred the feel of fucking a wet pussy. So trans men (when they've managed to put on some muscle ) are an ideal for me...so happy to pay for the opportunity to meet someone who's particularly handsome.

[jeezifonly]

Back in the Bronze Age I had a girlfriend. My obvious lack of interest in going down should have been a clue to her, or at least for me, that I needed close encounters with a different crotch… I tried to be able to enjoy eating at the Y. I simply couldn’t! The smell and taste were not a match for me at the time, and that was then, etc - well, now I eat both ass and anchovies. 

Separately. Always. 
 

There are some very appealing ftm guys out there these days and I would hate if my reaction would be either insulting or limiting to mutual enjoyment.

Once transitioned, does the shift in hormones change (soften…) the overall strength of scent/flavor of the average puss? I’m more fascinated by the topography than ever, as I have developed an understanding of other interior… designs…

Edited August 1, 2021 by jeezifonly

[bostonman]

1 minute ago, jeezifonly said:

Once transitioned, does the shift in hormones change (soften…) the overall strength of scent/flavor of the puss? I’m more fascinated by the topography than ever as I have developed an understanding of other interior…designs.

I'm probably not the best guy to answer as I have never been with a cis woman - but I will say in the trans experiences I've had there really has been no particular scent I've noticed. As far as taste, I sense a bit of sweetness when I really get my tongue inside, but nothing really around the clit/labia area. 

To be more blunt, no fish. But then again I've been told that that's more of a myth or at least not something to be expected if the area is clean. 

I would bet, though, that a guy used to cis females might be able to make a better comparison. 

[jeezifonly]

4 minutes ago, bostonman said:

I'm probably not the best guy to answer as I have never been with a cis woman - but I will say in the trans experiences I've had there really has been no particular scent I've noticed. As far as taste, I sense a bit of sweetness when I really get my tongue inside, but nothing really around the clit/labia area. 

To be more blunt, no fish. But then again I've been told that that's more of a myth or at least not something to be expected if the area is clean. 

I would bet, though, that a guy used to cis females might be able to make a better comparison. 

Well, if ever the ButImNotGay  voices here on the forum were needed to chime in, this is it, isn’t it?

[uwsman2]

A fantasy I have enjoyed thinking about, but have never taken the step.  I remember getting hard seeing pictures of muscular trans military men.  But I am a gay bottom so I am not sure how this would work in real life.

[Merboy]

There was a trans guy at a college I saw once and my god did this guy have girls crawling all over him.  He had this Alpha God thing going on.

Edited August 1, 2021 by Merboy
Changed "Transman" to "trans guy"

[bostonman]

2 hours ago, Merboy said:

There was a trans guy at a college I saw once and my god did this guy have girls crawling all over him.  He had this Alpha God thing going on.

I would wonder - did the girls know? (I imagine it's a bit of a delicate dance to come out as trans to a prospective date, even moreso than coming out as gay.)

[sutherland]

This was a fantasy of mine back in the 1970s - Paul Michael Glaser (the actor on the Starsky & Hutch tv series) with a vagina.  The only ftm that looks interesting to me is Trip Richards but, for some odd reason, he has an ad on rentmen that says "no private meetings".  So why advertise on rentmen in the first place?  https://rent.men/TripleXTransMan

[BuffaloKyle]

3 hours ago, sutherland said:

This was a fantasy of mine back in the 1970s - Paul Michael Glaser (the actor on the Starsky & Hutch tv series) with a vagina.  The only ftm that looks interesting to me is Trip Richards but, for some odd reason, he has an ad on rentmen that says "no private meetings".  So why advertise on rentmen in the first place?  https://rent.men/TripleXTransMan

I follow his ad and he's not always escorting. I don't know if it's just when he needs the money or when there's a lull with creating material for his onlyfans account. He makes a ton of content for that.

Edited August 2, 2021 by BuffaloKyle

[Merboy]

22 hours ago, bostonman said:

I would wonder - did the girls know? (I imagine it's a bit of a delicate dance to come out as trans to a prospective date, even moreso than coming out as gay.)

Maybe some did?  He was so handsome that even me and my gay friend stared at him - he was a really good-looking dude.

[+ robear]

22 hours ago, sutherland said:

The only ftm that looks interesting to me is Trip Richards but, for some odd reason, he has an ad on rentmen that says "no private meetings".  So why advertise on rentmen in the first place?  https://rent.men/TripleXTransMan

As reported on social media, he's in the process of relocating from DC to LA.  A truck and a cross-country drive is involved.  It's prob easier to flag "not available" on RM than to take the ad down altogether.

[harlow]

I’m bisexual and I have hired trans men (FTM) on several occasions and enjoyed myself every time. Also hooked up with trans men before in my travels. I guess being bi I’m sexually attracted to trans men as well and I like it all. 

[+ Lucky]

Thanks @robearfor posting the thread. The topic is so far out of my range of knowledge that I enjoyed learning a little bit. I had thought that a person converting from female to male would also have had surgery to create a penis, or something close to it. So I am wrong? But frankly, this is an area I have yet to explore, and at my age am unlikely to actually experience.

[+ robear]

It's my very inexpert impression that most, not all, transmen opt for mastectomies to remove breast tissue, hormone treatment to produce male secondary sex characteristics, and perhaps hysterectomy to remove the estrogen-producing ovaries and uterus. Far fewer seek phalloplasty to create a penis, which is medically complicated, very expensive and can produce less than ideal results, both cosmetically and functionally. Some transwomen forgo "bottom surgery" also, for similar reasons. All of this is in context of an evolving understanding of sex and gender in the wider world, in which it's maybe more accepted that a penis does not a man make.

The transguys I see advertising for hire, on fan platforms, mainstream porn sites, and even hookup sites, seem instead to be happy with their "bonus hole" and enlarged clitoris, as do their clients, scene partners and LGBT playmates, and there's clearly a market for that.

A fascinating part of the FTM story that I've seen mentioned is that many if not most of the transguys who came to identify as gay, bisexual or queer men, went through a pre-transition lesbian phase with no erotic interest in men at all, until hormone treatment unlocked an attraction to men (and their parts).  I'm sure somewhere, a grad student is working away on a dissertation on that very topic.

Edited August 4, 2021 by robear
misspelling

[+ IronMaus]

I haven't hired a trans men but I've played/filmed with several and love it. All the providers I know are great and I would recommend them (slide into my DMs)
Pussy is different than asshole, feels just as great, and for me its nice to be able to go in balls deep and not worry about the bottom wincing in pain or shitting on me 😍
FTMs can be great tops too. Outside of strap-ons and toys, if you've ever wanted to be fisted or never thought you could be, an FTM is a great place to start.
Also, an FTM's crotch can smell like a sweaty Cis-man's jockstrap. Their pheromones really get me going.

[+ keroscenefire]

9 minutes ago, IronMaus said:

I haven't hired a trans men but I've played/filmed with several and love it. All the providers I know are great and I would recommend them (slide into my DMs)
Pussy is different than asshole, feels just as great, and for me its nice to be able to go in balls deep and not worry about the bottom wincing in pain or shitting on me 😍
FTMs can be great tops too. Outside of strap-ons and toys, if you've ever wanted to be fisted or never thought you could be, an FTM is a great place to start.
Also, an FTM's crotch can smell like a sweaty Cis-man's jockstrap. Their pheromones really get me going.

You've filmed some really hot FTM content Maus. Definitely check out his Just for Fans if you want to see more.