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I just don't offer advice very much at all. Once in a while if the issue is really compelling I may give unsolicited advice, but it's extremely rare. One would think that people would appreciate being told the truth but that's not always the case. For myself, I would rather someone stayed out of it until I invite their opinion.

Is it worth giving that much thought to?

I have quite a few kinks. Some of the things people think of as kinks, to me aren't kinks. Armpits, to me, aren't a kink. I would call being into armpits "nasty," but not really kinky. My main kink is fist-fucking and I love it - it's the best sex there is. I also like WS, giving and receiving. Love gut-punching and wrestling, muscle worship, sounds, catheters. I have dabbled in bondage and I have rape fantasies. I also like rough, passionate vanilla sex

I had the opposite happen. Somebody who I've often thought of hiring hit me up on a hookup site. I said no because I'm laying low for the time being. If things ever change, I'll get back in touch with him. If he says no, I wouldn't let that stop me from hiring him.

Id say it depends on how bad you want him. If you want him bad enough, you'll pay. If not, you won't. I don't think there's any guiding principle here.

Not so - I'm hairy and I love hairy and I think its fairly common for hairy guys to be into other hairy guys

Since I 've done a lot of work in the hospitality industry, I have had a lot of encounters with celebrities. I can't say it has made much of a difference in my life. I will say that one of my most interesting encounters was with Tammy Wynette. She came in a restaurant where I worked with a large group of relatives and family members. She was dressed in frilly lacy white dress trimmed with pink bows that looked like a little girl's party dress - it was completely incongruous on an aging C&W star with a whisky voice. She was very nice - talked and smoked literally non-stop - it was impossible to keep her ash tray emptied. One time, I was catching a flight at SFO and ran into Ed Marinaro of the Hill Street Blues. We looked at each other, our eyes locked for a split second, he saw that I recognized him and that was that. He looked absolutely scrumptious in a nice western outfit - cowboy hat, plaid ranch jacket, jeans and western boots.

I wonder about that all the time. What, if anything, is going on inside our cats' heads?

Not on Netflix but Amazon - "Rocco Schiavone." An Italian crime drama featuring a crochety, endearing detective named Rocco who is a widower. We loved every episode. Three seasons, but we could only locate the first season.

I love em both. I prefer cats because they are easier to care for than dogs - that's the only reason though. Last night, we had dinner at a nice eat-outside place in Golden Gate Park. The dog lovers were all out in force. The dogs were all so sweet and well trained - they were a pleasure to be around.

He looks great - Id take him in a heartbeat.

I'm so glad to hear that!! It's really fucking sexy, isnt it?

When I was in junior high school, there was a syndicated health column in the newspaper called "To Your Health," by somebody named Dr. Molner. I read then in Dr. Molner's column about keeping your tongue clean - either by scraping or brushing. I started brushing my tongue then and haven't stopped, more than 50 years later.

I first visited San Francisco in 1974. Both sides of Castro Street were just lined with bars. I cant remember the names of all of them. The big ones were Toad Hall, the Midnight Sun, the Elephant Walk, and the Badlands, but there were many. The Midnight Sun, then, was on Castro. It moved to 18th several years later. On Polk Street, there was a disco called Buzzby's that was so much fun. A little later, there was a disco on lower Polk called Oil Can Harry's. It don't think it lasted long. There was a bar a half block or so off of Polk, right around California, called the Wild Goose. There was an enormous bar in north Beach that nobody seems to remember - the Cabaret After Dark on Broadway and New Montgomery. They had a show room and Sylvester regularly performed there.

True - if that were the only mode of transmission involved in an intimate encounter, avoiding kissing would be an excellent risk mitigation strategy. My point was that you've already been exposed through multiple routes, so what does it matter? If you're in for a pint, you're in for a pound. Having decided to take the risk in the first place, go for it.

If money changes hands and sex takes place the law calls it solicitation/prostitution no matter what the provider and/or the client call it.

agreed big quads are very easy to like

Sex in the 80s was a much scarier proposition than sex in the 90s. By then, everything was a known quantity. There was a point, early in the epidemic, before HIV had been discovered and isolated, when the working theory was that AIDS was caused by CMV - which is shed in copious quantities in all body fluids. The earliest safe sex guidelines recommended against even casual touching.

For those of a certain age, this is familiar territory. When the shit started coming down, my husband and I said to each other - we already know how to do this, we've already done pandemic.

I don't know why you wouldn't. If you're there, in close proximity, engaging in intimate physical contact, you're already breathing the same air, inhaling any aerosols floating in the room, picking up respiratory particles that he's shedding. If there's anything to be exposed to, you're already exposed.

All right. At the end of the month I'm doing a shoot with a professional physique photographer. I will use one of those as a new avatar.

A huge portion of the final total is the hospitality tax levied by the municipality. More and more places are charging daily resort fees - sometimes 30.00 - 40.00 per day.

I take 5 mg. every day.

Even though it is science-based it is possible that it is a largely theoretical concern. I have read about the science, but I too haven't heard of any instances where theory has become reality.

You can taste the bad breath that comes from having unhealthy gums - I call it "gingivitis breath," and it is indeed repellant. It's pretty easy to fix - floss every day and gargle with listerine. Since I want to stay away from the dentist's office for now, I've gotten fanatic about dental hygiene - floss 2x daily, irrigate with warm salt water from a water-pic once daily, brush twice daily, listerine twice daily.