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It's pretty simple 5 -10 min. prep, 20-25 min. cooking time.

The Facebook algorithm knows extremely well what kind of men I like.

I think it was 1998-99. I had decided I was going to hire and had been looking at personals ads in the Bay Area Reporter and the San Francisco Sentinel. I found an ad that I really liked, no picture, called the guy, we chatted and set up a meeting. We agreed to meet in front of Cala Foods in the Castro. I lived in the East bay suburbs at the time. I took BART into San Francisco, showed up at the appointed time and place and there was a very attractive young guy of around 27 -28 standing there. I asked him his name, and he was the right guy. He was friendly and seemed genuine. He worked in the financial district and was escorting on the side to make extra money. He put his arm around me and we walked back to his place a couple blocks away. We undressed each other and started making out, and I realized I had struck gold. I had never encountered a shaved hole before that and his was shaved. I was captivated - I couldn't get my face out of his ass. He was hung absolutely huge and I let him fuck me. It was nice but not memorable. I hired him for an hour and the hour flew by. I kept promising myself I was going to call him again, but never did. I wonder from time to time where he is now and what his life is like.

That's what I like to do, too

I've had my share of public sex encounters but I can only think of one rest stop encounter. It was at a rest stop on 490 west outside of Rochester in the 80s. One of my nicest public sex memories was of an encounter in Germany at a street car stop in Heidelberg. A handsome German daddy with a bushy beard asked me if I wanted to get fucked. I said sure. The street car stop was adjacent to a park with a lot of bushes. We went into the bushes, we both dropped our pants, he fucked me really nicely and then we went to the stop and parted ways.

If something like that happens, and I'm curious, I ask.

What did I say about blurring boundaries? Just like with the other guy, your relationship with this guy is ambiguous. Ambiguity leads to misunderstandings.

Blurring boundaries - generally not a good thing. As an escort, if you expect to be successful, you have to look past things like poor dental health. As his partner, you can reasonably expect him to maintain himself in a way that you can be attracted to or at least live with. So now, if I understand you, you and he have developed this hybrid arrangement where you are client and escort sometimes and boyfriends sometimes. So sometimes, one set of standards is operative and sometimes another set of standards is operative. So you have to know when to flip the escort switch and when to flip the BF switch. He has to know when to flip the client switch and when to flip the BF switch. The client standard, for him, is much more ,forgiving, so naturally he's going to prefer it, even when he should be conforming to the more demanding BF standard. That's a whole lot of ambiguity. I predict you will walk away from this predicament in frustration and you will lose a client.

They're not going to agree to something that they aren't willing to provide. If you want mad sex all night, tell him that. He will either say yes or no.

A few things that I can think of: getting an IFBB pro card; staying in Claridge's in London; visiting Lake Como; spending an entire summer at Cape Cod; visiting Cappadocia in Turkey visiting the Aran Islands Staying in a country lodge in Japan; moving to Sonoma or Santa Cruz, speaking a foreign language fluently have lunch with George Clooney; have lunch with Emma Thompson. What a great exercise this was. I had to really stop and think about things I wanted to achieve, places I wanted to go, etc., people I wanted to meet.

Prescription Retin-A is terrific - used very conservatively. At 68, I still get zits. When one starts to come out, I touch it with Retin-A. One time is often all it takes.

Two of the best products ever are exfoliating body scrubs and Neutrogena Hydroboost body lotion. The scrub I use is Dove Skin Polish, just because I like the way it smells. I use it all over, including my face, every other day. After I shower, I apply the lotion all over. The great thing about the Neutrogena lotion is that it's very light - goes on without any oily feeling and soaks in immediately. I don't mind saying that this regimen keeps my skin looking GOOD.

I haven't seen a urinal recently that doesn't flush automatically.

That's one of the things you work out with the provider.

As a matter of fact, I'm going to be in SJ on Friday. I'll see if I can book him.

He's a total dream. I'm in SJ fairly often. I may take a chance on him.

I get together from time with a guy from out of town. We always do an incall in his hotel room. He travels with sheets just in case something happens.

I've only subscribed to one OF guy - fitfella. A young hunk from South Africa who takes my breath away. No frontal shots, but I don't care that much. His muscles and his ass are a sight to behold.

I guess you wouldn't identify yourself on social media as "nasty."

I like big noses and I think it is usually unfortunate when people get them surgically altered.

My husband and I have grown much closer. We have always enjoyed being around each other, but now its different - a deep comfort and intimacy that wasn't there before. We stay in touch with friends by phone. I have been staying in closer touch with family members than I have before. We exchange long emails and texts. We have an older friend who is in his mid-80s and I'm also his attorney-in-fact. We talk on the phone all the time but I wanted see for myself how he was holding up. We fixed lunch and took it over to his place last week and sat in his back yard, maintaining social distance. It was a very enjoyable afternoon. My business keeps me very busy and I'm prepping for a bodybuilding show in October. My husband paints and is keeping busy with that. He also has a business that he can work at as much or as little as he wants. He works enough to maintain a decent cashflow. We get bored and frustrated and I occasionally get overwhelmed with a feeling that I just can't take much more of it, but it passes. We have been giving ourselves regular mid-week getaways - we spend a couple nights at a nice resort in Sonoma every few weeks. It's a good time to be doing it - that rates are very reasonable. This should be the height of the tourist season in the wine country and there are very few tourists. I allow social media to take up more of my time than I should. I have a lot of bodybuilding buddies that I like to keep up with on IG. We're lucky we have a pretty large house to rattle around in and things are generally pretty comfortable. Now and again, we remind ourselves that we exist in pretty pleasant bubble.

I love doing it with a guy who has really great abs - I love to punch and I love to take punches. To me, it's a form of muscle worship. I'm not so into it though that I would take really hard punches. Some guys are.

When I was a kid beating off, I used to swallow my own cum. It seemed sort of twisted to me, so I stopped doing it. I do like passing a load back and forth between us. Doesn't matter whether its his or mine. I like passing spit back and forth too. I also like to get my nose rignt up next to his mouth so that I can smell his breath.

My husband and I have made a few short getaways in the middle of the week. Tomorrow were leaving for two days in Sonoma. I just got a terrific email offer for four days at a Westin resort in Palm Dessert for $299. I have a year to use it. I think I'm going to buy it.

I haven't hired during the pandemic, so I don't really know. I was curious what was happening with rates, though, so I did a search on RM and limited by a rate of 200.00 or less . I was astonished at the number of hits and the overall quality