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Love a man in sexy underwear - I like that bulge - even when I know what his cock looks like, tastes like, feels like, I like the hidden mystery of unwrapping or sliding those underwear down to discover the prize.
 
its great foreplay 

I know how to "smoke" an appealing cigar ......

Opera and porn - all you need now to a good cigar 
 

This is the constant dilemma with hiring.
I am limited to my hiring opportunities - so I try to schedule them in advance, some providers are excellent in doing this, others say call on the day, then they are not available - and I have to scratch around for someone else or do without.
I get the no shows that might come with forward bookings - but that can easily be managed.
 
I have never made a time and not shown 
 
 

Love a man in sexy underwear - I like that bulge - even when I know what his cock looks like, tastes like, feels like, I like the hidden mystery of unwrapping or sliding those underwear down to discover the prize.
 
its great foreplay 

Love a man in sexy underwear - I like that bulge - even when I know what his cock looks like, tastes like, feels like, I like the hidden mystery of unwrapping or sliding those underwear down to discover the prize.
 
its great foreplay 

Thanks for these two excellent reminders @MscleLovr. 
Interesting point about spending my disposable income while I can. I have begun to do that when it comes to travel (business class!) and philanthropy (setting up a foundation), but somehow hadn't really included our hobby in that calculus. Really good point. Friends of mine are already surprised/impressed that I can, ahem, rise to the occasion for these protracted (and repeated) sessions at my age. I really don't know how much longer I'll be "up" to that delightful challenge before I'll have enough to handle with "more ordinary" sex.
I just need to keep my big head engaged in setting emotional boundaries while my little head is enjoying the ride.
 

You should check out the Naked Barber in Sydney - he is an escort and has a JFF channel 

For starters, providers should answer directly the basics like rates, location, travel, and hosting info. There is no reason to be coy or indirect about those. Bad on them if they won’t send basic info upfront. That’s a sign of an unprofessional or inexperienced provider.
As far as what the provider wants (compensation) or what will get him off, this question isn’t particularly fair to ask. He’s providing a service to YOU, not a service to himself. He may not be into doing a certain thing you want, or maybe he likes it generally but doesn’t enjoy it with you specifically. You don’t want to know this, and he doesn’t want to spoil anything by sharing that fact with you.
It matters not what theoretically will please him. It only matters what he is willing and able to do for you for a specified fee. If he’s good, he will make it seem as if he’s into it regardless of whether he actually is. That’s what you’re paying for. No amount of money will guarantee that he will genuinely be into anything with a certain client. He could make something up to make you feel like you’re scratching his itch, but at the end of the day it’s a coin toss at best whether he will actually genuinely enjoy a certain act with a certain person at a certain place at a certain time.
Since you’re paying for him to do what you’re into and meet YOUR needs, the question is irrelevant. You’re basically asking him to lie or make something up. Sure, he can generally be into a certain thing. If there’s genuine chemistry, all the better, but you can’t guarantee that chemistry occurs by specifying certain acts!
It’s ok to ask “can we do xyz?”. It’s annoying to ask a provider “What are you into?”. Save that for hookups. To successfully hook up, both sides have to genuinely be interested in one another and the activities they discuss. The currency there is reciprocity. Both parties genuinely want to engage. The reward is purely mutual satisfaction.
You’re trying to apply these same principles and logic from a hookup to a paid service. The incentive for your provider is compensation. Period. Not mutual satisfaction. If there happens to be some mutual satisfaction, it’s a bonus. At the end of the day, the provider is concerned with meeting YOUR needs and getting compensated appropriately for doing so. To pretend like he is doing this because he wants to on his own free time is an illusion.
The relationship is inherently one-sided. You can keep asking the “what are you into?” questions, but you’re asking him to bullshit you. I recommend focusing on your needs and not trying to manufacture imaginary reciprocal desires. His needs are compensation, plain and simple. If you can hold up your end of the agreement, the rest is irrelevant. Let him do his job by meeting your needs and making it seem as though he’s into it regardless. It’s your responsibility to engage the fantasy. Suspend your disbelief, as it were. He can’t do that for you. He can only put on a good show for your entertainment. That’s what you’re paying for.

Totally fine. It need not be awkward. If you like one of the married providers better, you’re contributing to the same household income. They’re happy, you’re happy. Nobody cares. We providers don’t take these things very personally.
One time I was meeting up at at traveling masseur’s rental apartment to join him for a 4-hand massage for one of his clients. One of my regular clients was walking out of the complex as I was walking in and we recognized one another naturally.
It wasn’t awkward for me, but maybe moreso for my client that was leaving. I didn’t care that my client was hiring an out of town guy. It happens. It’s normal. My regular client continued to hire me for massage and more. It was fine. Even if he stopped hiring me in favor of someone else, I wouldn’t care.
In fact, I regularly refer clients to other providers I know when I can see someone else might be a better fit for whatever reason. Clients and providers appreciate me facilitating a better match. Sometimes the client still hires me for certain things and then hires the referral for other things. I see no conflict. If I can help my clients meet their needs, it’s a win-win even if I miss out on short term earnings. The goodwill I put out into the world comes back to me many times over.

sharing a fresh cum kiss is amazing ......  I remember a long passionate kiss with a very hot provider after he had made me cum - and lick it all up off his fingers ......  he then kissed me very passionately for a long time.  

swallowing is the only way to go - even better is holding a mouthful, coming up for a sexy cum filled passionate kiss.
 
Legendary Dave is great at that - or licking it up off your body and sharing it in a long kiss - so sensual and sexy 
 
 

Often it is genetic,  my sister and I are both big, we are both type 2, my brother has a very different body style, shorter thinner, and a BMI in range.  Guess what ?  He is also type 2 .  My Dr has told me that my weight had no impact on my pancreas and how it produces insulin. 

Love a man in sexy underwear - I like that bulge - even when I know what his cock looks like, tastes like, feels like, I like the hidden mystery of unwrapping or sliding those underwear down to discover the prize.
 
its great foreplay 

It’s a secret Masseur technique. After years of experience you also learn how to remove your shorts whilst keeping both hands on the client’s body…or at least you think they are hands 😉 

The tease for me is the best part. I love a guy to be fully clothed, preferably in a tank top and shorts. I want him to allow me to feel around and grab and have him pull off as he gets more into it. Nothing better than reaching into a nice pair of briefs halfway through to get your prize 😏

Love a man in sexy underwear - I like that bulge - even when I know what his cock looks like, tastes like, feels like, I like the hidden mystery of unwrapping or sliding those underwear down to discover the prize.
 
its great foreplay 

He’s probably an escort who supplements his income as an attorney. Both jobs involve fucking clients. 

What can happen is someone who is 400 lbs may not present with any health issues, but as someone who got to 320 and is now 260 and dropping - your health is better if your in the right weight range for your body.  My naturopath says she thinks I will only get to 240 as I have a lot of muscle particularly in my thighs and legs (from carrying all that weight around for many years) 

swallowing is the only way to go - even better is holding a mouthful, coming up for a sexy cum filled passionate kiss.
 
Legendary Dave is great at that - or licking it up off your body and sharing it in a long kiss - so sensual and sexy 
 
 

swallowing is the only way to go - even better is holding a mouthful, coming up for a sexy cum filled passionate kiss.
 
Legendary Dave is great at that - or licking it up off your body and sharing it in a long kiss - so sensual and sexy 
 
 

swallowing is the only way to go - even better is holding a mouthful, coming up for a sexy cum filled passionate kiss.
 
Legendary Dave is great at that - or licking it up off your body and sharing it in a long kiss - so sensual and sexy 
 
 

swallowing is the only way to go - even better is holding a mouthful, coming up for a sexy cum filled passionate kiss.
 
Legendary Dave is great at that - or licking it up off your body and sharing it in a long kiss - so sensual and sexy 
 
 

What can happen is someone who is 400 lbs may not present with any health issues, but as someone who got to 320 and is now 260 and dropping - your health is better if your in the right weight range for your body.  My naturopath says she thinks I will only get to 240 as I have a lot of muscle particularly in my thighs and legs (from carrying all that weight around for many years) 

What can happen is someone who is 400 lbs may not present with any health issues, but as someone who got to 320 and is now 260 and dropping - your health is better if your in the right weight range for your body.  My naturopath says she thinks I will only get to 240 as I have a lot of muscle particularly in my thighs and legs (from carrying all that weight around for many years)