Bargara Leatherboy

Who I have sex Sith and how I have sex is my business (any whoever my playmate might be at the time).
I do discuss this on line in this forum, and occasionally on recon, if I have a face to face convo about this - it is normally with a gentleman I have hired - as we talk about the industry.  
 
someone who I used to see reguarly in my previous location - would always start out with a hot massage - and during that massage he would ask me about what adventures I had had between appointments and he would discuss what he had been having adventures - either with clients or in his personal life - names were never mentioned but it was always an interesting and horny conversation 
 

Who I have sex Sith and how I have sex is my business (any whoever my playmate might be at the time).
I do discuss this on line in this forum, and occasionally on recon, if I have a face to face convo about this - it is normally with a gentleman I have hired - as we talk about the industry.  
 
someone who I used to see reguarly in my previous location - would always start out with a hot massage - and during that massage he would ask me about what adventures I had had between appointments and he would discuss what he had been having adventures - either with clients or in his personal life - names were never mentioned but it was always an interesting and horny conversation 
 

I prefer clients book via my website or WhatsApp/text message. It’s because in the past I’ve had bookings in my calendar and I’ve needed to contact them ahead of the session but it’s been a hell of a job to work out how the booking was made. I probably should note the source when I update my calendar. That can be a new year habit! 
The problem is that my clients have booked via all sorts of routes: phone call (yes, that still happens!), text message, via various messaging apps, email, Twitter DM, via my profile on various websites, RentMasseur message, on Scruff and even one time someone booked in person whilst we chatted at the gym. It becomes difficult to manage. So I find it simpler to encourage the final booking to be via WhatsApp or text. That way I can find it easily should I need to contact them. 
I do find that older clients prefer to book via a phone call. Questions can be asked, and you get more of a sense of the person than via written word. It’s nice, although it is sometimes difficult to talk detail unless I’m somewhere discreet. 
 

But remember, I am the old crank who wants to stay in RM messenger until the date is set. So I am with you on this even if I have a different solution.

So, here's my tire-kicking:
-- are you interested in meeting me? Not every provider is. I'm 70.
-- kissing?  It's important so I ask even if it is mentioned in the ad.
-- safe or bare? Not often specified in an ad.
-- compensation? I have my limits too.
Only the last one gets answered in every case. I prefer to get past these before going to a telephone number.  If some of you guys don't like that, there are others in the business. I find providers to have fun with, and if I don't, well, I get to keep the money.  Wheeeeeeee!

Understood. But I'm not talking about endless messages. My initial communication might be something along the lines of complimenting their pics, followed by a brief description of the sort of session I'm looking for, the general vicinity where I'm located, and a question as to rates and if he does in or out calls. And I send a face pic.
Based on the response, I generally know whether I want to send him my number. If his rate is too high or if he only does in calls and he's too far away, I generally won't. If he's arrogant or flakey, the same. I'm just trying to find out if he is someone I might want to hire.

Texts are a lot easier for people on the go. I'm regards to privacy, it's also safer because it's very easy to have a burner phone on hand. 

I am with you, but I think the boys feel:
1. that they are too lazy to log in to RM to reply
2.that they do not want a record of their activities on RM in case......
I sympathize with the second concern, but think it unavoidable. The first, well I just go on to the next guy.

I've encountered this several times now where I've sent an RM message and received an auto-response to the effect that I should call or text at the number given.
My preference is to establish communication via RM messages, and once I feel comfortable, then switch to texts. In other words, I'd rather not give out my phone number until the provider has given me some evidence that he's not a flake or worse.
So I'm just curious why some people are so allergic to using the RM message system. FWIW, I've never had any serious problems using it.

Who I have sex Sith and how I have sex is my business (any whoever my playmate might be at the time).
I do discuss this on line in this forum, and occasionally on recon, if I have a face to face convo about this - it is normally with a gentleman I have hired - as we talk about the industry.  
 
someone who I used to see reguarly in my previous location - would always start out with a hot massage - and during that massage he would ask me about what adventures I had had between appointments and he would discuss what he had been having adventures - either with clients or in his personal life - names were never mentioned but it was always an interesting and horny conversation 
 

As someone who has been large most of his life, I had a period where I walked a lot and swam a lot and was very trim, but that did not last.
 
I feel good about myself , self love is important, but I also am smart enough to know its not attractive to some, and of course there are the health issues.
 
The heaviest I got to was 320 pounds and currently i am slowly loosing and at 275 today.
 
When i see a new provider I always send a description, in a email or text message,  “I am a 60 year blonde bear 275 pounds looking for …..”  and take it from there.
 
If someone says does not work for me  - I thank them for the honesty and move on.
 
I have a couple of great providers who make me feel great, and we have a fun time exploring pleasure.
 
I could go to a bathhouse, pay my $25 and wander around all night, maybe get lucky, maybe get rejected, maybe end up in a cubicle giving myself a hand job.
 
Or I could spend $300-$600 with a provider and have a wonder couple of hours .
 
A lesson there for providers who are looking to improve their business.
 
I reflect back on an evening i spent in a gay B&B which was closing optional.  I spent a couple of nights there, the middle night I was the only guest, the owners were out of town and they had a guy in who was looking after the place and me.
We had chatted briefly when he arrived, i did not take much notice, i was swimming and sunbathing naked, had a walk on the property and a swim in the river that passed thru their property, i had a long relaxing outdoor shower, and thought nothing of it.
I went into town in the late afternoon, had a walk on the beach and some dinner.
When I returned the host offered me a glass of wine, and wanted to see a pic of my husband, so i grabbed my iPad and found one, he came and sat very close to me while looking at the pics.  He then suggested a moonlight swim.
I dived in first, he joined me and of course he was very handsy.
We had a fun night, drank some wine, soaked in the hot tub, played, I particularly remember bending over the balcony as he ate my ass out.
he told me that what attracted him to me, was the way I just showered that afternoon without any self consciousness.
 
The really professional providers will see past your excess weight and will discover your inner sexiness and enjoy you as a sexual being and an interesting person
 
 
 
 
 

Who I have sex Sith and how I have sex is my business (any whoever my playmate might be at the time).
I do discuss this on line in this forum, and occasionally on recon, if I have a face to face convo about this - it is normally with a gentleman I have hired - as we talk about the industry.  
 
someone who I used to see reguarly in my previous location - would always start out with a hot massage - and during that massage he would ask me about what adventures I had had between appointments and he would discuss what he had been having adventures - either with clients or in his personal life - names were never mentioned but it was always an interesting and horny conversation 
 

Ha ha nothing better than a group of guys having fun without any hang ups about who’s watching or where it’s happening. 
The mattress anecdote reminds me of a sex party I was at. A mattress was provided in the kitchen / diner for guests to use, as well as the lounge couches and bedroom. I was engaged with a couple of guys on the mattress as other guests stepped over us as they took pizza from the oven to the dining table. Unfortunately someone got caught in our tangle of bodies as he tried to step over us and I ended up with a few slices of Pepperoni pizza on my bum. I wouldn’t have minded but I’m vegetarian…

My husband worked in the funeral industry for a number of years, and I got roped in to help out sometimes.
 
It does take a special calling - you have to be great with people.
 
Sadly here in Australia many of the family run companies are being bought out by a big American company called Invercare.  They buy a business - then insist on the name remaining, so people think they are still family owned.  It is just one big production line.  Often the arranger who meets with you is not at the funeral service, so nothing seems to work .  
Its very poor customer service, but would work very well at keeping costs down and making profit 
 
 

I visited both PP and SR a few years ago.  Both are amazing cities, the food is incredible, the markets great places to shop - and the gay scene is great. 
 
Awesome places to stay and great massages are avail. with happy endings 
 
I stayed at Mens in SR they have great tour guides and tuk tuk drivers 
 
Highly recommend a visit 
 

It depends. A friend of mine did it and he found it led him into the wrong path of meeting people with bad intentions and into doing drugs. We talked about it and he told me he enjoyed the attention and the money but it took a toll on his health because of doing drugs. I helped him stop and now he is clean and has stopped escorting. 
I think it depends on your mental strength and your reasons for going into the work, and of course your age.
My friend was in his 20’s when he started and I think at that age you’re probably not mature enough to make sensible decisions. I started doing sex work when I was older and I think it helps to have some life experience otherwise doing sex work can eat you up. If you’re doing it to boost your self esteem then I think that can end badly because you keep needing a bigger hit if that makes sense. If you’re doing it because you enjoy meeting people and are interested in how they enjoy sex then that’s more likely to be sustainable. 
I’ve had only one bad experience with a client and I learned from that and from speaking with other sex workers about how to read signs and avoid bad situations. If you work professionally, with better quality clients and you keep it as only part of who you are then I think it’s a fabulous job. I love it.
I get to meet interesting people, make them happy, and I don’t have to sit at a desk or answer to a boss. Of course I still kiss ass….but it’s literally rather than metaphorically. Much more fun. 


 

My first hire was in 1987. I had come to Sydney for Mardi gras weekend with my flat mate. Flare are wanted to go to a male brothel as he liked playing around on his bf .
He set up his date and the receptionist asked me if I wanted anything , I thought why not.
Nightingales in Rozelle.
Since then I have been hooked, I love a massage than turns frisky , and over the years have hires in Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane, Adelaide, Cairns, Bundaberg, Auckland Wellington Christchurch,Bali, Malaysia, Thailand, Vietnam,Cambodia .
Hiring has allowed me to explore my leather and dungeon fantasies , it’s great fun.

I was having a very satisfying session with a master and his sub, the master who I hired, was a University professor in psychology, he mentioned that many of his clients had powerful jobs (like i do) and relished the fact that they did not have to think, just follow orders during a hot session.
 
I love being able to trust a Top or a Master to control me, several stand out for me in their ability to do that, and also to read me so that limits are respected, with the best you never use a safe word, you have them but never need to use them, as the Master can read you and knows when to stop or slow down.

Some of the best sex I have had has been with little cocks.
If you don't count anal.
Met a hot guy at the west side baths in new York, he was very hot in the sack..
I guess he made up for what he Percieved as a lack somewhere else.
 
Another night in Sydney I was at KKK (Kens Karate Club) often known just as Kens. A bathhouse with an amazing reputation, I was cruising a very good looking man who had very little confidence.
 
Eventually we were in a cubical, his towel came off, about 2 inches.
 
Never one to be rude, nor give up on cruising effort, I went down on him, shortly after I was choking with a nice thick 8 inches in my throat.
 
Not a shower but def a grower.

Google is your friend.... i just search gay tour guide *city name*
 
in Asia i search utopia-Asia on line and approach gay business’s which list their services

It's too bad the evolution of our humanity does not keep pace with the evolution of our technology.

I read an article about travelling and how the majority in each race are attracted to their own ilk.
 
It was about the expectation that as a Caucasian male travelling in Asia that not all Asian men chased white men.
 
The stat was something like 10% of Asian men were attracted to non Asians.
 
As a white male, of size and body hair, I know that some men find me attractive and some do not.
 
In bath houses or bars I find some man attractive to me and equally in return. Sometimes it depends on the venue.
 
This is often confused by the money boys who give us a false sense of how attractive we are Percieved as. More likely is they find our money attractive.
 
When I am setting up a hiring meeting I always mention my basic description, similar to mid 50's large bear, some providers never respond, some say it won't work ( which is always preferable). Or go ahead and make the arrangements.
 
Racism is different to sexual racism.
 
Personally I find some Asians attractive, some Indians attractive, I am rarely attracted to African or Native American men, however that does not make me racist as I don't dislike those faces , I just don't find them sexually attractive.
 
I am not a sexist man, but as a gay man I don't find woman sexually attractive but that does not make me anti feminism

Now that is a figure I can accurately report on!!
 
ZERO
 
Never touched a woman’s breast, nor explored any other part.