TxDaddyBear

It is always tempting to ask for a pic, but I usually don't. Some guys show me everything they got in the first few messages, other guys are like a mystery gift I won't know what's inside until he pops up on my front stoop. There is a certain excitement to it, I admit. What am I going to get this time? I just get ready for whoever comes to my door and make sure they feel welcome and relaxed. I am a Southern boy after all.
 
When I first started this gig, a wise friend told me "Everyone deserves to be touched." I have kept that in my mind since then. It's about going passed the looks and finding our common humanity to share with each other. 

Greetings all. Thank you for discussing me. To answer your questions and comments. I do quite well because their aren't a lot of Daddy Bear escorts out there, and a lot of guys are into it. If I am not to your tastes, that is fine. I long ago gave up needing to be liked by everyone, but also, ask yourself why you feel the need to put someone down to make yourself feel better? Maybe work on your self esteem rather that insult someone because of a size or age difference. 
So Marylander1940 and all those questioning the situation, I suggest you check things out for yourself. And to all of you, come and see me when you are in the Bay Area. I am a great guy.
Much love!

A very typical time wasting client. You had to ask him THREE times what he wanted to do, which is a BIG RED FLAG. 
All of his questions could very easily been put in one message - but he wanted to drag things out. He wanted an interaction, not to make a booking.
You want to be able to give first-time hires the benefit of the doubt and some grace, but also I have lost count of the amount of times I have received a text saying "i am new, this is the first time I have reached out to anyone...", only to see they have had a RM profile for 5 years with thousands of views and or many Mr Number reviews. For some reason many clients think they will get more grace/attention/away with more if they say they are new - or it is a kind of fetish. 
In any case, this client knew what he was doing. 

It’s almost a badge of honour now that guys never use condoms, to give or to receive. There’s the whole ‘breeding’ thing  which I think drives this bareback dynamic. Plus extensive use of prep and doxyprep. 
Personally I don’t use them when I top and my experience is that very few clients ask me to use one. If I’m bottoming for a client then it’s up to him. I wouldn’t insist either way. In porn I never use them. Must admit I much prefer to bb, either way. Poop doesn’t bother me too much, just clean off and carry on. 

For both the insertive and receptive partners (who may both be neg on Prep) condom use reduces risk for the STI's that are not HIV. Disclose ahead that you always use them. BelAmi types may not have the emotional/intellectual intelligence to see beyond their own limited experience. 

A lot of us are probably wary because many times we get people posing as clients so they can get whack off material or SOMETHING (who knows) from us. So they pump me for information and photos, say they will be in my town in a week, and they will get back with me to book time. Never to be heard from them again, unless they are like a few of the nuttier ones I get who change emails, phone numbers, or even their voices on the phone to get their next whack off session material. Providers are not getting paid when we chat with you, so they are trying to get one over on us. Haha. So I am very cautious with who I am going to spend my time chatting with and how long, and sometimes, they don't even show up either. It's always a gamble.

Life is too short to hide myself anymore. I hid myself when I was young because i was gay, then because I was a big guy. I felt the world was telling me I didn't belong, and since moving to San Francisco, I learned to tell the world to just stuff it. So, I am pretty open about it. My sister knows I give sexy back rubs and thinks it's hilarious. My besties and close friends all know what I do, and I will tell them about important events. Of course, details are minimal, but my work is known. All my friends who know me chuckle and say it seems like a good fit. 

Life is too short to hide myself anymore. I hid myself when I was young because i was gay, then because I was a big guy. I felt the world was telling me I didn't belong, and since moving to San Francisco, I learned to tell the world to just stuff it. So, I am pretty open about it. My sister knows I give sexy back rubs and thinks it's hilarious. My besties and close friends all know what I do, and I will tell them about important events. Of course, details are minimal, but my work is known. All my friends who know me chuckle and say it seems like a good fit. 

I charge extra for penis breath!!
I always offer a shower and clean towel. Mouthwash is near the sink.
I like the non-scented soap idea!

I am on Rent Masseur and Rent Men. I prefer the first more. I get less game playing on Rent Masseur.

A lot of us are probably wary because many times we get people posing as clients so they can get whack off material or SOMETHING (who knows) from us. So they pump me for information and photos, say they will be in my town in a week, and they will get back with me to book time. Never to be heard from them again, unless they are like a few of the nuttier ones I get who change emails, phone numbers, or even their voices on the phone to get their next whack off session material. Providers are not getting paid when we chat with you, so they are trying to get one over on us. Haha. So I am very cautious with who I am going to spend my time chatting with and how long, and sometimes, they don't even show up either. It's always a gamble.

Why is this being interpreted as the client wanting the provider to recruit another provider? Unless I’m missing something, it’s pretty clear that the provider wanted to invite another particular provider to join them, and expected the client to agree to it and magically produce the money for the other provider.

Life is too short to hide myself anymore. I hid myself when I was young because i was gay, then because I was a big guy. I felt the world was telling me I didn't belong, and since moving to San Francisco, I learned to tell the world to just stuff it. So, I am pretty open about it. My sister knows I give sexy back rubs and thinks it's hilarious. My besties and close friends all know what I do, and I will tell them about important events. Of course, details are minimal, but my work is known. All my friends who know me chuckle and say it seems like a good fit. 

Life is too short to hide myself anymore. I hid myself when I was young because i was gay, then because I was a big guy. I felt the world was telling me I didn't belong, and since moving to San Francisco, I learned to tell the world to just stuff it. So, I am pretty open about it. My sister knows I give sexy back rubs and thinks it's hilarious. My besties and close friends all know what I do, and I will tell them about important events. Of course, details are minimal, but my work is known. All my friends who know me chuckle and say it seems like a good fit. 

Life is too short to hide myself anymore. I hid myself when I was young because i was gay, then because I was a big guy. I felt the world was telling me I didn't belong, and since moving to San Francisco, I learned to tell the world to just stuff it. So, I am pretty open about it. My sister knows I give sexy back rubs and thinks it's hilarious. My besties and close friends all know what I do, and I will tell them about important events. Of course, details are minimal, but my work is known. All my friends who know me chuckle and say it seems like a good fit. 

Life is too short to hide myself anymore. I hid myself when I was young because i was gay, then because I was a big guy. I felt the world was telling me I didn't belong, and since moving to San Francisco, I learned to tell the world to just stuff it. So, I am pretty open about it. My sister knows I give sexy back rubs and thinks it's hilarious. My besties and close friends all know what I do, and I will tell them about important events. Of course, details are minimal, but my work is known. All my friends who know me chuckle and say it seems like a good fit. 

Life is too short to hide myself anymore. I hid myself when I was young because i was gay, then because I was a big guy. I felt the world was telling me I didn't belong, and since moving to San Francisco, I learned to tell the world to just stuff it. So, I am pretty open about it. My sister knows I give sexy back rubs and thinks it's hilarious. My besties and close friends all know what I do, and I will tell them about important events. Of course, details are minimal, but my work is known. All my friends who know me chuckle and say it seems like a good fit. 

I never ask for reviews. I get lots of wonderful feedback from my clients, but seldomly do I actually get a review. I think it is a mixture of clients not being paying members to the site and discretion from guys being away on a business trip or at the gym. I also get irritated when an app or person pushes me to give feedback. It usually has the opposite effect.

Being a Sniffies user, I would never give money (or time) to anyone asking for Gen and expect a good time. EEK! Stick to Rent Men or Rent Masseur, and you won't get scammed. Either the gen dude is trying to scam you or he won't be the Pretty Pretty Princess you imagine him to be. I am a provider, and I use Sniffies just to get laid and be sleazy, not get clients. 

It is always tempting to ask for a pic, but I usually don't. Some guys show me everything they got in the first few messages, other guys are like a mystery gift I won't know what's inside until he pops up on my front stoop. There is a certain excitement to it, I admit. What am I going to get this time? I just get ready for whoever comes to my door and make sure they feel welcome and relaxed. I am a Southern boy after all.
 
When I first started this gig, a wise friend told me "Everyone deserves to be touched." I have kept that in my mind since then. It's about going passed the looks and finding our common humanity to share with each other. 

It is always tempting to ask for a pic, but I usually don't. Some guys show me everything they got in the first few messages, other guys are like a mystery gift I won't know what's inside until he pops up on my front stoop. There is a certain excitement to it, I admit. What am I going to get this time? I just get ready for whoever comes to my door and make sure they feel welcome and relaxed. I am a Southern boy after all.
 
When I first started this gig, a wise friend told me "Everyone deserves to be touched." I have kept that in my mind since then. It's about going passed the looks and finding our common humanity to share with each other. 

We are a boutique choice for when people have extra funds to spend. I feel like right now a lot of the money that would go in our pockets is going into gas tanks and grocery bills instead. 

We are a boutique choice for when people have extra funds to spend. I feel like right now a lot of the money that would go in our pockets is going into gas tanks and grocery bills instead. 

It is always tempting to ask for a pic, but I usually don't. Some guys show me everything they got in the first few messages, other guys are like a mystery gift I won't know what's inside until he pops up on my front stoop. There is a certain excitement to it, I admit. What am I going to get this time? I just get ready for whoever comes to my door and make sure they feel welcome and relaxed. I am a Southern boy after all.
 
When I first started this gig, a wise friend told me "Everyone deserves to be touched." I have kept that in my mind since then. It's about going passed the looks and finding our common humanity to share with each other. 

Just ask. If you want him to cum and then fuck him some more until you cum then it’s best to ask. I’m always appreciative of clients who ask for specifics if they want something that particularly gets them off. If I’m bottoming it’s more down to the skill of the top if I can continue to bottom after I’ve cum. I think a good top will slow down or stop briefly after the bottom cums and then start again after a couple of minutes. If he’s good then it’s likely I’ll get hard again.