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I hope that if this happened to me that I would first ask why the guy was using gloves. If he told me he detected something on my skin that he was worried was contagious, I could tell him that my dermatologist hasn't mentioned anything but that I would get it checked out. I'd then give him a very small amount for the small amount of time he spent with me and I'd be on my way. Assuming my dermatologist confirmed his suspicions, I'd contact him again to thank him and ask to hire him again, with a generous tip, if he was so inclined. If he told me he just does it as a general precaution, I'd leave without paying him anything.

One of my "not for me" triggers is "exclusive" or any other descriptor that hints the guy's rates are going to be well beyond my budget. If a guy is marketing himself like that, I take him at his word that only the top 10% of income earners should consider his services.

Funny that this thread was recently posted when YouTube started feeding me various male "beauty pageant" videos within the past two weeks. One of them focused on different areas of the Philippines, so I've already become familiar with Kirk Bondad. He is SOOOOOO hot! Here's a video showing him mostly in swimwear or underwear. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmK3GzAIybs

Leather is one of the filters on Rent.men, so I would suggest starting there. Unless the guy simply selected everything when placing his ad, hopefully he will at least have some leather to wear and you can ask that he wear it to your session.

Unless I was in a hurry or they are taking an extraordinarily long amount of time, I'd just enjoy the show. What they are doing is rude, though, since they could easily catch someone else's naked body in their photographs. As others have written, most gyms I've been to have signs clearly stating that photography is not allowed in the locker room. I've certainly seen some guys do it, though usually when hardly anyone else is around and only for a few photos.

I noticed that there is a provider visiting my area who has one public photo that shows his either flaccid or only partially erect penis poking out of his boxers. I would provide a link but I don't want to flag the guy's ad because I'm assuming he was clever about how he took the photograph and placed it in his ad -- at first glance one might not even notice the penis because he's still wearing boxers and the photos around it don't show his genitals. Also, the boxers have a somewhat busy pattern so unless you look closely at the crotch area you might not notice the cock; the first time I scrolled through his photos I was just focused on his body and face, not the boxer shorts. Hopefully some busy body doesn't report his ad to Rentmen to get the photo removed or moved to the private section since I, too, find it ridiculous that Rentmen no longer allows advertisers to include nudes in their public photos.

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Maybe his website was updated since some of you posted yesterday, but what I read this morning says that his sentence is probation. Hopefully his travel plans and PNP willingness don't violate his probation. Seems kind of bold to put this out there with an ad that makes him clearly identifiable.

I assume I'm not alone, but part of the pleasure of porn for me is the knowledge that I'm watching real people have sex. I'm not interested in animated porn and I wouldn't knowingly want to watch AI porn, even if realistically looked like humans.

Well, Google Lens matched the first photo to a fitness "influencer" on TikTok. I don't want to share that name here because I don't want to violate any forum rules, but the guy is either reckless or ignorant about using the same photo in an escort ad and another online platform or, perhaps, someone has just "borrowed" his photos.

Another upside of the .eu site is that it works with the hide.me proxy website whereas .men does not.

Why would "everything need to start over" just because you're getting a new phone? I assume Apple's software works like Android -- it's fairly easy to copy your information from your old phone to your new one. Even if you don't want to copy over everything like photos, videos, music, etc, if you sign in with the same Google account (or, I assume, Apple id) and have the option to sync contacts selected. Also, if you're using Android you can sign into your Google account at mail.google.com on any computer and send/receive texts there. Not having used Apple phones, I don't know if they have a similar function but I assume they do. Or are you just wanting to start with a clean slate with your mobile phone for some reason -- new phone number, new Google/Apple account, etc?

I'll take him at his word that he isn't anti-gay but merely didn't know how to respond to the question. I had no difficulty responding to a similar but more personal question from the nephew of my then boyfriend nearly 40 years ago. His extended family was out for a walk and his 6 year old nephew got paired up with me to be safe while crossing intersections. He asked me out of the blue how I could be with his uncle since we were two males and couples were supposed to be male and female together. I simply said sometimes two men love each other just like a man and a woman love each other. He accepted the answer and didn't ask any follow up questions. He definitely accepted me as if I were his uncle as well. His mom overheard our conversation and praised me for my answer later. It's easy to answer a question like this in an age appropriate manner unless you get hung up on thinking that anything that isn't hetero normative means you have to think about/talk about people's actual sex lives. That isn't what a kid is asking about. I know Snoop's situation involved the characters having a baby, so there's the question of "how do two women make a baby together" that wasn't present in my situation but if Snoop had just thought about it he'd realize the kid wasn't really looking for a lesson in biology. He could have simply said something like, "I don't know how they had the baby, but they love each other and baby, just like your mom and dad" or something along those lines.

Well, you cannot have it both ways. I wish that being gay was a "who cares/none of anyone else's business" situation. I thought we were moving that direction as a country with increasing support of letting gay people just life their lives, but the conservative backlash has brought back the need for gay people to speak up about who they are. Who knows -- the Supreme Court may end up taking up Kim Davis' case or another similar one and the right to same sex marriage can be eliminated.

I also typically reserve cute for youngish men. Older men that are cute are handsome instead. If a handsome man also has extra sex appeal, then he's hot.

I'm curious if anyone wants to post info/feedback on Kauy/Kuay.

I get wanting to keep your Rentmen subscription private, but Only Fans? They have over 300 million user accounts, about half of which are people in the USA. I don't see how it would be possible for the US government to go after subscribers in any specific way unless somehow illegal activity got uploaded to the site and you consumed it.

I would have just stayed where I wanted to stay and let her stay where she wanted to stay.

I don't see an ad that matches what was described, either. Quite honestly I didn't read the entirety of the original post because it read more to me like erotic fiction than reality. I'm open to being wrong about that, but the lack of an ad that matches what was described does raise my skepticism even higher. For the record, I don't think it's necessarily "internalized homophobia" that would cause some people to think it would be best not to pursue a man under these circumstances. I wouldn't do it, and not because I'm ashamed of being gay. It just sounds socially awkward.

That wouldn't be acceptable to me, either, unless you're keeping up until 3 or 4 in the morning in bed.

I've never eaten at a Cracker Barrel, but I don't think I'm in areas very often where that's even an option. I did work at a company nearly 30 years ago that had a large contract with Cracker Barrel and I had a lot of interactions with some of their senior managers. I viewed the entire thing as rather distasteful since they had already demonstrated their anti-gay bias and the company I worked for was based in San Francisco. Wonder what those senior managers thought about having a gay man lead the team of people assigned to assist their employees with their health benefits? Not that I specifically came out to any of them, but I've been told my entire life that it's "obvious" that I'm gay so they either must have ignored those clues or just chose to accept me since they had no other choice in the moment. At any rate, it was a real drag to be in my position since their demands (and thus my employer's demands) for me and my team went way beyond what we did for other large employers. The workload was intense and the pay relatively low. I was so glad when I escaped for a much better paying job elsewhere. I couldn't care less about their logo.

In my earlier days of hiring (about 25-30 years ago), I hired lots of guys of Asian descent who advertised on Craigslist. I know that some of them knew each other because I'd have a new guy come over and he'd tell me that another guy I had previously hired had vouched for me being a good client. This happened more than once. I'm either unlucky or I've got a negative post about me on MrNumber or elsewhere because I've had a lot more flakes over the past decade as well as more guys who simply don't reply when I contact them. I asked an escort friend to look to see if he could find any negative mention of me somewhere and he said he didn't find anything, so maybe it just is that there are more flaky guys now.

I agree with the others saying that all of this needs to be negotiated before the engagement, not during. Since you didn't give specifics but rather generalities, it's hard to know if the escort is being unreasonable or you are. I'm a morning person, and by that I mean that I typically get up before 5 a.m. even if I have been up relatively late (for me) the night before. If I view an escort staying in bed to get a more normal amount of sleep as "sleeping in" then maybe I could get annoyed, but I certainly wouldn't fault someone for wanting closer to 8 hours of sleep even if they are on a paid weekend with someone. If you don't want to pay someone to sleep, then don't travel with a paid companion and rather just have hourly or multi-hour appointments at your destination. The way overnights and longer engagements typically work, however, is that the overall rate is much lower than if you hired multiple guys to spend an hour or two with you during the same travel period. I also think that an escort wanting some gym time during an appointment is reasonable as long as it's not longer than an hour to 90 minutes. One way to change this from being a "I'm not getting what I paid for" moment to something more pleasurable is for you to go to the gym with him. If you're not inclined to actually work out, maybe you can walk on a treadmill and watch him lifting weights, enjoying the scenery. All this isn't to say that maybe this particular escort doesn't have unreasonable expectations for alone time when he's working. If he wants to spend 10 hours sleeping and three hours of gym time I could see how most clients would find that annoying. But, again, discussing expectations in advance is key to avoiding a situation where you have hired someone whose priorities don't match yours.

His stupid mistake was accepting cash. That transformed his "I'm doing this for free for family & friends" to "I'm running an unlicensed business." Normally I could join in the outrage against someone just having a minor side hustle, but if food isn't canned properly serious pathogens can grow inside the allegedly preserved food that can cause illness or death. I find it a bit disingenuous to try to compare this to selling stuff at a bake sale. At any rate, I'm sure he could resume canning without complying with the state's mandates by simply refusing to provide canned food to anyone he doesn't know personally. It isn't like the state is going to randomly serve a search warrant on his home to see if he's canning food.

I had the reverse happen to me. A provider was apparently so turned off about a little bit of poop (and I mean very little -- there wasn't anything visible on his sheets, just a small amount on my ass) that he ran to the shower without telling me his intentions, then returned several minutes later fully dressed, asking for full payment, and telling me to leave. I've posted this story in more detail here before, but needless to say I didn't pay him his full fee since (a) we probably spent at most 10 minutes together in bed after he insisted on spending several minutes smoking pot after I arrived and (b) even if he didn't want to continue fucking me, there were many other things we could have done. I gave him part of his fee, told him off, and left. There's an interestingly amusing sex ed series on Wow Presents Plus that features two of RuPaul's Drag Race queens (Miss Vanjie and Cameron Michaels) and a sex therapist. I still remember what the sex therapist said during an episode devoted to anal play: If you cannot handle an occasional accident, then you shouldn't be doing anal play. Not that it isn't important for a bottom to try to be as prepared as possible, but someone who freaks out along the level of what I dealt with should surely not be sticking his dick in anyone's ass.