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I love Scotch and am like you when it comes to my taste. Sometimes it's nice to have something light and delicate, and other times a smoky-rich Scotch is what I want. Given I'm not wealthy, there are a whole lot of expensive Scotches I've never tried. For an affordable option, I really enjoy Johnny Walker Black when I want that smoky-rich flavor.

That does sound odd, but it wouldn't be difficult for a guest to put something in a drink already made if the host is temporarily distracted or absent (going to the bathroom, getting something from another room, etc).

Apples and oranges. Britney was under conservatorship for a long time, during which time there were no allegations that she was using drugs and, in fact, she was performing regularly and making a lot of money. It was difficult to understand why someone who could function at her level needed to be conserved. She might not make the best decisions for herself, but that's true of a lot of people. Elijah Blue, at least according to Cher's legal filing, is so addicted to drugs that he doesn't even spend the money he receives (which isn't earned income but rather payments from his late father's trust) to take care of himself but rather spends it on drugs. I can understand a parent wanting to step in to basically force help on their kid when all other attempts have failed.

I understand how it can benefit both provider and client. The provider obviously gets paid in advance for work yet to be performed. For the client, typically the cost per session is lower when paying for a number of visits in advance. I've never done this with a masseur, but I would be willing to do it if I had already hired someone and trusted him. I did this with a personal trainer who was working out of another trainer's small gym, and it worked out fine.

I'll reply, Simon. With watersports, even though I'm not interested in it, I wouldn't necessary reject a guy who lists that in his ad because, as you wrote, I wouldn't assume that the provider attempts to force watersports into every encounter. It's just an item available on the menu, so to speak. With findom, I don't think of it as just an activity available on the menu. It's an attitude on the part of the provider -- give me money and then I will demand even more money. The client is supposed to get a kick out of just being exploited. I would be concerned that this speaks to a provider's character and that he would cop that stance with me, even if I didn't ask for it. I'm not interested in throwing money at someone who then insults me and tells me to give him even more money.

Findom, as Poolboy48220 mentioned. PNP. Boasting. Confidence is great, but writing things like "I'm the best escort you'll find on this site" or something along those lines is not attractive. Beyond that, it's just stupid.

The forehead looks youthful, the rest of the face screams "alien" to me. With all of Madonna's money, I don't understand why she hasn't sought out the best plastic surgeons. She should be going to whoever works on Cher's face. It's obvious Cher has had a lot of work done, but she still looks human. These celebrities who are willing to pay a lot of money to someone who ends up making them look ridiculous are beyond my comprehension. Does Madonna actually look in a mirror or at a photo of herself and think she looks good? I guess she does, probably because of how narcissistic she is.

There are a few previous threads on him here that you will find if you search for Latinotopvers. Seems like he's largely gotten good reviews.

Obviously this guy provides a good experience or he wouldn't have his fans on this site. I've never hired him, and only looked at this thread because someone just liked my previous comment. I brought up Jake's ad and see that not only is he still 39, but one of the last sentences indicates he's a "young sexy daddy" type. Yes, he claims to be a young daddy type. Isn't a young daddy someone in their teens or early 20s?

Apparently anxiety is the "in" condition, and it certainly isn't limited to Gen Z and Millennials. Just look at the normalization of "emotional support animals." It must be terrible to be so emotionally fragile that you cannot shop for groceries without your dog.

Unless you are concerned that he's going to fly to your city on your dime and then not keep his commitment to you in terms of your appointment, I think you should drop it. You don't own him, even for the time he's scheduled to be with you. I'm not suggesting that you should be okay with him slipping away for an hourly appointment with a different client during your scheduled time together, but unless you have an indication that's what's on his mind then I think it would be bad form for you to bring this issue up. If you do, I'd suggest doing it very casually as in, "Hey, I noticed your ad indicates you'll be in my city when you are coming to see me," and then let him respond. If you make it an inquiry, it makes you look like a controlling client whom he should want to avoid, and then you might be stuck with an unused plane ticket.

Wow, Rick Donovan. I remember loving his scenes back in the 1980s. What I remember most about him, apart from his massive dick, are the massive cum shots he gave. Always hot for me to see a guy who squirts more and/or farther than average.

I'll be "that guy": You joined the site (well, its predecessor) over a decade ago, so you cannot blame being a newbie for your minimal efforts thus far. You started this thread asking for recommendations in a particular location without giving any parameters (sexual position, age, etc) or referencing some providers in that area that at least physically match what you desire. Then when someone recommends someone they met but didn't hire, instead of searching for previous discussion about that provider you ask in this thread whether anyone has hired him. If you search, you will find a thread where some members recommended him after having hired him within the past year or two. Someone else posted a naked photo of him in another thread, presumably one of his hidden photos in his ad. Maybe I'm just a bit irritable from a tough day at work, but I don't think it's unreasonable to expect fellow forum members to put a little more effort into researching providers.

I'm certainly not denying your facts. In fact in San Francisco on Rentmen currently there are: 6 pages of ads for escorts claiming to be 30 or younger. 5 pages of ads for guys claiming to be 30-40 years old; 3 pages of that are men 35 and under, 2 pages men 35-40. 1 1/2 pages for men aged 40-50. And less than one full page from age 50 on up. I think my point is that while this industry certainly favors younger guys, and many guys who do this when they are young adults don't stay in the industry for very long, there certainly is a market for older men providing they not only have qualities that still appeal to their client base but also know how to provide an experience satisfying enough that they have repeat clients.

The only time I paid for a provider for someone else's birthday ended up not being so great (from my perspective), so I wouldn't do it again. It's not a bad idea if you can work out the logistics (not terribly difficult) and you know that the gift recipient is interested in the provider in question. There's no way I'd want such a gift if it was just a friend who knows me and knows I've hired escorts who selected someone based on their idea of who's appealing. I have one such friend who frequently shows me ads for guys and, for the most part, they don't appeal to be either because of looks or because of the written content in their ads.

You're missing the point here. If you scan for the same kind of error in other current ads, you'll surely find guys whose ads have been on long enough that they, too, would have been under 18 when they started advertising if their current stated age is correct. I think the suggestion here is that if you want to help Rentmen clean up their database with respect to errors like this, you'll encounter a lot of ads that don't make sense in terms of age so you will have a lot of reporting to do. And, in the end, I think that if Rentmen thought this was an issue they would have already instituted some process to make sure this could not happen.

You think Rentmen cares about an advertiser lying about his age? I'm amused. I don't think the guy in the photos is currently 19 unless he's already been living a tough life.

Unfortunately it has happened to me several times. I've had guys no-show who were supposed to come to my place, and typically when someone doesn't show up they just don't bother to respond to texts asking where they are. One guy had the nerve, however, of replying that he was on his way to visit his family for the holidays and questioning why I would think it was okay to make an appointment right before Christmas. Uh, because you agreed to said appointment? Seemed obvious to me that if the guy didn't want to schedule something on December 24th he could have just said so. The funny/awkward thing is that I frequently saw him at my gym after that. Hot looking guy but because of his rudeness I always just ignored him. Another time I traveled to the hotel where some guy said he would be staying because we had an agreed-upon appointment time and he said he would give me his room number after he checked in. Didn't hear back from him before I traveled to his hotel, didn't hear back from him when I was outside his hotel; in fact, he never responded. It's bad enough to stand someone up, but one would think that at least a simple acknowledgement/apology would be in order.

I assume the gym in his building is good enough for most people but not people seriously into body building. For example, I think the maximum dumbbell weight in my condo gym is 70 pounds; more than I'll ever need, but I definitely saw guys using heavier weights when I went to an actual gym. In terms of weight plates, I also don't think there are enough of those in high enough weights to provide a challenge to serious weightlifters. There's also not a lot of room to work out due to all of the equipment in the gym. But the other reason might be that he likes the social scene of the gym. Where I live, there generally are only a couple of people in the gym at any one time. There were more people at the real gym I used to go to at 4:00 a.m.!

And there are other threads about ChineseHOT here as well.

I assume you didn't search before posting?

Renting someone's apartment versus staying in a hotel is definitely a gamble. While I have never been entirely disappointed by an Airbnb or VRBO rental, there's always been something that was disappointment. My best experience was in Los Angeles, near Paramount Studios. The living room was nice, the kitchen was nice, there was a washer/dryer and dishwasher. Unfortunately, the bed was just okay -- certainly not as comfortable as a standard hotel bed. Another apartment had a better bedroom with a more comfortable bed, but two nights out of five we were awakened in the middle of the night due to neighbors setting off fireworks for over an hour. (This was pre-pandemic; I know that random fireworks that have nothing to do with the 4th of July have become a bigger problem since 2020.) The worst was a rental on Kauai. It was basically a converted laundry room behind someone's house; on my approach to the property, I was hoping that I had taken a wrong turn because the front yard looked like a junk yard. At least it was a tropical destination and I wasn't planning to spend a lot of time at the property anyway, but the place really was one step above a dump.

I understand what you are saying, and I don't disagree in the sense that hidden camera footage of most client activity isn't likely to be posted online because there simply wouldn't be much interest. I read the concern to be more about the potential for blackmail, though, and it doesn't matter if the camera angle is bad or the client is the ugliest man in the world. If the footage contains recognizable images, someone could attempt to use it to extort money from the client. I just think the odds of this are so low that it isn't worth thinking about, but I have read here that some clients have been blackmailed (or at least there were attempts to blackmail them) simply because they answered someone's ad. So I don't think this concern is just paranoia, depending on what one's situation is. But there really is no way to avoid all potential risks, only to minimize them, and if someone feels better being in control of the meeting space (i.e., renting a hotel room themselves for the meeting) then they certainly should do so.

What is the speed at which escorts depreciate? There are definitely escorts who post here who have been in the business for over a decade, if not two decades. There are escorts who didn't even start their careers until after 40. Based on someone I know and the impression I have from some long-time escorts here, the answer is that it's possible to be a very successful escort and invest one's money wisely. That takes more than just being willing to be hired by clients, though. Despite some people believing this is "easy money," to actually build a business (and the truly successful escorts have clients who hire them regularly) requires providing an experience so good that the clients keep returning instead of just moving on to the next new guy advertising in their area.

If I'm not mistaken, this is the same Heath that was part of the Heath and Matt duo that received lots of negative comments on the previous site several years ago. I definitely hired the Heath shown in the current ad many years ago in San Francisco. What stands out in my mind is that I very much enjoyed my first massage with him and then the second one was almost as if a different person was there (even though it was clear it was the same man). I never did figure out why he was so friendly and engaged the first time I hired him and then seemed so unfriendly just a month or two later.