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never send a deposit to a provider that has no reviews.

Everyone hires for different reasons.

Just enjoy the fantasy. Play into it. It is probably turning him on that you believe he is straight, as much as it was for you being with a straight guy.

Some guys put their travel dates away from their regular location when they are traveling so people know they are NOT in town. Some guys when they are traveling are visiting family, can still see clients but only have limited availability. Some people just don't know what the scheduled is going to be like on a trip months in advance and don't want to commit until they are sure they can provide. It can be a whole host of reasons without jumping to 'he is lying and he never wants to see me again'.

@Braziliancutee I don't know that there is a 'best' city for bottoms, but my advice is stick to the bigger cities where you have a bigger market - LA, San Francisco, San Diego, Chicago, NYC, Philly, DC.

When I first started I would set the alarm on my iPhone for one hour with the ring tone, not the alarm sound. My phone would always be on silent so no calls you disturb but then when the hour was up my phone "rang" and I would get up, apologize for the interruption and turn it off as if I was not answering a call and say 'oh wow look at that its been an hour". I also had a trusted friend that I told I was doing this, and I would call them as the session started, and they would be waiting for a call as the session ended to confirm my safety. Now I have more experience at judging what an hour is, I don't need to do that but also it goes off body language - some clients just want you out of there as soon as they cum, some like to stay and chat, some like to push it and be cheeky and extend it and get you to stay for much longer. If someone is giving me the vibe that they have cum and they want me out, I will leave early. Conversely, sometimes I chat/cuddle snuggle and go over - it all depends on the time of the day/evening, how comfortable the client has made me feel, if I am enjoying myself, if I want to see the client again - there is a whole myriad of reasons why I may stay a little over or leave a little early - but the main one is YOU and how YOU are behaving.

Correct.

my advice would be: you are going to be taken advantage of with this, set up unrealistic expectations with clients for the rest of us, and it is not going to get you better or more clients. Don't do it. x

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I have done overnights on first meeting before, most have worked out however I much prefer to have met before first. Better for everyone. I would suggest 2 hour booking, you may be jet lagged and the time difference can wreck havoc. You also will not really know the proficiency of English of the provider until you meet (assuming you don't speak French, big assumption I know) Consider asking someone you have spent overnight with previously if they would consider to meet you in Paris. SP

No. Even if there was a way, we wouldn't share it with clients as it is a way to protect ourselves from danger.

I ask for an Uber if they are more than 20 minutes away, and we have not met before, unless they have sent a deposit.

you will never know.

Every single time I have answered a call it has been someone jerking off.

just ask the escort you are interested in. there is no request that they have not heard before.

sounds like a bad incident - but let me say this: sometimes when you are negative it become a self fulfilling prophecy. 1. you went to a bathhouse despite not liking them feeling uncomfortable. How is this his fault? 2. you get there and are uncomfortable, complaining about the room. How is this his fault? 3. you talk about how you will only pay in a way that you can get your money back with the provider (im sure that is going to make him feel great) How is this his fault? 4. you sit there visibly uncomfortable, he suggests maybe bringing in someone else to help. (you don't mention any ideas you have to make you feel more comfortable - you are also an active participant here. he is not a mind reader) How is this his fault? 5. you tell him you now want to leave after he has gone out his way to prepare to meet you, travel to the bathhouse. Of course he is going to be annoyed. he thinks you are probably going to reverse the payment like you suggested at the start. How is this his fault? You willed this into situation into existence and you need to take some responsibly for it. I'm not saying what he did was right - but you literally threatened him that you would reverse payment if you were not happy. Not a great way to start a session. You may want to explore seeing a therapist or counselor and work on anxiety instead of hiring sex workers in bathhouses.

Or maybe he is staying in the home of someone and not able to see clients on this trip. Perhaps he doesn't want to plan many months ahead. I don't know of any providers who like to plan that far ahead.

asking me questions that are already on my add. best example - "Host?" it clearly states on my profile I host. it shows they just are not serious, they haven't even read your profile. one word messages in themselves are also red flags. It's rentmen, not grindr.

Most of my clients are married to women, enjoy gay sex but will never leave their wives.

It's not common, but it is appreciated. If you are not comfortable with it - describe yourself. Don't just say "im a bit big" if you are 500lbs. Don't forget to tell them you have a huge Santa like beard, etc etc. and especially don't forget to tell us if you have some kind of disability - we need to be prepared for what comes through the door. You are better off seeing someone who can satisfy you than someone who will not.

I am a provider and I am telling you straight up - we prefer the tip.

the question you posed was 'is it a common practice?' my answer is it is more common than not, but its not normally the 20% you would tip in other service industries. nothing relating to whether it is right/wrong/fair. With your hotel - I am assuming the QR code is meant for the people cleaning your room, which you would never see them do or have interaction with, but I don't work in a hotel so I have no idea.

you are using their content for free. we get notifications when people view our profiles. if you are looking EVERY DAY, you are unlikely to book and you are satisfying your desires by simply looking - therefore you are not a customer. If you are wanting to know if they will be near your town, 'buddylist' them and you will get a notification. Or perhaps look once a week. Daily looking is a bit much. How would you feel if you knew someone was looking at your photos every single day. it's a bit creepy. some newer profiles are only contactable through rent.men instead of rentmen.eu and only if you have rentmen account. (doesn't have to be premium)

very common. Not the standard 20%, but tipping is very common and appreciated.

the answer to the question - Both are nice.