Nue2thegame

Leaving some flyers in an STI clinic or their public restroom might help recruit some interested volunteers. 

I didn’t view it, but misogynistic is the punters on this board gunning for banning female adults from supporting male stripper clubs in Montreal. They aren’t OF attention-grabbing. Campus is co-ed, ladies. Mingle and everybody get over it. 

If you've hired someone for a BOYFRIEND experience, then why are you questioning them treating you like a boyfriend ?
The most important skill for any provider is to create the illusion that they WANT to know you/care about you/be with you. 

I’m also relatively “nu2thegame” but I’ve had a fair number of encounters. I’ve been called “handsome “ several times and I think it’s just a relative term of endearment like “honey” or “dear” (or papi). I haven’t had a request for a  WhatsApp interview yet and probably wouldn’t welcome it. I do get some follow up texts which mean to me, “hey I had a good time and would like to see you again”. It’s good marketing and I usually respond in kind if I want to reciprocate.I do think that escorts do a little more of that than masseurs. I think that service begins when whichever one of us (visiting or hosting) walks through the door. I often book well in advance and so far, have never cancelled. 

I think $550 is high for any market and your hunch of $400 is a more realistic upper limit. Although there’s some debate on the forum about haggling the overall sentiment is that it shouldn’t be done and many providers find it insulting. If he represents your ultimate fantasy, you probably don’t want to sully it by having him feel that he’s compromising. Many providers are fine with videoing. Final red flag (at least for me) is lack of reviews. Some of these guys aren’t real. If it seems TGTBT, it probably is. 

I think $550 is high for any market and your hunch of $400 is a more realistic upper limit. Although there’s some debate on the forum about haggling the overall sentiment is that it shouldn’t be done and many providers find it insulting. If he represents your ultimate fantasy, you probably don’t want to sully it by having him feel that he’s compromising. Many providers are fine with videoing. Final red flag (at least for me) is lack of reviews. Some of these guys aren’t real. If it seems TGTBT, it probably is. 

I read “Cutting for Stone” by Abraham Verghese a few years ago, loved it. More recently I just finished another one by him “Covenant of Water”. Both great reads.

He has polydicktyly - sausage, salami, bologna and pastrami. 

These are my rules as well, except I have a burner phone for my communications with providers.  Email seems to be too difficult for many of them.  Kids these days!  

That ‘35 hurricane was legendary and resulted in a public rebuke of the government by none other than Ernest Hemingway. He was one of the first to arrive in the aftermath and witnessed hundreds of corpses hanging from the trees. 
The victims were mostly Black army veterans from WWI working on relief projects. Hemingway alleged they had been left to die by an uncaring government. He lashed the feds with his mighty pen. 

A little bit of Florida history. The Flagler Overseas Railroad to Key West was finished in 1912 and operation ended after the Labor Day Hurricane of 1935, the strongest hurricane to ever hit the US up until that time with 400 casualties. Several sections of the railway were destroyed and were never rebuilt. 
The Surfside Condo collapse in June 2021 in which almost 100 people died revealed major structural deficiencies (known before the collapse) in many post WW II high rises in South Florida. The still ongoing structural reviews demanded by the state have resulted in mandatory renovations. For many of these buildings, the condo assessments to correct the deficiencies exceed or nearly exceed the condo owners mortgages and many are walking away, hence the large number of foreclosures. High rises built more recently and those without structural issues remain in demand  and their values have increased. There has been significant flux of people into the state (NY and California refugees) and out of the state (Canadians and South Floridians fed up with congestion). It’s difficult to predict what the net effect will be. 

I don’t haggle.  I simply say thanks I think I would’ve enjoyed meeting you, but unfortunately you’re over my budget.  I’d say 50% of the time I get a response where they offered to lower their rate..  you can never prejudge their willingness to drop their rate.  Maybe they just had a cancellation or been having a slow few days.  I have to say that whenever this does happen, I don’t feel like I’m being given incomplete service.

Wow! Wow! Wow! Bravo! Had to slip my pants down to finish reading this. 
I see an income opportunity for you organizing once in a lifetime trips to Madrid. 

Although I haven’t seen many providers claiming to be “the best”, it’s a red flag for me with any other profession and I avoid them. It’s far more meaningful to me if a reliable reviewer says they’re the best.

I hope it doesn't crash as my hobby would be affected, like some of you would too. I’ve noticed something after spending time in Florida and in a few other major cities, and I’m curious if others have observed the same. Florida’s work ethic feels different, not necessarily worse, but less intense, especially compared to cities where harsh weather forces a more structured, grind-oriented lifestyle. In cities with long winters, cold mornings, limited daylight, people tend to optimize time, move faster, and build routines around productivity because the environment almost seem to demands it.

I think $550 is high for any market and your hunch of $400 is a more realistic upper limit. Although there’s some debate on the forum about haggling the overall sentiment is that it shouldn’t be done and many providers find it insulting. If he represents your ultimate fantasy, you probably don’t want to sully it by having him feel that he’s compromising. Many providers are fine with videoing. Final red flag (at least for me) is lack of reviews. Some of these guys aren’t real. If it seems TGTBT, it probably is. 

I think $550 is high for any market and your hunch of $400 is a more realistic upper limit. Although there’s some debate on the forum about haggling the overall sentiment is that it shouldn’t be done and many providers find it insulting. If he represents your ultimate fantasy, you probably don’t want to sully it by having him feel that he’s compromising. Many providers are fine with videoing. Final red flag (at least for me) is lack of reviews. Some of these guys aren’t real. If it seems TGTBT, it probably is. 

I don’t bring new providers into my home. The first meeting is always at their place or at a hotel. I also make sure one person knows where I am, who I’m with, and for how long.

Okay, I generally leave reviews, though my usernames do not match. I do find it odd to be approached by another client via RMass for two reasons. 1) the degree of anonymity is even higher than here or RMen (where you can at least see each other's profiles), and 2) I've left my review. What else do you want to know? 
I've noticed one member here has a note in his signature that if he's reviewed someone, that's all you're getting, and don't DM him. I kind of understand where he's coming from. While I generally have a great memory, if I've only seen someone once or twice three years ago, I likely don't have much to add. I don't mind very specific questions, like does he kiss? But I'm not going to give a blow-by-blow (pun intended) run down of my experiences. It feels like I'm writing erotica. 
Lastly, the best we can get from this forum is whether a provider treats clients with respect, honors their prices, and matches their photos. All of that also indicates this provider is safe. But chemistry is unpredictable and I often feel like I'm being asked to reassure someone that they're going to have a good experience. 

If she has children and grandchildren, Thanksgiving dinner must be a hoot.

I think $550 is high for any market and your hunch of $400 is a more realistic upper limit. Although there’s some debate on the forum about haggling the overall sentiment is that it shouldn’t be done and many providers find it insulting. If he represents your ultimate fantasy, you probably don’t want to sully it by having him feel that he’s compromising. Many providers are fine with videoing. Final red flag (at least for me) is lack of reviews. Some of these guys aren’t real. If it seems TGTBT, it probably is. 

I think $550 is high for any market and your hunch of $400 is a more realistic upper limit. Although there’s some debate on the forum about haggling the overall sentiment is that it shouldn’t be done and many providers find it insulting. If he represents your ultimate fantasy, you probably don’t want to sully it by having him feel that he’s compromising. Many providers are fine with videoing. Final red flag (at least for me) is lack of reviews. Some of these guys aren’t real. If it seems TGTBT, it probably is. 

If you have a car: Haulover clothing optional beach near Miami.  The north end of the nude beach is Where the Boys Are. 😉 
If you don't have a car, Sebastian Beach is Ft Lauderdale's "gay beach".  It is not clothing optional and has a much smaller attendance of gay men.
Be sure to ask each one.   One of my regular Florida masseurs is so busy that he no longer travels and only accepts incalls in downtown Miami.  On the other hand, I hired 3 new (to me) escorts (for 3 separate visits) on my most recent trip and offered to either host in Wilton Manors or travel to each of them.  All 3 drove to me and did not charge extra in their rate.

I think $550 is high for any market and your hunch of $400 is a more realistic upper limit. Although there’s some debate on the forum about haggling the overall sentiment is that it shouldn’t be done and many providers find it insulting. If he represents your ultimate fantasy, you probably don’t want to sully it by having him feel that he’s compromising. Many providers are fine with videoing. Final red flag (at least for me) is lack of reviews. Some of these guys aren’t real. If it seems TGTBT, it probably is.