Nue2thegame

My recommendation is to find another HOT provider in Miami, that does NOT require your personal information. He has made it clear, that he does NOT trust you. Mutual trust is imperative to a successful and enjoyable connection with your provider. MOVE ON! 

One man’s meat maybe another man’s poison. With over ? 10,000 registered CoM users we can expect different experiences and a wide range of opinions. I’ve validated enough reviews with my own experiences to respect and trust some reviewers implicitly and make future plans accordingly. I don’t think it’s reasonable to generalize conclusions to the whole site. I do appreciate OPs second post which is a candid review. I’m assuming that he hopes that we don’t follow his original advice. 

A CO-2 suppository? Sounds like a good way to turn into a human Seltzer water dispenser-  not the effect I usually go for before a date but I’ll take your word that it works. 

If you received the extra, shouldn’t you have tipped him?  He may have put it there to avoid getting poked in the eye. If this was your worst experience of 2025, don’t expect too much sympathy here. 😊

What I find curious about this particular female is that she was able to find a man drunk enough to be willing to fuck her and at the same time able to maintain an erection while looking at that face.
As a man once said of his dog, if my dog had a face like that, I'd shave its ass and make it walk backwards. Oh! That's it! Doggy style!

No judgments here - I have a lot of kinks. But I also have rejection issues, whether I'm the one being rejected or the one doing it. And cucking feels too close to rejection. 

It's been years, but I used to sometimes hire two tops at once. Even if I felt like one was doing better than the other, I tried very hard to make them feel equal appreciated. And usually in the trying, they both ended up being well-received, so to speak. 

All that said, there is a certain hotness to what unfolded. Just not for me. 

PS - I would like to add that I have had scenarios where both tops understood that one of the tops would be more or less taking the lead. But they both knew that going in and were both fine with it and no one was cucked. It was more than one was Batman and one was Robin, so to speak. 

The logic of the provider here is curious. One of the most common rationales offered for requiring a deposit is to weed out time wasters. What bigger waste of time (for him) than to go to a bar looking for someone who might not show up. 

I won’t do deposits. Never have. But, on a few occasions I have “loaned” relatively small amounts to providers that I’ve already seen before who have had the sort of life crises described above. Before I do, I always ask myself how I’ll feel if I never see it again. So far, no one has made an attempt to repay but I have subsequently been the beneficiary of more time, special treatment, access at unusual times and other perks that leave me feeling that it was worthwhile. I try to look at the big picture and there are many ways to build a relationship. Deposits, for me curtail that opportunity. 

If you received the extra, shouldn’t you have tipped him?  He may have put it there to avoid getting poked in the eye. If this was your worst experience of 2025, don’t expect too much sympathy here. 😊

The logic of the provider here is curious. One of the most common rationales offered for requiring a deposit is to weed out time wasters. What bigger waste of time (for him) than to go to a bar looking for someone who might not show up. 

The logic of the provider here is curious. One of the most common rationales offered for requiring a deposit is to weed out time wasters. What bigger waste of time (for him) than to go to a bar looking for someone who might not show up. 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

The logic of the provider here is curious. One of the most common rationales offered for requiring a deposit is to weed out time wasters. What bigger waste of time (for him) than to go to a bar looking for someone who might not show up. 

Actually leaving compensation on the table is highly unusual. Many will want the full amount even when they don't provide the services asked for or they bail early. I find it amazing that he took less. I guess if you had a great time and he charged you less than you expected to pay, you have more $ for next time with him or another guy! Cheers!    

I finally hired a provider! Top guy, great reviews. Beautiful body and topped me well. He was very complimentary of my body. We agreed on 2 hours. On our way up to my room he was all over me in the elevator. Once undressed he got more aggressive and frisky. It was an overall good experience, however, he and I finished about an hour into it. We showered, which was hot and he was gone. Only charged for 1 hour when it was about 1 hour 15 minutes. He said he couldn’t hold back. Conversation was great, but would have appreciated admiring him for the full 2 hours but he was ready to leave. Anyone else have a similar experience? Oh, he limited the areas of his body he did not appreciate having touched, not the D though, that was presented and well taken care of.

About 20 years ago I met a dancer in one of DC's Dupont Circle stripper bars and we agreed to meet later for a hook-up for a price. In those days, I was mortified at the thought of being seen dragging a handsome young man across a hotel lobby at 2:00 in the morning, so I would give him the hotel name and room number, then go to wait in the room. "Francois" (his stripper name) was from Montreal and was hot, handsome, and hung, three qualities I greatly admire in any man. We were just getting into our time together when he got a phone call, the gist of which was that his roommate was pissed and was trying to throw out Francois' things from the apartment, most concerning of which to Francois was a computer. He was visibly distressed over this and said he had to leave. I was so touched by his emotional response to the news that I gave him the full amount we had agreed to. He looked at me with a perplexed stare and said, "Why would you do that?" My honest answer was that I'm not going to make your bad night any worse and I truly feel sorry for your situation. He put his knapsack down, took off his clothes, and left several hours later. (It was very good!) I saw Francois almost every month for the next two years, before he moved back to Montreal, after which we lost contact. I regret I did not keep in touch and hope his life turned out well. He was not just a beautiful man; he was a beautiful soul.
I guess my point relative to this thread and the young man who left money on the table is that in this fee-based business we call our hobby, it's still a two-way street, and fairness and consideration should flow both ways.

I won’t do deposits. Never have. But, on a few occasions I have “loaned” relatively small amounts to providers that I’ve already seen before who have had the sort of life crises described above. Before I do, I always ask myself how I’ll feel if I never see it again. So far, no one has made an attempt to repay but I have subsequently been the beneficiary of more time, special treatment, access at unusual times and other perks that leave me feeling that it was worthwhile. I try to look at the big picture and there are many ways to build a relationship. Deposits, for me curtail that opportunity. 

I won’t do deposits. Never have. But, on a few occasions I have “loaned” relatively small amounts to providers that I’ve already seen before who have had the sort of life crises described above. Before I do, I always ask myself how I’ll feel if I never see it again. So far, no one has made an attempt to repay but I have subsequently been the beneficiary of more time, special treatment, access at unusual times and other perks that leave me feeling that it was worthwhile. I try to look at the big picture and there are many ways to build a relationship. Deposits, for me curtail that opportunity. 

They still do but the prognosis for long term survival is much better over the past 30 - 40 years. 

Next iteration of fun with customs / immigration officers …
Officer: A-ball, you say? This looks like an oversized gummie and the name screams illegal drug.
Entrant: No, it blocks residual rectal canal fecal matter during receptive anal intercourse and self-expels during subsequent bowel movement. I realize it rings like “8-ball” without the ‘t’ but that tracks with its size approximately one-eighth of the object length for which it is ultimately purposed. 
—- Pick one based on probability … 
Officer: Yeah, right, fancy spit-balling. Extend both hands in front of you.
Officer: But inquiring minds want to know, does it impede prostate stimulation and prostate-mediated robust ejaculation, or are thrust vibrations satisfactorily transported through the barrier?

“Eliminate shame”? I haven’t watched the video yet but, darling, I eliminated shame from my life and my vocabulary years ago! 
Having said that, I will now watch the video. 

In my 30+ years of hiring in NY, Europe, and Asia, I have never had any privacy-related problem. This is what I do:
- I communicate via WhatsApp, using a separate account attached to a long-expired phone number from another country
- I also have a Telegram account, with the same expired number hidden  
- I always use my real first name, because I find it too confusing to go by another name
- If asked about my professional activity, I give a very vague and general response  
- I always host my providers, so they do get to know where I live, but I don’t really care about this
As relationships progress with regular providers, even if we get to know a bit more about each other I keep the same basic rules (never my real name, never my real phone number, never my real profession, etc). The system has worked for me.

Ugh - I also don't want to use my credit card on the site because data breaches are such a regular occurrence these days. You just have to assume that it will definitely happen. The Ashley Madison breach always comes to mind. 🙃 

I would love to gift subscription on RM, the problem is that they only seem to take credit cards for that - and I don't like leaving a digital trail that's easy to follow. It's odd because they accept bitcoin (there are ways to cover your tracks with bitcoin) for client membership so it doesn't make sense that the subscription "gift" is credit card only. 
As for the lapses, I wonder if providers are seeing business slowdown, where they might not renew right away if business is slow. Any provider care to share their thoughts on that?