Nue2thegame

For the gift, are you thinking about a bus ticket?

In the larger metropolitan areas, there are too many options to have to tolerate this nonsense. Research is your best friend. On the very rare occasions that I have walked, I felt that I was doing a service for the brotherhood and hopefully modifying future behavior on the part of the provider.

Gay sex is readily available but I suspect they attract two very different groups that probably doesn’t have a lot of cross over. People may prefer hiring, if they can afford it, for a broader and more certain selection, no strings and potentially greater discretion. As an old football coach once said, “if it floats, flies or fucks, you’re better off renting than buying “.

Sometimes it can just be really hot sex.

I’m going to use part of my $2000 Tariff Dividend to see him

This one is very real. He’s been in Fort Lauderdale for a while now. Has a nice, upscale, immaculate apartment with all the expected amenities. Very attractive but somewhat shy. Pictures are accurate as is his self description. His 34 RM reviews seem to be spot on. A cock watcher, not a clock watcher. Highly recommended.

Good luck with that. You and I aren’t 24 (or 29), I’m pretty sure, and we went to a different school. Somehow 20 somethings learned to communicate and even sometimes get laid, I’m told.

Hey, it happens. Unfortunate for all concerned. I wouldn’t give up on the hobby but pick a site with legitimate reviews, like this one or even a well reviewed provider on RM and try again. You also need to develop some patience- something that I didn’t have a lot of at 24. Your poor guy probably isn’t cut out for this business but learned a valuable life lesson. You should get back on the horse and look forward to much better times ahead.

Oscar’s becoming a popular guy.

Maybe but it seems more like a phishing scam than extortion to me. And a clumsy one at that. He seems to have much more to lose than you. He is easily identified. His threat could be easily dismissed. I’d be inclined to ignore him and move on.

What he said. This thread has focused on HIV transmission risk but there are other reasons to consider routine use of condoms. PreP and doxy offer no protection against a host of other infections - M pox, HPV (agent for anal and oral cancer), syphilis and herpes, to name a few. Everyone parses these risks individually and we all make our own decisions about our own and partner’s risks based on comfort level, where we’ve been and where we’re going etc. Sorry for the late contribution but I’m nue2thegame and was a little uncomfortable with some of the dogmatism in some of the earlier posts.

I understand that his mom took Tylenol.

Your patience and indulgence are commendable. At least he showed up. I, too, have been in your situation but for much smaller stakes. The reality is that when they do finally reach you, the ensuing drama has already sucked the life out of them. My lesson learned is that it’s not worth the wait or expense to me.

As Al Capone said, “ you can get further with a kind word and a gun, than a kind word alone”

Now in Wilton Manors

Bump

Although it’s never come up or been offered during my visits with Oscar, I have been offered wine in upscale clothing stores, financial service offices and real estate agencies. All clearly without liquor licenses but presenting their version of hospitality in the hopes of facilitating a sale. I’m no attorney but doubt this is illegal.

It could mean Miami South Beach in his neck of the woods.

There’s a previous thread on him with mixed reports. He has exceptional massage skills, pictures are accurate and I have had a very good time, more than once, with him.

Tennessee is nice but Then there are quality of life issues, amenities and cultural offerings (or lack of) to consider. Everything is a trade-off. You have to prioritize.

Alexander’s Guest House is probably now the most upscale LGBT+ friendly lodging in KW. Primarily gay but significant lesbian clientele.

Many people calling for an urology appointment are incontinent.

Next.

No info to offer but his “passions” sound like a bad combination.