Nue2thegame

But you’re “Lucky”.

I’m thinking that he’s just venting or he’s ruining an otherwise good relationship. If it’s the former, he’s making his feelings unusually transparent. If he doesn’t offer a better explanation or some sort of apology, I would move on

You should let him know your expectations up front or you may otherwise be disappointed. If he advertises sensual or erotic massage, it should be on his menu and he won’t be surprised. A happy ending is a typical end to a sensual massage. Most masseurs provide a range of types of massage and/or services and, believe it or not, some clients don’t want them going anywhere near their junk.

I’ve asked a few of my providers this question and my favorite response was, “after 2 visits “. Sometimes the interval is > a year but they still remembered me and have treated me like an old friend. I think it’s more of a feeling that exists between client and provider than a minimum set requirement.

Perhaps FaustOust could be your understudy next time you’re in the mood.

Correct me if I’m wrong, but it isn’t really a “cumdump” is it, if condoms are involved?

Allowing sparklers in an enclosed area with a flammable ceiling is worse. Horrific tragedy that seems like it could have been prevented.

But you call yourself, “Nightowl”? What do you do after that?

The ass is always greener on the other side.

Or the bottom has 10+ inches

Sometimes my nose gets congested but, depending on how things are progressing, it’s more often the congestion in my groin that makes me want to turn over.

It also may mean that you are imminently fuckable.

Depending on who and where you are, the economy is contracting and unemployment is rising. While I haven’t noticed a drop in rates, I suspect some of the new talent are just trying to make ends meet, so to speak.

Some say it’s a security precaution, which is dubious If things go south, they know who to go look for. Alternatively, they may use it to screen clients for whatever parameters they are looking for or wish to exclude. Once a photo is sent, it’s permanently in the cybersphere. I’ve almost never done it and have very rarely been asked for one. It’s a red flag for me.

What kind of “therapist”?

I don’t think that her influence in the US was marginal. I remember having a poster of her in a very scant bikini hanging in my bedroom as a pre-pubescent adolescent. But tastes change ……

Not sure where you are but that’s way above normal for anywhere in the US. Many, if not most, have provided exactly what you are seeking. I would go with their standard rate. You might tip them, if you feel the need to offer more. You should have your pick of many. Good luck with your pursuit.

Leaving some flyers in an STI clinic or their public restroom might help recruit some interested volunteers.

Fascinating and informative. Your path clearly worked for you. Thanks for sharing this.

You certainly have a more mature approach than many of us. I rarely host, so delays and cancellations are more problematic for me. That said, I have seen some providers that aren’t great time managers (sometimes that works to my advantage), are chronically late but provide over the top experiences. We have an understanding and I’m happy to roll with the flow with them. Others aren’t worth the time and aggravation and I haven’t followed up with them. In the end, it’s a judgement call that comes from experience, some good ones and some bad ones. In the OPs case, if he’s a regular, contrite about this episode, sincere about making an earnest effort in the future, and, if I really valued his company, I would probably cut him some slack. Failing any one of those conditions, I would move on.

Or a probing into another kind of probing.

I’ve encountered this twice and both times, all were cool with it. But I can easily imagine a situation where the dynamic between the couples was less ideal and things could quickly go south. I don’t think that there is a hard and fast rule here but you should go with your instincts.

From an ad promoting “footing” as an alternative to fisting.

I don’t think that I’d like dating the “expert”!

Your reference is excellent but there is no language in it to support your assertion that, “This pretty much only occurs in individuals with a suppressed immune system……Full cancer practically never develops if someone is otherwise healthy. “ I challenged you to show me that I’m incorrect but this citation supports my position. Lower g.i malignancies including anal and rectal cancers are increasing, especially in younger individuals, but this has not been attributed to an increase in cases of immunosuppression.