Nue2thegame

Here’s what you said on 12/6. There is no evidence to support your second sentence.

Agree and new avatar is likely to create ED in potential clientele.

Agree with all of above except that I didn’t find him to be a clock watcher - we went overtime without comment.

And then there is the matter of what to about the personal toys, dildos, P Diddy volume of lubricants, costumes, harnesses, S&M regalia etc. all left for the unsuspecting to discover.

Bump

We feel your pain. I think the consensus here is to go slow. No need to get married now but see how all of the issues that have come up in this thread evolve. Your relationship may strengthen as a result or you may ultimately go your separate ways. Either way, you should have greater clarity.

Call me anything but late for dinner.

Tipping should always be discretionary although it’s often expected in many service encounters. I don’t think there should be a difference in expectations for in-home vs. spa tipping. If anything, in home service might warrant a greater tip because of the extra effort involved. That said, if I felt that I had already overpaid for the service, I might be less inclined to tip or offer a more modest one.

I don’t like it either but have learned to tolerate it when it’s shouted in a moment of exceptional passion (few and far between). But, “who’s your daddy” can mean something entirely different. Papi has a little different connotation from “Daddy “. In addition to meaning father, it can also be used as a substitute for buddy or pal, according to this gringo.

Nice to be back on track with this discussion. Previous contributions, now redacted, seemed to suffer from the misconception that we are a Bible Study Group.

I’m not sure that covered shoes would have offered much protection to an 84 year old woman’s big toe from a 190 pound guard landing on her foot.

I have known a few providers, including married couples, that have been in ongoing relationships but none for more than 3 years. I’ve met many more that have talked about the trials and tribulations of seeking a long term relationship and many have given up, expressing the expectation to pursue that goal after they stop escorting. While I’m sure there are more successful examples, my impression is that it’s a long hard formidable challenge to have a committed relationship with a provider unless both embrace the same lifestyle. The fact that you are just learning of this doesn’t bode well. I wish you luck.

I’m more troubled by the massage on a table with no cover! Uggh!

I would say South Florida in general. Lots to choose from in Fort Lauderdale and Wilton Manors, in addition to Miami.

When we’re horizontal in bed together, we’re all pretty much the same height.

Something like this

It’s hard to assess potential chemistry with just a picture of his ass, nice as it is. I’m inclined to respond in kind and send him a shot of mine but with a less alluring and more provocative pose. I’ll let you know if he responds

He’s a big name for sure.

I think some of your previous friends might come out of retirement if they heard that you won the lottery.

The main value of MB for me has been access to contact info and restricted pics otherwise not available on RM when they happen to advertise on both (often at different time intervals).

This is a great start. The only thing that I’d add is that once you find some providers that you like, look at the reviewers whose impressions were most consistent with your own. Then go back and look at some of their other reviews to find some similar reviews. I’ve found 2 or 3 reviewers whose recommendations, based on preferences, chemistry, etc. seem to mirror my own. Regarding maintaining motivation, I don’t have much to offer. Some providers have ample self motivation but I’m always looking for new talent.

I’m comfortable either way. A while ago, in the post encounter bliss, both the provider and I forgot about payment. A frantic phone call 20 minutes later from him culminated in my turning around and going back in very heavy traffic. I was a return customer and he was more amused than annoyed but I was embarrassed. Now I usually take the envelope out of my pocket at the outset and I think they’re often relieved to see it. If I’m less than delighted, I won’t be back. What does really turn me off, is to watch them count it.

My well-informed sources tell me that this is rare. There are several online services that offer a variety of options to confirm ID for the safety of the client but usually don’t require photo IDs - just a registration process. Like RM and here, most have no identification requirements.

I’m also relatively “nu2thegame” but I’ve had a fair number of encounters. I’ve been called “handsome “ several times and I think it’s just a relative term of endearment like “honey” or “dear” (or papi). I haven’t had a request for a WhatsApp interview yet and probably wouldn’t welcome it. I do get some follow up texts which mean to me, “hey I had a good time and would like to see you again”. It’s good marketing and I usually respond in kind if I want to reciprocate.I do think that escorts do a little more of that than masseurs. I think that service begins when whichever one of us (visiting or hosting) walks through the door. I often book well in advance and so far, have never cancelled.

Traveling is a good way to increase your following and spread your brand.