Nue2thegame

Kudos to you. It’s a hard job in every way and we are grateful that men like you stay in the game and do it well.

He’s baaaack

I think that the essential secret of great providers is that they genuinely love what they’re doing. It helps to have great stamina, physical appeal and a warm engaging personality but they ultimately can’t fake really enjoying the experience with enough people to establish a reputation as a “Great Provider” without it. It may be described as “making others happy “but at some level, it’s the ability to make themselves happy that rubs off on us. I’ve had the wonderful fortune to have met a few.

I agree with your advice but it’s hard to ask him what he wants if his dick is already down your throat.

And my favorite in this genre, Led Zeppelin’s Lemon Song, “squeeze my lemon 'til the juice runs down my leg”.

It will happen when it happens, if it happens. Why rush it?

Some of us are born again virgins

It used to be known as a mercy fuck but yes it’s possible - very primeval.

Cornhole champion may take on a whole new meaning in prison

I do the same and my dog does the same thing yours does in the evening. But mine does it because he knows that he’s next.

I did and had a great experience. No regrets. Selecting the right one is critical and there are lots of good suggestions on CoM, including this thread. “ I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural, wholesome things that money can buy.“ …Steve Martin

I share your pain. I had one who told me that I have the biggest cock he’s ever seen but I’m pretty sure he says that to everybody.

I think it’s understandable to be overwhelmed and feel inexperienced initially. Part of the fun is finding out what you like and what really works for you in a provider. When you find those men, having had some unsatisfactory experiences makes you appreciate them more. I would select the next one by prioritizing what you really want from a provider and then read his reviews. If a provider has been reviewed by someone that syncs with your preferences and views, go with that. You’ve already learned some valuable lessons and going forward you should be in a better position to make some great choices. Happy hunting!

For the masseurs, it’s easy. Just submit a pic of your back.

🤙🏻 I'm thinking about doing the same with Italian-speaking providers.

You don’t seem to have trouble participating in conversations here. Does he know about CoM? Why don’t you consider talking to him about things that you find interesting here?

PNP = Nacho thing

Wave to us. We’re watching from the TV set.

St Barts is spectacular and the vastly better beaches, food and vibe justifies the higher prices. Way better choice.

Usually not. It’s better to purchase a second SIM card abroad which can be done cheaply.

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There’s the old joke that a man should have someone that he can totally confide in, someone who can provide incredible sex, someone that he can happily live with and do everything in his power to make sure that the 3 never meet.

Many of us have been in situations where we were relieved to pay someone to leave but probably not as unhappily as you were. I’ve looked at it on the few rare occasions where I couldn’t wait to leave, as the cost of doing business. I agree that it’s pointless to consider calling LE, with the likely potential of making a bad situation much worse.

I vividly remember measles, polio, the advent of the 1980s HIV pandemic, and then COVID -19 in 2020. I lost more close friends in the last one than in all the others combined, so I have a keen appreciation for the risks OP speaks of. I survived the HIV pandemic because I was in a 30+ year monogamous, heterosexual relationship. I’m living my best life now but I’m navigating uncharted water. I’ve learned that most males have an appetite for some risk but the risks they choose to accept and the way they attempt to mitigate them or not varies enormously. Complicating the equation now, what we choose to read, believe and accept also varies enormously and I see the result it in all kinds of hard to explain behavior - including my own.

I think it’s when you melt into the wall. If it’s not done properly, you both end up in your neighbor’s living room.