Nue2thegame

Agree but I think their business goal is to just get the customer through the door to try whatever.

They still do but the prognosis for long term survival is much better over the past 30 - 40 years.

I won’t do deposits. Never have. But, on a few occasions I have “loaned” relatively small amounts to providers that I’ve already seen before who have had the sort of life crises described above. Before I do, I always ask myself how I’ll feel if I never see it again. So far, no one has made an attempt to repay but I have subsequently been the beneficiary of more time, special treatment, access at unusual times and other perks that leave me feeling that it was worthwhile. I try to look at the big picture and there are many ways to build a relationship. Deposits, for me curtail that opportunity.

Home base is apparently Miami with frequent travel to Wilton Manors. He does also have an RM ad: https://rent.men/CHRIST_KENmsage

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Many of us do prefer to schedule in advance and, to that group, you’re preaching to the choir. The other group operates differently and while your proposal makes sense to me, it probably won’t have much impact on them. Some are always going to wait for the first sign of an erection to schedule urgently.

True but some don’t consider Miami to be part of the US.

Miami has the most efficient snow clearing capacity in the nation. Come on down.

Agree with maninsomnia. Everyone is different and the setting, alcohol, other activities can influence performance. Also there’s a difference between getting it up and ejaculating. I have heard providers express concern over expectations to cum which may be out of their hands. I’d wait and see what happens and not take it as a challenge. I wouldn’t be concerned by his comment and it’s not likely that he knows what’s going on in your head, unless he reads CoM.

Probably and hopefully not to 40,000.

Since I’m pretty average, almost everyone can “fit” me.

If you received the extra, shouldn’t you have tipped him? He may have put it there to avoid getting poked in the eye. If this was your worst experience of 2025, don’t expect too much sympathy here. 😊

No, I’m old, you’re experienced.

Agree and what may be one man’s legitimate “serious inquiry” may be seen as a waste of time by another (reinforcing your point).

That’s a perspective that comes with age and some varied life experiences. Until they gain that, our younger companions will remain vulnerable.

Linebackers aren’t built like they used to be.

That would add a whole new interesting dimension to watching hockey and the figure skaters

So sorry for your troubles and welcome to the forum. This is helpful information. As an aside, yours is another cautionary tale for not paying with apps - a recent contentious topic here.

There are quite a few constructive and informative comments in those 4882 posts. He offered you some feedback, that your post was verbose, a judgement shared by others. It’s your writing style and there’s nothing wrong with that. It is certainly your prerogative to be verbose but you should expect more of these emoticons, if you do. Note, this is intended as “positive “ (if unsolicited) feedback.

My default is to provide as little information as possible. I have had mainly great experiences but as many of the threads here attest, not everyone in this hobby is wonderful and some have hidden agendas. I’m more forthcoming with those that I establish an ongoing relationship but, if it’s a one-off experience, the less they know about me, the better I like it.

I wouldn’t hold out too much expectation for change once gays are running it.

Would it be too much to ask for you to provide some links to the images that have outraged you, so that others might (or might not) share your disgust?

Ditto Thankfully

A darker grey than French kissing and breast fondling, lighter than 69 or strap-on sex, according to my lesbian friends.