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I'm pretty new, so I can't speak to the slowdown. But my hooker friends all say it's gotten slower. 
All of my in-person interactions have been lovely. Online is another matter. It seems echoing some of the stuff other people here have said: people tend to forget that we're also humans with feelings, loved-ones, and a life outside of this. Nothing worse than telling your friends to go have fun without you, and then sit at home alone because a client ghosted 😔

Per annual tradition: 
Revenue increased 6% in 2025.  
57% of 2025 revenue came from the year’s top three clients, down from 62% in 2024. Last year’s top two clients retained their spots.
As I’m only seeing a small number of repeat clients, revenue per client has more than tripled in the last three years.
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I didn't mean to suggest he isn't real. I happen to know that he is. I just think his whole mystique is kinda fun.

I have typically preferred guys who are taller than me. But I'm 5'11", so that eliminates more than 80 percent of the men. Only 15-20% of American men are 6' and taller. 
I'm more open to guys of varying heights now, but I definitely enjoy a 6'6" guy when I find one. 

I didn't mean to suggest he isn't real. I happen to know that he is. I just think his whole mystique is kinda fun.

I am an escort in NYC. He is a real client, and those are real reviews. He does actually hire - unlike a lot of y'all on here. 🙃
People on this site should focus less on the authenticity of RM reviews (which are mostly real), and be more discerning about the prolific fake negative reviews posted on CoM by so many people (often who have never even met the escort).
Happy holidays!

Generosity is always a good thing. And it sounds like you're a lovely person 😍 This time of year can be really hard for us providers between family issues/fluctuations in bookings, etc. I think it's awesome to hear that people still think of us as people--outside of what we do for clients in bookings.

Generosity is always a good thing. And it sounds like you're a lovely person 😍 This time of year can be really hard for us providers between family issues/fluctuations in bookings, etc. I think it's awesome to hear that people still think of us as people--outside of what we do for clients in bookings.

Plenty of us out there would be super grateful to be taken out to nice places like that! Maybe next time look for providers that have good reviews on here vis-a-vis BFE.

Generosity is always a good thing. And it sounds like you're a lovely person 😍 This time of year can be really hard for us providers between family issues/fluctuations in bookings, etc. I think it's awesome to hear that people still think of us as people--outside of what we do for clients in bookings.

Generosity is always a good thing. And it sounds like you're a lovely person 😍 This time of year can be really hard for us providers between family issues/fluctuations in bookings, etc. I think it's awesome to hear that people still think of us as people--outside of what we do for clients in bookings.

Honestly though, I love this sentiment.  Sounds like he’s a super lucky guy.  And I don’t think a thoughtful gift is going to make anyone feel weird!

I would have paid whatever fee was agreed to and dismissed him. You're not an ATM. 

I am cringing at the behavior of this provider.  I would never behave this way and I don't know any of my friends that would either. Disgraceful. 
Sorry that happened to you dude - 100% kick this loser to the curb. 
We are supposed to be there to make you feel good, not treat you like this. Makes me mad and gives those of us who take this seriously a bad name. 

Agree with all above.  It would be a big F-off.
There are so many quality providers that understand how to do things right.  No need to put up with that crap.

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I am in the Philadelphia market.  $250-$300 per hour depending on activities.

It's really all over the map in terms of times. I find that Clients usually fall into the following groups related to timing:
 
1. Retired (9-5 works great) ✅
2. On vacation (9-5 is possible here, you need to be in a vacation destination) 😎
3. Working from home (These guys often hire for a quickie between meetings)✅
4. Business travelers (Won't work for 9-5 usually) ❌
5. Working a normal job (won't work) ❌
 
Of course it's up to you which of these you take on.