GentJ

Sometimes one simply has to take one for the team.

I think we can all agree that provider reviews on RM aren't necessarily the gold standard for having a great time, but what about the absence of any reviews?   Its understandable on new guys, but is it a worry if there are no reviews even after a guy has been around for a while ?

I've said it before in other threads, but not in this one...
I hardly ever ask, but I for one really appreciate a picture or two. It's not for evaluation purposes; it's so I can have that small measure of familiarity ahead of time. At some level, everyone has an innate discomfort about strangers, and knowing what the person looks like ahead of time helps to mitigate that. Sure, I can go ahead anyway--that's part of the business, but it's just really nice when it's not a totally cold intro. People have pictures on their LinkedIn profiles too, because people are wired not to fully trust what they can't see. It's not like they won't do business with someone who isn't hot enough. This is also why I like to chat a bit before the first meeting. The meeting is going to be a lot more fun if we establish a bit of familiarity and comfort ahead of time.

I don’t believe in ghosting. If I’m not interested in hiring someone again, I make sure to communicate that clearly. And if I might be interested in the future but not at the moment, I let them know as well. It takes less than a minute to respond, and I believe it’s simply a matter of courtesy.

This 💯…My clients are all sorts of ages, including guys in their 70’s. They get same service as anyone. I don’t ask for pics, I like the surprise when I open the door. But sometimes with really overweight guys it’s difficult to fuck them properly because of the logistics of getting in position etc. As @Simon Suracisays the biggest barriers to doing everything with a client is his personal hygiene or any conditions he has… some of you may have read my post on the client with a horrendous haemorrhoid problem who wanted to be rimmed and fucked….😱. I still have nightmares. 

Exactly.
Its perfectly REASONABLE that a provider should be forewarned that he is being tasked with fucking a hideous cadaver.
The entitlement of some people here is astounding when they say that to be a good escort, you must fuck anythjng that moves and it's NONE of their business to know that I'm 100 pounds overweight and only bathe on Thursdays. 
Obviously we ALL dislike rejection and HIRING is supposed to be the escape from that. However, there ARE limits to what anyone can accept as do-able. A provider has every right to know who/what he's meeting at the door. Doesn't mean he's treating you like a Grindr hook up and ghosting you because you're not a ripped Brazilian model. 

It's also helpful to mention your RM name! (Maybe not for people who have an auto-reply message), but sometimes I have trouble keeping track of which text message threads go with which RM threads.

🙋‍♀️ I definitely appreciate it. A picture is great too. I don't usually ask because I don't want anyone to feel judged. But it's easier for me to get comfortable with someone if it's not a complete surprise. And I think that tends to make it lots more fun.
 

Yes but sometimes you have to keep one foot in reality so you don't end up like this.

there's nothing wrong with being into twinks even if you're older. Hell i remember when I was a twink, I was  really into fit older men in their 30s and 40s did that make me weird? Plus, biologically, we're programmed to find youthful, sexually mature partners as desirable.
 
Getting back on topic, I think the only time when age shaving is an issue is if you don't look like the age you're pretending to be or if you use outdated pics in your profile. When I use the age filter in the search engine, I'm looking for someone who looks that age...not necessarily their GOVMENT age.

Jesus. When did 36 become too old.  36 seems like a child to me now. 😬
Older guys who exclusively chase after twinks or twunks is just weird to me. It's like they never grew up. 

You'd turn down Chris Hemsworth?

This is Bozo's opening gambit:
Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
What is the charge...
...to spend an hour with you?
BTC
🤡

🙋‍♀️ I definitely appreciate it. A picture is great too. I don't usually ask because I don't want anyone to feel judged. But it's easier for me to get comfortable with someone if it's not a complete surprise. And I think that tends to make it lots more fun.
 

🙋‍♀️ I definitely appreciate it. A picture is great too. I don't usually ask because I don't want anyone to feel judged. But it's easier for me to get comfortable with someone if it's not a complete surprise. And I think that tends to make it lots more fun.
 

🙋‍♀️ I definitely appreciate it. A picture is great too. I don't usually ask because I don't want anyone to feel judged. But it's easier for me to get comfortable with someone if it's not a complete surprise. And I think that tends to make it lots more fun.
 

One of the most unexpected things about being an escort for me is how often clients want to rim ME. I'm a top, so in the past, I've been the one doing the rimming. I've been rimmed more in the last month than the rest of my non-professional experience put together. This also means that I've been completely unprepared (aside from the normal level of basic hygiene one would expect from a provider, of course). Anyways hats-off to my clients, it's been amazing 🤯

I've seen Colt 3-5 times now and every time has been a home run hire.   He does really get into the sessions.   One time, I asked for 90 minutes and we went at least an hour over off the clock because he said he was too turned on to quit.   I never miss him when I go to NYC.

To resolve this thread 🧵, I think one of us should just book the dang neighbor.
I volunteer as tribute!  😛

Anybody else almost wishing for a GoFundAli? 

And just like that, …😏

I agree, morning sex is best. Nothing better than having a big breakfast after a morning client. The only challenge is if I’m bottoming because it does mess up my regularity if you know what I mean😂

Someday, I'm sure I'll start hiring providers. And when I do, it'll be for morning stuff. Why is morning sex so unpopular?

It's an interesting topic--the "premium" providers--the "instagram models". I've interacted with a few of them on behalf of clients trying arrange group stuff. They... don't seem like very nice people. It's hard for me to imagine the sex being very fun, no matter how chiseled their abs are. Am I wrong?
I may be new and inexperienced, but it seems to me that success in this business is having regulars. There's no need to have deposits for regulars. There's no need to pay for the RM Platinum plan (which is super pricey), if you have regulars. Is it just me, or do these guys not end up leaving their customers satisfied. From the outside, it looks like a revolving door of one-timers. 

Baby, you wish you were as hot, fun, and sexy as I am, given our similar ages. Never mind that my husband is model gorgeous. You often confuse me for those people you look down your nose at on here because "they have to PAY for sex." Because they're too old or too large or not conventionally attractive enough. We pay primarily for convenience and to find skilled partners. We could easily have a line of 20-somethings by just going on Grindr. 
And you're also wrong about women; probably because you don't have any women friends (except your wife). But vast, clear majorities of women in study after study prefer men with "dad bods" over ripped and chiseled bodies. 
The Unexpected Appeal of Men With Dad Bods | Psychology Today
WWW.PSYCHOLOGYTODAY.COM The non-physical traits attributed to those bodies are the key. In praise of Olly Murs' before bod: why we don't actually fancy the ripped bods
WWW.STANDARD.CO.UK What is a “dad bod” and what does the phenomenon reveal about our psyches and social worlds?  
Among Pubic's many virtues is his consistent misogyny, despite being married to a woman. 
It is, Blanche. It is. 
I have a challenge for you. Show how you write on here to any provider and let us know if he doesn't run for the door.