DMonDude

I appreciate Simon Suraci's post since he sees the big picture, not just a one sided "why don't other people do what I want?" point of view.
I get how irritating it can be for providers.  Customers who flake.  Customers who expect more than is reasonable for the rate charged (i.e., want a full service escort at an erotic massage rate).  Customers who lack basic social skills.
On the flip side, it isn't like clients are always treated fairly or with respect.  I "read between the lines" once on a Rentmasseur ad.  The ad was so over-the-top in its wording, things along the lines of "I will give you a hard and deep massage with every part of my body."  One would have had to be completely naive or stupid to not "read between the lines" of that ad to assume that the massage would be very erotic indeed, and his rate was at the top end of masseurs in my area at the time.  Guess what happened during my appointment?  Nothing erotic at all.  The guy never even took off his tank top, did not allow me to touch him, and avoided touching any area near my genitals.  Had I wanted a strictly therapeutic massage I would have looked for that and paid half his rate.  I definitely felt ripped off, and I know this guy knew what he was doing -- being overly suggestive in ad text and photos in order to lure clients into paying his high rate, and then under-delivering at least for some people.  It bothered me so much that the next guy I reached out to I basically wrote a summary of my previous disappointment and indicated I was looking for something more erotic than that.  I still didn't ask the guy to be explicit about what he would do, but he replied with an assurance that he was more engaging than that and that I wouldn't be disappointed.  He lived up to his word.
In summary, most guys have offered service consistent with how they presented themselves in their ads but there have been a few here and there whom I viewed as outright con men.  So, if you're a provider, try not to be too upset when someone is trying to clarify in advance more about what they can expect if they hire you.  I get that starting an exchange with "do you provide a happy ending" is tacky and I'm not suggesting that you should even bother to reply to someone like that.  But if someone knows how to have a more nuanced conversation, don't be mad just because they want a bit more clarity about what you are offering.

Clients are wary of being taken advantage of. They don’t want to waste their time and money on masseurs unwilling to meet their needs.
I get it, law enforcement is a real concern.  Clients hiring what they want is also a real concern. US laws make for an inefficient market. There is no perfect solution.
Accept the clients you feel comfortable seeing. Decline the ones you don’t. There is no standardized way to communicate about our services, nor is there a standardized way to offer them. You can’t ask the market to conform to your preferences regarding communication up front. It’s a fool’s errand. Some clients are more forward, some less so. Good luck changing that in either direction.
Until we in the US have more sensible laws concerning sex work, we providers unfortunately must navigate the murky world of communication about sex work services, making our own calls about who we see. It sucks, but it is what it is.

Makes me wonder if the provider is talking about you to this other client often. How else would the other client know when you've had sessions with the provider (i guess unless you leave a new review after every session)?

you can see the full text of the review by using a VPN set outside of USA.

A pimp would be a hard stop for me.  It makes me doubt whether or not the escort is working under compulsion and not as a consenting adult.  

I booked Keith a few times in the last couple of months.   Easy to schedule - super nice guy, gives a very good massage on top of everything else.   His photos and description are accurate

Agree.  Some of the guys on Rentmasseur can be as much fun as those on RM.  It just may take a few meetings of assessing one another before play becomes the focus rather than massage.  

Everything we acquiesce to now opens the door for further privacy over reach later. So, while you're right on this particular use case of facial recognition. It's more so a principle of the matter thing to me. And also in general, even if what you describe is how they use it and nothing more. We've been in the era of data breaches and leaks for like 15+ years now. And our government isn't exactly secure with how they handle our data lately. So i think that's a valid concern. It's one of those things where it's not a big deal and it's fine, until suddenly it's not.

They do it because they think it makes them look more bro/cool/masculine, which is usually how they're trying really hard to advertise and present themselves as. Because, in their defense, that's what a lot of clients are looking for out of them.

Everything we acquiesce to now opens the door for further privacy over reach later. So, while you're right on this particular use case of facial recognition. It's more so a principle of the matter thing to me. And also in general, even if what you describe is how they use it and nothing more. We've been in the era of data breaches and leaks for like 15+ years now. And our government isn't exactly secure with how they handle our data lately. So i think that's a valid concern. It's one of those things where it's not a big deal and it's fine, until suddenly it's not.

Everything we acquiesce to now opens the door for further privacy over reach later. So, while you're right on this particular use case of facial recognition. It's more so a principle of the matter thing to me. And also in general, even if what you describe is how they use it and nothing more. We've been in the era of data breaches and leaks for like 15+ years now. And our government isn't exactly secure with how they handle our data lately. So i think that's a valid concern. It's one of those things where it's not a big deal and it's fine, until suddenly it's not.

Everything we acquiesce to now opens the door for further privacy over reach later. So, while you're right on this particular use case of facial recognition. It's more so a principle of the matter thing to me. And also in general, even if what you describe is how they use it and nothing more. We've been in the era of data breaches and leaks for like 15+ years now. And our government isn't exactly secure with how they handle our data lately. So i think that's a valid concern. It's one of those things where it's not a big deal and it's fine, until suddenly it's not.

Hey guys. I'm new here, this is my first post. Been using this forum as a guest to get anecdotal reviews on RM guys for a couple weeks/months now and figured I'd finally get an account and contribute. I found this guy on RM the other day and also was curious/skeptical of his profile and then found this thread with no one having worked with him yet. Decided i would be the one to take the plunge and report back (as many of you have done on other threads like this that gave me the confidence to try a certain guy i was curious about). You'll see my review for this guy pop up on his page soon if it's not there already (same screen name as here).
I initially was attracted by his photos, of course. But his profile raised a lot of red flags to me. Super short bio/description, newer profile, photos not verified, similarly toned reviews like you all have pointed out in short time span, and when i messaged him the rates he quoted me seemed suspiciously low/affordable for the customizations offered (said yes to basically everything and all was included in the base rates he initially gave!) compared to others in L.A. His responses via text sometimes read like ChatGPT or call center canned responses and someone who's first language isn't English. Which is of course totally ok! But in context it didn't help ease how suspicious it felt lol.
In the end though. I saw him last night. The pics are him/accurate, he did what he said he would for the rate he said he would, he was very cool/chill with me being very late due to unforeseen circumstances and still gave me the full time i booked with no rushing or attitude, and i had a great experience. Feel free to message me for more details, but yeah i'd say go for it if you're interested in him. Before he realizes he could/should be charging more 🤣

Having the funds for hiring but not having transportation is a very odd choice of priorities, i gotta say.

With nearly 400,000 followers on Twitter and a Justforfans additionally, I’m sure he’s making a lot of money. 
 
In your opinion, you he is less attractive than the guys you frequent. 
 
Success on OF is due to many factors in addition to just “attractiveness” (and that criteria is of course subjective/in the eyes of the beholder). Dedication, promotion, diligence, advertisement savvy, connections with and access to other creators, a nice butt, strokes of luck, and random moments of vitality all go into it.

Having the funds for hiring but not having transportation is a very odd choice of priorities, i gotta say.

I've seen both ends of the spectrum for sure. Some guys want advanced (to varying degrees) booking and others want a same day booking or even treat it like a "right now" Grindr hookup lol. Similar to @cany10011 I've got a crazy work schedule that shifts constantly. So it can sometimes be both hard for me to accept a providers "hey you free right now/tonight?" inquiry or to book in advanced cause sometimes a future night i think i'm free will become a late work night by the time the day actually comes around. And then the majority of the times i randomly find myself free and i hit up my go to providers for "right now" or tonight, that of course is 8 times out of 10 when they're out of town or already booked or not working that night 🤣.
There was one time though when i booked a few days in advanced and the night of i actually was still free to hit that scheduled meet. But the provider canceled on me early the day of. He was honest though and told me one of his longer time/higher paying regulars wanted him for that weekend and so me and another client he was scheduled to see got bumped, i understood that from the financial perspective and i appreciated the honesty so i wasn't too annoyed. And he made it up to me later 😉.

Having the funds for hiring but not having transportation is a very odd choice of priorities, i gotta say.

What you're asking is confusing. The person you intend to block wasn't looking at your blank profile. You mentioned that you added to your profile, which is when you then had everyday visitors - like me (I'm not whoever that other guy is, but it's not uncommon for me to become a fan of clients who see multiple men I've seen also seen before, so I visit their profile and read different reviews each day).
Is there a picture of yourself with your added information? This too could create many visitors. There's a guy I'm a fan of who hires like I do who has a tremendous body and superb penis bulge in his pics. He hopes to be able to tag along with other men who hire, since he doesn't have his own transportation. He looks so great, it's common for men he's seeing to go out of their way to pick him up and drop him back off. 

Yeah this makes the most sense to me now that you said it. It's to give you a taste and then they take it away to get you to pay to get it back. Wash rinse repeat till they finally get you. Dating/hook up apps do this with giving you a free month of like Tinder/Grindr Gold to get you hooked on the pay walled features and then they take it away again so you'll subscribe.

When they "delete" their RM ad/profile that can't be undone.... that happened by mistake to a Hungarian escort called Gabriel, he posted about it on here, he possibly had a few drinks but might "butt dialed". There's an option called "delete your profile", if you have a profile in RM take a look and read the warnings. I guess it's the same for client's profiles. 
They can always create a new ad if later they change their minds and come back to the business. 
Again Sean Xavier at least retired and came back 3 times that I can recall. 
 

I would imagine they'd probably/maybe tell some of their longest time regulars they were retiring (just so they know or maybe even get a "one last time" in), but for the general public I'd think they would just delete their ad and vanish.

I would imagine they'd probably/maybe tell some of their longest time regulars they were retiring (just so they know or maybe even get a "one last time" in), but for the general public I'd think they would just delete their ad and vanish.

I would imagine they'd probably/maybe tell some of their longest time regulars they were retiring (just so they know or maybe even get a "one last time" in), but for the general public I'd think they would just delete their ad and vanish.

I would imagine they'd probably/maybe tell some of their longest time regulars they were retiring (just so they know or maybe even get a "one last time" in), but for the general public I'd think they would just delete their ad and vanish.