DMonDude

Your comment was rude, disrespectful and unnecessary. 
Please remove your comment.  It has no place in our amazing community. 
MODERATORS: I have reported his comment.  Please intervene or our community risks sinking into a mud-slinging schoolyard.  If the poster doesn't remove it, please do it yourselves.  We absolutely can not treat escorts like this. 
NateSF: You are beautiful.  Don't ever change.  

There must be enough guys forking that over if he's sticking to that rate.  For muscle worship?  WTF  I love me some ginger but he's not ALL that.

Wow. OK, first of all, bless your heart, you sparkly little sunbeam. Second, with all due respect (emphasis on the "all due" part), I'd like to offer a gentle reminder that people's preferences and tastes vary widely. I'll always hire NateSF when I get the chance, because I find him sexy, fun, and intelligent. Whenever I get to spend time with him, I count myself lucky he's still in the business. It's completely fine to have a different opinion, but I don't understand the rudeness. 

And comments like THIS, my friends, is why more escorts do not participate in these forums. 
With respect to the OP let’s not let this thread get hijacked by this rude and provocative comment. Rule #1 with the internet: Don’t feed the trolls. 

I looked at your profile. You are bald and old. You shouldn't be an escort.

I am not a troll. I was genuinely surprised you are an escort.

Also a "as deep as my tongue can go" person. I'm honestly annoyed i'm not one of those guys with a super long tongue. I don't have the kinda tongue to be able to use it the way i want to when rimming.
I've been lucky, never had any "shit happens" problems with any of the guys i've rimmed.

Maybe OP has social anxiety. For people with that issue, trying to figure out what to do in social situations where you don't already know "the script" so to speak, is a high pressure situation with big (perceived) consequences if you get it wrong. And like with any mental related thing or phobia, just saying "don't be anxious" doesn't work. They kind of just need the proper answer so they know what to do, that's what relieves the stress for them. 
Also. Many people with social anxiety very much do raise similar questions even with interacting with people they know depending on other factors. I myself have experienced times where i thought to wish someone a happy birthday but had second thoughts because it had been a prolonged period of time where we hadn't spoken and i wasn't sure if it'd be weird from their perspective if i reached out after said time. For some, there's no second thought and they just do it, for others that can be a major "how do i do this?" stressful moment.
And a client/provider relationship is not the same as a friend/friend relationship anyway. Clients of course are paying for an experience that blends fantasy with reality, but that is not the case for the provider, it's just work for them. And even if a client does cross some threshold with a provider where they are more familiar, that can still be hard for some people to navigate without it being discussed explicitly. So i can totally see why OP would wonder how others handle it so they don't do something that is unintentionally weird/awkward that would cross into a possible personal boundary for the provider.
Also, OP actually explicitly states they simply do not know the etiquette for this in their post: "Or is that crossing the line into “too personal”? Interested to hear how others handle it and what’s considered normal etiquette in this client-provider universe."

If they're a provider i see regularly and i know their birthday, i do send a birthday text yeah. I also actually refrain from hiring them during the week of their birthday assuming they would be taking off work for themself, unless they specifically offer a session/confirm that they're working. I've never thought to gift them stuff or birthday payments, i leave that to their high roller clients cause that's beyond my means. But there's a few where i would if i could.
Going on the inverse scenario like you've brought up. I've had one provider know my birthday just from casual conversation after a session where i mentioned "oh yeah my birthday was last weekend and i went to XYZ" and he was like "oh my god why didn't you tell me it was your birthday?!" I thought he was just being nice, but now I'm wondering if maybe i missed out on a birthday session or gift 😆

I'm around your age and i haven't had a problem with the college/just out of college aged guys. From what i can tell, a lot of them are actually very much used to guys older than us that are in their 40s, 50s, 60s and up. That's the sugar daddy age range, they have the real funds the younger providers get into this for. But I've found that a client who is big bro or uncle (or unc as the youth call us now) age is a nice change of pace for them personally.
If anything will put them off, it's talking to them like this. No one finds this hot. As the Gen Zers say now from some meme, "buddy, you're scaring the hoes!" 🫢🫣

It depends on how professional they are and how long a session their clients are booking, and what the provider is doing during the session. A provider i know usually sees 5-7 clients in a day. but it's usually a 1-2 hour session and most of them are massage + HE or sometimes extras. And doing this is his full time job and setting his own hours. With proper time management it's completely doable to see that many clients in a day and still have time between to be clean for the next. It's mostly just a matter of preference like Jamie21 said with needing the mental down time. Your concern of where you are in the line and if they are clean/dirty or not isn't directly correlated to how many clients they have booked, but to their professionalism.
On the other hand, i've known guys who see very few clients a day but have sessions running up against each other or their own personal life obligations or have shown up to a session not clean because they booked a client for right after they got off work at their day job. And it's because they're unorganized and not good at time management, not because they see too many clients per day.

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

Discussion seems pointless, since his ad has expired …

for those interested in him, his last login was today and he's been on RM for nearly six years.....it's likely he'll re-up his profile back to active

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

You can ask for any time slot be it peak hours or slow hours - he may be flexible, but you are entitled only to the time you are paying for with a provider - expecting additional time so you are not rushed, is disrespectful of his time.  If you want more time to leisurely get dressed etc, book more time and compensate him accordingly

Also a "as deep as my tongue can go" person. I'm honestly annoyed i'm not one of those guys with a super long tongue. I don't have the kinda tongue to be able to use it the way i want to when rimming.
I've been lucky, never had any "shit happens" problems with any of the guys i've rimmed.

https://rentmasseur.com/ProfessionalHand been hiring this guy for a good while now. He leaves town today or tomorrow, but he currently lives here and would be back again soon.
https://rentmasseur.com/MikeChris

I don't share your assumptions.  I cannot imagine being a customer of any business -- and that includes a man working independently as a masseur -- and asking them to give me something for my birthday unless they advertise that they do that for customers.  (For example, both Peet's and Starbucks give their regular customers free birthday drinks.)  I have had "regulars" offer me something special for my birthday, but those offers were unsolicited by me.