DMonDude

Plenty of escorts do just fine financially without barebacking. It's not the necessity in the experience you think it is. Also just because Escorts work to fulfill a clients fantasies doesn't mean they are obligated to cater to all fantasies. They have it in their control to not take on certain risks if they choose not to.

I ended up messaging him and gave a list of things i was hoping to do with him and then asked if he is down to do those things and his first response was "go ahead and send me a pic of you". So it sounds like he's probably open to doing more things but he's one of those guys where it depends on how passable/attractive the client is like you originally said up thread. I've never sent a provider a pic of myself prior to a meet and he's the first one that's asked me (I've had one similarly aged provider ask how old i was first though). He also quoted me 400/hr (he did not say 100 extra for kissing like he said to LAFreedom though, and kissing was in my list of asks, so that's a slight improvement i guess). If he saw my pic and was down to do everything i asked, that'd be worth it for me personally, but I'm not sure I'm comfortable sending a pic.

I do not mind sending a picture except with my body redacted and my face redacted.  A nice picture of my dogs actually.  

I don’t mind sending a picture with my face redacted.  

That really is the problem with stuff like this, like how governments are wanting to have tech companies make back doors into encryption for them that they say is so they can stop crimes but obviously they wouldn't stop there (especially when what is considered "crime" can change drastically depending on who's in charge...). It always is presented first with the possible benefit, usually the guise of reducing crime. But it never ever comes without the abuses and overreaches. The former is always used to sneak in the latter and people have to decide how much privacy/rights violations of themselves or others they think they're ok putting up with in exchange for the illusion of being crime free.

I ended up messaging him and gave a list of things i was hoping to do with him and then asked if he is down to do those things and his first response was "go ahead and send me a pic of you". So it sounds like he's probably open to doing more things but he's one of those guys where it depends on how passable/attractive the client is like you originally said up thread. I've never sent a provider a pic of myself prior to a meet and he's the first one that's asked me (I've had one similarly aged provider ask how old i was first though). He also quoted me 400/hr (he did not say 100 extra for kissing like he said to LAFreedom though, and kissing was in my list of asks, so that's a slight improvement i guess). If he saw my pic and was down to do everything i asked, that'd be worth it for me personally, but I'm not sure I'm comfortable sending a pic.

Ten people ten opinions on what "BF Experience" means. "Escorting", as far as RM definition goes, likely means a provider will go all the way if it gets to that. My original point was that this guy, like many others do, is giving himself some wiggle room by not including certain features. By the way, I see he has added "oral" as an "I Am Into" since my last post. 

That really is the problem with stuff like this, like how governments are wanting to have tech companies make back doors into encryption for them that they say is so they can stop crimes but obviously they wouldn't stop there (especially when what is considered "crime" can change drastically depending on who's in charge...). It always is presented first with the possible benefit, usually the guise of reducing crime. But it never ever comes without the abuses and overreaches. The former is always used to sneak in the latter and people have to decide how much privacy/rights violations of themselves or others they think they're ok putting up with in exchange for the illusion of being crime free.

That's because there's no general consensus on it. Some do, some don't. Some charge extra for it, some don't. You just have to talk to each individual provider about it.

Most studios require testing shortly before filming (apx 48 hours) to clear to shoot.  Sometimes your scene partner changes the day before because the original one tested+ for something and needed treatment.  
 
I've noticed outside the U.S. in general people are much better about condom usage.  Just my lived experience.  

Just stumbled on this profile and then upon this thread. All these new/not super active accounts here vouching for him seems suspicious initially (no offense if y'all are real lol). But a few of the accounts reviewing him on Rentmen are 2 or more year old accounts with plenty of reviews on other providers. So those seem legit at least for this guy. Considering taking the plunge while he's in L.A. the next few days, but we'll see. Will report back if i do.

When it comes to HIV, the highest exposure potential is receptive anal sex with no barrier. 
I think anyone who wants to be the receptive partner for bareback should protect themselves with something other than the word of the inserting partner about their own status or prevention. Take Prep with 100% regularity and you'll be able to do that.
DoxyPep protects against the bacterial growth from exposure to the other STI's and can be taken after exposure, asap. Exposure to those infections are much easier to come by through  any genital-oral-anal contact. Proceed at your own risk. 
As a client, I always look out for myself, and the provider, but his other clients are on their own like we all are. 
 

That's because there's no general consensus on it. Some do, some don't. Some charge extra for it, some don't. You just have to talk to each individual provider about it.

I have a provider i hire regularly who is insanely attractive and very my type, but he doesn't top me the way i need him to because i think he just doesn't know how to... He's like a lot of a certain type of dom top who just pound hard and fast at one speed and they think that's kinda all they have to do 🫣. I know that works for a lot of bottom guys cause they more so are into the aggression vibe of it i feel. But i need a top who can go slow or fast and use different rhythms and angles. When they go fast and just that speed the whole time, i kinda just go numb to it after a while and it never gets me off. I'm feeling incredibly awkward about how best to approach talking to this provider about how to top better/differently without it being insulting or feeling like I'm telling him how to do his job. How would you guys approach this?

It was UncutMovieBuff on rentmen.

Took me a couple months longer than it should have back when i first started hiring to realize that the first provider (a masseur focused one) i hired (and still one of my regulars) who said he wasn't doing full service for everyone and only did it with a select few clients he felt most comfortable with was almost certainly telling everyone that and that that in itself was part of the service 🤣. What a day of self realization/reckoning that was for me haha. He really had me going in the beginning thinking i was among the select few haha.

It was UncutMovieBuff on rentmen.

My most recent Grindr hookup said he enjoys eating ass.
I came handsfree.
Unfortunately, we met while away from our respective hometowns, so it was a one-and-done.
But yeah, I've enjoyed every single guy who has ever rimmed me. The sensations are always amazing.

I've only had one provider really go to town rimming me and it was the first good rim job (and best) i had ever had. Any other rim i had before that was just the guy doing a couple licks just to get me wet for his dick basically (and that's both providers and just casual hook ups and FWBs). But this provider rimmed me like it was going to be the last thing he ever got to do in his life. His stamina for it was insane, he just kept going and going and i kept getting more and more sensitive to everything he was doing.
So he had me right where he wanted me. He was stroking my dick slowly, basically edging me the whole time while he rimmed me too. By the end of it when he finally let me release, he had me near unable to move for a good couple minutes in a puddle of sweat. And then he laid on the bed next to me and casually waited for me to recover as if he didn't just send me to see a 4th dimensional being. Have never had any other provider rim me like that.
He's still in my city and working, but I've honestly been a bit nervous to let someone make me cum THAT hard again. Cause i remember in the moment right after he finished with me and i looked at him, if he had said "what's your bank app login info?" i don't know that i wouldn't have given it to him 🤣
I don't mean to over evangelize for the guy, i was pretty sexually inexperienced before hiring so i definitely was an easy mark so to speak. Anyone even remotely skilled or passionate about the act of rimming probably could have had the same effect on me at the time, but yeah...

1. It gives people EASY access to attractive guys through a straightforward, transactional arrangement. No endless conversations, ghosting, or blocking. Both parties know what they want and get exactly that.
2. Not everyone is able to connect with the type of guys they’re interested in, so this creates an accessible option. Men have sexual needs and hiring helps fill that void.

$4,200 last year. Roughly once a month. It’s good to know what you actually spent so you can plan ahead and be sure that you can still have this hobby and also meet your other financial obligations in the year ahead. If you aren’t harming yourself or others, I suggest dropping the notion of being a “desperate perv.” You’re just a man getting what he needs to be happy. Hope you made some good memories in ‘24. 

Another thing though too is 9 out of 10 times I'm hiring a guy that's been verified on here as being legit and a good time. So if he comes highly reviewed and recommended then it's all good with me what has happened in the past.

Ah that makes sense and why I call guys I've never met or chatted before and it goes straight to voicemail. I hate when they do this, it's their job to take clients

My voicemail message literally says:  "You've reached [my name]. I don't regularly check voicemail, so if you need me, please send a text, e-mail, or reach out through any one of the 100 more modern communication methods for a response. *BEEP*"

I am going to guess you are 60+ years old? This business doesn’t work with telephone calls. That is a reality you’ll need to adjust yourself to.
 
Don’t call unless you’ve been invited to do so. Put yourself in the provider’s position. He’s not sitting at a desk waiting for phone calls. He may be at his day job, running errands or doing any number of things. Managing dozens of inquiry calls, many of which may not be serious inquiries, is an imposition. Making an initial inquiry and negotiating the meet-up by text message (on the app he requests) is going to be convenient for him.