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Communication, communication, communication. Clear, honest, candid communication. AND you have to listen to what a provider is telling you. I haven’t had a great many disappointments but two “less than stellar” experiences earlier this year were 1) a failure to clearly communicate what I wanted; and 2) a failure on MY part to listen to what the provider was telling me. My latest experience (Nov) was outstanding thanks to the provider’s willingness to listen to me, and MY focus on what the provider was telling me. That resulted in an amazing session. I regularly vet providers here and by messaging clients who have reviewed them at RM. If a provider can’t or won’t reasonably engage with me prior to setting a meet, I move on to the next. If you have a client profile on RM pay attention if they reference things you say you want. This hobby is not “one size fits all” but the preceding is what I have found that works for me.

Everything looks fine from here!

Well, now, he’s just making it TOO easy!

Oh, hell yes!!!

Nice bush!!

When I stayed at Desert Paradise they had no problem with guests. Admittedly, this was several years ago and this hotel has had 2 or 3 owners since then. So rules may have changed. Like InnDulge there are several entry/exit points. The manager at the time asked me to walk any guests off the property “when finished” and make sure the gate was closed and locked.

Tonight I had the pleasure of his company. Dude did a great job!

Oh mah sweet Lord in heaven! You remind me of my 1st husband. Dude knew how to cook in the kitchen AND the bedroom. He was so Cajun he needed subtitles when he spoke. We almost broke up when I brought Miracle Whip into his house. (“What in the hell is this abomination in mah icebox?”) I love your recipes; they bring back warm memories of gumbo, stuffed eggs, pimento cheese, and Southern lovin’.

Full disclosure - I haven’t seen Jack in over a year. That said, he remains one of my favorites. He knew how to take care of me and always brought something new to the table with every session. Two of the best nights of my sexual life were spent with Jack.

PREACH!

I saw him in October 2022 and left a 4-star review on RM after which he blocked me. In the written portion of the review (not visible in the US) I said I felt that he was more focused on his needs rather than mine. I even rec’d a message thru RM from some unknown person asking me why I had said what I did. And I responded to that person honestly. And then deleted the message. Overall he did all right but not, in my opinion, worthy of 5 stars. My recollection is that he had a nice body (very hairy!) and if he was thick around the middle that would not have bothered me. (Truthfully I do not remember.) It wasn’t a bad experience but neither was it exceptional; it was, to be honest, pleasant. I would not, however, hire again.

Eight-packs do nothing for me … but something about that look of insouciance … and that weapon between his legs … what is it about gay men and Cowboy attire … ???

Damn! Small a**, big balls!!

I , too, did not love Titanic. As soon as it hit the iceberg I was, “Oh, for shit’s sake just sink already!” CMBYN, however, spoke to the 17 year-old me and the then-50+ year-old me. If you didn’t love it I can respect that.

Oh mah God! Oh mah God! That combination of soap, sweat, cotton, laundry detergent, fabric softener, and testosterone. Jeez! Nothing like it in the world.

Oh, yeah. Lather up those pits, too.

Nice sac.

This is deviating slightly from the topic. I don’t agree that civility has disappeared but it is, in my opinion, most certainly in abeyance. And I miss it. I hope that I am treating providers as I would want to be treated, which is to say with kindness, courtesy, respect, and, yes, civility. I believe that I deliver that but ultimately it will be up to the provider to decide if I accomplish that goal. I hope more providers will chime in; I would love to know what they have to say on this topic.

New posting … I’m intrigued … not going to be in Chi-Town until January … if anyone has info … do tell!

Good Lord! I could bury my face in there for a week!

“Bull Durham”? A musical? I would not have thought that. “Bull Durham” is my favorite baseball film of all time. The little snippet on YouTube doesn’t give much away. But if Ron Shelton adapted his own screenplay I could well be enticed.

One could make that argument