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OMG … tight curls …

… and a soft place upon which to lay my head …

Ah always thought that the covered dish was more of a Southern Methodist affectation. Ah suppose it doesn’t really matter … either way you get the best food at Southern funerals …

blonde pits … thick, bushy, blonde pits …

G*ddamn … that moustache …

For a 1st-time meeting I’ll give anyone 15 minutes leeway; 30 in Los Angeles. If a provider calls me BEFORE he’s late to tell me he’s running late … anything up to 30 mins and I’m usually good with that. If a provider is further delayed after that, I’ll cancel. If a provider calls me after he’s already late … all bets are off and I cancel. Truthfully, it doesn’t happen often. {Full disclosure - I did, once, make an exception to my own rules and allowed a provider to show up over an hour late - and he was worth it!} I like to think I’m pretty reasonable (YMMV, lol) and I understand that things can happen, but there’s a limit. If I am seeing a provider whom I have hired before I am probably going to be a little more flexible. After all, if I’m seeing them a 2nd (or 3rd) time, he must be good.

I am TOTALLY with you on that. 👍🏻

It was a combination of Sears catalog, Jim Palmer, and Jockey - Jockey had a print ad with 8 or 9 MLB players - Pete Rose & Steve Garvey among them - all posing in their underwear. Mostly hirsute, swinging their bats, lol. I still have a serious, serious underwear fetish to this day and I used to keep the shorts of my hook-ups and providers. I had quite the collection.

The very 1st provider I hired (20+ years ago) instructed me to have cash where it can be easily seen upon entering my hotel room. I was also instructed not to refer to it and neither would he. Upon entering I noticed he glanced at the bills, presumably to ascertain I had the correct amount. After we finished he simply collected his fee and walked out the door. This method has served me well. Only once do I recall a provider who stopped to count before exiting. One provider had to ask for his fee as he had set his duffel bag on top of it. (I clearly remember him; he was the most handsome man I ever hired.) On those rare occasions when I see providers incall I always have the bills ready in my pocket and set them out in plain sight in front of the provider after entering the room. This method is normally greeted with a “thank you”.

I would like to echo this sentiment. I only seem to hire when I travel. In my home city I am quite fortunate to have two f**k buddies who are very accommodating. On the road, when the desire and funds are there, I’ll hire.

Dude on the left has some serious man-ass!!!

Mah first husband was Navy … oh, the memories!

I have a close female friend who knows, and I share my appointments with her for safety and security reasons, in the event there is an incident. She is exceedingly non-judgmental. (Supportive, even.) I have one male relative who knows I hire, and that is because he shared with me that he hires. Like @dilfluvr4ever I am not ashamed of my hobby, but neither do I feel the need to announce my participation in it.

LOL! I left a 4-star review earlier today. Then I read this post. Truthfully, it wasn’t a bad experience; it WAS a very good one. It simply wasn’t 5-star. Before my most recent 4-star review I’ve left one other 4-star review (several years ago) and the provider at the time was furious. The provider I reviewed today already had a 4-star review from another client so his overall number was already skewed. AND I previously left a different provider a 5-star review who didn’t deserve one, which I finally had to delete. I am so conflicted; certainly I don’t want to adversely affect anyone’s income stream. Four-star is not a bad rating; it simply means that something was missing to make it 5-star. Like the OP I was asked to post a review by the provider, although I was not specifically asked to post a 5-star review. @SecretProvider makes a very good point. I need to reconcile this in my head and take the appropriate action.

I’ll concur with @Nightowl and @Jamie21. With just about ANY hook-up app I’d be suspicious and you probably did dodge a bullet. It has been my experience that the “urgency” is part of the scam. (This I know from experience.) If you’re going to hire better to get referrals from CoM members and forums.

I’m with @jackcali here. I begin with RM messenger & I ask the provider to review my profile. If he responds in the affirmative I ask to switch to texting after that. That has worked for me for a number of years. As always, your mileage may vary.

The writer Dominick Dunne said it best - for me - when he said, “He liked the madness of ecstasy that came with a new partner.” Although I had one regular for quite some time there is something so intoxicating - for me - about touching, tasting, and inhaling a man whose company I have never enjoyed before. In the end, though (no pun intended), it’s a combination of the known and the unknown that I enjoy. Therefore, I must echo what so many before me have said.

Aye, Aye, Captain!!

This photo has been around for awhile, but I’m happy to see it again. Hairy chest. Bushy pits. Bearded. Beautiful.

YouTube has the 1st season of “Absolutely Fabulous” running on a continuous loop. Season 2 and 3 episodes can usually be found on-demand. Over 30 years later that shit is still so damn funny!

Now THAT sounds rather nice. I’m happy it was such a pleasurable experience for you. We all should be so lucky. 😗

Although, truthfully, I am not opposed to the occasional, mechanical, slam-bam. However, re-directing this back to the original topic, I have a lot of respect for those guys who can take it up the ass for 45+ mins. If that’s what you want, I say go for it. Bring plenty of lube.

I’m all about the good stuff that happens before I get topped - the making out and kissing and sucking and rimming and nip play and maybe a little bit of the rough stuff. Once he’s inside me I’m good for 10-15 mins before I want him to finish, maybe 20 if I’m physically comfortable. I’m not one for marathon fucking sessions. There are, of course, always exceptions. In the right mood and mindspace I wouldn’t object to multiple consecutive toppings by different men; in that situation I can go for 30-45 mins. But those scenes are rare. With providers I schedule 2 hours and that usually equates to 60+ mins of action with time to shower, converse and enjoy a drink afterwards.

One is not spoiled for choice in the LA/WeHo areas, specifically near LAX. I need some suggestions/recommendations for providers who work well with fat guys. Looking for this upcoming weekend (April 18). My preferences in men are wide-ranging and varied. Clients? Let me know whom you have hired. Providers? Reach out to me! Thank you!

You were kind to respond to me. Thank you. My question was nosy but you were gracious. I’m very sorry to read of your partner’s death, genetics, surprises, and ptsd. Take care, man.