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I should like to enjoy that Canadian delicacy by “poutine” my face in his ass.

Dude on the left has got a nice amount of “chunk” … chug a beer and munch pizza whilst I blow you …

Oh, Canada!🇨🇦 🍁

@kajunboots Hello! Your Cajun rice dressing looks and sounds heavenly! (I do not know how I missed it back in December.) I will assume that is essentially the same thing as “dirty rice” - that’s what my 1st husband called it - but do, please, correct me if I’m wrong. I’m planning to make that soon with chicken gizzards and livers. And, of course, plenty of hot sauce. 😘

You need to ensure with your primary that any ED meds will not interfere with something you’re already taking for another situation or condition. Plus you need to determine dosesge (50 mg or 100 mg). I asked my primary to prescribe Viagra, he checked my meds, and said, “How many do you want?”, followed by, “Let me know how they work for you.” Then he gave me a lolly and told me to go have fun. (Full disclosure - I get mine in Mexico.)

Truthfully, I don’t care how you f*ck, but I am happy to see a meaty man.

Intoxicating, isn’t it, @Redwine56, the scent of young testosterone … I now understand, at my rapidly advancing age, what mature men found so attractive about me when I was young, stupid, clueless, and handsome … I fear I am veering off-topic. My apologies to the moderators …

OMG, those ginger pits!

THAT is the first genuine laugh I've had in the last few days. Thank you @Redwine56 !!

@TxMaxx Like you, I, too, enjoy a man’s natural musk. I use a variation of - “If possible, I’d be grateful if you could avoid wearing deodorant during our session. Thank you.” It needn’t be awkward and he’s probably heard it before. And, thank you, @mike carey, for offering a perspective I hadn’t considered.

Dammit! You’re adorable! But … flippin the bird kinda ruins it for me. Pity.

Maybe I’m too cynical … but dude is way too happy … and I like men who smile … Lord, I’m old and bitter. 🤣

Truthfully, for me, it’s not about age – it’s about confidence. My experience has been that the providers over 40 whom I have engaged have had more confidence and less “hang-ups” than younger men – and by “younger” I mean men under 30. I am of the opinion – and again, this is strictly in my experience - that men don’t really know how to f*ck until they’re 40. I have a fave provider who may well be approaching his mid-50’s, and experience has taught him how to enter and f*ck a man with a precision and expertise that I can only hope to emulate. (For context I’m just shy of 62 and sexually active – which is to say that I was a slut - since 17.) Younger guys are fun – there’s nothing so thrilling as to have something that firm and taut under your hand, or wrapped in your arms, or impaled upon your erection. But I’ve encountered too many young guys who are needy, who want constant reassurance that they’re doing it right, who want to take a break to spark a j*int, who shave their pubes, or they want to pnp, which they failed to tell you that they’re into. No. Give me a man at 40 or beyond with some gray at the temples, a bit of snow on the chest, and a full bush, who also has confidence in the bedroom. As always, your mileage may vary and your preferences are respected. (There are always exceptions. One of my other current favorite providers has the wisdom of a man 10 years his senior but dude has a very youthful vibe when f*cking – and he’s 32.)

That is a nice set of balls, too!

I can’t say that I met him or even communicated with him. BUT he recently - like, within the last 10 days - showed his location as Albuquerque, New Mexico, where I live, for about a week, give or take. Beyond that, I’ve nothing to add. To the OP, all I will say is go with your gut. I hope someone in our community will have something more to add.

Truthfully, I had never thought about it that way. That’s a very, very interesting - and astute - observation. As for our US men’s hockey team … they won gold IN the US (Lake Placid), and that victory is still pretty special to me. I remember watching it live. Even my father, for whom no other sport exists beyond (US) football, got caught up in the magic. And, truth be told, I’m originally from Rockford, IL, home of Sapporo 1972 bronze medalist (Ladies Figure Skating), Janet Lynn. She fell twice in the long program and still got a medal. Lord, I’m old. 🤣

You’re damn right it was!

Damn. Now I’m hard.

THAT’S gotta be an interesting story …

With that in mind I will say that I haven’t hired anyone who identified as “straight” in years. And my memory is that those scenes were less than satisfactory. But, as many in this community will tell you, your mileage may vary. I wish you well and hope your experience is excellent.

Truer words …

I’m very sorry that happened to you. If it’s any consolation, I experienced a very similar situation, right down to the pretext of the provider answering a text. It’s probably happened to a lot of us.

Dude, you just answered your own question. A LOT of gay men fantasize about being with a “straight” man and a lot of gay men only seek out “straight” men. In my opinion, and in many cases, “straight” is nothing more than a marketing ploy to get business. I am old and way too cynical. That said, check the guy out, vet him well, hire, and have fun. (And, to be fair, a lot of men who enjoy and seek out sex with other men don’t identify as gay. I’m not telling you anything you don’t know.)

I regularly contact RM members directly for info on providers and like @PhileasFogg about 1 in 3 will respond to me. That is, of course, after I research a provider here first. I also receive about 1 inquiry a month asking me about providers whom I have reviewed. I try to keep it light and middle of the road whether it be a positive review or less so.