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The last time I saw hair like that Barbara Mandrell had a variety show on TV.

OH MY GOD! THERE’S 4 OF THEM! Maybe I shouldn’t drink so much …

Damn! Thatsa meaty man-ass!!

Hey, Sailor! Buy you a drink?

Hmm. I think I’ve stayed at that Courtyard by Marriott. Both the room decor AND the man look familiar …

@BenjaminNicholas Thank you. That was something that I needed to read this morning. That is some good advice, not just for provider/customer situations, but for life in general. 😀

Jesus! Look at his tan line! Where does he store that thing when he’s in a Speedo?

Wow! Can that … can that be real? Damn!

You didn't ask this question of me so I hope you don't mind if I post a response. Any time I'm asked a question that I do not wish to answer I respond with, "Why do you want to know?" (That shuts down most people.) I use that same answer in a workplace or professional setting when I'm asked point-blank if I'm gay. (On one occasion I was asked if I was gay by a co-worker in front of our boss. Before I could answer my boss said, to my co-worker, "If that were any of your business you would already know that answer to that question. Get back to work.") When asked by a total stranger I usually reply, "Forgive me, but I don't know you."

I think we can all agree that we all need to be careful and cautious whether we’re hiring or whether we’re hooking up.

@samhexum 😀 well-played

My God, those PITS!!!!!!

I still have not forgiven them for the controversy in the 1990’s when they ordered all gay employees fired. (Those of us of a certain age should remember this.) They had to backpedal on that once their sales plummeted during the negative PR meltdown that ensued. And I have never set foot in one of their establishments - and won’t. (Hey - you don’t want me working there? Fine. I’m not gonna eat there either.) Remember, this a restaurant that refers to macaroni and cheese as a vegetable. Who cares if they change their logo? (I hope I don’t sound too bitter.)

Well, that’s a new one. And just in time; I was feeling that I needed yet another label - top, bottom, vers, bear, chub, daddy, gay, homosexual, single, slut, whore, tired, old, queer, queen, f*g, on and on and on. Sarcasm aside, this term - fraysexual - genuinely applies to me. I need to read more. The allure of strangers is powerful; the allure of an emotional connection or commitment not so much.

Delta, I am ready when you are! (Only men of a certain age - or die-hard avgeeks - will get the reference. Let me know if you do.)

Yeah! I’d give that 2 thumb’s up!!

My God! Great weight and heft and a thick blonde bush!!! Yes, please!!!

yes, Yes, YES!!! Thick blonde BUSH!

Certainly, one has to be careful wherever one is planning to hire. My reason for asking about Vegas, Miami and Oklahoma was to learn if law enforcement was cracking down in those locations or if there was something with law enforcement specific to those locations of which we need to be aware. I agree with the member who suggested giving a passionate kiss when the provider arrives at your room; I’ve had providers reach for me and do just that. I probably haven’t been as careful as I should be so I’m trying to educate myself.

All right. Well, that’s good to know. Thank you.

I’m genuinely interested in the 3 areas you mention. Are you saying we have to be more careful in those areas? Why is that? What should we be watching for? I’ve never had an issue in Vegas, but I am using the internet and staying in hotels considered a bit more “upscale” and secure. What is it specifically that we need to be aware of in Oklahoma? Thanks for anything that you can add.

Gauged ears, shaved armpits (truthfully shaved or waxed anything), nose/septum rings, guys who “flip the bird” in photos, bad breath and/or poor dental hygiene (mercifully, this has not been a huge issue for me), poor communication skills, aggressive pursuit of my business, and extreme age shaving. PA’s and beards I take on a case-by-case basis as I’ve been rocked like a hurricane by guys with one or both. (Although going down on a guy with a PA … not my favorite activity.) TARDINESS! Don’t be late and don’t call me when you’re already late to tell me you’re late. Too many tattoos … but there are always exceptions. LOL! I’m probably lucky to engage ANYONE given the preceding list, lol, but I have found that there are A LOT of good guys out there!

Wow … I like that tie …

I am lucky in that my experiences this year (totaling 5) have all been great. I would even say excellent. Everyone gave me what I wanted and needed. But these guys rocked it! https://rent.men/DirtyDuoAZ Compared to others they are different and unique; rough and ready and thoroughly decent, nice men. Maybe not everyone’s cup of tea but most definitely mine. DM me if you need more details. Happy to share more info.

As a customer, I can’t argue with that logic. You make a valid point. Thank you for your input.