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To St Peter: “It’s pronounced ‘Bouquet’, dear. Richard! Open the gates! And help me carry my Royal Daulton with the hand-painted periwinkles!”

Longer sessions are not at all uncommon. Years ago I would hire this very nice man for 4-hour sessions that were a combination of massage, play, hot tub soaks, drinks and conversation. Three to five hours of massage seems far too long to me, but if you enjoy it and your provider has the stamina then all the power to you.

Thanks for my new thong, Dad!

And you’re absolutely right! Many men believe that.

Here’s my two cents - it’s not so much a question IF a man is straight - because I agree if you’re taking it up the ass or sucking cock you’re not entirely straight - but if they IDENTIFY as straight. If 85% of that provider’s customers/clients IDENTIFY as straight then I can believe that. We all know men who get - and enjoy - sexual gratification from men but they identify as straight.

Great topic! I agree that Swiss Navy travels well. Walgreens and CVS both carry a lot of different lubes these days if you’re gonna buy on arrival. (Find them next to the condoms.) Their “store brand” may not be “sexy” but it’s not expensive and gets the job done. If your City has a “gay store” (think Off-Chute in Phoenix or Skivvies in Dallas) they often sell “trial size” lubes which are small and travel well in zip-top bags. Swiss Navy’s little tubes easily slip into your pocket (you never know who you might encounter on the patio at The Anvil in Phoenix) and Sex Grease is sold in a little sachet. Makes it easy to always have a variety on hand.

I just finished David Pevsner’s memoirs, “Damn Shame”. Mr. Pevsner is an actor/writer/entertainer who has appeared on stage and television (and cruise ships!) with varying degrees of success. He also admits to working as a provider for a time. He became more well-known once he began posing nude at a more mature age in photos that he then posted to his Tumblr account. (Tom Bianchi photographed him on several occasions.) His stories are very interesting; stories of stage and screen are always amusing and in this regard he does not disappoint. (He appeared in one of my favorite films, “Role/Play”.) But there is a certain narcissism, especially in later chapters, that I found a bit off-putting. I’m certain Mr. Pevsner won’t care what I think of him or his book; after all I did buy it (Kindle version) and read it. It was by no means a waste of time to read, but I’m not sure exactly sure if I liked it.

Please. My mother continued to smoke and drink when she was pregnant with me. Which explains a lot. Tylenol would have been mild in comparison.

OMG … the snow on his chest …

Here’s an interesting aside - I opened my Marriott app today only to be greeted with a special of 50% off Marriott’s MGM Collection hotels in Las Vegas. Book by Sept 26 (2025) for stays through Aug 31 (2026). These include Aria, Bellagio, Cosmopolitan, and Vdara. None of those are my usual Vegas haunts, but that is significant discounting. I think the consumers have had it with the price-gouging and being nickled-and-dimed. Service levels, too, have dropped off. A lot of service personnel, while still friendly, seem unhappy behind their smiles.

Damn! That's some serious bush!

PREACH! Learned that one the hard way. More than once. Just a slow learner, I guess.

Wow. 89. Pretty damn amazing. So glad he was able to take the novel "Ordinary People" and turn it into a great movie. As an actor, he may have never been better than in "The Sting". And what physical beauty! RIP, Robert Redford.

Like @purplekow if they are flipping the bird in photos I move on. Also, if the posting suggests that the provider wishes to be “worshipped”, I know that I will be expected to do all the work and I go to the next. (Nothing wrong if you wish to worship or be worshipped; just not my thing.) More than words if I see neck or face tattoos and/or gauged ears that’s another “pass”. You know what I would like to see? A smile. Smiles are so sexy! Plus underwear and/or swimsuits; sometimes (for me) it’s more erotic what you can’t see versus what you can. That’s enough for now.

I used to drive my parents crazy telling them to “Kiss mah grits!” My mother told me that I didn’t know what that meant and to stop it. My father used to ask my mother, “Where did he pick THAT up?” I loved Flo! (Alice was too serious; Flo was more fun.) Polly was nominated for a Tony playing “Big Mama” in “Cat On A Hot Tin Roof” and while I didn’t get to see her in it I can totally envision her in the role. RIP, hon.

I’m no doctor but this concerns me a little. If you’re not yet 40 that seems too young to be getting up 2-3 times a night to pee. Prior to 40 - hell, prior to 50 - I was still sleeping through the night without nocturnal bathroom visits. Sure, 8 hours dry became 7, which later became 6. Now at 61, 2 times to pee is normal, 3 if I had iced tea at dinner. “Edge and Vitality?” Pshaw. Fund your retirement, keep (or get) your credit card debt under control, get 6 months of expenses in reserve, make sure you have at least 1 good suit in your closet (don’t forget a white dress shirt, conservative tie and lace-up dress shoes) and f*ck (or at least cum) whenever you get the chance. But talk to your primary care physician about all those nighttime bathroom visits. At your age that doesn’t add up.

Looking good, Lieutenant! A Sailor in dress whites can still get me hard.

Took me a minute but now I get it. Although I believe Rose was nude. Except for the heart of the ocean. Still ...

I have to agree with you on that. 😀

I am fascinated by the exchange and conversations contained within this thread about this particular man. And I’m asking myself why I’m so intrigued. Perhaps I need a hobby …

“Kissing” has been added to his “likes”.

DAMN! This guy works on 2 levels; pits and treasure trail!

Like @Alchemy, I, too, enjoyed the details.

Ah. I wasn’t looking at it completely from the provider as hotel guest (incall) point of view. My bad. Upon reflection I can understand the concern. A provider inviting a variety of men to his hotel room could invite more scrutiny. Again, the conduct of both provider and client are key. If they are not calling attention to themselves, if the other guests are not being disturbed, and if the provider is current on all hotel charges, then the hotel should have no room for complaint nor any reason to take action. The hotel staff and security can “suspect” all they want. Believe me - a barking dog or noisy kids are going to draw more attention than a well-behaved man welcoming male guests in 1- and 2-hour time blocks. And don’t forget to tip housekeepers - ten bucks or better - as that will buy you a lot of goodwill.

My father was in the hotel biz for 25+ years, many of those in management. He once told me that as long as your actions do not disturb the other guests, and as long as your conduct and appearance are acceptable, then hotel personnel will leave you alone. In hotels with key-activated elevators, you go meet your provider in the lobby. These guys are pros (or should be) and they know how to conduct themselves without drawing attention or attracting scrutiny. “Discretion” is the key word here. Also, a number of my hires have shown up at hotels in a sport coat or blazer; dressed like that you won’t register suspicion. Even when carrying a massage table. (Tip the bellman twenty bucks and chances are he will walk your provider to your room AND carry the table.) Veteran hotel employees have seen it all; they know who’s who and what’s what.