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Darling, you’ve probably just dodged a bullet. I understand the disappointment; it’s happened to many of us. Consider yourself lucky. Give yourself a day or two and then start planning your next encounter. Thank you, also, for telling the community about your experience.

I am throat-swabbed and anal-swabbed every 3 months at my local university’s men’s clinic. At the same time the lab draws the blood to check for the other STI’s, and I do UA as well. They renew my Prep and other meds at the same time. Great group of men and women working there.

I like it when I get a text afterwards saying “Thank you.” (Or some version thereof.) Small gesture but it means a lot. I like it, also, when providers let me know when they are going to be in my area so that we can plan ahead.

Those singlets have no secrets …

In Albuquerque, it was $3.39 last night (Sunday), and that’s a 40 cent increase in the last week. I expect it to be higher this morning. IIRC, oil prices have shot past $100/barrel.

OH, IF ONLY!!

That was stated extremely well. Thank you.

Doesn’t matter as long as each guy is getting what he wants. I’m a big guy and I have a smaller friend who can work my nips quite like seen in the gif. Dude tops me beautifully.

Absolutely he's looking for business. He's got a lot of competition. Take I-17 or I-10 through the Phoenix metro area and count how many "attorney" billboards you see along the interstate. He may just be looking for business but my initial reaction is that dude has got some pretty big balls to make a video advising anyone charged with soliciting to contact his law firm. You're not gonna see THAT on a roadside billboard. I want to believe that my compadres here at CoM are all doing what they have to do in order to minimize exposure; see @azdr0710 above. I get great advice, great insights and great recommendations here.

Full disclosure - I saw him in Sept 2021 in Albuquerque. At that time his photos were dated and he had put on weight, although, truth be told, I like some chunk on a man. It was fun to watch this sort of pole dancing up-close and nude (or nearly-nude); I got 3 pole dances in an hour for three hundred. Not a totally polished performance but good enough. He allowed me to video his dances; I still have one on my phone. What bothered me most was he shook me down for an extra fifty at the end saying it was a fee he had to pay to the borrowed studio where he performed for me. This was not disclosed in advance. I could have walked out, and probably should have, but I paid the fifty. I was unable to post a review on RM as we did not message through the app or website. With this in mind I would not recommend. Pretty to look at (in my opinion anyway) but kind of a jerk.

I agree with you 100%. Plus with the ubiquity of Uber and Lyft, not to mention cabs, there really is no excuse. (And allow me to add that I say that as someone who’s “been there”.)

“Eliminate shame”? I haven’t watched the video yet but, darling, I eliminated shame from my life and my vocabulary years ago! Having said that, I will now watch the video.

LOL! I must respectfully disagree with the commenter above. Blue Shorts would my 1st for “no shorts”! (Followed by Orange Shorts.) But, hey, to each their own.

I like a man with an erection who also knows how to smile.

Bountiful bush … so beautiful

What a tempting choice of desserts!

Full disclosure - no experience with that provider. BUT that is a name and location change for that provider. He used to be on my BL and he used to be in Los Angeles and he used to have a different user name - but I can’t remember what his previous user name was.

Which would you rather ride?

I saw ChicagoTopper when he visited Albuquerque … this was a year or two ago. Tall and slender (lean and toned if memory serves), he has the longest legs I can recall seeing on a man and he moves and talks with a particular grace. He makes bikini underpants look good. Handsome man; he doesn’t show his face for privacy reasons but I can assure you he’s very good looking. What I remember most is how he was able to enter me - top me - with an expertise and precision I had never experienced before - so smooth and no hesitation or pause. I hadn’t felt anything like that before and haven’t since.

I just love it when my bedroom, my hotel room, or any room simply reeks of that combination described above. Especially a really swanky hotel room - so intoxicating when all that high-end frou-frou is overwhelmed by the scent of fuck. Even better if there’s a naked man still gamboling in those high thread count sheets.

I have to agree with this. It worked for me the one time I was ballsy enough to try. I said, “What would it take to see you later at my hotel?” We negotiated, reached an agreement, shared cell numbers, and 2 hours later he was knocking on my hotel door. Shortly after that he was knocking on MY back door. At my age (over 60) I know that the worst thing he’ll say is “No.” And if he does say “no” he completes the lap dance, collects his tip and we both move on. Respect, courtesy and good manners go a long way. At least for me.

I don’t want a 6-pack; I want a pony keg!

Abundant blonde bush … always a pleasure to see …

Oftentimes, for me, it’s more sexy when the naked man reveals nothing. Oh, to come across THIS in the forest …

As a customer/client who offers to be g*e*n on Grindr, I’ve had exactly ONE successful interaction when I was away from my home City. At home I’m ignored by locals but preyed upon by the scammers, most of whom are impossibly good-looking and all of whom are miles and miles and miles away, and who all offer undying love and some form of sob story along with a request to communicate via WhatsApp. I came to Grindr late and all the ads and scams now make it pointless. Worthless might be a better word. It might be expensive but I’ll stick with RM, thank you very much.