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DAMN …

There’s nothing wrong with being “boring”. Being “fabulous!” all the time takes too much energy. At my age, anyway. Dude, I call myself “Mike”. If others find it necessary to label me beyond that - “masc” or “fem” - I’ll leave that for them to decide. And I can assure you I will be indifferent as to their choice. I used to call myself a “bear” but now I just say that I’m fat. I’m 62 years old and I spent far too much time from age 16 to 30 worrying about who I was and what other people thought. I figured out who I was at 30 - an out & proud gay man - and that was the point when I quit caring what anyone else thought of me. I wasted far too much time dealing with labeling myself when all I wanted was to get laid. I had an erection and holes and I was willing to travel but that wasn’t enough. Thin or fat? Muscular or husky? Hairy or smooth? Masculine or Feminine? Labels limit you, man. Don’t do it. Just be your authentic self and f*ck what anyone else thinks. You are who you are and you are an incredible human being. And it’s a really strange day when I am the voice of reason.

I’m curious as to why you’re asking. Is someone trying to label you? Are you trying to label yourself? Who cares? Really! Just be yourself. Or am I missing the point?

I’m with @Moke - this guy is someone I’d like to know more about. Anyone with info?? https://rent.men/TestingWaters

OK, that one took me a minute.

THE LOVE BOAT … SOON WILL BE MAKING ANOTHER RUN … THE LOVE BOAT … PROMISES CAPTAIN’S COCK UP MY BUM …

Respectfully, Sir, there is nothing wrong with that math. Some of us got height but then got - no pun intended - short-changed on length. I am one of them. I am 6’3” and have 5.5. (But thick with big balls.) We are veering off-topic. In 45 years of sexual activity I can honestly say that in my experience it’s not the meat, it’s the motion. Again, apologies that I did not remain on-topic, and thank you for allowing me to respond.

OMG!!! LOL!!! THIS IS SO TRUE! Forty years ago mid-scale hotels had just started with their “complimentary continental breakfast” and my Dad would shake me awake at 7 AM so we could have free donuts, coffee and juice. No matter how much I begged he wouldn’t take me for so much as an Egg McMuffin - “Why, Michael? This is FREE!” Now you’ve got waffles and eggs and oatmeal. Dad is 83 now and when we travel (not often) he doesn’t understand why I make him get in the car at 8 AM so we can go have a decent breakfast of bagels and eggs. “Why, Michael? Back at the hotel it’s FREE!” However, if I can find a deli with blueberry blintzes, he’ll shut up.

Truer words … well-said. Thank you!!

Truthfully, I can’t afford to dabble but I do so anyway for my mental and physical health. After a particularly good scene I’m on a high for the next day or two and the release re-charges and re-energizes me. And there’s the added benefit of enjoying the company of naked men whom I consider to be beautiful. That is its own reward. I’m not an attractive man, but with careful vetting I have been able to find men who will work to make me feel like a human being and a sexual being. So I cut back on discretionary spending, save my money, and invest in 2 hours with a man who will make me feel like a stud.

I cannot tell if the man being divested of his speedo is a willing participant (I zoomed in but it’s tough to ascertain from the look on his face) but it IS nice to see a variety of (presumably) gay men (thin, bear, silver) having fun.

I stand corrected. Thank you for the courtesy of a reply.

Can anyone provide a link? I’m not finding him on RM.

Brazil … where we danced beneath the harvest moon …

Great topic. For me “losing my virginity” would be that first time I was completely naked with another man and he kissed me and consensually brought me to orgasm. I can still remember it; early 80’s, I was 17, he was much older … it wasn’t great (Christian guilt weighed heavy on me then) but it wasn’t terrible. One week later I penetrated him (we used Elbow Grease I recall - that stuff was hard to wash off), and one week after that I penetrated a (much older) woman. After that there was no stopping me. I lost my “butt cherry” - several times - in San Francisco in May 1982. I feel that whatever constitutes “losing your virginity” for gay men is whatever you want or consider or need it to be.

Barechested with bourbon … very much how I like my men. 💋

Damn. Reminds me of a young man I had a crush on many, many, many, many, many years ago when I was a teenager. He had one nut hanging out, too.

I did not know that. Thank you! I appreciate the link.

https://rent.men/WyattR#sponsor Hello CoM Community!! Looking for any intel on WyattR. Nineteen reviews at RM, all but one are 5-star. Finding no info here so reaching out to see who has had the experience and how it went. One reviewer at RM responded to my query; would love to hear from any others. Respond in thread or DM/PM me. And thank you very much!

WOW! WOW! Dude is PACKING!

In New Mexico (and Arizona, too, if I am correct) you cannot offer nor sell “massage” unless you are a licensed masssge therapist (LMT). You are, however, permitted to offer and provide a “rub down” without a license. (I used to get a lot of “rub downs”, lol!) About 20 years ago police in Albuquerque were running sting operations and citing men and women for offering “massage” when they weren’t an LMT. I don’t believe anyone went to jail or to prison but people were arrested and fined.

@SecretProvider makes a good point. Get a provider to travel to you and book an overnight. That could work.