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Thank you! Very kind to send that along.

My God! That head of hair!

I’m kinda surprised no one has chimed in. Exhibitionism is NOT taking the opportunity to waggle cool air on your asshole … but I can understand the appeal. No, exhibitionism is when you get off on people looking at you. Watching you. Particularly when naked or when having sex. Exhibitionism is when several men gather outside my hotel room where I left the curtains open so that they could watch while my back door was being railed by a handsome muscle daddy. I couldn’t see them watching me and I didn’t care that they were watching me. In fact it AROUSED me no end to know that men were watching my fat ass getting fucked. Exhibitionism is swimming up to the man with his feet in the pool, spreading his legs apart and sucking his hard dick to completion in front of 20 other guys, most of whom start stroking their own cocks. It’s not the watching - that’s voyeurism - it’s performing, for wont of another word, performing an illicit act in front of others and it turns you on yet you don’t care that you’re being watched. I welcome other opinions but that’s exhibitionism to me. And yes, I’m a perv. 😛

Hey - you are neither ridiculous nor dense. And don’t let anyone tell you that you are. It’s better to ask questions and learn how to enjoy a butt plug safely and properly than doing it incorrectly and possibly injuring yourself. With that I will defer to others more informed than I to offer advice. I do not know what in what city you’re located, but if you’re in a bigger metropolitan you can probably get great advice and info at your local “gay store” or sex shop. Or, and don’t laugh, consult with your doctor or get a referral to a colorectal specialist. (I did and he was great!) If you’re anywhere near Phoenix go talk to Trey at Off Chute and he will take care of you. Happy Plugging!!

Yes. I think I see a way that you can be made part of the team, son.

I can’t recall the title but this was a great Thanksgiving-themed porn scene.

1) Corn Chex; 2) square pretzel; 3) circle pretzel; 4) wheat Chex; 5) mini breadstick; and 6) rye chip. But, I respect all opinions.

Many others have said that you can’t generalize and I have to agree. There are too many factors at play as to why he’s charging two hundred an hour. My hope is that you’ll enjoy a pleasant experience and become a regular of this man. Many men here will agree with me that we’ve hired escorts charging two hundred an hour who were worth a lot more (thinking of you, Anthony!), and, opposite that, we’ve hired escorts for two hundred an hour who weren’t worth that (thinking of you, Joshua). And then there’s the aforementioned “upsell” - get men to agree to a base price and then start tacking on “fees” for extras once they’re in the door. Communicate your expectations and you should be fine.

PREACH! Escorts cost me far less than my boyfriend ever did - financially AND emotionally. (Apologies for veering off topic.)

@Nue2thegame said it best - “the nose knows before the tongue gets near the rear.” No accidents, no uncomfortable or unsavory situations and my tongue is going in there as deep as I can get it. If you’re gonna rim you gotta commit. None of this BS where you just “dab it” with your tongue. Get in there with your entire g*ddamn mouth! Sweet little twink/twunk butts are fine but give me a meaty man-ass any day of the week. Rugby butt is a particular favorite.

Oh mah sweet Lord in Heaven … call me weird - I’ll accept that moniker - but when the body hair curls - particularly in the armpits or on the chest - or the pubes - I am intoxicated with lust. The most beautiful man I ever saw had curly body hair. I might have to change my shorts.

Maturation? Not much I can do to stop it. I see “old people” only to realize that I went to high school with them. My friends are becoming grandparents. I have to get up more during the night to pee. I fear suffering; I do not wish to suffer and have put language to that effect in my medical directive. I have not planned well for retirement and made questionable choices which will probably bite me in the ass. Truthfully, I’m ready to be done. It’s not going to get any better. Yet, I continue to get up and face the day. I need to take care of my parents. Everything happens for a reason. Just wish I knew what my “reason” is.

My mother was a single mom in 1965; she married the man who would become my father when I was 14 months old. Shortly after they got married he initiated adoption proceedings. Dad made sure we had a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs and food on the table. When he decided he wanted to provide better for his family he went back to school and finished his degree; that allowed him to get a better job and a bigger house for his family. My father is not perfect by any stretch but he had an incredible work ethic and a fierce commitment to his marriage. (And my Mom is a piece of work. So that is saying a lot.) He accepted "the gay thing" long before I ever did; he didn't (and doesn't) like it but he accepts it. Although I didn't truly appreciate it until later in life he (and my Mom) provided me with a good childhood and a great youth. I am now taking care of him; it takes a great deal of patience but he always expresses his gratitude. That said, my Dad didn't - and doesn't - take any of my shit, which, I suppose, is the way it should be. Forgive me as this turns weird, but the one thing he was not able to give me was genetics as Dad has a huge dick; I wish he would have been able to "pass that along" to his son. So, Happy Father's Day, Dad, from your very grateful son.

Where is "here"? PS?

That question is not so odd and yes, I DO apply sunblock. In my youth I ignored the advice to slather sunblock on my nuts and I got a sunburn. And sunburned nuts HURT.

Oddly enough “roasting chestnuts” made me think it might be the right time to head to Palm Springs to roast my chestnuts in the desert for a coupla days and enjoy nude swimming. Summer hotel prices are often ridiculously low. As for the heat? Well, everyone has A/C (air conditioning AND Andrew Christian) and misters.

I am grateful that you would take the time to say that to a stranger. Thank you.

Thank you. Yes, that was exactly what I was trying to convey to @nomad. He obviously knows whereof he speaks; I am most definitely not disputing that. I was attempting to convey that @nomad would have no way of knowing that I needed to see and read that specific passage in his posting. And for that I am grateful.

I do not mean to veer off-topic. You couldn’t possibly know this, but I needed to read that today. I’m not a provider but it applies to my current situation. And what you write is very true. My situation may or may not correct itself, but for what it’s worth, thank you.

No matter how hard you try, sometimes shit happens. Once with a provider there was a little mess when he pulled out (but before he came). My recollection is that he was wearing a condom. He very gently suggested that I go “refresh” and then come back. I was mortified but he says to me, “If we’re gonna play in the ditch we’re gonna get dirty sometimes.” (Understand this dude had a LONG dick.) He “refreshed” as well and 10 minutes later we were banging again with no further issues. There was another occasion with a little mess and dude totally freaked out. My feeling is if it happens, don’t be a dick about it - get cleaned up and get back to it. Others have said - if you can’t handle a some occasional mess you shouldn’t be engaging in anal sex.

As another commenter said it’s all about chemistry and hygiene. That said, when it comes to BDSM scenes I actually prefer a smaller man; anyone who reads my postings already knows that I’m weird, but being dominated by a smaller-framed man is such a turn-on to me. At 6’3” many men are shorter than me. I’ve had the pleasure to know several tall providers (as well as one really sexy, really tall former boyfriend), which made kissing standing up a genuine pleasure. I’ll admit, also, to a penchant for beefy, stocky short kings, the kind that used to be called a “fireplug”.

There might be some PhotoShop or AI going on here … in any event that is one GLORIOUS bush! Oh! To bury my face in there!

Getting back on topic, I have to agree with others that it rather depends upon how my provider is clothed and what we negotiated and/or agreed to in our scene. I had a couple of providers in Las Vegas ask me to take them out to eat after our session; when I asked both how much more in fees they would charge me they both said, "I'm only asking you to buy me dinner." One guy wanted In & Out Burger; I happily paid for that and got him a gift card as well. The other guy wanted Pho Kim Long over on Spring Mountain; we had a nice dinner (we were the only non-Asian customers in there at the time) and I got him another dinner to take away. Every scenario is different.

OMG, you are SO right about that. This is certainly not true of all "large" men, as I have known plenty who had big dicks and who absolutely made the effort. But there has been an equal number who could do little more than wave their huge member in my face and say "Is that the biggest dick you've ever seen?" And that was about the extent of the "action". Getting back on-topic let's see if any men's hotel proposes a "stub fest" for smaller guys.

I don't mean to veer off-topic, but I once had 2 providers (they hired out as a couple) suggest that we have our scene at a bathhouse (this would be in Phoenix) and it was one of the best experiences I've ever had.