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I am fascinated by the exchange and conversations contained within this thread about this particular man. And I’m asking myself why I’m so intrigued. Perhaps I need a hobby …

“Kissing” has been added to his “likes”.

DAMN! This guy works on 2 levels; pits and treasure trail!

Like @Alchemy, I, too, enjoyed the details.

Ah. I wasn’t looking at it completely from the provider as hotel guest (incall) point of view. My bad. Upon reflection I can understand the concern. A provider inviting a variety of men to his hotel room could invite more scrutiny. Again, the conduct of both provider and client are key. If they are not calling attention to themselves, if the other guests are not being disturbed, and if the provider is current on all hotel charges, then the hotel should have no room for complaint nor any reason to take action. The hotel staff and security can “suspect” all they want. Believe me - a barking dog or noisy kids are going to draw more attention than a well-behaved man welcoming male guests in 1- and 2-hour time blocks. And don’t forget to tip housekeepers - ten bucks or better - as that will buy you a lot of goodwill.

My father was in the hotel biz for 25+ years, many of those in management. He once told me that as long as your actions do not disturb the other guests, and as long as your conduct and appearance are acceptable, then hotel personnel will leave you alone. In hotels with key-activated elevators, you go meet your provider in the lobby. These guys are pros (or should be) and they know how to conduct themselves without drawing attention or attracting scrutiny. “Discretion” is the key word here. Also, a number of my hires have shown up at hotels in a sport coat or blazer; dressed like that you won’t register suspicion. Even when carrying a massage table. (Tip the bellman twenty bucks and chances are he will walk your provider to your room AND carry the table.) Veteran hotel employees have seen it all; they know who’s who and what’s what.

The last time I saw hair like that Barbara Mandrell had a variety show on TV.

OH MY GOD! THERE’S 4 OF THEM! Maybe I shouldn’t drink so much …

Damn! Thatsa meaty man-ass!!

Hey, Sailor! Buy you a drink?

Hmm. I think I’ve stayed at that Courtyard by Marriott. Both the room decor AND the man look familiar …

@BenjaminNicholas Thank you. That was something that I needed to read this morning. That is some good advice, not just for provider/customer situations, but for life in general. 😀

Jesus! Look at his tan line! Where does he store that thing when he’s in a Speedo?

Wow! Can that … can that be real? Damn!

You didn't ask this question of me so I hope you don't mind if I post a response. Any time I'm asked a question that I do not wish to answer I respond with, "Why do you want to know?" (That shuts down most people.) I use that same answer in a workplace or professional setting when I'm asked point-blank if I'm gay. (On one occasion I was asked if I was gay by a co-worker in front of our boss. Before I could answer my boss said, to my co-worker, "If that were any of your business you would already know that answer to that question. Get back to work.") When asked by a total stranger I usually reply, "Forgive me, but I don't know you."

I think we can all agree that we all need to be careful and cautious whether we’re hiring or whether we’re hooking up.

@samhexum 😀 well-played

My God, those PITS!!!!!!

I still have not forgiven them for the controversy in the 1990’s when they ordered all gay employees fired. (Those of us of a certain age should remember this.) They had to backpedal on that once their sales plummeted during the negative PR meltdown that ensued. And I have never set foot in one of their establishments - and won’t. (Hey - you don’t want me working there? Fine. I’m not gonna eat there either.) Remember, this a restaurant that refers to macaroni and cheese as a vegetable. Who cares if they change their logo? (I hope I don’t sound too bitter.)

Well, that’s a new one. And just in time; I was feeling that I needed yet another label - top, bottom, vers, bear, chub, daddy, gay, homosexual, single, slut, whore, tired, old, queer, queen, f*g, on and on and on. Sarcasm aside, this term - fraysexual - genuinely applies to me. I need to read more. The allure of strangers is powerful; the allure of an emotional connection or commitment not so much.

Delta, I am ready when you are! (Only men of a certain age - or die-hard avgeeks - will get the reference. Let me know if you do.)

Yeah! I’d give that 2 thumb’s up!!

My God! Great weight and heft and a thick blonde bush!!! Yes, please!!!

yes, Yes, YES!!! Thick blonde BUSH!

Certainly, one has to be careful wherever one is planning to hire. My reason for asking about Vegas, Miami and Oklahoma was to learn if law enforcement was cracking down in those locations or if there was something with law enforcement specific to those locations of which we need to be aware. I agree with the member who suggested giving a passionate kiss when the provider arrives at your room; I’ve had providers reach for me and do just that. I probably haven’t been as careful as I should be so I’m trying to educate myself.