I like this one, bulletproof. I have a Korean/Japanese style electric water heating thingie that keeps water at 208° 24/7, I use a small stainless pitcher to get the water and pour over.
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Other than I buy green beans from all over the world, roast them myself a couple days a week, and brew pour over one cup at a time, black. That’s it. No cream, milk, sweeteners.
I really prefer my men clean shaven, with zero facial hair. Being a it of the contrarian, I sport a tightly groomed full gray beard. Hemingway style, Wolf Blitzer type of beard.
I was with a guy for a couple years who would cum into his hand, then reach around and spread on my (already somewhat lubed up from topping him) cock and finish him topping him with his cum as lube. Was pretty dang hot.