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The best time I ever had was during the pandemic when I paid $2000 for two nights with the day in between. This guy came 3 times each night and once during the day in the kitchen while I was making lunch. I got a protein shake. 

The best time I ever had was during the pandemic when I paid $2000 for two nights with the day in between. This guy came 3 times each night and once during the day in the kitchen while I was making lunch. I got a protein shake. 

Of course I mostly pay in Canadian dollars which are less than US by about 25 percent or so altho it varies but I have paid $2000 a number of times and once $2500 for a 14 hour session. The $2000 was for 10 to 11 hours generally. 
But of course I have done many in the lower ranges which were also satisfactory like $1100 to $1500. 

Of course I mostly pay in Canadian dollars which are less than US by about 25 percent or so altho it varies but I have paid $2000 a number of times and once $2500 for a 14 hour session. The $2000 was for 10 to 11 hours generally. 
But of course I have done many in the lower ranges which were also satisfactory like $1100 to $1500. 

Of course I mostly pay in Canadian dollars which are less than US by about 25 percent or so altho it varies but I have paid $2000 a number of times and once $2500 for a 14 hour session. The $2000 was for 10 to 11 hours generally. 
But of course I have done many in the lower ranges which were also satisfactory like $1100 to $1500. 

Obviously not. I’m supposing you said that tongue in cheek. To get a dancer to cum in the back booths usually took at least 5 songs or more. And you had to be careful becuz they did sort of monitor the area some nights more than others. 
Once a dancer and I got caught in the act but the monitor was nice enough to let us finish so I got the dancer’s load before he had to leave. 
He got suspended for a week or two tho. I felt sorry for him so took him home and he came back several more times to my place during his suspension. He was a lot of fun and let me take pictures of him, which I still have. 

Whatever gets the congregation to fall on their knees and let their throats give praise!

As the saying goes, you don’t look at the mantlepiece when you’re poking the fire.

For me...i dislike classical handsome...my likes revolve around the crotch..I rarely look at the face...thin..muscular...tall with 10 "s...so very attractive..I just returned from Atlanta...miles of cock...
 

I cackled at this! LOL. Yes, you are right. That is the right way to do things. That is what a sane person would do, my emotions and excitement are getting the best of me right now.
The guy was charming. We chatted after hooking up and exchanged info, and he even gave me a ride home. So we "kind of" know each other, and I like the guy as a person. It feels like I'm hiding vital information from him.
But like the other poster said, he has to bring it up first. I guess, in a way, it's like "he has to come out of the closet" on his own terms.
 

Good god NO!!! He could have turned into one of those providers that wants a deposit to even talk to him.
Assume he was honest when he expressed that he enjoyed the hookup, and try to schedule another hookup.
If that doesn't pan out, you can always arrange a paid session. But, why on earth would you want to broach the subject of buying the cow, when you have a chance to get the milk for free!

This reminds me of a time in my younger days where I hooked up with someone. 
He lived with family but said no problem he was alone for a while etc. got the feeling he was discrete,.not closeted but on the dl. 
Anyway we are hooking up in his room and all was good. I heard a noise like a car door. He runs to check and says oh everything is fine no big. 
When we get done he stays in his room and I walk to my car. Parked right next to my car was what I assume to be a family member possibly older brother sitting in his car. 
Dude gave me a look of total disgust and if looks could kill I would be dead. I felt absolutely so uncomfortable. 

He doesn't know any single thing about that person, and seems like you did not inform him about having a roommate when making arrangements. To me that looks like a personal safety thing.
Yes, you should have told him. He's coming to a home of a stranger, that alone has a degree of risk, then he's surprised by seeing another stranger hanging out in the house, without knowing who that person is or what the intentions are.
I don't find the actions of the provider unreasonable.
I've had unpleasant experiences with opposite roles. I've been to the place where the provider is set, and I have found people there hanging around, and it does not feel comfortable and pleasant. In fact, one of them had the roommates passing back and forth in front of me while I was getting the massage.
IMO, both the client and the provider should be aware of other people present in the place where the event will take place, regardless of how "open minded" the people around are. The "I'm ok with it" thing or "I'll be a fly on the wall" thing is not the issue; it's a comfort and personal safety issue.

I agree with the consensus - you should have told him.  I don't agree with what seems to be the consensus, that it's normal to be so freaked out by the presence of someone else that of course anyone in their right mind would leave.  Not only did I encounter this situation numerous times when hiring masseurs and escorts, it never really occurred to me to be overly concerned about it.  Did I find it somewhat annoying to actually have to see someone else (for example, a roommate on a sofa in the living area that had to be passed through to get to the bedroom)?  Yes, but not enough for me to make an issue of it.  For those arguing the safety angle, if someone really is intent on doing you harm don't you think it would be just as easy for them to have their accomplice hanging out nearby and then that person enters after you're already naked?  Wouldn't that put you in an even more vulnerable position?  It just seems to me that some level of trust is required to meet a stranger, and whatever screening/vetting process one has is hopefully good enough to at least keep the people with malintent at bay.

Perhaps your provider thought it could be a sting operation?  Or a setup for a robbery?  Fact is, in a one-on-one situation, most people feel like they can fend for themself.  But add another unknown person and it can be rather intimidating.  BTW, welcome to the forum.

I’ve had this happen. I think I’ve written about it previously but I’ll mention it again here because it’s relevant.
I did an outcall one time to a client and his young daughter was with him when he answered the door. In fact we used the room she had been playing in for the massage. The client had intended we use a garage (integral to the house, a townhouse over 3 stories) but it wasn’t suitable so he moved the session to the ground floor play / tv room. As I was setting up the table he asked her to “go upstairs to mummy while daddy has his massage”….
Once she was gone I checked with him that he understood the nature of the service, as in we’d both be naked and it would include sexual activity and he confirmed all ok. He’d clearly seen my advertising etc so couldn’t have been in doubt but given his wife and daughter were upstairs and knew he was having a massage I did wonder…
What’s worse is he didn’t even lock the door and during the session I could hear them upstairs. I asked him if this was ok and he was adamant we’d not be disturbed.
I didn’t meet the wife, or daughter again fortunately as I think it would be even worse to see them afterwards. The client behaved like it was all routine…maybe it was a turn on for him because it certainly didn’t seem to inhibit him…he was hard as soon as he got naked. 
I really don’t mind if there’s others in an adjacent room. I’m also fine if they know what’s going on. I’ve done live shows and workshops including having full sex and things like being a demo model for the use of sex toys so it’s not a problem to me. I also have clients who are married and they both have massages from me while the other one watches.
However in every situation it’s been agreed beforehand. It’s just polite and respectful to ask, and of course some situations such as the one above where I knew his daughter was upstairs are very disconcerting. He should have told me that might be the case when booking. 
I think that for most people they want discretion and privacy in such situations. If you as a client have any circumstances where your place isn’t going to be private then it’s best to let your provider know then he can decide. The default expectation both ways is of privacy. 


 

My 2024 gay lifestyle is pretty fabulous. 🤩
My brothers' lifestyles are all pretty nice, but not quite as fabulous.

He sounds hot.

20 years ago I spent a week in Rio just after Carnival and had no bad experiences with street crime. A month later my nephew and his girlfriend were robbed at knifepoint in daylight right outside the Copacabana Palace. Can't imagine its any better today as Brazil has gone through a lot in two decades, most of it not good.

I hired Sherman Maus twice this weekend. My hole can't get enough of him!

3K to have your baby? Now that's commitment!

By RM IM says:  "1h only oral sex 400$, for have sex 2 hours 1000$ and overnight 3000$ baby"

Obviously not. I’m supposing you said that tongue in cheek. To get a dancer to cum in the back booths usually took at least 5 songs or more. And you had to be careful becuz they did sort of monitor the area some nights more than others. 
Once a dancer and I got caught in the act but the monitor was nice enough to let us finish so I got the dancer’s load before he had to leave. 
He got suspended for a week or two tho. I felt sorry for him so took him home and he came back several more times to my place during his suspension. He was a lot of fun and let me take pictures of him, which I still have. 

Obviously not. I’m supposing you said that tongue in cheek. To get a dancer to cum in the back booths usually took at least 5 songs or more. And you had to be careful becuz they did sort of monitor the area some nights more than others. 
Once a dancer and I got caught in the act but the monitor was nice enough to let us finish so I got the dancer’s load before he had to leave. 
He got suspended for a week or two tho. I felt sorry for him so took him home and he came back several more times to my place during his suspension. He was a lot of fun and let me take pictures of him, which I still have. 

Obviously not. I’m supposing you said that tongue in cheek. To get a dancer to cum in the back booths usually took at least 5 songs or more. And you had to be careful becuz they did sort of monitor the area some nights more than others. 
Once a dancer and I got caught in the act but the monitor was nice enough to let us finish so I got the dancer’s load before he had to leave. 
He got suspended for a week or two tho. I felt sorry for him so took him home and he came back several more times to my place during his suspension. He was a lot of fun and let me take pictures of him, which I still have.