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This would have been about 2002

You are comparing the cost of 4-hour appointments. A more reasonable comparison is the cost of an hourly appointment which, I think, is more common, In 1999, I didn't pay $300/hour ... $200/hour max. And that is in NYC.

I think I was paying about. $150 then for some top notch escorts in NYC And Miami. But memories dim.

On the whole? 98% of clients are really great. They know what they're getting into and they know that the relationship originates as a business relationship and is transactional.

 

It's the clients that develop feelings, become physically violent, attempt (or succeed) at inebriating you through dubious means [the last time this happened was very recently with lube laced with some drug that made me feel nauseated and sleepy], demand more of your time that you're comfortable parting with, withdraw payment or fail to supply payment when/after/whenever services are rendered - and so much more.

 

You only need to fall prey to these tactics once to become suspicious of every future client. On some level, you're watching and trying to identify the pattern that led to the last terrible time and see if any of those warning klaxons start firing based on specific wording, vague wording, unwillingness to share information (address, room number, etc.), specific requests, implied requests, etc.

 

Hostility is a defense mechanism.

I haven’t heard the lube scenario before this. Quite disturbing. I always offer mine but accept the escort’s too if he prefers his.

Bobby Blake was SO HOT and very sweet too!! He came a few times to my work place in the Castro and I also caught his shows when headlining at Campus Theater in the Tenderloin.

Am I right in thinking Bobby had a PA in his cock? I seem to remember sucking it very carefully so I wouldn’t break a tooth. I remember him as being very sweet too.

I was supposed to have an o/n tonight but it fell through at 3pm, 2 hours before he was supposed to show up. There were problems with the train he was to take but in the end it meant we would lose 3 hours of playtime in the evening which he offered to make up with one extra hour in the morning. I declined as sex after breakfast does not really do it for me. He didn’t offer a fee reduction but I paid him a $200 cancellation fee. Such goes life.

This is good news. May be a time to visit Montreal again. It’s been a long time.

I also bottomed for the famous Claude, a Belgian in Miami during the 1990’s. His cock was the thickest of any man I have ever taken, at least 8 inches around, except for Jay Dymel, who was maybe a bit thicker.

Years ago I was with a black escort in Miami and he had a 12 inch cock. I think his name was Masters but it was over 20 years ago. He used to dance at the sauna in Coral Sands. At that time I also met Bobby Blake and a couple of other black dancers who escorted on the side. I was younger then and could take a cock that size but today I’ve scaled back a couple of inches.

Oh yes, and I floss every day.

Oh I truly feel for you. This is one issue I could not overlook in a physical relationship with another person. Oral hygiene is as important as any other aspect of one’s physical health. Since I am a very passionate kisser, I could not bring myself to kiss someone as you described. I’m 73 and have perfect teeth, but I go to a dentist 4 times a year and also have an excellent diet. Still have all my teeth except for the molars which were taken out when I was 25. I know its expensive to keep up with one’s teeth and I am fortunate in that my parents started me at an early age to have regular checkups. I think I can still remember every dentist visit I have ever made and the names of all my dentists down through the years. I was in touch with my dentist this week to start resuming visits and was shocked that I will have to wait 3 months to see him. I put myself on his cancellation list in case someone has to cancel.

I'm sure this thread has been done before, but with COVID changing things around so much thought I'd ask it again. Going to the city Labor Day weekend and would love to meet with at least one or two handsome men. Any recommendations for me? I like all types really but am more of a bottom here so a great top guy would be perfect.

 

Thanks for any suggestions.

This is a great idea right now. It will be a year this Sept. since I was in NYC and saw a couple of escorts. One is now in Spain the last I heard a couple of months ago and the other I wouldn’t recommend, altho he is highly rated on RM. I left an only slightly critical review of him on RM and took off one star because of his outdated photos and he went berserk and had RM Take off the review. Other than that there are some escorts in NY I would love to see, based on their reviews and profiles on RM.

Thanks for your explanation. I hadn’t realized cock and dick had that different connotation. I use both interchangeably and have never had a black escort or any other Black I have had sex with over the years bring it up. The last black escort I saw was 3 weeks ago so I try to keep up with the times. If he doesn’t want his dick fetishized perhaps a bit less emphasis should be placed in the pics in his RM ad where virtually all emphasis the phenomenal size of his (ahem) member.

I read in the NYTimes the other day that many restaurants will be shuttering their places in the near term in Manhattan including some popular chains which intend to keep their places open in Florida and other states. They simply don’t see a way forward in paying the kind of rents in NY for locations where they will have to reduce seating. Presumably a vaccine would change this equation but when is that likely to be available. Once the eatries (and bars) go, the tourist draw and business trips, conventions, etc are going to be impacted. If the virus impact lasts into 2021, there could be a seismic shift in population movements, which will inevitably affect rents and property values in high priced cities.

Sort of like not saying Elephant when there is one in the room!

Hi ad on RM is amusing. For a guy with a twelve inch cock, he has an aversion to anyone saying Cock to him.

And while you're in the area, go to Glacier National Park

https://www.pc.gc.ca/en/pn-np/bc/glacier

Also try to take in Lake Moraine. Near Banff but on a dead end road so you won't see it unless you take the detour in. Has a small inn there which is absolutely gorgeous. Nearby is the Kickinghorse Pass where they have white water rafting. Suitable for newbies and lots of fun. I hope these kinds of entertainments survive the pandemic.

He’s my type too but I would never go for his structured pricing with payments up front for future ? services. Too much control in his hands. Interesting that he is currently travelling and staying 3 nights per city. Can’t have too many “structured “ clients right now,

Terminology becomes important here. Pornstars as opposed to guys who have appeared in some pornflics are two different beasts. I find it hard to imagine a true pornstar offering rates of $225, even in these distressed times. Care to offer an example?

Thanks Boomer. The info has whetted my interest.

Thanks for posting the link to France_Rocks RM page. But the other link to the forum threads didn’t work.

In nearly twenty years of hiring escorts I have made it a point of never hiring an escort for a single hour. I hire for two hours of play time and one hour for lunch or dinner. Only after a couple of successful arrangement like the above would I ever consider approaching an escort regarding the possibility of setting up and extended get together (a weekend or longer). At that point we know each other and he would be perfectly aware that I’m not a time waster. I’ve also learned that the escort’s fee will frequently depend partially on how much he wants to visit my proposed destination. He is far more likely to discount a week in Rome or Paris than a week in Death Valley.

I’ve been hiring for over 40 years but in the first 20 only sporadically when I saw someone I wanted and he happened to be an escort. No Internet in those days. In the last 20 years have had lots of experiences with escorts and only recently hired for overnights. Since the pandemic, that’s all I do now. I do my research and here in Canada, where infection rates are relatively low after the initial outbreak, which affected mostly the elderly in long term care, and now the migrant workers working in farms for the summer, I feel relatively comfortable meeting with guys who are local, since travelling escorts are not visiting Canada because of the border closure. The Canadian escorts are not lowering their rates, and why should they? People like me are still hiring because it helps with keeping our mental balance. Need that human contact.

Anyone have an experience with this Frenchman? His reviews on RM are mostly positive. Sorry I can’t post the link but he is on RM.

I like his ad and his philosophy.

Dyed his hair blonde at some point...possibly.

I’ve been with escorts (some did porn too) who at some point dyed their hair blond and were not in the least bit effeminate. They might have bottomed for some but were all tops for me. Of course some effeminate guys do dye their hair blond. I guess you just have to look at the overall package.

I would pay that. $$ for value, IMO.