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I was there for Mardi Gras week and went to the corner pocket. I usually find some diamonds in the rough there, and enjoy myself immensely. There was absolutely nothing! I was sad because I brought some friends with me in hopes that they might enjoy seeing some strippers but that didn’t happen.
 
However, we had a fantastic time at Oz mainly because they brought in West Coast talent! Had a great time there two nights in a row!

I know both of these boys personally and they are loads of fun! I wish I didn’t know them so I could enjoy their muscles more! Haha

I was there for Mardi Gras week and went to the corner pocket. I usually find some diamonds in the rough there, and enjoy myself immensely. There was absolutely nothing! I was sad because I brought some friends with me in hopes that they might enjoy seeing some strippers but that didn’t happen.
 
However, we had a fantastic time at Oz mainly because they brought in West Coast talent! Had a great time there two nights in a row!

However, these guys were entertaining! The one on the right smiled & winked at me while he was on stage so I went up and tipped him. Later in the evening on stage again, he motioned me to come over. When I walked up with dollars in my hand, he smiled again and said, "I haven't seen you in a while I just wanted to give you a hug." And he did. 😁 Now, I do like a dancer who flirts....

I was at Johnson's again this week on Tuesday & Wednesday.  Tuesday was very quiet considering Florida is now in high season.  They didn't even have a bartender working in the main stage room bar...which surprised me.  In any case I had a good time.  There were maybe 12 dancers working so enough to have some variety.
Wednesday was totally different.   Very busy.  SRO at a few points during the evening.  I'd say about 20 dancers were working.  There were at least five guys from Argentina.  One of them was a young guy from Cordoba.  Very good looking, muscular, and with a beard.  Also, he had one of the most beautiful asses I have ever seen in my life.  Wow!!
One trend I noticed that I'm happy about is that more dancers seem to be letting their pubic hair grow.  Maybe not full bush but the hair was there at the top of the pubic area.  I love that.  Of course there were still plenty of completely shaved guys for those that like that.  
Thank you Cordoba Argentina for the handsome guy with the beautiful ass.  A true work of art!

Declined from the closing of Swinging Richards and nothing with full nudity.  BJ Roosters is the only place to see go go boys dancing on the bar in underwear.  However, there are booths with curtains where private lap dances are given.  The booths can be fun depending on the dancer.  Some are more fun than others and they vary but I always enjoy.😉  However, if I lived out of town I wouldn't plan a special trip to BJs.

I’ve always had fun at BJs while I happened to be in ATL. 

They announced yesterday they will no longer be open on Wed nights but maintaining Thurs - Sunday schedule.   Hope they can make this work but it seems to be trending in the wrong direction.

Yes. So many men so little time. We would lock 🔐 the front door when the porn stars started the show. During the course of the night we would close all the lights so the dancers could do naked lap dances in the dark. Good times👍

Ahhhhh, Cupids in West Palm Beach. LOTS of fun there. I recall once that they locked the front door so that a Porn Star, Shane Rollins and his buddy could put on a show on stage. WOW. The location in Miami was scorching HOT. A big, inked Brazilian stud , Eddie, picked me up and carried me to the lap dance room. SO many incredible men.😛

I wish everyone did that Vegas. Yes we are getting fewer and fewer. You know what I have found in all the years I'm doing this. When a place closes those that complain the loudest usually haven't patronize the club. Trust me what I'm saying. Then they wonder why Clubs have let in ladies. Ladies 🍷 drink 🍻. Yes they are annoying but a club can't survive on selling bottles of water and lurkers in the back of a club looking for a free show.🤷‍♂️. I hope Matt and Johnson's makes it. But Tampa is a tough market. You don't have the East Coast I 95 clients. Last weekend I had Axel Rockham and his BF Damien in Philadelphia doing my private party. They worked Johnson's the week of coming to Philadelphia. It was tough for them. But if they wanna work Ft Lauderdale they may have to take a trip to Tampa now and then. 
BTW. Who remembers Cupids Cabaret in West Palm Beach. I co managed with Andrew Cross in 2007-2008. Those were good days😘. 

If I am in any city with a male strip club, I make it a point to patronize the business if only to keep them open and hopefully stir demand for even more.  There are so few as it is.

Just to be honest don’t count on any specific dancer being there.  IN MY OPINION It seems like quite a struggle for dancers to make money there and as a result it is quite a struggle for the owner to keep good talent despite his best efforts.   There have been some high quality guys come through but they don’t stick around.  The club is beautiful, the VIP area is outstanding but he simply hasn’t been able to recruit and keep the number and type of dancers to really get it going.  

I don't think the boys dance because they want a Lamborghini but because they need rent money.
I find that a little sad, but am happy to help where I can.

I hadn't heard of it.  
This is the place, right?  https://www.enjoytheviewdallas.com
Here's the instagram feed: https://www.instagram.com/theviewdallas/
I'll have to make a point to check it out.  The photos make the club look attractive.

Its Instagram page has a ton of stripper content both in the Instagram posts and stories.  Unclear if it’s just a gogo bar or if there are VIP rooms though. Hot dancers for sure.  
 
https://instagram.com/theviewdallas

I just got back from nine days in Puerto Vallarta. There is a new club, Pervert, which operates above a barber shop just a few doors down from Wet Dreams and Sixty Nine.
This is in the space where the old DeBraye club use to be.
There were lots of male strippers (more dancers than customers). Drinks were cheaper than the competing clubs and they accepted credit cards.
 
I went two different nights. One night had few dancers that appealed to me so I left after one drink.
 
The second night I hit the jackpot. I had three gorgeous dancers (two muscle hunks and a young but not too thin twink) on my lap for nearly an hour, tipping them each about 50 pesos per song ($2.50 usd) while a waiter kept bringing me drinks and I kept buying round for the dancers.
I had a fun 10 minutes in a private room with one dancer, charged on my credit card. The room could have easily handled all 4 of us if I wanted, and the dancers were willing. Total night came to 4000 pesos ($200 usd) for all my drinks and drinks to the dancers and room charges for the private dances. I probably dropped an additional 2000 pesos tipping the dancers.
 
Pervert does not have the crowd pleasing ambiance of 69 or Wet Dreams next door. But it's not too be missed. You may find your type and have a fun night.
 
I would have stayed longer that night, but I had a party cruise booked the next morning

They dance until 2am
Yes, happy hour can get pretty busy!
There are several other options:
A Bath/Gym, a couple other bars with strippers, The View, TMC & Marty's, and The Hidden Door is a fun sleazy neighborhood bar.
There is also a spot called Club Stalions.  

I spent 3 weeks in Puerto Vallarta over Christmas and New Year's.  I had a massage every day.
Prices ranged from:
Low end (but not always guaranteed a Happy Ending): Advertised 700 pesos ($35 US) for 1 hour massage; I would give them 1000 pesos ($50 US) total including tip at the end of they have me a good massage and Happy Ending.  Happy endings varied from hand jobs, to oral, to fingering
Mid range: 600 pesos ($30 US) for 30 minute upper body or lower body massage in a chair on the gay beach.  Out in the open, so nothing sensual; but, damn it feels nice to have your muscles worked on while facing the ocean, having drinks delivered to you, and watching gorgeous men in speedos walk by!
High end, but guaranteed sex:  I would offer 1500-2000 pesos ($75-100 US) to massuers to come to my hotel room and give massage and bareback sex.  Did this several times with several great guys.  I usually wanted  2 hours and offered 3000-4000 pesos ($150-200 US) pesos for 2 hour massage and bareback penetration.
Very high end: Strippers and RentMen ask 4000 pesos ($200 US).  While they're nice to look at, in my experience the RentMen don't give a good massage, and the Strippers won't offer anal.  I do have a regular stripper who works at 69 who will come by my hotel room on his way to work, and let me give him a blowjob for 700 pesos ($35 US), but I won't book a full hour with him because I've tried it and he just doesn't do it for me.  He looks good, he gives great lap dances, but he's just not a massuer or escort.

Flew in to PV a couple of days ago.  I have been meaning to come here for a couple of years now.  A fun couple I stoked up a conversation while in Montreal said this place tops Canada for strippers.  It may be a tie😜
I will preface this with the culture here is all about tipping.  There are tip jars everywhere and that’s how many make their money.  That said, be ready to be overwhelmed at first for dancers asking you for a tips for just coming up to you and saying hello.
Let’s get started:
The first three clubs are right next to each other.  So you can go in and out.  No cover.  They are on the street with all the major gay nightclubs.  Some of these have beautiful go go boys as well.
Club 69 - my favorite so far.  It is a two level with an upstairs balcony area that surrounds the club so you can watch the dancers below.  There’s seating along the wall to the right as you enter.  There is a host that greets you and asks you what you want to drink. I sat down down on the couch area.  Immediately there are dancers coming up to you greeting you, asking you if you want a private, etc.  and then ask you for a tip.  Just for talking with them for 30 seconds.  It took me awhile to get use to it, but I eventually did.  Most of the dancers were muscular.  Some smooth chest, so hairy.  A good mix. A couple of them were really good on the pole.  One dancer who looks like Jack from the White Lotus did an amazing pole dance. Another patron saw  him the next day with his girlfriend at the beach. 💔 So the dancers perform on stage and then go around for tips.  The rest of the time dancers are talking up customers for privates and tips.  I will back tonight for a couple of the dancers.  
 
Wet Bar - Similar vibe, but much smaller bar, but brighter.  It has an 80’s feel to it.  Dancers are similar to Club 69, but more agreesive.  Again, just hold your ground and say no thanks.  Most of them understand at least some english, so it isn’t too hard to talk.I did a private with someone who looked like Timotheé Chalamet.  Only more muscular.  This is where the privates differ from Canada.  You pay for the room $500 pesos (about $25 US) for ten minutes. The dancer gets naked and you can touch him around the body, but nothing sexual.  If you give the dancer another $500 pesos, then you get to interact more like a lap dance.  I did have fun teaching him some lap dance moves like breathing into the customers ear and talking dirty while playing with him.   Again there are prices for everything.  They are open to receiving blowjobs, but they won’t give a blowjob without a condom.  They will ask if you prefer to suck cock or eat ass—which I found to be a little amusing.  Hot guys and prices similar to Canada.
Pervert - you have to walk upstairs to get to the club.  I walked in and was the ONLY customer.  I felt like a lamb that just walked into the wolves den. Of course, I was immediately greeted by 10 guys asking for a dance.  Wow!  I got a drink and had a nice lap dance with a cute guy.  Paid the host the fee.  This wasn’t even a private,but I’m fine with PDA.  I left after this dance.  I’m sure it’s fun once it fills with customers, just don’t be the first one at 10pm.
Antropology - Big disappointment.  Went in and very aggressive dancers. Not attractive by the other stripclub standards. These guys have seen better days. There were only 2 dancers I even considered.  One was beautiful.  He stuck out like a rose among thorns. Another was in his early 40’s.  Looked like a younger Armand Assante.  Didn’t stay long enough to have a dance.  Might go at midnight with more crowds. There is supposedly a sex show late at night but I didn’t stay around for it.
Still have one night left. The city is beautiful and the climate is perfect. Even without the clubs, this is a great city to visit when you need to get away from the cold. 
 
I’ll post more later.  If anyone has suggestions or wants me to check another place out, let me know.  I can’t promise, but I’m always looking for suggestions. 

At the airport ready to return to below zero temps🥶.  Highly recommend Puerto Vallarta to all who would love a trip with beautiful men and sunny weather.
We actually had rain yesterday with overcast most of the day.  But it was still in the 70s and it was nice to be able to not have to get shade erect few hours. This Minnesotan burns pretty easily.
Had a massage around 4pm from an extremely cute boy.  Normally cost $70, but I negotiated up to a happy ending.  After one hour, I was spent.  Should have done that at the beginning of the trip.  You can find places all around zona romantica offering massages.  
 
After a great dinner, I headed to the gay district to have a couple of drinks before going to the strip clubs. So much fun!  
 
I went to Wet Dreams first. Not as crowded as the night before and fewer dancers. I think they recognized me because they weren’t as aggressive.  Met a few people from the Midwest, who were there for a bachelor party.  Fun group and they kept the dancers busy.
I tried Pervert again.  Only a handful of dancers there.  Hung out on the balcony with two of them.  One was a newbie and I had fun teaching him how to do a lap dance.  
 
Finally ended up at Club 69.  Hands down the best club. I didn’t do any privates, but I did have fun with a few of my favorites on the couch.  
Already planning the next trip. It has everything.  Sun, fun and lots of hot men😜

I used to be pretty clear on this topic, thinking it’s just part of gay male neurosis because of how we learn about loving with our sexuality. As young boys we hide our feelings and don’t have healthy models of his to love people to whom we are attracted. So our “crushes” are hit or miss - falling for unavailable guys, “straight” guys, or o sensing over other gay guys who have made clear they are not attracted to us in the same way that we are attracted to them. 
However, I’ve come to the realization that straight men, those who “identify” and those are actually straight, are just people who, like us before, do not have words to explain what they are going through, models to follow, or clear ways to express their own attraction. Currently, a straight man who I am in love with but I know I can’t be with loves me incredibly deeply. He is not sexually attracted to me but he is emotionally attracted to me. We are very close friends and he likes to see me be pleasured by being with him, even though he does not get sexually aroused by my arousal. However, he loves to “perform” sexually with me because he knows how much I love him and he wants me to be happy and to enjoy myself by enjoying him. (No, he does not receive money from me nor do I pay his bills or anything of that nature.  We met at a gay club where he was a dancer. But we’ve known each other for six years and we’ve grown to be friends.) 
So I don’t have the answer to it all. I just am coming to a deeper understanding that people are people. And just like I don’t want to be categorized and put into a box, I don’t need to do that to anyone else either. So, if we truly want to allow love to win, I think we need to let each person “love” how they love.  
 
 

I used to be pretty clear on this topic, thinking it’s just part of gay male neurosis because of how we learn about loving with our sexuality. As young boys we hide our feelings and don’t have healthy models of his to love people to whom we are attracted. So our “crushes” are hit or miss - falling for unavailable guys, “straight” guys, or o sensing over other gay guys who have made clear they are not attracted to us in the same way that we are attracted to them. 
However, I’ve come to the realization that straight men, those who “identify” and those are actually straight, are just people who, like us before, do not have words to explain what they are going through, models to follow, or clear ways to express their own attraction. Currently, a straight man who I am in love with but I know I can’t be with loves me incredibly deeply. He is not sexually attracted to me but he is emotionally attracted to me. We are very close friends and he likes to see me be pleasured by being with him, even though he does not get sexually aroused by my arousal. However, he loves to “perform” sexually with me because he knows how much I love him and he wants me to be happy and to enjoy myself by enjoying him. (No, he does not receive money from me nor do I pay his bills or anything of that nature.  We met at a gay club where he was a dancer. But we’ve known each other for six years and we’ve grown to be friends.) 
So I don’t have the answer to it all. I just am coming to a deeper understanding that people are people. And just like I don’t want to be categorized and put into a box, I don’t need to do that to anyone else either. So, if we truly want to allow love to win, I think we need to let each person “love” how they love.  
 
 

Oh now you're playing coy and hard to get! And I thought you said I'd be hard to forget...

Clearly...I am NOT a lady as I don't care where the action happens! I'll take it wherever I can get it! haha
Fun seeing you in LA Coolwave!