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+ Drew Collins reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Is "happy ending (or more)" expected when hiring a masseur?
Yes, always expect oral sex and touching of genitals during a massage. If you don't receive these, report the masseur or massage establishment to the State Massage Board immediately, complaining that you WEREN'T provided sex.
Disclaimer to Generation Z: The above was sarcasm.
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from + APPLE1 in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?
For my own personal growth, learning/understanding/internalizing that....."No."....is a complete sentence.
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+ Drew Collins reacted to + nycman in What is the appeal of “daddies?”
Daddies are warm, caring, gentle, established, confident, supportive, experienced, fun, adventurous…what’s not to like?
Sound like most the losers you meet in WeHo on a Friday night?
No?…..that’s the point.
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from + purplekow in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?
For my own personal growth, learning/understanding/internalizing that....."No."....is a complete sentence.
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from BSR in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?
For my own personal growth, learning/understanding/internalizing that....."No."....is a complete sentence.
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from wsc in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?
For my own personal growth, learning/understanding/internalizing that....."No."....is a complete sentence.
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+ Drew Collins reacted to + purplekow in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?
How to say "no" nicely and forcefully.
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from Pd1_jap in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA
"Added to cart," for my next Los Angeles excursion!! Damn that boy is cute.
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from + PhileasFogg in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA
"Added to cart," for my next Los Angeles excursion!! Damn that boy is cute.
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from mrkileen in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA
"Added to cart," for my next Los Angeles excursion!! Damn that boy is cute.
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+ Drew Collins reacted to + PhileasFogg in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA
Shared with his permission. This morning in New Orleans!
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+ Drew Collins reacted to pubic_assistance in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA
Because they all measure their cock from the tip, back to their asshole. 😆 Everyone claims to be 8 inches.
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+ Drew Collins reacted to + Jamie21 in Toxic Providers
No I don’t agree. Some guys are really anxious to go to a bath house (sauna) alone. They want someone to go with who will show them how to behave there and who they can walk around with to get comfortable.
If you’re exploring your sexuality or if you’re not conventionally good looking (or you think you aren’t attractive) then bath houses can be intimidating. It’s therefore helpful to have someone who will accompany you and spend time with you there to build your confidence. I’ve arranged quite a lot of sessions at bath houses with my clients. It’s sometimes to take someone who’s never been, sometimes it’s to help guys who want to have sex in public but who want to do it with someone they are attracted to, sometimes it’s to pretend I’m their boyfriend.
I think in @ThrowawayAccount’s situation he didn’t get a very empathetic provider. He was clearly too anxious and it seems like there wasn’t much communication between the two of them about expectations. Someone with more patience and understanding would probably have behaved differently to him. It’s a lesson for guys hiring: choose carefully. I’ve had a few clients who seem to be far too anxious to relax despite me trying to help. I think some of these guys are still trying to work out things and they have misguided ideas about sex. They don’t need an encounter with a sex worker at that point, they need a counsellor or someone to help them get over the issues they have about their sexuality.
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+ Drew Collins reacted to BaronArtz in Escorts Say the Darndest Things
I like that actually. There is truth in that ...
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from DunwoodyGuy in NYC Newbie: HazelGold
I gotta say, that black mask pic is really doing it for me.... 😈
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+ Drew Collins reacted to + BOZO T CLOWN in Victor - All American Muscle Jock in New York
Victor is young, white, handsome (though Bozo not a fan of the facial hair), blue eyes, muscular, smooth, with an 8-inch weiner, and a body is not draped in idiotic tattoos. And he is gay4real NOT gay4pay.
The world is his oyster. He can afford to be selective in choosing his clients, not responding to every text, and seeking out "generous" men.
If he is successful using this business model, kudos to him!
BTC
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+ Drew Collins reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in The demise of kindness and respect?
I suggest reading this post in the Lounge:
The title alone is a good reminder to always behave like a Gentleman in this gentlemanly hobby
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+ Drew Collins reacted to Rod Hagen in The demise of kindness and respect?
Wanted to take a beat and faun over you. Had I been able to travel more than a couple nights with any of my clients, nothing would have made me feel more grateful than a trip to Iceland, a country I love. Without family money, it's Impossible for a young man to visit Iceland on his own, it makes Japan look inexpensive (it's not). But bringing along your young escort-friend to that remarkable place, that's beyond generous. Good on you.
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+ Drew Collins reacted to JimmyS in 411 LukasNYC
Here was the thread from months ago discussing "Victor":
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+ Drew Collins reacted to + EVdude in Anyone try out JT from Masseurfinder?
Been around a long time. Goes by Tate or Tatem. Very mixed reviews. Search 42199 and more will come besides this:
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+ Drew Collins reacted to + Jamie21 in Advertisers getting testy with lurkers.
I see guys regularly checking out my profile, not daily but very often, and they never make contact to book or ask questions. It is strange but I don’t mind. There’s pictures of me all over the web so I guess some people look at those too so why should I be bothered by regular visits to my advertising? I think it’s probably guys who are building up to booking. If hiring a guy is new to you, and if you’re also new to being with a guy, maybe you’re exploring your sexuality then it can take a lot of courage to build up to making contact. I like helping those kind of clients so I’ll not do anything to discourage them.
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+ Drew Collins got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in 411 on Vladla in Los Angeles visiting San Diego
Oh how I heart my friends here in the forum! 👏
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+ Drew Collins reacted to pubic_assistance in % of clients who are straight
Not "straight" here...but this is how it is for me and my wife. We are both bisexual and have an understanding that extra curricular same-sex activity allows us to satisfy our diverse sexual interests but engaging in outside heterosexual activity would feel like "cheating". I realize this sounds a little fucked up, and maybe the logic is difficult to understand but we BOTH feel strongly about the matter. And we both (to the best of my knowledge) have always respected that agreement since we married 20 years ago.
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+ Drew Collins reacted to jackcali in % of clients who are straight
I think situational horniness is more prevalent than just in jail. When I was in a geographically isolated prep school (back in the Truman administration), I'd venture that most roommates frequently jerked off together and often gave each other a hand, so to speak. I'd also venture that half of them sucked their roommate's dick from time to time (sometimes infrequently, sometimes daily or more). Nobody thought it was gay or embarrassing, though it was rarely spoken about. Only anal was gay. The joke we used to tell each other was "How do you know your roommate is gay? Because his dick tastes like shit."