Reputation from simongayx - The Company of Men

simongayx reacted to Jasperson in 411 on Colinformassage in Toronto February 25

I’m just back from my first appointment with him and it definitely won’t be the last. Fantastic massage pressure mixed with stretching and seamless sensual touch throughout.
I hold a lot of tension in my upper back and he spent a fair bit of time there with deep pressure without me even mentioning or asking. Also provided some great stretching of legs and arms, which was very welcome since I’m not as flexible as I used to be. 😅
He seems to be very popular - the influx of positive reviews isn’t fake or a mistake. I was his 4th client of the day. As we were chatting afterwards he mentioned being pretty tired, but it wasn’t reflected in the service he provided.
The massage was completed draped, but I don’t think he’d respond poorly to a request for no draping. He said he enjoys the comfort of being draped when he gets massages, so it’s just his default. I was quite cold from walking to his place so it wasn’t unpleasant and it didn’t inhibit any part of the massage.

simongayx reacted to jeezifonly in Red flags to lookout for February 23

As I hire massage/playtime combo (pay higher rate) my no-go's are few.
•Can't host.
•No table.
•Deposit
•Sketchy Parking/Neighborhood
•PNP
•Lack of massage training and experience. (I've been looking at RMsr/MF for years, so I have an idea how new they are)

simongayx reacted to IlyaRosanov in Red flags to lookout for February 23

Things most of us consider a “hard-pass” to new masseurs
I’ve seen a ton of new ads and a lot of these guys still haven’t figured it out. I’ll start the list of immediate red flags 🚩 for massage therapists to hopefully take note:
1. Your massage rates start at $200…or $195…we see what you’re trying to do here…
2. You don’t have a photo of your table and setup (if offering incall)…
3. You use those medical disposable paper covers on your table instead of sheets…
4. You offer a 30-min massage…
5. You require a deposit to book…
6. If you advertise on RentMasseur, you use corny names/slogans, “9incher”, “deepdestroyer”, “latinpapi”. We instantly know you have zero massage skills…
7. Your photos are from the 1990’s and we can tell…
8. You listed your age as 35 fifteen years ago and you’re miraculously still 35 today…
9. You have a long menu of detailed different options with multiple different prices…
10. You have only body shots and no face photos…
11. All of your rates are listed as “ask” instead of the actual rate…

simongayx reacted to jackcali in How much personal real-life information do you share? February 21

This is close to my behavior, but I'm even more cautious. Accurate stats are something the provider is entitled to know before agreeing to a session, but I use a burner phone and don't reveal my name or any other details until we meet. Then, if I feel comfortable, I'll share my real first name (which is a common one) and a few details about my life (the industry I work in, the part of town I live in, etc.) but I may fuzz up the latter details. And I'm happy to talk about my younger days or my interests or other information that doesn't reveal my identity. I've seen providers regularly for a couple of years without sharing any identifying information about myself.
The reason I am so cautious about sharing this information is not because I think I can't trust the provider but because I can't KNOW that I can trust the provider. I worry about and overthink everything, so if a provider had what I think is too much identifying information about me, I would start to see them as a potential threat. That ruins the relationship from my perspective. I realize that that is all about me and not the provider and that it may border on the paranoid, but I live close to that border.

simongayx reacted to ShortCutie7 in How much personal real-life information do you share? February 21

Prior to meeting, I never share my phone number or picture, but do share my real first name and accurate stats.
While meeting, I do pretty quickly feel comfortable sharing any relevant information in our conversation. I won’t divulge the name of the place I work, but I will share what industry it’s in, what other industries I’m in, etc.

simongayx reacted to DunwoodyGuy in What’s mutual touch to you? February 18

Over many years, I've developed a sensitivity to allowing mutual touch to be, well, mutual. In other words, I try not to get grabby right off the bat, and allow myself to relax and let the masseur do what it is he does well. If I've chosen someone who has a good reputation and I like the way he describes his massage and I like his reviews and any communication with him, I'm intrigued to experience what HE does. I always try to choose someone who can combine therapeutic techniques with sensual and erotic touch. I try not to choose someone who is therapeutic only--OR someone who has no therapeutic skills at all and is using the massage as a means of finding escort clients. No offense to escorts--some of my best friends are or have been escorts. But I'm looking for guys who have developed their individual ways of combining massage with sensuality and eroticism.
So here's what I do--and what I DON'T do: I generally try NOT to grab and pull or interfere with his rhythm and technique. As he massages my back, I let my arms hang down the sides of the table, but I hold off touching his leg until he's done serious back and shoulder work. I just breathe into his touch. That creates a physical connection between us that is entirely in his control. It establishes that I respect him as a practitioner. And he of course can begin to "read" my body without his touch being overtly sexually charged. Once that mutual trust and respect has been established and he can see that he's got me moaning and groaning a little bit, I let my hand touch his leg. I might give it a little squeeze, but I definitely do NOT grab it--I still want HIM to be in control of where on my body he's touching me and how the massage progresses from therapeutic to to sensual. Relinquishing that kind of control is part of why I'm there. I try not to break the spell he is casting over me. I also try not touch his dick until he moves it near my hand. But once he does, I touch it and maybe hold it--but again, it's touching WITHOUT grabbing or breaking the mood. At this point he's probably massaging the inside of my thigh, maybe between my cheeks, maybe sliding his hand beneath my hips, maybe touching my balls and cock. If at that point he presses his crotch near my head, I might break the spell a little, raise my head and suck him--but just for a bit, again being careful NOT to signal that you want the massage to be over and all you want to do is cum and leave. Remember--he's not a trick and he's not just an escort--he's an erotic masseur. He's also a human being with a lot of joys and sorrows. And he's had experiences you can't even imagine. It's like a dance--but you have to let him lead. He can probably teach you a helluva lot about connecting physically, sensually, and erotically with another man. Whether it progresses further is up to the two of you. As they like to say on this board, your mileage may vary. But if you travel far...tip accordingly.
All that to say that my advice is: Don't try to control it. Choose well. And allow yourself to let it happen.

simongayx reacted to Peter3333 in 411 on NicoSensual - Toronto February 17

I was chatting with him online about what services and donations he offers…and when I said my only hesitation was his photos seemed to be the same as a Franco from NY…he immediately blocked me. I think I dodged a bullet here!!!

simongayx got a reaction from BigDMike in 411 on Colinformassage in Toronto February 15

https://rentmasseur.com/colinformassage
I have been thinking about this guy for a while -- an informative ad, hot pics. Obviously a pilates instructor who does massage on the side, But, a couple of red flags -- first, he changed his name a few months ago from Max (why do providers do that?), and second there are a lot of 5 star reviews uploaded with great frequency over the last few weeks. So I am suspicious. If anyone has direct experience of his services, please DM.

simongayx reacted to Jasperson in 411 on Colinformassage in Toronto February 15

I exchanged a few messages with him and he was very prompt and pleasant in his responses. He’s very attractive and I’m tempted to give him a try. I became a little hesitant when I saw his rentmen profile since it states he’s a top (not at all a problem, but it does impact my fantasies lol), but I may still give him a go to see how the massage feels.

simongayx reacted to jrbjcr in 411 on Colinformassage in Toronto February 15

Here's his other ad
https://rentmen.eu/Wallinwoodspring

simongayx got a reaction from Harryinny in 411 on Colinformassage in Toronto February 15

https://rentmasseur.com/colinformassage
I have been thinking about this guy for a while -- an informative ad, hot pics. Obviously a pilates instructor who does massage on the side, But, a couple of red flags -- first, he changed his name a few months ago from Max (why do providers do that?), and second there are a lot of 5 star reviews uploaded with great frequency over the last few weeks. So I am suspicious. If anyone has direct experience of his services, please DM.

simongayx reacted to + 7829V in Massage Positions I’d Love to Experience February 12

In this thread, I’ll post some less common positions, usually better suited for more experienced masseurs, that I’d like to experience or that I’ve already tried and enjoyed.
If you have any feedback, or if there are positions still on your wish list, feel free to share.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUY4yXdiBCt/

simongayx reacted to 56harrisond in RM Reviews vs COM Reviews February 8

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