ApexNomad

I’ll speak strictly as a client—so I defer to the professionals who actually do this for a living, but I’ll say this: If you’re offering a service, especially one where people are paying you for your time, body, and energy, then you need to communicate why someone should choose you. Right now, this reads more like a fantasy than a business. You mention being turned on by the idea of getting paid, but from a client’s perspective, that doesn’t tell me what I’m getting in return. What makes you good at this? What’s your style, your vibe, your niche? Is it sensual, therapeutic, deep-tissue, connection-based? Are you intuitive, strong-handed, good with nervous clients? Etc. This might be a side hustle for you, but to a client spending real money, it’s not a side experience. So if you’re serious, advertise with intention. Let us know what makes you worth booking—beyond the fact that you enjoy it.

Good luck!!

When you’re not paying.

At any point did he offer to reschedule for another date and time?

They’ll be performing Waiting for Godot. Although, if it were a Bill and Ted play, I’d see that sooner than I would Godot.

Eye contact is everything to me!! It’s connection. It’s control. It’s presence. It’s chemistry. I’ve had partners who kept their eyes locked on mine the entire time—especially in missionary. I swear it made everything more intense. Raw. Animal. One guy used to cup my face and pull it back toward his if I turned away just to breathe—he needed to see me he said. It wasn’t just hot, it made me feel completely wanted. And his!

George Clooney played a role. Cole Escola summoned a batshit Victorian demon in a wig and made her belt. Broadway said: Lunch!

I thought the Tonys were strong this year. Maybe Happy Ending taking Best Musical and Purpose winning Best Play felt right. No major surprises — all the predicted winners were well deserved. Cynthia Erivo did a great job as host. Bring her back next year! My only wish? Let the winners speak longer. Those moments matter. https://playbill.com/article/tony-awards-2025-live-updating

IMAX = loud

Maybe the Paris or the Angelika to support the theater-going experience, instead of IMAX at Lincoln Center?

Every single provider I’ve ever been with has had a bigger dick than me. I can’t control that any more than I can control my height or my eye color. But what I can control is how I show up—and I’ve learned that comparisons, especially with hot stripper pics, just set the wrong tone. Even if you’re only pointing out one detail, people usually assume you’re saying, “This is what I look like,” and that never ends well. Just be you. That’s more than enough.

Holy shit! Who is this guy?

You’re seeing mission impossible on the big screen - in IMAX no less! I would expect it to be ear shattering. Maybe this should have been an at-home viewing experience?

I think what shows like Bewitched remind us is that identity isn’t always the lens through which we first connect with something. Sometimes we just like what we like—whether it’s a magical housewife, a talking car, or a gang of meddling kids with a Great Dane. That connection can come from humor, warmth, escapism, or even just the rhythm of a show that made us feel safe or seen—even before we understood why. Orientation might shape how we look back, but not always what drew us in. And honestly, that’s kind of beautiful.

I’m really sorry you were ghosted — that’s a shitty, disheartening feeling, no matter how common it’s become. But you’re right: better to know now than to show up and either be turned away or go through with something where the provider’s clearly not present or engaged. That kind of disconnection isn’t worth anyone’s time — especially not yours, or your money.

I’m intrigued but cautious. Kiss of the Spider Woman is such a layered piece. It’ll be interesting to see what Jennifer Lopez brings to the role.

Official trailer for Wicked: For Good.

One of my first jobs out of law school was as a public defender. I’ve sat across from people with no resources, no safety nets. REAL trauma etched into their faces. People living with addiction, disfigurement, abuse, and institutional failure. I’ve seen real pain. Real isolation. Real barriers to love, safety, and connection. So when a self-described hot guy with a big dick, full access to sex, multiple therapists, and the privilege of choice comes on here— for the third time with the same song and dance—demanding sympathy because he can’t find the right emotional click? I’m sorry, but I have very little sympathy left for that. I don’t waste on people who believe vulnerability should come with immunity from truth. I read!!! I’ve read this thread. The one before it. And the one before that. I’ve taken the time, as best anyone can on a platform where tone doesn’t always land without a face-to-face. And I see the pattern!! At the end of the day, Archangel, it’s an opinion. Mine. You don’t have to like it— but if it bothers you that much, take your own advice and mute me. And while you’re at it, take a moment to reflect on your own posts — the ones laced with judgment, anger, and bitterness. If you’re going to throw stones, at least make sure you’re not standing in a glass house. I also reject the notion that any of this qualifies as bullying. It’s called perspective. If this is bullying, the bar’s never been lower. And if none of us, his friends, or multiple therapists can help, maybe ChatGPT is the answer — though he already seems to be questioning that too.

At this point, I’d be less concerned about the price and more concerned about whether the guy in the photos is actually the one showing up. That’s what’s scary. Anyone considering it should definitely ask for a FaceTime. And honestly, at that price point, there’s no excuse not to accommodate.

The level of ownership and unbridled masculinity here is just breathtaking.

Stick around a few months… when he posts a fourth thread like this. He’s done everything except look inward. Same issue persists.

Quoting policy while leaving out the actual policy part—bold move. So… yeah. That’s not exactly “no more shots.” It’s targeted. It’s nuanced. It’s not what your original post implied.

When you say “more legitimate resistances,” do you mean the advice of your PCP? Because that’s what your original post was about—your doctor’s directive, not a general commentary. It actually read to me like: “My doctor told me to stop getting them, and I trust him so much I’ll risk illness or death. I hope I don’t regret it.” (I have no idea how old you are or what, if any, underlying conditions you may have—and that’s none of my business.) I was just trying to be a little funny, that’s all.