ApexNomad

Marcus is wonderful—kind, sexy, and the kind of man who makes you melt in his arms. He’s deeply passionate and approaches his work with unwavering seriousness. Intuitive and fully present, he has a way of making you feel truly special, as if you’re the only person in the world. With his gorgeous body and the perfect tool for the job, he’s great!!

Feels very a propos.

Since October 5… 2024! 56 days for me. Fair to say this site is important to me too.

I would guess his age is listed this way on RM due to the filter settings. If he used his real age, it could impact his visibility in search results for people looking for younger men. It’s a business decision. Age in gay years is like dog years—every year feels like seven. It’s a shame in many ways. He should be proud of his age and the experience he brings. By not being upfront about it, he risks disappointing clients who are expecting someone much younger when they open the door. Personally, I’ve always been drawn to older, more mature men. Even when I was younger, I gravitated toward the older guys.

If I were sad, alone and desolate… yeah, I’d appreciate his 11.5 inch cock too!

Agreed! This was beautiful!

Are you seriously saying there’s “no such thing as hate speech?” What exactly do you think calling someone “dirty f*****” is? It’s textbook hate speech—language meant to degrade, insult, and dehumanize based on their identity. If you’re not prepared to call it what it is, why bother posting about it at all?

What’s the fiber count on those shorts—zero?

You’ve had four or five great appointments with someone you’ve described as one of your favorites. Maybe it’s worth revisiting after the dust settles? If you trust him and you’ve developed a rapport, maybe it’s worth trying again? In the meantime, definitely explore your options. Happy birthday!

Thanks for the review. I often find it hard to separate such well-known actors from the iconic figures they’re portraying. For instance, when I watched The Iron Lady, I couldn’t help but see Meryl Streep playing or imitating Margaret Thatcher the entire time, rather than losing myself in the character.

Photos are definitely real. I’ve seen him twice—last time was about a year ago. I have no doubt he still looks just as incredible—this man keeps himself in shape! He’s a sight to behold: very masculine, alpha, and all muscle. When he wraps his arms and body around you, you’re done. I thought he was friendly, kind, and we kissed. Beer-can-thick cock and he knows how to use it. Recommend!

If you’re riding, you’re pretty much in control. And when you’re in positions where the top sets the pace and depth—if he’s really attentive and caring—you’ll find yourself taking him balls deep, even a massive cock, because you want him. And for those bottoms who clench or grip his cock when he leaves it buried inside, while locking eyes? Brace yourself! You’re in for an ass-pounding that feels like worship. 😉

I hear what you’re saying about valuing gestures of real support over just words, and I get how that sentiment comes from lived experiences where advice might have felt empty or unhelpful. But I’d like to offer a different perspective on this idea. Sometimes, it’s precisely when we feel like others can’t directly solve our problems—or when their support doesn’t come in tangible forms like paying bills—that we need to lean into the advice being offered. Not all advice is created equal, of course, but dismissing it based on whether someone’s materially invested in your life could mean missing out on insights that might resonate or help. We don’t always get the messages we need in the ways we want to hear them. Sometimes, those who can’t walk in your shoes still see a path you might not have noticed yet. And it’s not about someone thinking they know better—it’s about caring enough to offer a perspective you can consider, reject, or adapt to your reality. Advice doesn’t have to come from someone who pays your bills to be valuable. Often, it’s the people who can’t “do” much for us who end up saying exactly what we need to hear. Consider moving some of your frustrations offline, away from a group that’s mostly made up of clients. I offer my thoughts in that spirit—with respect for your experience and a belief in your ability to keep thriving.

Having spent over 25 years as an equity partner at an Am Law 100 firm, 14 of which I served as head of my practice group, before transitioning into private consultation, I can assure you that I personally handled consultations—free of charge—and never delegated such matters to paralegals. The General Counsel of a Fortune 500 company, when considering a law firm for high-stakes legal matters, is not going to reach out to a paralegal. They need to speak directly with someone who can grasp their business needs, navigate complex legal issues, and offer actionable advice. I was the one clients like the General Counsel would contact - by phone, by e-mail, and in-person. They sought my expertise, not that of a paralegal or first-year or mid-level associate, for that critical first conversation. No, my “dick” isn’t visible, but what is visible is my extensive CV and bio, showcasing my role as head of my practice group, and they reached out to me directly, trusting my expertise. It outlined my credentials: the schools I graduated from, the bars and jurisdictions I’m admitted to practice in, articles I’ve written, conferences I’ve lectured at, my pro bono work—qualities that encouraged clients to contact me personally, ensuring they received the highest level of service. My map? That’s my office locations, where clients can easily find me. As for reviews, I’m proud to be ranked on respected platforms like Martindale-Hubbell, Super Lawyers, Who’s Who Legal, Legal 500, and AVVO. These rankings reflect my reputation in the legal community. I can relate to the time and effort involved in inquiries that don’t lead anywhere. The hours spent crafting a pitch and presentation to secure representation are far from trivial. I’ve spent days, even weeks, preparing tailored presentations and pitching to potential clients, only to find that after all that effort, the client either chooses another firm or, in some cases, has already made their decision before we even had the chance to present. It’s the same level of commitment, research, and time investment. In this line of work, it’s about building long-term relationships, not just securing one-time transactions. And yet, despite all that effort, sometimes we don’t even get the opportunity to pitch before the client has made their decision. It’s frustrating, but it’s part of the process, and that effort often pays off when we land the right client. I respect and appreciate the decisions you’ve made that work best for you. I think it’s important to recognize that what works for one may not necessarily be applicable for all. Being open to feedback and considering a range of perspectives can offer valuable insights that lead to broader success. My advice? Seek trusted counsel from close friends and fellow providers—offline. I wish you much success.

Oops, this was outcall for him!! He came to your apartment. Okay, makes sense. That was very nice. I mostly do outcalls so I thought you took him to a bar or lounge. For first-time providers, I always proceed with caution and like to keeps things professional.

Beer is cheap, but his time isn’t. I’m glad he stayed beyond your one hour appointment.

Speak with your doctor or your a healthcare provider about your specific needs and concerns regarding PrEP. They can provide personalized advice, answer all your questions, and ensure you’re using the medication correctly. While forums can be helpful for shared experiences, they are no substitute for professional medical guidance.

That’s nice to hear you had such a positive experience and connected so well! Thanks for sharing the recommendation. Just a thought: since he initiated the idea of having a drink, it might’ve been considerate for him to offer to cover it, assuming he didn’t, as you mentioned buying his beer. Especially since that was outside the agreed-upon arrangement. Otherwise, it sounds like a really memorable meeting!

What was unusual about the meeting? Was it the pre-deed part - the wanting to have a drink with you first - or the session?

I see your point. That said, gay relationships aren’t without their own unique challenges. LGBTQ+ couples often face societal stigma, discrimination, and even safety risks, particularly when expressing affection in public. These external pressures can create stress that many heterosexual couples might not encounter as frequently. Even within gay culture, stereotypes about roles—such as who’s perceived as more passive or dominant, or who “should” take on certain responsibilities—can perpetuate expectations that limit genuine connection. These assumptions, tied to broader societal notions of masculinity and power, can create tensions within relationships that might otherwise feel more equal. At the end of the day, no relationship exists in a vacuum. Gay or straight, every relationship is shaped by personal dynamics, cultural expectations, and how the individuals involved choose to navigate them. True connection comes from challenging those assumptions and building something authentic together.

I’m the client! I’m not a provider. But to your point, similarly, I view my transactions with providers strictly as a business. Keeps everything professional.

Yes, same. To clarify, I never expect my regulars to accommodate my schedule—ever. It’s quite the opposite. I’ll still ask what works best for them, but they insist on knowing what works for me. My schedule is all over the place. I’ll share my availability for the day I’m looking at, and they just make it happen.

There is a correlation between higher STD rates and the South, particularly in red states below the 40-degree latitude. A combination of factors, including limited access to comprehensive sex education, higher poverty rates, and fewer sexual health resources (testing, etc.) all play a role. Cultural attitudes in some areas may discourage open discussions about sexual health, leading to lower condom usage, failure to get tested, and inadequate use of available medication, all of which contribute to higher STD transmission rates.

It’s the neck tattoo that I could do without. But if he’s happy, I’m happy… and I know he can make me happy. 😂

I think there’s definitely an element of attraction between young bottoms and mature older daddy top. There’s the sense of safety, emotional and financial security, physical protection, and even the appeal of intelligence and experience. It creates a dynamic that can be incredibly fulfilling and comforting for both sides.