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ALL lights will now be dimmed for Creel (and for Bailey and Smith too). About time! 👏 https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/lifestyle/arts/broadway-dim-all-theater-lights-gavin-creel-maggie-smith-adrian-bailey-after-outcry-1236028707/

I never said I’m God—if I were, I’d be out here performing miracles instead of debating refund policies for orgasms! And just to clarify, I never called him a liar. My point is that while some providers might offer money-back guarantees, intimacy is subjective. You can’t just say, ‘Oops, didn’t get to three orgasms, can I have my money back?’ That’s like returning a toaster because it didn’t make the perfect toast! I’m actually defending BWC here. Just because you didn’t hit multiple orgasms or taken to “new heights” doesn’t mean you’re entitled to a refund, IMO. But if you think you are, then maybe you’re right… maybe you are entitled! If you’re comfortable asking for it, more power to you! I just think it’s unrealistic. The provider puts in time and effort, and treating an intimate experience like a product return feels la la land to me. Even the worst providers still get their money from me in full!

I hear you, and it’s great you trust the reviews, and I hope you have an amazing time!! A ‘money-back guarantee’ on something as subjective as pleasure is tricky. Everyone’s body is different, and no provider can promise to take you to ‘new heights.’ If he delivers, great—but expecting a refund as you put it if it doesn’t blow your mind seems unfair to HIM. And honestly, how would that even go? ‘Hey, I didn’t orgasm three times, can I get a refund?’ It’s awkward and feels off. He’s still offering a service. Pleasure is personal, and no provider can guarantee you’ll hit some magic number of orgasms. Expecting a refund because it didn’t go exactly as planned feels super weird to me. It’s not like you’re returning a faulty product—it’s an intimate experience.

I have no skin in the game here. Never met the guy, never reached out. I hope he’s everything you want him to be and you have an amazing time and experience. But under no circumstances are you getting your money back. Shit like that just doesn’t happen.

My interest is piqued too! Nice profile!

Every provider has their own business model and challenges; clearly, not all operate the same way. I hired a NYC provider who charged $500 for a two-hour minimum and only did outcalls for first appointments. I even had to pay his Uber to my hotel, despite both being in Midtown. It’s amusing how some providers expect clients to cover their travel costs when they’re literally in walking distance, yet they can be just as high maintenance as clients.

It is indeed impressive!

If he sent me pics of his dick like that and a slow motion vid, I think I’d be hooked too. 😂 In all seriousness, how so? How did he get into your head so quickly?

I think it’s great that you’re helping him build something he’s genuinely passionate about. Wishing you both much happiness and the best with the new venture!

Nice time. He’s got a firm, squeezable ass—perfect for when he’s on top. His thick, beautiful cock is rock hard, and he’s fully present the whole time. The sheer size of him on top of you or wrapped in his arms is just pure bliss. No judgment, but I do think he’s married. He took off his wedding ring before we got busy. That could’ve been a mood killer, but once he dropped his pants and started kissing me, I suddenly developed a very short attention span!

One of my biggest pet peeves is when I’m left guessing. If he has “ask me” boxes for position, orientation, or safety, just list it instead of making me assume. If he can list over 34 things he’s into, he can handle the basics. And if you’re on the fence about meeting now, less than 24 hours before a meet up, at least have the courtesy to cancel now in advance so the guy has a chance to rebook with someone else. One of the worst things is a last-minute cancellation without a valid reason.

There are many reasons why individuals choose to become escorts, and motivations vary depending on personal circumstances: financial independence and earning potential; autonomy and control over their schedule and clients; escaping economic hardship and covering significant expenses; a sense of empowerment through their work; freedom to explore and express their sexuality; the power that comes from seeing someone salivate and worship their body; or simply as a temporary solution while pursuing other goals. But at the end of the day, like most things, it all comes down to money. They do it for the money. Like any job, if you ask someone whether they’d do it for free, the answer is no. I had an escort open up to me and share that the impact on his mental health was becoming too much. The emotional labor involved, combined with societal stigma, led to anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem. Despite the significant toll it took on his well-being, he continued in the profession because, as he put it, “the money is too fucking good.”

I only know I’m paying a different rate for some providers based on numbers I’ve seen here for the same provider. Couldn’t tell you why: Frequency? Appearance? Reliable? Clean? Years? I don’t know.

Either Jon or Troy. Great kissers. Passionate, Invested in YOU. Professional. Goldilock cocks. They can show you a good time. Jon rarely checks RM chat - best to text him. He’d be my first pick. Good luck. https://rent.men/JonRamsey https://rent.men/TroyWebb

Boundaries and expectations need to be set—clear and upfront! This is YOUR money and YOUR experience. The fact that the provider knew you were a first-timer should have motivated him to go the extra mile to make you feel like the king you are, not to disappear randomly. His body language, like not wanting you to touch his arm while he sleeps, is bullshit. He should be checking in with you at all times to ensure your needs are met. Don’t reach out; he won’t give a shit about your feedback. Chalk it up as a learning experience and move on. The truly best providers go that extra step to check in afterward, which isn’t expected but is sweet, remembered, and makes you want to hire them again. If you decide to try again with a different provider, set those expectations from the start; it’s what you deserve!

Eddie Redmayne’s performance as the Emcee felt like Gollum trying to run a cabaret—clutching his “precious” spotlight while simultaneously giving the audience the urge to run for the exit. I’m curious to see what Adam Lambert brings to the role.

Negotiating a provider’s rate is uncouth—you’ll come off as cheap, which is far worse than any concern they might secretly have about your looks.

Any provider worth their salt will take the time to listen and handle you with care. The real challenge is finding someone who won’t see you as a time waster. Texting can be tricky, but this is your experience, and it should be on your terms. If you feel like sharing your concerns, do it—there’s no shame in being upfront. Providers over 35 tend to have more patience, so that might be a good place to start.

It’s bullshit that Broadway won’t dim all its marquees for Gavin Creel. He was a Tony and Olivier winner, starred in eight Broadway shows, and was key to the modern musical theatre scene. Dimming the lights is a one-minute gesture—a simple act of respect for someone who gave so much to the Broadway community. His death at 48 is a huge loss, and selectively dimming a few marquees sends the wrong message. Broadway prides itself on being a community, yet when one of its brightest stars is taken far too soon, the response is partial and inadequate. If we can’t honor someone like Creel with a simple, full marquee dimming, what are we even saying about the value we place on our artists and their legacies? It’s disrespectful, dismissive, and frankly, a disgrace. Do better, Broadway. It’s the least you can do.

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Agreed! Massive disappointment. At his price, I expected a lot more. He quoted me $500 per hour, but he requires a two hour min. So that’s $1K right there. Outcall only for first timers. So your place or a hotel. His quoted overnight to me was $4K, which he tried to upsell me if I wanted him to cum. Call me old fashioned, but I enjoy it when my partner gets off too. Even if I have to pay extra for it with a provider. If you want him to suck your dick, you have to wear a condom. I respect anyone’s preference. BUT would have been nice to have known that uncommon request in advance of booking considering he doesn’t wear one when you go down on him. Lesson learned. And he’s a clock watcher.

Agreed! Not at all someone I typically go for, but said wtf. Actually very sweet guy. Don’t let the tats fool you. And he will give you what you want. Recommend.