ApexNomad

Wow!

@marylander1940 right after my own heart!!! I posted earlier about how one piece PJs on a man are the sexiest…. And here’s the thead!! 🙏❤️

This is why men should smile more often. Simply breathtaking.

I agree that it’s not the provider’s job to police the client’s emotions, but as the professional in this arrangement, I do believe it is incumbent upon the provider to set and enforce clear emotional boundaries to ensure a healthy, respectful dynamic—even if it means ceasing the provider/client relationship. Why? Because for many clients, the provider is the fantasy come to life. For a price! You may be the best sex they’ve ever had or will ever have, the best cock they’ve ever experienced or will ever experience, or the best body they’ve ever touched or will ever touch. For many clients, you may be the only body they can touch, and only because they are paying for it. You are giving them your time, attention, and physical affection, and for many clients, that creates an emotional connection. For some, that would never happen if they weren’t paying. For a novice, it’s easy to see why many clients can become emotionally attached. Knowingly leveraging a client’s emotional attachment to secure recurring business crosses an ethical line. Emotional attachment should never be manipulated for profit. Ceasing future interactions when boundaries are clearly crossed—and knowing when the attachment goes beyond the professional—is a necessary responsibility and obligation of the provider to protect both parties and maintain a healthy, respectful dynamic.

I’m not sure, but if I got his, I’m definitely the disappointment of the family.

@Whitman this might be my favorite thread of all. 😍 Thank you!

To be honest, this wasn’t even on my radar until I read it here! From the poster, he looks nothing like the guy I remember from Schitt’s Creek. I hardly recognized him… then I saw him shirtless… with just a scarf wrapped around his neck… and thought, Christmas came early this year.

Yes, if that’s what you want, he’s great at that. NYC.

This is equivalent to a hallmark movie. They’re already pushing the envelope here by going shirtless.

Was this the Lifetime Original Movie Boyfriend experience?

Can someone enlighten me and explain what the abbreviation “CD” means in this context of his profile? Thanks! Maybe something UR community has shamed U for such as CD,chub,race,gender

I think it’s great that you’re exploring something you’ve wanted to try for a while. My advice—focus less on the specifics of “equipment” and more on the quality of the person you’ll be engaging with. You want someone who will give you a safe space to explore without judgment—someone who is respectful, attentive, and professional. Since this is your first time, it might be worth asking if you can have a quick FaceTime or video chat with him. It’ll give you a chance to see if he’s sincere and to address any questions or concerns. At 21, he may be professional and capable, or he may not be—it’s something you’ll probably gauge quickly based on your interactions. Ultimately, all decisions are yours. Go with your instincts, and prioritize feeling safe and comfortable above all else.

If I may ask, first time with a provider?

I wish it was that kind of holiday movie, but alas, no.

Is this true @RadioRob?

❤️

So true, Jean-Claude, so true!

I also see a young Val Kilmer in there too.