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Just so I understand this story—you’re saying the rate change happened while you were in the middle of having sex with him?

It’s okay to feel deeply—embrace your emotions without judgment. You’re experiencing something unexpected, and that’s a sign of being human. Take some time to reflect on what about this person resonates with you beyond their appearance. Ask yourself what you’re hoping to achieve with this connection—are you seeking a deeper bond, or is this a momentary spark? Understanding your intentions can help guide your next steps. If you decide to share your feelings with this person, approach it with honesty but without putting pressure on them, keeping in mind the professional context of your initial meeting and respecting their boundaries. Be aware that expressing your feelings could potentially end the professional relationship, and you need to be okay with that outcome before moving forward. While it’s natural to wonder how they feel, try not to overanalyze their actions or emotions. Instead, focus on how their presence makes you feel and let the rest unfold organically. Emotions can be powerful, but don’t rush into decisions or assumptions. Give yourself time to see if your feelings deepen or if they’re just a passing infatuation. Lastly, consider talking to someone you trust, whether a friend or counselor, to gain perspective and process your emotions. While emotions are complicated, they’re also a sign that you’re open to connection, and that’s something to cherish.

A fine actress and dedicated advocate. She was marvelous in Broadway Bound.

This is beautifully written—so honest, nuanced, and deeply human. Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful glimpse into your life and the balance you’ve struck.

I’d normally agree about being called “baby.” The first time it happened, it caught me off guard. But the man who said it was a Latin stud (English was not his first language), and for him, it was clearly a term of endearment. He also called me cariño, lindo, tesoro, and amorcito, and would whisper other things in my ear that made me absolutely melt. With him, he could call me whatever he wanted, and I can’t tell you how much he made me smile.

It’s a power dynamic that’s best initiated by the client. Simply listing it as a menu option is more than enough for a client to take note. It’s not typically something that’s widely advertised, to be honest. Clients who are truly into FinDom aren’t focused on small transactions like belts—that’s chump change. FinDom often isn’t something that happens right out of the gate with a provider. There’s usually a test period to determine if there’s a good match, similar to meeting with a provider for a few sessions before deciding on something more extensive, like an overnight. I’ve noticed a trend of providers in their early 20s listing FinDom in their ad copy, which often comes across as incoherent and paired with sloppy photos. Perhaps unfairly, I tend to dismiss it entirely as a joke.

I’m also loving the champagne glasses for new years. 👍🏻

As the older guy and his gay friend to his young, straight/bi-curious friend, I think it’s important to keep things grounded and not steer the vibe toward anything that could feel awkward for him. He mentioned feeling uncomfortable taking his shirt off, and that should have been respected as the end of it. It sounds like he really trusts and values you for the encouragement you’ve given him about his body and confidence. To keep that trust intact, focus on the great connection you already have. There’s no need to coax him into anything beyond what he’s comfortable with. Being a real friend and valuing him for who he is will mean so much more in the long run.

I’m not a doctor, and you should always consult a physician, but based on my reading and understanding, you’re correct that Wegovy and Ozempic are both semaglutide. The difference seems to lie in their approved uses: Wegovy is for weight management, while Ozempic is for type 2 diabetes, with different dosages depending on the purpose. That said, many people do lose weight on Ozempic even when using it for diabetes, as weight loss is a common side effect of semaglutide. There’s also some off-label use, where doctors prescribe Ozempic for weight management instead of Wegovy, often due to availability or insurance issues. Definitely double-check with a healthcare professional for the most accurate information. Best of luck to you!

I completely agree. FinDom is such a niche kink that bringing it up unsolicited to a client feels out of place to me. If it’s something a provider offers, listing it in an ad or profile should be more than enough—which I have seen many times. That way, it gives clients the option to engage if they’re interested without it feeling forced or awkward.

Today’s matinee and evening performances have also been canceled, but the show is expected to resume tomorrow. It’s clear that this production hinges entirely on its star. They likely fear that if Audra is out, most ticket holders will request refunds. Interestingly, they don’t seem to have a name-worthy star to cover for Audra, unlike Nicole Scherzinger’s understudy in Sunset. The situation must have hit the company hard to affect both the cast and their understudies. https://playbill.com/article/audra-mcdonald-led-gypsy-cancels-december-28-matinee-and-evening-shows-performances-to-resume-december-29

There’s not a whole lot of info to go by here, and I think the biggest factor is your location. Some cities will definitely cost more than others, so that’s something to keep in mind. Everything you’re thinking of is doable, but you might need to adjust your expectations depending on the budget. How many friends are you inviting? And what exactly do you want out of this party? If you’re leaning towards renting a hotel suite, you could hire a couple of escorts, but make sure they get along—ask one you trust and ask for recommendations. And make sure they know the number of guests. Keep everyone on the same page of what this is! That said, I’m confused about wanting to throw a sex party and also hire dancers/entertainers. If you’re adding entertainers, like drag queens, strippers or dancers, you’ll need a budget line for them too, and you’ll need to separate the acts, especially at a venue. Also, if you’re planning to have escorts and entertainers, make sure everyone is comfortable with the type of acts that might be performed. This right here may sound simple, but is not. A huge chunk of your budget will likely go towards entertainment. If you’re looking for music and a lively atmosphere, I’d suggest renting a space at an LGBTQ-friendly venue, but keep in mind that any legit place won’t allow sexual activities on site, and you wouldn’t want to do that for obvious reasons. Just make sure to tailor your plans based on what the venue will allow.

Findom, or financial domination, is a type of consensual power exchange dynamic where one person, often called the “financial sub,” willingly gives money or gifts to a “dom” as a way of expressing submission or loyalty. It’s usually part of BDSM culture and emphasizes consent and boundaries. There can be a non-sexual or sexual component added to the dynamic, but that’s entirely up to you and the participant to decide based on your preferences and boundaries. Clear communication and mutual agreement are key to ensuring a healthy and consensual experience.

I’m here for the man—all of him. You can bet I’m gonna squeeze the shit out of it.

Even better—my picks were tops too. There’s nothing quite like gripping a top’s ass while he’s deep inside you.

I thought Nicole Scherzinger was a lock for the Tony, but I think Audra (even though I haven’t seen her performance yet) is the odds-on favorite to win. She’s beloved, it further cements her history, and the role itself is revered among Tony voters. We shall see.

This is an unmitigated disaster—and a perfect example of why every man should just leave his penis alone. It looks like his penis took a dump.

For me, a great kiss is when everything else fades away—my hand on the back of his head, fingers tangled in his hair, pulling him closer until there’s no space left between us. Our noses brush as our lips meet, soft and deliberate, building heat. His breath mixes with mine, and as my tongue teases against his, I feel the connection spark. It’s slow, intense, and unrelenting, like we’re discovering each other one perfect moment at a time.

The best gift I ever received was a Pee-wee Herman doll. Instead of elf on the shelf, Pee-wee makes his rounds around the house. LOL! The best gift I ever gave, I think, was a small rubber goat that screams when you press it. Anytime my friend hosted a gathering, that little scream would randomly echo through the house—especially when things got serious. Always made everyone laugh. How about you? Happy holidays to you, and best wishes for a peaceful and prosperous new year!

I agree, but I also think that for some, not everyone has the opportunity to be with loved ones during the holidays. Family and friends may be distant, estranged, or unavailable, leaving some feeling alone. In those cases, seeking companionship from a provider, even for an hour or two, can offer meaningful human connection and ease feelings of loneliness. It can provide comfort and joy, making the holiday season more bearable for those who might otherwise be alone.

I’ve come to realize that lust is like my brain throwing a wild party, with testosterone and dopamine as the overenthusiastic hosts. While they can make things exciting, they sometimes forget to send an invite to good judgment. Understanding this chaotic celebration helps me keep my wits about me, even when my brain is ready to conga.

Love is indeed more complex than a mere balance of dopamine and oxytocin. Other neurotransmitters and hormones, such as serotonin and norepinephrine, also contribute to the multifaceted experience of love. Psychological, social, and cultural factors all intertwine with these biochemical processes, making love a rich and intricate human experience that cannot be fully explained by neurochemistry alone.

Merry Christmas to you and yours, and blessings and peace to you for a happy and healthy 2025! 🎄

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Agreed! It’s a business, and naturally, you wouldn’t be there unless you were getting paid. While the arrangement is professional and transactional, it doesn’t preclude the possibility of forming a sincere and meaningful connection. The authenticity of the interaction depends on the mutual respect, care, and honesty both parties bring to the experience. I believe that’s where and how trust is formed and developed. Which is why I’m sympathetic to stories of clients developing feelings for providers (and vice versa). Engaging in sexual activity triggers neurochemical reactions in the brain, releasing neurotransmitters such as dopamine and oxytocin. Dopamine, often referred to as the “pleasure chemical,” is associated with feelings of reward and reinforcement, while oxytocin, known as the “love hormone,” fosters bonding and emotional connection. In transactional relationships, where intimacy is exchanged for compensation, this neurochemical response can create a unique dynamic. The physiological effects of sexual activity may lead to feelings of closeness and attachment, even when the interaction is fundamentally a service. This juxtaposition can blur the lines between professional boundaries and personal emotions, making the experience very distinct from typical transactions. Understanding this neurochemical basis highlights why individuals might perceive genuine connections that go beyond the set boundaries in transactional settings. The brain’s natural response to intimacy doesn’t differentiate between the contexts of the encounter, potentially leading to feelings of attachment and significance, despite the transactional nature of the relationship.