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Anita Bryant’s legacy is a complex one—she caused real harm to LGBTQ people by campaigning against their basic rights, so it’s not surprising that many view her downfall as a form of poetic justice. But framing this as gays hating Christianity feels reductive. I would argue that the LGBTQ community doesn’t oppose Christianity itself; they oppose the weaponization of faith to justify discrimination. Christianity, like any belief system, can be practiced in ways that are inclusive and compassionate, or in ways that marginalize others. The backlash is against the latter—not the faith itself.

His tuxedo was literally on fire from all the flaming, and Kris was attending a chambers concert with his mother—that’s how they knew they were gay!!

Barbra’s memoir was overly curated, focusing on control and perfection, while Cher’s was raw, unapologetic, and full of vibrant anecdotes that captured her larger-than-life personality. Looking forward to part two.

My bottom ass enjoys watching two tops fight. 🔥😘

In another time, Barbara Stanwyck would have been a fascinating choice for Mame. While Mame is often portrayed with a certain whimsical flair, Stanwyck’s ability to balance humor with deeper emotional resonance could have infused Mame with a unique blend of warmth, strength, and depth, making her not only vivacious but also more grounded and poignant. She would have created a version of Mame that was both fiercely independent and deeply caring, with a complexity that reflected the resilience of the character, while still embracing Mame’s spirited joy and defiance.

I agree with the sentiment that it’s best not to be the one to initiate this conversation. If your masseur’s husband wants a threesome, it should come from him—it’s his relationship, and he knows how to navigate those dynamics better than anyone else. Another thing to consider is that you’ve already been with your masseur’s husband, presumably, without his knowledge. Even in an open relationship, that dynamic can get tricky. It’s one thing for them not to share details about what they do separately, but if you initiate the threesome conversation without that being disclosed, it could feel like you’re keeping a secret, and that might create unnecessary tension. This is why I’d suggest letting the husband take the lead if this is something he wants to pursue. It keeps you out of the middle and avoids any potential fallout that could harm your relationship with your masseur. Sometimes, leaving well enough alone really is the smartest move.

That really sucks, and I’m sorry that happened. You’re human, and you’re doing your best. In my opinion, it’s always so much better to give yourself the space to recharge and take a moment, especially in a field where intimacy—on any level—is being exchanged. Taking that time ensures you can show up fully present, and that’s what truly matters.

Sounds like quite the missed opportunity for National Geographic—and a loss for the rest of us. Clearly, some appendages deserve their own feature spread! 😉

Interesting profile. Handsome guy. Claims he doesn’t want time wasters, yet leaves three “Ask Me” boxes blank. It’s frustrating to have to ask questions that should already be included. No kissing. No boyfriend experience. Makes me wonder if he’s straight, but I hate making assumptions.

@Whitman you kill me with your finds! ❤️

Five languages, but somehow, the one most needed to communicate with the public remains a mystery.

This is the takeaway for me, and it’s so important. Patience really is a virtue. I’d rather a provider respond when they’re clear-headed than rush a response. There’s nothing more off-putting than reading a message that feels rushed, with misspelled words or signs of distraction—it’s clear they’re juggling multiple things. I can wait. When I’m working, people know they might need to wait for me, but I always make sure to respond in a timely manner, and when I do, they have my full attention.

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I really appreciate hearing this—it’s reassuring. I was very young when I first sought out the services of a provider. At the time, I was very naive, but I had a purpose and a reason for doing it. Now, at my age, with most providers being younger than me by a few decades, I’d be lying if I said the thought never crossed my mind: “I wonder if this man thinks I’m a loser or desperate for hiring sex.” “What’s wrong with you?” It’s a brief moment, and the thought passes, but it’s there sometimes. Judgment and shame are powerful forces, especially for men, who are often taught to suppress vulnerability and emotional needs. These feelings can create a sense of isolation and self-doubt, as if seeking intimacy or help makes us inadequate. But the truth is, there’s nothing wrong with being human, with seeking connection or whatever it is we need. What you said really resonates—breaking free from that judgment and shame is essential for healing, emotional growth, and genuine connection.

I can only speak for myself too, and can say I don’t either. In fact, I’m very grateful for you.

This raises an interesting issue about internalized biases toward transactional intimacy and how societal attitudes differ regarding it. Reversing the perspective—do you think some providers look down on their clients because they’re paying to have sex?

Around 1% of the global population speaks 5 or more languages fluently. Fewer than 0.01% of the global population speaks 10 or more languages fluently. The probability of someone being fluent in 16 languages is approximately 0.000001% to 0.00001% (1 in 10 million to 1 in 100 million). This makes it an exceptionally rare feat, achievable by only a handful of individuals globally. I guess it’s… possible. 👀🤭

Too young for my tastes personally. Other red flags I see too. But that’s just my opinion.

His profile does say “Toys,” so that explains the stuffed animals. 😂

I have no experience with this guy whatsoever, but I recall seeing this thread and pictures of the provider in sports gear who may be able to offer what you’re looking for. Some forum members mentioned in the thread may be able to opine, or you can reach out to the provider directly. Good luck. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/156044-nineinjock-near-nyc/?do=findComment&comment=2395918

God willing, I’ll still be here. And I hope that day never comes for you. Be safe, my friend.

A cock ring that goes around the balls can help with endurance by restricting blood flow, which can delay ejaculation and increase overall pleasure. The added pressure on the balls enhances sensations, making the experience more intense. A ring around just the shaft focuses more on maintaining a firmer erection. It’s all about personal preference. Try both to see which feels best for you.

You’re a glutton for punishment. Be careful with your heart.

Just make sure in advance the providers are into water play.