ApexNomad

I'm glad you didn't say, “… snips….”

Nothing makes me feel all warm and fuzzy than being flipped off in a provider ad—though I can think of much better uses for a provider’s fingers than that.

If the grief doesn’t kill you, the food will.

I can’t think of any providers to give or receive “benevolent BJs” for your exploitative website.

You’re right! My mistake. I meant to say Ms. Hussey. The thread was confusing. Thanks.

@marylander1940 @Luv2play Yes! Another reason is the cultural emphasis on portion control and slower-paced, more mindful eating in many European countries. Meals are often enjoyed in a social setting, where people tend to savor their food, eat more slowly, and have smaller portions. This contrasts with the fast-paced, larger portion sizes often seen in other countries (like here in the U.S.), which can contribute to overeating. Additionally, the focus on quality over quantity, with an emphasis on fresh, seasonal ingredients, also plays a role in healthier eating habits.

True. Yes, Dayle Haddon was indeed in Romeo and Juliet (1968) directed by Franco Zeffirelli.

Sadly the screen for some feels more real than in the flesh. Different generation.

It appears there were no carbon monoxide detectors in the old farmhouse — a senseless and preventable tragedy.

I relate to this juxtaposition and applaud you for finding those moments of vulnerability. My real life is similar: constantly assessing, high-pressure and very guarded. When I’m with a provider, I make a conscious effort to let that go and allow myself to be vulnerable. When it works, it’s very cathartic and, in my opinion, one of the greatest gifts a provider can offer—a space to truly be free.

Respectfully, I find this discussion to be vulgar. Who gives a shit!! Unless you’re considering becoming a provider yourself, this kind of speculation is unnecessary. If you’re curious, you can always consult someone in the field directly offline. Otherwise, it’s really none of anyone’s business—just like no one is asking you how much you make. As I understood Kevin Slater’s chart, it was simply a breakdown of client dynamics (new vs. regulars), not an invitation to calculate hypothetical earnings. When it comes to money, the only part of a provider’s finances that concerns me is what he’s charging me. How he spends it or how much he makes is none of my business.

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@Whitman Do you know, by chance, if he’s a porn star? Happy new year, and thank you for all your posts! 😊

Wow, someone’s New Year’s resolution isn’t patience, I see. At least the confetti lasted longer than your tolerance. Cheers to a sparkling 2025!

Sorry for your experience; there were so many red flags here. Your tolerance is much higher than mine.

Ray is a fine man and an all-around great guy. My experiences with him have always been professional and enjoyable. I have a strong appreciation for mature men, and Ray embodies that perfectly. His physique is incredible, and he’s been in the game for a long time—and for all the right reasons. I’m a bottom, and Ray (who is verse) is a passionate and attentive top. I’ve never had any issues with him getting or staying hard, and he never watches the clock—he’s fully present and focused. Truly, a Southern gentleman.

China is the world’s largest manufacturer of fireworks, producing around 90% of the global supply. Not surprising.

According to this article in Deadline, the understudies didn’t have enough time to be brought up to speed; no mention of illness. That’s shocking to me! ‘Gypsy’ Gets Grinched As Illness Shuts Down Lucrative Christmas Week Performances; ‘Wicked’ Soars Beyond $5M – Broadway Box Office DEADLINE.COM Deadline's Broadway box office report for week ending December 29, 2024.

@ShortCutie7 @jeezifonly Kelly Clarkson would indeed be a great choice! Incidentally, her talk show is now taped in NY, so it’s theoretically possible.

1. Emma Stone 2. Megan Hilty 3. Sutton Foster

I completely understand and respect that. For me, tipping is discretionary. There are providers who simply go through the motions, and then there are those who truly go above and beyond, exceeding my expectations. When a provider stays past the agreed-upon time or offers exceptional service, I feel compelled to tip as a gesture of appreciation.

Before I met my late partner, there was a chapter in my life when I explored various desires and kinks, one of which was FinDom. It wasn’t something I dove into impulsively—I initiated it after much thought and with someone I trusted completely. He was a regular provider at the time, someone who had always created a judgment-free, safe space for me to explore my boundaries. We talked extensively before we began. Trust and communication were non-negotiable for both of us. He emphasized the importance of setting boundaries and encouraged me to articulate what I wanted. We even established a safeword, which I never had to use, but it added an extra layer of security and reinforced the trust between us. Financially, I took steps to ensure that I could immerse myself in the experience without compromising my personal agency. I created a separate bank account with a specific allocation of funds tied to a dedicated debit card. This setup gave me the freedom to surrender within the agreed-upon parameters, while still maintaining control over the framework. This wasn’t about blind trust or exploitation—it was about crafting a dynamic that felt safe and empowering for both of us. For me, the experience also had a sexual component, which heightened its intensity. There was a dom/sub element that appealed to me on multiple levels, blending physicality with the psychological thrill of surrendering in a structured way. He didn’t simply make demands; he tailored the experience with creativity and care, using the funds to enhance the dynamic—whether by purchasing items that embodied the fantasy or presenting them in ways that deepened the power exchange. For me, it wasn’t about humiliation or exploitation, because there wasn’t any. There was only trust, respect, and mutual understanding. At the end of each encounter, he checked in each and every time to ensure I was comfortable and that the dynamic continued to align with my expectations. I always knew I had the ability to end it at any time, no questions asked. That sense of security allowed me to fully immerse myself in the experience. The sexual aspect was deeply tied to the power exchange. It wasn’t just about wearing the things I bought for him or fulfilling a fantasy—it was about him owning me in every sense. When he was in control, I wasn’t just surrendering money; I was surrendering myself. The physical and sexual domination intensified this. He would fuck me in the clothes I bought for him and in the clothes he wanted me to wear; or in the back room of a restaurant he’d closed out; or in a car we rented. And so on. It wasn’t just the act—it was about him taking complete command. His alpha energy was undeniable—assertive, confident, and all-encompassing. I was his, entirely.