ApexNomad

So let me get this straight—you were bothered enough to create a thread the same day you joined COM and post about being called a “dirty f*****” and warn people to avoid this guy, but now you’re saying there’s “no such thing as hate speech”? That makes no sense! Hate speech isn’t just “speech you don’t like”—it’s language meant to dehumanize and harm someone based on their identity. And let’s be clear: the First Amendment protects speech from government interference—it doesn’t mean people can’t criticize or call out hateful behavior. Calling it what it is—hate speech—isn’t an attack on free speech; it’s the exercise of it. Maybe spend less time throwing out insults and more time learning how rights work—and maybe why you’re so confused about your own outrage.

Have fun… I’ll say a prayer for your hole!

Men need to smile more!

I didn’t realize there were videos—I had to skim through over 20 Speedo photos. Do you recommend him?

@Lucky I want you to know that you’re not alone in feeling this sadness and frustration. Living through the AIDS epidemic was a time of unimaginable horror and heartbreak, and it’s sad to see how those memories fade from collective consciousness, especially when the passage of time dulls the urgency for those not directly impacted. But for those of us who lived through it, the weight of those experiences remains with us, and it’s important we continue to remember. @mike carey Your words beautifully capture the importance of keeping these memories alive and honoring the collective and personal experiences of those affected. I feel the sadness and weight of this history alongside you and others here, and I appreciate your thoughtful effort to highlight this. It’s vital that we continue to speak about and share what we lived through, so that it’s not forgotten, and that those we lost are always remembered. Remembering isn’t just about looking back—it’s also about honoring the courage and resilience of those who came before us, ensuring their legacy continues to inspire and educate future generations. Spaces like this, along with organized efforts within our community, offer a chance for us to share, reflect, and support each other in keeping these memories alive.

I saw Wicked today and thoroughly enjoyed it. I was quite impressed and consider it one of the best stage-to-screen transfers. My only quibble was the extensive dialogue breaks during the Defying Gravity number—they really disrupt the momentum of that song!

That is what has struck me about this forum, which I really appreciate. Thank you again! I also neglected to extend my thanks earlier to @56harrisond; I’d be remiss not to acknowledge his posts as well. I’ve enjoyed them all!

This is one of my favorite angles in porn.

His eyes aren’t just something to look at—they’re something to drown in, endless and overwhelming, like diving into an ocean you never want to surface from. His face, solid and safe, carries a kind of handsome that feels timeless, the kind that anchors you, a quiet strength framed by the rough beauty of his scruffy beard and broad features. He’s the kind of man who makes your pulse trip over itself, leaving you unsteady in the best way.

No experience with him. My suggestion would be to reach out and get a feel for yourself if his profile interests you. The clean-shaven photos seem to be from about a year ago. His ad copy is thoughtful and appealing, especially if that setup and connection align with your hopes for the encounter. That said, the tone of the ad feels more mature than I’d expect from someone his age, which is why a quick chat might help. See if his vibe matches, and don’t hesitate to express any concerns about timing upfront.

Megan is such a talent. She was an amazing Glinda! I enjoyed her in 9 to 5, and I’m looking forward to seeing her in Death Becomes Her.

It will be interesting to see how this plays out. The fee for entry has sparked backlash from the Catholic Church, which argues that charging for access to a religious space contradicts the values of accessibility and inclusivity. The issue is further complicated by France’s 1905 law on secularism, which prohibits charging for visits to religious sites. The Church has also raised concerns about the difficulty of distinguishing between tourists and worshippers, a distinction the fee would create. They argue that enforcing this could harm the cathedral’s mission to remain open to all.

All the time! I didn’t even know this existed until two months ago. Reviews provide a good baseline, but ultimately, I rely on my own interactions with the provider, their ad copy, pictures, and my gut instincts.

I just wanted to take a moment to acknowledge this incredible forum and everyone who has contributed to keeping it alive and meaningful. I stumbled upon this site while looking up the Neil LaBute film and was pleasantly surprised by what I found. As someone new here, I’m truly blown away by how special this space is. To all the moderators who volunteer their time and energy—thank you for making this possible. And to users like @marylander1940, @Whitman @Danny-Darko (and others whose handles I can’t remember), who fill my days with a variety of stunning pictures of sexy, gorgeous men—you’re appreciated more than you know. Thank you for making this community such a joy to be part of! Hopefully I’ll still be around in 15 years. 🤞

Marcus is wonderful—kind, sexy, and the kind of man who makes you melt in his arms. He’s deeply passionate and approaches his work with unwavering seriousness. Intuitive and fully present, he has a way of making you feel truly special, as if you’re the only person in the world. With his gorgeous body and the perfect tool for the job, he’s great!!

Feels very a propos.

Since October 5… 2024! 56 days for me. Fair to say this site is important to me too.

I would guess his age is listed this way on RM due to the filter settings. If he used his real age, it could impact his visibility in search results for people looking for younger men. It’s a business decision. Age in gay years is like dog years—every year feels like seven. It’s a shame in many ways. He should be proud of his age and the experience he brings. By not being upfront about it, he risks disappointing clients who are expecting someone much younger when they open the door. Personally, I’ve always been drawn to older, more mature men. Even when I was younger, I gravitated toward the older guys.

If I were sad, alone and desolate… yeah, I’d appreciate his 11.5 inch cock too!

Agreed! This was beautiful!

Are you seriously saying there’s “no such thing as hate speech?” What exactly do you think calling someone “dirty f*****” is? It’s textbook hate speech—language meant to degrade, insult, and dehumanize based on their identity. If you’re not prepared to call it what it is, why bother posting about it at all?

What’s the fiber count on those shorts—zero?

You’ve had four or five great appointments with someone you’ve described as one of your favorites. Maybe it’s worth revisiting after the dust settles? If you trust him and you’ve developed a rapport, maybe it’s worth trying again? In the meantime, definitely explore your options. Happy birthday!