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Communication is key in these situations. It might help to talk openly with your partner about your feelings and explore different options like an open relationship or new ways to reignite the spark. Sometimes, working through things together can bring you closer. Ultimately, it’s about finding what works best for both of you. Personally, I’ve never hired an escort or had a side piece while in a relationship. I prefer monogamy when I’m committed. Every relationship is different, and it’s about figuring out what feels right for you and your partner.

It sounds like you genuinely enjoyed the time you spent together, and it’s understandable that you’re reflecting on the dynamic now that communication has shifted. Relationships with escorts can sometimes blur lines between professional and personal, especially when there’s genuine warmth and connection during your time together. However, it’s also important to remember that their friendliness is part of the service they provide, and they may have personal boundaries about communication outside of arrangements for work. The change in communication likely isn’t about you doing something “wrong” but more about him setting professional boundaries, either intentionally or because he’s managing his own time and energy. Escorts often interact with many clients and may choose to keep communication primarily focused on scheduling. To move forward and if you want to hire again, you could say something like: “Hi [Name], I just wanted to check in and see if you’re open to planning another trip or meeting sometime soon. If you’d prefer to keep our communication strictly about arrangements, I completely understand and will respect that.” This approach acknowledges his boundaries while keeping the door open for future interactions. It also signals that you respect his time and space, which is likely to be appreciated. If he doesn’t respond, it may be best to let it go and not take it personally. More than anything, try not to second-guess yourself or overanalyze the past. The connection you shared was genuine, but it’s important to remember that his distancing likely isn’t about something you did wrong. It’s more about his own preferences or boundaries, and that doesn’t diminish the value of the time you spent together. Focus on what made the experience special for you, rather than seeking definitive answers about his current behavior.

Not to interrupt this gorgeous thread, but seeing these stunning men in backward baseball caps has me reminiscing about my younger days. There was this one guy I used to see who was obsessed with baseball (Yankees) and couldn’t get enough of wearing his baseball cap backward. I used to tease him about it all the time, but honestly, I couldn’t help myself. His thick, curly hair was irresistible, and all I wanted was to run my fingers through it. The first time we were together, he kept the cap on, and for a second, I thought, are you serious right now?But damn, he was just too hot to care. And truthfully, nothing was sexier in that moment than him with that cap on. When it was over, while he was still inside me, he slowly took it off and gently placed it on my head, like it was the most intimate thing he could do.

I mentioned this in a previous thread, but I once met a provider who happened to be having a really bad day. He wasn’t in the right mindset, and it had nothing to do with me. We didn’t do anything physical that night—instead, we went to the hotel bar/restaurant, had some drinks, enjoyed a nice meal, and just talked for several hours. I really enjoyed his company. He insisted we meet again the next day, and when we did, he was absolutely amazing!

Which would be a shame because Norbert is a terrific (two-time Tony award winning) theater actor.

Just brilliant!! Not only does it make lowering and lifting the turkey (or lobster or seafood) easier and safer, but it also minimizes direct contact with the oil, which significantly reduces the risk of dangerous splatters. That daily show clip was hysterical. Looking at your genius setup, another thing I noticed (you probably have too), is that once the oil has cooled, you can easily strain it to remove any debris, making it reusable if it’s still fresh. The basket will help lift out any loose bits of turkey skin or batter, keeping the oil cleaner for longer. Just a thought.

For some reason, I think the cookies shipped from Levain taste different from buying in store. Have you noticed or just me?

The basket inside the pot is a brilliant move!

I thought Gregory Maguire’s book was brilliant in its depth and complexity. The way he reimagined Oz, weaving in themes of politics, morality, and identity, was nothing short of genius. That said, I think Winnie Holzman did an incredible job adapting the story for the stage. She took a very dense, philosophical novel and distilled it into something emotionally resonant and universally relatable, without losing the heart of the original. The musical shifts focus to the friendship between Elphaba and Glinda, which gives the story so much humanity. It’s funny, heartfelt, and still layered, but in a way that connects with audiences on a more personal level. Holzman found this perfect balance between humor and poignancy, and she created characters you can’t help but root for—even when they’re flawed. Some people criticize how much the musical simplifies things, but I think that was necessary to make it work as a theatrical piece. The political and philosophical undertones are still there, but they’re framed through themes like self-acceptance, defying stereotypes, and friendship. It’s a different kind of brilliance, and I think it complements Maguire’s vision beautifully.

So let me get this straight—you were bothered enough to create a thread the same day you joined COM and post about being called a “dirty f*****” and warn people to avoid this guy, but now you’re saying there’s “no such thing as hate speech”? That makes no sense! Hate speech isn’t just “speech you don’t like”—it’s language meant to dehumanize and harm someone based on their identity. And let’s be clear: the First Amendment protects speech from government interference—it doesn’t mean people can’t criticize or call out hateful behavior. Calling it what it is—hate speech—isn’t an attack on free speech; it’s the exercise of it. Maybe spend less time throwing out insults and more time learning how rights work—and maybe why you’re so confused about your own outrage.

Have fun… I’ll say a prayer for your hole!

Men need to smile more!

I didn’t realize there were videos—I had to skim through over 20 Speedo photos. Do you recommend him?

@Lucky I want you to know that you’re not alone in feeling this sadness and frustration. Living through the AIDS epidemic was a time of unimaginable horror and heartbreak, and it’s sad to see how those memories fade from collective consciousness, especially when the passage of time dulls the urgency for those not directly impacted. But for those of us who lived through it, the weight of those experiences remains with us, and it’s important we continue to remember. @mike carey Your words beautifully capture the importance of keeping these memories alive and honoring the collective and personal experiences of those affected. I feel the sadness and weight of this history alongside you and others here, and I appreciate your thoughtful effort to highlight this. It’s vital that we continue to speak about and share what we lived through, so that it’s not forgotten, and that those we lost are always remembered. Remembering isn’t just about looking back—it’s also about honoring the courage and resilience of those who came before us, ensuring their legacy continues to inspire and educate future generations. Spaces like this, along with organized efforts within our community, offer a chance for us to share, reflect, and support each other in keeping these memories alive.

I saw Wicked today and thoroughly enjoyed it. I was quite impressed and consider it one of the best stage-to-screen transfers. My only quibble was the extensive dialogue breaks during the Defying Gravity number—they really disrupt the momentum of that song!

That is what has struck me about this forum, which I really appreciate. Thank you again! I also neglected to extend my thanks earlier to @56harrisond; I’d be remiss not to acknowledge his posts as well. I’ve enjoyed them all!

This is one of my favorite angles in porn.

His eyes aren’t just something to look at—they’re something to drown in, endless and overwhelming, like diving into an ocean you never want to surface from. His face, solid and safe, carries a kind of handsome that feels timeless, the kind that anchors you, a quiet strength framed by the rough beauty of his scruffy beard and broad features. He’s the kind of man who makes your pulse trip over itself, leaving you unsteady in the best way.

No experience with him. My suggestion would be to reach out and get a feel for yourself if his profile interests you. The clean-shaven photos seem to be from about a year ago. His ad copy is thoughtful and appealing, especially if that setup and connection align with your hopes for the encounter. That said, the tone of the ad feels more mature than I’d expect from someone his age, which is why a quick chat might help. See if his vibe matches, and don’t hesitate to express any concerns about timing upfront.

Megan is such a talent. She was an amazing Glinda! I enjoyed her in 9 to 5, and I’m looking forward to seeing her in Death Becomes Her.

It will be interesting to see how this plays out. The fee for entry has sparked backlash from the Catholic Church, which argues that charging for access to a religious space contradicts the values of accessibility and inclusivity. The issue is further complicated by France’s 1905 law on secularism, which prohibits charging for visits to religious sites. The Church has also raised concerns about the difficulty of distinguishing between tourists and worshippers, a distinction the fee would create. They argue that enforcing this could harm the cathedral’s mission to remain open to all.

All the time! I didn’t even know this existed until two months ago. Reviews provide a good baseline, but ultimately, I rely on my own interactions with the provider, their ad copy, pictures, and my gut instincts.

I just wanted to take a moment to acknowledge this incredible forum and everyone who has contributed to keeping it alive and meaningful. I stumbled upon this site while looking up the Neil LaBute film and was pleasantly surprised by what I found. As someone new here, I’m truly blown away by how special this space is. To all the moderators who volunteer their time and energy—thank you for making this possible. And to users like @marylander1940, @Whitman @Danny-Darko (and others whose handles I can’t remember), who fill my days with a variety of stunning pictures of sexy, gorgeous men—you’re appreciated more than you know. Thank you for making this community such a joy to be part of! Hopefully I’ll still be around in 15 years. 🤞