ApexNomad

Yes, he offers erotic massages now. One of the best providers ever—and an all-around great guy!

Requiring a photo is a dealbreaker for me (assuming FaceTime isn’t an option). That said, I really appreciate that he’s upfront about it in his ad copy—it saves both of us time. As for whether seeing what I look like helps determine chemistry or attraction, that’s beyond my control. I’d hope that for a professional provider, it wouldn’t matter, but ultimately, that’s their decision. I will say, though, I’ve met a few providers who looked amazing on paper, but meeting them in person completely changed my impression—for the worse.

The St. James has the worst house seats of any theatre, and that’s with a renovation.

It’s true that violence shocks us into paying attention because it plays into our primal instincts for survival and fear. But if we accept that as a default, we risk normalizing it and reinforcing cycles of harm. The challenge—and the necessity—is to reject that reflex and instead operate with intention and principle, proving that meaningful change can arise from strength in restraint, creativity, and compassion. A system built on violence cannot sustain justice; only an ethic of care can do that.

See Wicked - better story, better music, better songs! You won’t be bored.

Our country is founded on the rule of law, ensuring justice is pursued through lawful means, not violence. The systemic failures in healthcare are real, and what’s happening is wrong. The justice system and other institutions don’t always get it right, but violence is never the answer. The stark alternative to pushing for reform and accountability through lawful means is chaos, where no one is safe, and justice becomes a matter of might, not right.

I’ve read plenty of escort horror stories on here—and I’ve had a few of my own. But rather than add to the pile, I thought I’d share one of my truly amazing experiences instead. This was one of them.

Quite possibly one of the best (if not the best) and sexiest threads on here!! Thank you @StLouisOct @marylander1940 and all posters. 🙏

Love the smirk. 😍

When people think of me, I hope it’s not the farts they remember.

I love any sound a cock makes.

Haven’t seen it. What didn’t you like about it?

This is a public forum—feel free to ask away! The worst that can happen is no one responds, but the best-case scenario is you’ll get a variety of answers and perspectives. Those can help guide you or give you some food for thought to use as you see fit. And honestly, we can learn from you too!

I always tip my regulars. I aways tip providers who go above and beyond in ways that genuinely surprise and touch me. I suffer from migraines. One night, rather than cancel, all I wanted was to nap, close my eyes and be held in the provider’s arms for two hours with the lights dimmed. I asked him to wake me up when the two hours were up and he needed to leave. About six hours later, I woke up—and he was still there lying in bed next to me. When I asked why he hadn’t woken me, he simply said, “You were sleeping.” He became a regular. And then later a genuine friend.

What do the other quotes mean? Are they also about the same provider?

'Facts of Life' Fans Think Lisa Whelchel Ended Reboot Hopes: What to Know WWW.USMAGAZINE.COM Lisa Whelchel, who played the posh Blair Warner on ‘The Facts of Life,’ has been suspected by fans to be the reason a...

I just love low hanging fruit from which to grab.

You’re absolutely right!! From a business standpoint, it’s important to understand the value you’re providing—not just the physical service, but the ENTIRE experience. Sometimes clients seek more than just physical intimacy, especially when they’re looking for companionship or emotional comfort. For example, I suffer from migraines, and one night (many nights in fact), rather than cancel or just because, I ended up just lying in the arms of the provider in a dark hotel room. There was no sex—just the comfort of being cared for. Many of these providers actually refused to let me pay them their full rate, but I insisted, because that’s not only how I operate, but I am paying for HIS TIME. In a competitive field, positioning yourself as a premium provider with a baseline rate that reflects your expertise and time is essential. If $250 feels sustainable for you and reflects the quality of service you provide, then that should be your baseline. But only you will know that! Setting clear boundaries with your pricing upfront is key because clients who truly value both what you offer and the experience you provide will respect your rates. Those are the kinds of clients who are more likely to return and appreciate the full value of the service. As a client, I always appreciate when someone sets their pricing firmly. It shows they value their time and expertise, and that makes the experience feel more professional and worth the investment. When I book with someone, I expect to pay what they believe their service is worth because that’s how I know I’m getting the best they have to offer. By sticking to your rates, you’re not only attracting the right clients who recognize the value you’re providing, but you’re also protecting yourself from burnout. The pressure to take on lower-paying clients just to fill time can be exhausting and ultimately unsustainable.

I completely agree with this! I have never, and will never, negotiate a rate with a provider. It’s bad form. If you don’t agree with their pricing, simply walk away. How can you expect to get their best work if you don’t respect the value they’ve quoted? Not only can negotiating affect the relationship, but it can also jeopardize their performance. Honor their pricing—and their expertise—and let them do their job. Even if a session isn’t to my liking, I’ve never haggled at the end. Never!

I hear your points and appreciate the context. My intention was to offer a perspective with respect and care. I hope you find fulfillment and happiness in your work—you deserve it.

How about option 3: Everyone has their own take on monogamy, and it’s not one-size-fits-all. For me, it’s a choice in a committed relationship because it aligns with my values and what I want in a partnership. If “enduring monogamy” feels like a challenge or a compromise for someone, that’s okay too—but it’s something that should be communicated openly with their partner. Everyone’s experiences and needs are different, which is why I emphasized the importance of open communication and finding what works best for both partners. When I’m in a committed relationship or considering taking it further, open and honest conversations are a cornerstone for me—not just at the beginning, but throughout. I believe in regular check-ins to ensure both partners’ needs are being met—not just physically, but emotionally as well. If I’m falling short in some way, I want my partner to tell me. I’ll never be offended by constructive honesty. What would offend me is if my partner didn’t give me the chance to address their needs and instead sought to fulfill them behind my back. If my partner ever feels that something is missing or unsatisfying, I want to know so we can address it together. Likewise, I would share my own concerns openly. That said, if I am unable to meet my partner’s needs and they want to explore those needs outside the relationship, I would absolutely respect that because I want my partner to be happy. However, for me, the intimate part of our relationship would cease at that point. My preference for monogamy is what feels right for me. In my monogamous, committed relationships, my approach to protection reflects that preference (no condoms.) Ultimately, I agree wholeheartedly that communication is key, regardless of the relationship style.