Decatur Guy

This website is basically one big referral system with some interesting side conversations. But the bread and butter is the "411 on ______."

This website is basically one big referral system with some interesting side conversations. But the bread and butter is the "411 on ______."

I have had friendship feelings for several providers, but that's about it. I have no idea if even that's truly reciprocated or not. I wouldn't expect anything beyond that. 

Kind of a side topic to all of this but to follow up on what Vin Marco mentioned about premium clients being taken a bit more seriously:

I'm glad to read that some providers recognize that, because I don't think most providers pay any attention to that or to our profiles on there. To the point I'm not sure most of them are aware of the option of reading up on the potential client. The main thing they seem to notice is whether I've looked at an ad or not. I'll sometimes get "thanks for visiting my ad" notices, which I assume are automatic.

But very few providers have seemed to read my profile or see the reviews I've left. It's a good resource many seem to skip out on, especially for providers who don't want "endless texting." I've been treated with skepticism when my profile indicates otherwise.

He's hot but I'm always a little bit wary of anyone who brings up findom. I wouldn't totally rule them out, but it smacks of wanting a lot and giving nothing. 

I’ve done foursomes for clients. All three of us providers are very professional and understand that it’s not paid playtime for us, although the client gets off on watching us perform live for him. It helps that none of us are in a relationship with one another. It keeps business strictly business.
We make the client the focus. We all grope him from three sides like a big group hug, and kiss, stroke, lick, and stimulate his whole body, frequently switching positions, roles, and activities. We involve all of us in any given moment, and of course the client is in the middle of all the action and calling all the shots when he feels like calling them. The rest is intuition and knowing what the client likes doing and being done to him and what he likes to see others doing, and we all lean into those things.
Another plus is taking advantage of all our individual strengths and talents and combining them. Yes, we may look a bit different from one another, one older, one younger, and me in the middle, but the beauty of it is diversity. The client gets off on the whole buffet, not just favoring and being distracted by the “hottest”, or youngest, or most hung, etc. The result feels more like 1+1+1 = 6. You could hire us all individually and enjoy all of the separate meetings (and this particular client has), but together it’s a massive, explosive experience. Worth trying at least once in your life.
Meetings like this I consider successful. If you’ve ever wanted multiple providers before but have concerns like those already mentioned in this thread, the key is to hire the right providers.  Professional men who ‘get it’, and ideally know one another, get along well, and have worked together before in a similar capacity. If they don’t know one another prior, they should at least have experience with similar arrangements.
When the client is spent (after a very long time of buildup), he likes to watch us continue and will still touch us and find pleasure in what we’re doing. It’s 100% about the client’s pleasure. The second he shows any wavering of interest we either stop or change to a different activity.
We providers can hook up with one another on our own time, if we wanted to, although we don’t. It’s not about us feeling good or getting off. It’s about client satisfaction. For us, it’s business. We’re really good at our jobs and we want to get paid fairly for doing it. And we do. Win-win-win-win!
I play well with others. As it goes, I tend to be the ‘madam’, organizing these types of meets. To be clear, this isn’t trafficking. It’s independent guys choosing freely to work together for an agreed-upon fee. Basically informally arranged contract work.
If booking multiple providers interests you, I highly recommend booking these things with at least a few days notice, or more if possible. Getting schedules to align and coordinating things takes time. Sometimes it all works out with little notice. More often, it’s not possible to arrange something on short notice.
If you’re in my area or if I am traveling to yours, hire me! If I haven’t worked with someone before, I am willing to arrange a consultation with the other guy(s) you want, to see if it would be a good match and go from there.

He's hot but I'm always a little bit wary of anyone who brings up findom. I wouldn't totally rule them out, but it smacks of wanting a lot and giving nothing. 

He's hot but I'm always a little bit wary of anyone who brings up findom. I wouldn't totally rule them out, but it smacks of wanting a lot and giving nothing. 

Kind of a side topic to all of this but to follow up on what Vin Marco mentioned about premium clients being taken a bit more seriously:

I'm glad to read that some providers recognize that, because I don't think most providers pay any attention to that or to our profiles on there. To the point I'm not sure most of them are aware of the option of reading up on the potential client. The main thing they seem to notice is whether I've looked at an ad or not. I'll sometimes get "thanks for visiting my ad" notices, which I assume are automatic.

But very few providers have seemed to read my profile or see the reviews I've left. It's a good resource many seem to skip out on, especially for providers who don't want "endless texting." I've been treated with skepticism when my profile indicates otherwise.

Kind of a side topic to all of this but to follow up on what Vin Marco mentioned about premium clients being taken a bit more seriously:

I'm glad to read that some providers recognize that, because I don't think most providers pay any attention to that or to our profiles on there. To the point I'm not sure most of them are aware of the option of reading up on the potential client. The main thing they seem to notice is whether I've looked at an ad or not. I'll sometimes get "thanks for visiting my ad" notices, which I assume are automatic.

But very few providers have seemed to read my profile or see the reviews I've left. It's a good resource many seem to skip out on, especially for providers who don't want "endless texting." I've been treated with skepticism when my profile indicates otherwise.

He's hot but I'm always a little bit wary of anyone who brings up findom. I wouldn't totally rule them out, but it smacks of wanting a lot and giving nothing. 

Yeah -- like if someone thinks you should be giving him $300 for just asking, I'm not sure that person would be very enthused about body-to-contact for an hour.

He's hot but I'm always a little bit wary of anyone who brings up findom. I wouldn't totally rule them out, but it smacks of wanting a lot and giving nothing. 

He's hot but I'm always a little bit wary of anyone who brings up findom. I wouldn't totally rule them out, but it smacks of wanting a lot and giving nothing. 

He's hot but I'm always a little bit wary of anyone who brings up findom. I wouldn't totally rule them out, but it smacks of wanting a lot and giving nothing. 

Maybe this will all catch up to me at any minute. But as of 4 p.m. ET Monday, I can still see full frontal in public pics. Private pics are still a thing in some profiles. And I can access videos. I'm on a premium membership at $19.95 (which is a recent big increase; I've also had an issue a couple of times with the credit card not going through).

And please don't shout at me in boldfaced, enlarged type. I'm just reporting what I can see at the current time and what has been happening in my account. I'm not responsible for these decisions, the mess ups at RM or anyone's frustrations over them happening.

Perhaps by tomorrow, it will be different on my screen. It's hardly the first time in the history of the internet that different people in different places on different browsers and on different plans see different things. 

One silver lining to this: Maybe it will force some providers to have more thoughtful and informative write-ups instead dashing off a couple of lines and then posting some pictures. I know this is a very visual market, but I value what a provider has to say equally with what he looks like. And I value the general photos as much as the nude ones. I realize I am most likely in the minority on that.

I pay the premium membership, so I've noticed no changes. And I posted a review last week with no issue. 

Maybe this will all catch up to me at any minute. But as of 4 p.m. ET Monday, I can still see full frontal in public pics. Private pics are still a thing in some profiles. And I can access videos. I'm on a premium membership at $19.95 (which is a recent big increase; I've also had an issue a couple of times with the credit card not going through).

And please don't shout at me in boldfaced, enlarged type. I'm just reporting what I can see at the current time and what has been happening in my account. I'm not responsible for these decisions, the mess ups at RM or anyone's frustrations over them happening.

Perhaps by tomorrow, it will be different on my screen. It's hardly the first time in the history of the internet that different people in different places on different browsers and on different plans see different things. 

Maybe this will all catch up to me at any minute. But as of 4 p.m. ET Monday, I can still see full frontal in public pics. Private pics are still a thing in some profiles. And I can access videos. I'm on a premium membership at $19.95 (which is a recent big increase; I've also had an issue a couple of times with the credit card not going through).

And please don't shout at me in boldfaced, enlarged type. I'm just reporting what I can see at the current time and what has been happening in my account. I'm not responsible for these decisions, the mess ups at RM or anyone's frustrations over them happening.

Perhaps by tomorrow, it will be different on my screen. It's hardly the first time in the history of the internet that different people in different places on different browsers and on different plans see different things. 

Maybe this will all catch up to me at any minute. But as of 4 p.m. ET Monday, I can still see full frontal in public pics. Private pics are still a thing in some profiles. And I can access videos. I'm on a premium membership at $19.95 (which is a recent big increase; I've also had an issue a couple of times with the credit card not going through).

And please don't shout at me in boldfaced, enlarged type. I'm just reporting what I can see at the current time and what has been happening in my account. I'm not responsible for these decisions, the mess ups at RM or anyone's frustrations over them happening.

Perhaps by tomorrow, it will be different on my screen. It's hardly the first time in the history of the internet that different people in different places on different browsers and on different plans see different things. 

One silver lining to this: Maybe it will force some providers to have more thoughtful and informative write-ups instead dashing off a couple of lines and then posting some pictures. I know this is a very visual market, but I value what a provider has to say equally with what he looks like. And I value the general photos as much as the nude ones. I realize I am most likely in the minority on that.

I pay the premium membership, so I've noticed no changes. And I posted a review last week with no issue. 

Good point but I guarantee you most potential clients don't read profiles and sometimes can't even figure out location, etc. 

One silver lining to this: Maybe it will force some providers to have more thoughtful and informative write-ups instead dashing off a couple of lines and then posting some pictures. I know this is a very visual market, but I value what a provider has to say equally with what he looks like. And I value the general photos as much as the nude ones. I realize I am most likely in the minority on that.

I pay the premium membership, so I've noticed no changes. And I posted a review last week with no issue. 

I'd play a $100 "fame premium" for someone I really liked. That's about my limit though. I've learned through experience the "fame" factor can disappoint and the "unknown" factor can delightfully surprise. I've thought about contacting him before but honestly figured he'd ask more than that and never reached out.

I'd play a $100 "fame premium" for someone I really liked. That's about my limit though. I've learned through experience the "fame" factor can disappoint and the "unknown" factor can delightfully surprise. I've thought about contacting him before but honestly figured he'd ask more than that and never reached out.