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Here's where I stand as client and this is my general routine/perspective: I like to have a little bit of pot before the session starts and have poppers during the session (if I'm bottoming or even deep throating). I will ask the provider if it's OK if I do poppers during the session. Usually they say yes. A few say no, and I respect that. I realize that for some people, the smell is too much even if it's not right on their nose. I won't inflict that on them if it bothers them. If they have really large dicks, I'll usually back out of the anal part, see if they'll bottom or back out of the appointment altogether. (That's rarely happened). If the dicks are just above average or average, I can take the fuck without them. And I'll add here I skipped poppers on Andrew Justice's request once and took a medium-hard fuck from his big dick and lived to tell about it! So it's doable. And I'll ask if it's OK if I do pot if I'm doing it during the session, and I'll offer to share. If the provider prefers I not do the pot, then I don't. Usually they join me in the pot if I do it at the start. I don't bring up pot if I'm doing it before we meet and it's put away. I don't do enough to affect basic polite behavior. I just find it relaxes me, puts me in the mood and makes my lips more attuned to a dick. I've pretty well quit drinking. I used to keep some beer and liquor on hand to offer providers. I've quit doing that but more out of laziness and dropping the buying habit than any opposition to someone having a drink or two at the start. Plus my regular providers rarely want anything more than water. I offer tops Cialis if they want to take one or two when they first arrive. About half say yes. I don't PNP with hard drugs. I don't want to get with a provider who is doing it during the session or just beforehand. If the provider does it afterward or well before, I consider that his business, not mine. I have hired people at times who list PNP as an "into" or mention it once in their ad. I'm not 100% consistent on that. A lot depends on gut feeling, the overall vibe of ad and contact and frankly just how horny I am. If the interest seems passing or they are more of "OK if you do," there's a chance I might hire the person even though I'd rather not see the PNP on there at all. I find that straight men are more likely to want to PNP. I've never had a truly bad incident as in things spinning out of control, but I have had a few times when the hard drug use by the provider beforehand definitely dampened the entire session. I don't rehire in those cases. I once had a regular who contacted me at my place zonked out of his mind after a bad PNP session. Because I knew him over a period of time and like him, I got him some help that day but wouldn't let him inside my place. He cleaned up his act, he apologized a few months later and we went on to several more very hot sessions before he dropped out the business. If There's some provider who does sTuff jusT like This wiTh capiTal T's all over The place, I don'T conTacT That guy To sTarT wiTh. ThaT's jusT asking for Trouble.

It's rather chickenshit and unprofessional to ghost/block you. But otherwise, be glad you didn't spend over a thousand dollars to find out they aren't into you. Better your ego get bruised than your wallet take a pounding.

In Atlanta, out-of-towners often charging $350 an hour. In-towners are more $300 to $350. But I still find. a few $250 to $300.

The meeting was held. And I was impressed. Definitely put me in the "do see him" column. He's friendly, sexy and even better looking than his pictures. Gorgeous eyes.

I am seeing him in an hour so I'll report back how it goes.

I see these as the building blocks of a good ad, though these are flexible suggestions depending on the provider and what kind of clients he wishes to attract (mostly geared to RentMen): PHOTOS: I'd say around 12 to 18 ideally. Make each picture count. Suggested breakdown: Face (if you're willing to put your face out there at all): 3 pics, with at least one smiling. Clothes shots: 4 pics, ideally one or two really nice clothes. A must if you're courting really high-end clients. Then a couple in casual wear. Shirtless: 1 or 2 shirtless shots with just shorts or underwear Tourist/outdoors: 1 or 2 shots in an outdoor/natural/tourist setting Underwear: 1 to 3 HOT underwear pics that give a hint but keep mystery Nudes: 6 or so nudes. Emphasize dick if a top or top/vers. Ass if bottom or bottom/vers. Equal amount if both. But even tops should give a butt shot or two. And reverse for bottoms. Rotate new pics in every 9 to 18 months. I'm OK with seeing a few pics from three or four years ago, but most of them should be relatively recent. Some pro/studio work is fine, but I'd like to see a few amateur ones, too. Don't do 100% selfies. Get someone to take some for you even if you don't get a pro. Some clients might be glad to help with that. VIDEO: Always nice if you have a few. It's always good to see a top in top action or a bottom in bottom action or a verse in both, if they're available. Very few people do this -- I guess for privacy reason -- but a one-minute intro voice video is a huge seller for me. But I realize that isn't a big thing for a variety of reasons. TEXT OF AD: Ideally, it's at least 150 words. These really short ones don't work well. Even if reading between the lines, possible clients should have a decent idea what you're about. Be straightforward and friendly. I really dislike not knowing if it's just massage or massage and more or just more. The ad should be in full sentences and spelling and grammar count. If someone has English as a second language, say so. A decent client will be understanding. Be truthful to the stats and change them as needed. Set a friendly and professional tone in the ad. It's fine to set few stipulations but don't get carried away with that. In the "likes" area, don't go wild there. Just check the ones you really like. If you're a total top or total bottom, just say so. It might cull the client list, but it will save time. AND sometimes that's a turnon to the remaining clients. A listing of "versatile" should truly be that. Use the #hashtags to good advantage with common words and spellings. Here's a possible ad that hits some of those notes above. Just change the details as needed: Hello and thank you for looking over my ad. I was raised in the desert Southwest but make New York City my home base now. I can do only outcalls in New York City, but I can do in and out while traveling. I am available for weekends and overnights with advanced notice. While I prefer a day's notice for hourly sessions, I can sometimes meet for day-of appointments. I'm a versatile top with a very strong preference for topping (but open to the right pitch for bottoming). I specialize in what I call the "aggressive BF experience" but I can go rougher or more gentle depending on what you like. You let me know and we go from there. Like to worship a man's feet? Head to the front of the line! I come from Hispanic heritage and speak some Spanish, but it's not my first language. I enjoy traveling, jogging and pasta is my food weakness. I present and expect clean hygiene. Payment is for time only and can be cash or _________. I can reply to RM messenger, but I might be faster with text. After we've established contact, I can usually do a brief phone call, especially when meeting for the first time. I enjoy all types of men, so don't be shy. I have 8 solid, uncut reasons why we should meet up, and you'll enjoy taking each one of them under advisement! I'll arrive with a smile and hope to leave you with one. __________________ Anyway, I hope some of that is helpful.

Client POV: First of all, it's great you ask clients their perspective. That puts you way ahead of the game of many providers. I was definitely nervous the first few times I did hiring. But I wasn't a newbie to gay sex, so that helped a lot. I guess I had a drink or two to relax, thinking back on it (don't drink now). But just enough for a buzz. I don't like to be too far gone for an encounter like that. I still get nervous sometimes meeting someone for the first time, especially if he isn't reviewed or is a particularly large guy (body size or cock size). But the nerves are just standard -- they don't interfere with the session. Sometimes I've had providers who were nervous, and I just try to make them feel unthreatened and take things at an easy-going pace.

Two current favorites in Atlanta. I'd suggest either one of them for people who enjoy a good top. I have a couple more guys who could develop into regulars/favorites, but they've got to show some staying power first. I meet some pretty cool guys at times who do this a month or two then vanish. DereksVisiting - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Atlanta, GA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Atlanta, GA - DereksVisiting: Handsome Latino-Asian Guy And JaySawyer - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Atlanta, GA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Atlanta, GA - JaySawyer: Let The Good Times Roll

Thank you. I was trying his current name.

I've done a search, and I don't see any threads on this guy. Seems like a great guy to me. Any experiences? He's based in NYC but visiting in ATL. StephenVersTop - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Atlanta, GA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Atlanta, GA - StephenVersTop: Young 🔥 passionate 🔥masculine...

I have had friendship feelings for several providers, but that's about it. I have no idea if even that's truly reciprocated or not. I wouldn't expect anything beyond that.

Isn't this going to be concern for any person you hire, not just this one guy? I'm mean, they're in the business of having sex. If PREP doesn't allay your concerns, see if a condom is possible. If not, take a pass and find someone who will wear one.

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I meet him recently. Class act and lots of fun.

I thought he had quit long before two years ago. It was a memorable encounter.

So I had a somewhat similar experience about 11 years ago. I was in New York and hired Tom Isern for three hours. As part of the plan, he was going to hire a surprise second provider to join us for the last half of the session (with the overage I was to give him). The agreement was I'd give him about a dozen names and he'd get one of those or get back to me if none could do it. But I had no idea which one. So he told me the night before that he got someone. When the time came for the second guy to arrive, to my surprise, Tom handcuffed my hands behind my back and put a blindfold on me. Second guy comes in. I have NO IDEA who is it. On Tom's orders, I start to suck him. This guy's dick is huge and I can't guess who it might be. It was very hot. I stayed blindfolded for at least 40 minutes. Finally, they took the cuffs off and the blindfold off. Second big surprise. It was none of the dudes off my list. In fact, it was a guy I didn't put on the list specifically because I thought his dick was too big! LOL. I had been handling in two directions by then! His name was Jake Havoc -- very nice guy and he and Tom made a great work-a-guy-over team.

I once hired a regular to take me to a colonoscopy and take me back home.

I don't see any reason to tell anyone that. I do usually say something along the lines of: "I realize this a last-minute request and that you're most likely business. But I was wondering if you're free at xx p.m. tonight? I'd love to make an appointment if you happen to still have your calendar open." And most of the time, it's because I found myself without plans and horny. Not a last-minute backout of someone already set up.

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Never been to Hawaii. Bucket list. And so is a session with CR. Much closer to me in NYC.

I had a threeway with them, too, and got food poisoning the night before our late afternoon appointment. I somehow rallied and made it. I had a double penetratingly good time. I'm pretty sure I'd have to cancel today. Ain't the rally-er I used to be.

Do you mind sharing what city you two met in?

That's good to hear. I wasn't able to set up anything on Friday but hoping to over the weekend while he's in town.

Yeah, I'll make do. I'm worried he's too much man for me as it is. I can't handle the well-endowed, strong guys like I once could.

I did once. I even told the guy feel free to post on RM since I had on a mask. He never posted them though. His ad is expired, but this is who it is: MusclWolf - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Torremolinos, Spain | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Torremolinos, Spain - MusclWolf: DADDY WOLF🚭