PhileasFogg

I was there in 2024 with https://rentmen.eu/mramericandream We stayed on the French side at La Playa Orient Bay. Frankly, I recall the island being fairly straight.

He’s new to NOLA…never seen him in the ads…

Here’s a mocked up version Of a template I default to my name is xxxx and I live inxxxx. I follow your profile on xxx and I’m inquiring to check your interest in a weekend trip to xxxx I’m yrs, bi, top, negative and on prep, healthy and in good shape. I like cuddling, eye contact, kissing, etc Are you interested in such a trip? If so, then I'd like to set up a video call to "meet" and discuss possibilities. This is an introductory call...I will not riddle you with endless requests for texts and pictures, etc. it’s simply to talk about possibilities and see if we vibe in mutual interests on such a trip Please let me know if you're interested…. ill add, they need to determine if this is a law enforcement sting, a dangerous person, a flake, etc When I use my actual number they can look me up on MrNumber, see my name…and then they’re a Google search away from knowing a lot about me in establishing safety… remember, you’re paying for their time as a travel companion and nothing else On these platforms, I’d suggest no mention to compensation…in dialogue, I’d reference nothing more than compensation for their time…but you have to find your conversational comfort there

I’ve not done this, but if I did, I’d be inclined to reach out on the platform offering a text number or email address for follow up off-platform. Your outreach should be written in a way as to assuage any concerns about your legitimacy

Hi. Welcome to the forum! May I suggest that you look through the online platforms (like RentMen) to see specific providers who tickle your fancy, then see if they have reviews here, and solicit more current feedback if they do or start a 411 thread if they don’t?

But the habit’s been around so long that old “dudes” are doing it too 🫣😜

As you know, I’m a fan. He’s enthusiastic and will work hard to meet needs. Make sure the communication is clear abs respectful.

I’ve known one - a 30-something guy from New Orleans. He has a reason for wearing it unless it’s very dark

Is it missing a clause “…as long as the checks keep coming…”

On the hookup sites, I make it clear I’m looking for FWB type of situation, require a social meet first to assure mutual interest, and then we can see where it goes from there

I’ve had a couple of good experiences on sniffies. But it’s the Wild West and I have to use defensive protocols to weed out the crap

Seamus is energetic and well educated. Get him while you can - he goes on and off of RM. I don’t know if he still is, but he was married a few years ago

I’d just gotten comfortable with the thought of visiting Mexico and PV was top of the list! Back to rethinking

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Will we have to call you “Doctor” when you’re done with school?

I retired at 60 from the C-Suite with the plan of living a relatively modest life for the next 30 years. Then, I got sucked into consulting and the income continues. So, I work hard and play hard with frequent trips traveling with companions that are smart, good looking, energetic, and sober to satisfy my wanderlust. I only have so long that my body is able and I intend to live to the max. I think the key isn’t “how much?” but rather “does it meet a need and is it too much?” and that means different things for different guys

The idea of fake appointments just doesn’t make any sense unless I stick my head up my a$$ to see it from the fakers perspective. It’s a testimony to a very sad person

Plus @samhexum is berry berry kind

I let them know upfront that I’m paying them the same

The fact that he’s not on prep may be his issue. Definitely going for a niche market.

Interestingly, I’m finding that my bags improve if I focus on two things: - keep my eyes wet with TheraTears - using a face wash with salicylic acid. The TheraTears has the greatest impact. So I’ve started asking if the dry eyes are the cause of the bags or vice versa

I think it’s much more nuanced than that

In my view, the term connotes a broader spectrum including both legal and potentially illegal activities. Better to give the benefit of the doubt

Maybe this is a topic for a different post. There’s already a few out there about this. But welcome anyway 😉

I could reset my vpn for The Netherlands right now and I think your analytics would show that as my ping point I’m not trying to minimize your concerns, but rather to point out alternative explanations. As to Donny, based on recommendations of friends here, I did correspond with him. While we were unable to make our schedules mesh, it was a good correspondence. My only reservation was that I sensed he was not completely comfortable with English and that some clarity was lost in translation.

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