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PhileasFogg

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  1. He admitted to me that he's LeonardoTwinkX - I pitched it "are you he or did you simply use his pics without permission"...he deflected about the implication of why he sent me a screen shot from a map app rather than his immediate NOLO location. Sometimes inconvenient truths are hard to reconcile for the deceiver.
  2. I wonder if the mafia is involved in the disappearances??
  3. I just clicked them....deadends on my end
  4. Interestingly, I also reached out to him when @jusmeinbr expressed his suspicions. I was inclined to think he was legit except that his rates were too low...and I told him that. Everything was fine until he asked for the deposit. I said no. He made excuses. Since he'd already told me the name of his hotel near the Superdome, I asked him to send me a picture of his view. He said I'm outside and sent me a picture of the front of the hotel from the sidewalk. I sent him back a picture from the same vantage point that I got from apple maps and noted the IRONY that the SAME WHITE STATION WAGON was reflecting in the glass in my version. Oddly enough, our correspondence ended there. Definite case of "Deposit Fraud" and @jusmeinbr's instinct was SPOT ON!
  5. I had a good massages at The Grande and The Cabanas. I actually preferred The Grande. I still laugh…I showed up to Cabanas with a 115lb twink and the primarily bear guests at the resort looked like they wanted to devour him 😂. I think it’s good I had a rented house 😅
  6. I’ve been on montjaro’s lowest dosage for one month I still lost 12 lbs in a month with no side effects. I’m going to experiment with the next dosage to see if this track record holds…I have no desire to push the limits to where I feel like crap
  7. That’s correct - that doesn’t describe my typical social calendar 🤣. I guess we know why that is 😉 Are you offering that as justification? Might we thereby conclude that a certain high ranking elected official who creates snarky names in critique is justified? I suspect “no”. That’s rhetorical …please don’t follow that rabbit hole off topic 😅 The point - if a member here asks for feedback on experiences with a guy, they’ve already asserted interest. They don’t need another member critiquing their tastes and preference. The critiques are petty and reflect poorly on the guys making them. Being gay or a fashionista doesn’t justify rude incivility. I know you’re not saying bad behavior is ok. 😉. But at some point we have to call BS, right?
  8. I don’t disagree. But I’d prefer to say nothing than to make a post to simply criticize a physical attribute or feature. Posts asking for experiences with a provider are not invitations for aesthetic critique
  9. Kinda like what you did to one particular guy that I defended a couple months ago?? 🙄 Remember a)tolerance is rooted in the realization that other perspectives exist and that b)you’ve been a beneficiary of it as well. I stopped looking for your posts to offer anything positive about anyone long ago too 😉 but your thoughts should still be welcomed here Be careful please throwing around words like slander or libelous (the more accurate term here). Expressions of opinion matter and should be welcomed. You’re right, some are mean. As a provider, you either meet a need or you don’t. If something’s holding back your potential wouldn’t you like to know what people think so you can work on broadening your appeal or, alternatively, what traits to emphasize less? Tyra Banks was an awesome model…but she wasn’t perfect. She learned the art of deemphasizing her flaws. Let’s be real, some providers make their image to please their friends and may narrow their market appeal to paying customers accordingly.
  10. While I acknowledge my role in the pushback on @JacOB SESSION and continue to applaud his response…there is still negative reflections on him here even if the other post was deleted. With a bias to always give young guys a second chance at a clean slate, since he’s a new member @JacOB SESSION may not know that he has the ability to delete this thread and wipe the slate completely clean if he chooses
  11. I think the constructive contribution of providers is important. Not unique to any public gathering, the challenge comes with the intersection of an uncivil provider, an uncivil client, or both. Replace “uncivil” with “immature” and my observation is more typical. But there’s more upside to providers being heard than downside. Combine that with great moderation like we have here, and it’s a strong net positive.
  12. Wow! 10 hours round trip just to see him! Must be special!
  13. Exactly! I experienced that in spades with these guys!
  14. One New Orleans guy did not have status noted on the profile. When I asked he said “I do everything to be sure I’m regularly tested and healthy” I now know the coded response for undetectable After our first encounter, he told me he was HIV+ Undetectable. I was not on PreP at the time and, as I researched it, I confirmed that the risk was tiny BUT that should have been MY decision, not his. He subsequently proved to be dishonest and delusional in other ways too. As a top, on prep with regular testing, undetectable should be exceptionally safe. But, one guy in Biloxi advertised + undetectable and then removed it from his ad… it’s bad for business because it’s misunderstood….but disclosure is appropriate.
  15. I’ve corresponded in the past and sensed a degree of pushiness too. I don’t think it’s pushy per se…I think it’s because English is his second language
  16. Actually, I can count at least 12 members here who I’ve met face to face, know my name, my number, or have even been a guest in one of my homes. They HAVE my LinkedIn. THEY aren’t trolls and are trustworthy. I’m guessing that, absent anonymity, you’d not be on that list. Do I recall that one of your first posts as @SecretProvider expressed an intent to post things that needed to me said? You’re only here to be negative. And I’m personally fine with that….theres plenty to be said. But, if you’re not here to be positive, please OWN it. There’s no need calling others out with passive aggressive attacks who are negative like you. The reality seems that your perspective is that all clients are a monolithic group treating providers like crap. That’s not true…but if that’s your experience, maybe the clients aren’t the problem.
  17. Would you like me to type it slower for you so you can understand? And, it’s funny you use the word “criticize” when I simply state fact: 1) he made a passive aggressive attack on @BOZO T CLOWN 2) he does so behind an anonymous moniker displaying troll-like behavior while calling others out for being trolls 3) he made a CHOICE to become what he detests in a somewhat verbose tirade cloaked as “encouragement” that’s fine…but let’s just call it what it is D o Y o u. U n d e r s t a n d ?
  18. I was the same way - what you do on your own time is your business. My change came in 2025 after specific experiences with two highly rated providers in New Orleans. I hope they get what they need. But I’m able to regularly observe at least one one of them on hook up apps with his “face down/ass up cum dump” posts to know meth is probably leaving him voraciously horny Meth is the gift that keeps on giving and triggers provider behaviors that interject risk into our interaction. There’s plenty of awesome SOBER guys out there to not have to take that risk. I wonder - how many of you actually look at evidence of STD testing before you hire someone? Because, there is a strong, well-documented correlation between meth use and a 50% increased risk of HIV. So, we can say what you do on your time is your business….until you track mud on to my rug.
  19. It seems as though you’re trying to make a couple of back handed slaps at a long time member of this forum. Are you are accusing @BOZO T CLOWN of being a troll for pointing out the obvious inconsistency on PnP which is, by your own comment, completely rational? If so, your passive aggressive comment is the trollish behavior. There’s a reason you, unlike most providers here, hide behind a moniker of anonymity - and it’s not because you want to say positive things to draw people to shop at your small business. Right?
  20. Say it often enough and maybe you’ll believe it. I can’t tell you how often a regular has commented to me about a referral they got from me to someone on this forum who then hired them.
  21. Hmmm. A shame I’m booked when I get home tomorrow!
  22. I applaud your response even in the face of my own push back. Thank you for stating all of that respectfully as you righteously defend your reputation There are plenty here who can be petty. Honestly, most here have been here a while and discount the validity of guys who join, make a couple of incendiary posts, and then move on. Your offensive poster was one of those. I think I’d speak for many here to say we’d love to have you as an active and contributing member of this group. Your feedback and defense of the rights and respectability of providers is highly valued
  23. Well, there goes Yelp… one time, I had a guy with a huge number of 5 star reviews show up at my house for a massage, crawl on top of me and say “I’ll move into this house and make you my bitch”. Hmmm, yeah…I should have asked his consent to tell that story here. 🙄
  24. Well, with 114 5 star reviews, I’m surprised he has time to continue bothering forum members.
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