Nightowl

This makes sense, though I wonder whether attraction has anything to do with it. Faced with years behind bars with no access to sexual partners of their own choosing, a lot of men would probably end up in sexual relationships with whatever is available.

The only question about orientation I’ve ever been asked was whether I was a top or a bottom 😀

A lot of guys will claim to be straight because they are reluctant to admit to themselves that they might be otherwise.

Mandy Patinkin

I’d recommend working out with a personal trainer a couple of times each week and ask him/her to build a companion program that you can do in your home gym on your off days.

I wouldn’t treat lube any differently than any other toiletry. Pack some in your dopp kit or buy it when you get to your destination. The only reason to worry about having it in your carry-on is if you think you’re going to fuck or be fucked en route.

Because trained medical professionals say it is safe, yes, I’d recommend it.

I was being sarcastic

Me too.

Tylenol has a history of doing harm. Anyone remember the Tylenol Murders back in the early 80’s when they found someone had put cyanide in Tylenol capsules, killing 7 people? Now we all have to fight our way through 237 non-tampering layers to get to our drugs and other products. I think Tylenol started it because they knew what would happen and that we’d all need Tylenol to get rid of the headaches the extra packaging causes. (This was not supposed to be taken seriously, folks!)

Don’t hold your breath.

Never heard of it. I’m interested in what you learn if you are willing to share.

Providers I’ve been with have some pretty nice digs.

I walk 5-6 miles every day at a very fast pace and get thumbs-up from passers-by, frequent questions about my age (70), and comments from younger people saying that they can’t keep up with me. I’m with you; I hope to keep walking until my last day.

Why do most RM provider profiles list “daddy” in their “into” list? Is it a set of appealing physical characteristics, a set of desireable behaviors, or something else entirely? What say you?

I think it’s just rudeness. Happens all the time with all types of activities, business or personal. Ghosting seems to have become the go-to response when confronted with something you don’t want to do. Manners and courtesy have gone out the window. But then, I still send hand-written thank-you notes….

@Jamie21?

The only people who know I hire are the guys I hire.

With or without tongue?

I would probably just try the direct approach and ask him to thrust more slowly and suggest that he vary his position while he’s inside you. Positive reinforcement as the activity progresses would let him know what’s working and what’s not. If you can find a position that allows you as much movement as him, you might be able to show him what movements work for you. I agree, there’s nothing worse than being pounded into numbness with no control over your own pleasure. “Hey, how do you feel about trying something different?” might be a way to open the discussion.

If he was charging you for *his* face pic, you should have charged him for yours.

Thanks for the warning. I’ve had my eye on him but the deposit requirement is a showstopper for me.

To me hash browns are potatoes. Period. Most restaurants pad them with peppers and onions, two tastes I do *not* want in my mouth in the morning.

Happy to provide elaboration. DM me with what you want to know.

Just discovered this thread again. When I commented earlier I was lamenting that I was still waiting to have one. I’m happy to report that that changed. Full body anal orgasms *do* exist. Relaxation, focus on your body, and a skilled partner can create miracles.