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This is true. Rock Center in NYC was getting a lot of canceled memberships for inappropriate behavior. But also most of that was based on reckless behavior. There's a lot of hidden corners there that feel tempting but aren't safe. If you're getting into someone's shower, and the shower has a translucent door, you're visible to anyone walking by. You're going to get caught.

I love this question! I'm a big fan of the Equinox locker room in NYC. It's a financial splurge that I twist myself in knots to justify, but I do love it. Equinox is great if you're like me and you enjoy casual non-sexualized nudity among men. Agreed that Rockefeller Center is the best I know of for that vibe. You do get a lot of straight guys doing what I call the high-school-swim-team-change, where you fully wrap a towel before changing. But a lot of guys - myself included - are comfortable carrying a towel rather than wrapping it. Heavily mixed gay/straight population, which can sometimes be hard to navigate in terms of knowing who's who. In terms of mischief, Rock Center is still the best location. (You can find it at Columbus Circle in the steam room, but you have to be willing to hang long term in hopes lightning strikes. Liable to be a big waste of time.) The advice I'd give at Rock Center is: don't be fooled by all the nooks and crannies. Most of it is NOT a safe space. The cleaning staff is on the lookout, and the will bust guys for sharing a shower. So don't try that. The sauna may also seem safe, but it is not. The steam room - while the steam is on, with an eye on the door - is the only real opportunity. If you're careful and patient, you can have some super hot experiences there! Though the rule for me is... the hottest guys always want to suck me off when I'm on my way to a client. It's like they know!

I have searched for those! But to no avail. It seems our female counterparts have been using Twitter for this for years, and now migrating to Bluesky. Their starter packs are bountiful! Non gender specific so I added myself. But major waste of time. They gay market has committed itself to a single monolith website.

I don’t get the sense that my regulars are aware I also see other clients. 🤣 Or if they know, they prefer to pretend they don’t.

I would encourage you to never worry about ‘stalking’ escorts by visiting their page too often. Speaking for myself, I’m happy to be ‘stalked’ in that way! It shows that guys are interested in your profile. I tend to be proactive when it comes to profile visits. If I see someone viewing my profile often - or if I see something in someone’s profile when they view me indicating I might be a good fit for them - I tend to reach out with a photo and say hi. Still navigating whether or not this is the best way to operate. Not sure if guys are put off by it or if it comes across as too aggressive, but so far it’s yielded some excellent connections. But short answer: This escort is happy to be stalked that way! I wouldn’t give it a second thought.

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I'm not sure if I'm an anomaly or what, but friendship with clients seems like a very natural result of this kind of work. If you show up and bring any of your human self to bear in the moment, real connections do happen. Sometimes you find you have common interests. Sometimes you just get to know each other over repeated sessions. There are any number of client/provider situations where people make friends and think nothing of it. Personal trainers, yoga instructors, hair stylists. An escort is a more intimate relationship than any of those, so it only stands to reason. Yes, boundaries are always important. Most of us juggle varying degrees of complicated lives. And we can't always be available to everyone all the time. I've been lucky that pretty much everyone I've met so far has intuitively understood that. On the question of answered texts, I think what you're observing is not unique to escorts and their clients. This is an issue with humans who text. As a general rule, do not presume to know why a person has left you on read. You literally have no idea what someone's life might be at any given moment. Maybe they're driving. Maybe they opened your text by accident. Maybe they're about to go into surgery. And don't presume to know why someone's not looking at your text but their chat light is green. Maybe they're texting their grandmother on her death bed. Maybe they're late to an event and texting for directions. Maybe they just don't have time for you in that moment. None of this is inconsistent with friendship. None of this is inconsistent with checking in on you at later time. You need to be careful not to confuse the access that comes with friendship with 24/7 availability.

Definitely revisited this thread, home on the couch with the flu all week, lamenting all my canceled new clients, hoping they don't all hate me now. Most of this thread is a reminder that reason can prevail, and people can be rational. Here's hoping...

I have FOR SURE had this fantasy. It’s definitely a fun on-ramp for kink. Do you see yourself as the doctor or the patient?

I will HAPPILY present mine for evaluation. 😏

Mine has been getting good reviews for that lately! 🙋🏼‍♂️ 👅🌸👅 You can check it out on my RM profile. I do alternate between sugared and natural, just to change it up. So be sure to check in on that if you have a preference. Telegram is my preferred chat platform, but you can also find me on RM and WhatsApp. Cheers, booty lickers! 😈

Ahhh! Thank you so much guys. I love this community! And I love sex with men! And thank you @big-n-tall for sharing the photo link. Always happy to share more photos directly - especially of the less pro variety - with real inquiries. Happy weekend, friends!

I had a client this weekend who had a playlist going called Tantric Sensuality. It was similar to what you’d hear in a massage room at a spa, just maybe a little sexier. It was perfect for creating a vibe without dominating the scene or taking you out of it.

I mean, good on him if he can make it happen. I may add that to my ad and see what it does for traffic. 🤔

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HIS bomber jacket, not MINE. If it got lubey, it only served as a glorious memento for him!

I had a client whose fantasy was to top a guy in his fur lined brown leather bomber jacket. As soon as that jacket came out, he became a different person. All aglow. It was an extraordinary thing to see. These dress-up scenes can cut deep for people! It can be very hot...

This is actually super helpful! I’m just starting to book some overnights right now. So this is all excellent to keep in mind! 🙏🏻

I love that this exists here! While you’re at it check out my queer Trekkie podcast hailingfrequenciesopen.com

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I’ve had truly amazing experiences with clients bringing toys. But only as a bottom so far. I love an aggressive toy moment. 😈 If a bottom client brought toys and wanted me to use on him? Zero issue. For sure into it! I’d just rather not provide the toys. But most importantly: this is 100% in bounds for a beforehand conversation with a provider. Don’t worry so much. Ask for what you want.

Nice work if you can get it INDEED. But more than that, I just love that you used the phrase… … internal intimacy. Bravo, sir! 👏🏻

I’ve for sure been asked to play dress up and it can be really fun! Though it’s so specific, a conversation beforehand is required. Also - based on many of those conversations - I’ve been able to contribute my own gear. Fishnets, lace, lingerie… all of this has become much more mainstream. If you look at the great male erotic photographer Mark Henderson’s work, which has always been hypermasculine, lately now you see models in fishnet bodysuits and lingerie all the time. I’ve had the opportunity to play in lingerie - sometimes with leather, sometimes not - and it’s super hot. Sort of takes both parties outside of themselves a bit. I think a lot of guys could do well to open up to it. Short answer: this isn’t as weird as you think. You shouldn’t have a problem finding a willing provider.

Vers provider here, chiming in! Yes, flipping is the undeniable best. But this is 100% a conversation to have before you meet. Just because a provider identifies as vers doesn't mean that that's the expectation on every occasion.

What exactly does a porn(guy) wear to an awards show? Love seeing all the attempts at answering this. Every variation of shirtless with a suit!