DznNYC

Okay, well, open curtains is just basic generosity!

Agreed! Consent is an important part of exhibitionism. I want to be watched, yes. But only by people who want to watch! Otherwise it’s an actual sex crime!

General aesthetic poll here. Hopefully any associated controversy will be lighthearted. As a vers/often-bottom provider I’ve been maintaining a fully sugared ass for a few years now, with the help of @thesugardaddy.bsky.social. (Highly recommended if you go for that kind of thing.) But lately I’ve been getting some feedback that something more natural is preferred, so I’ve let it grow back in. Is there a consensus for how a provider maintains the bullseye when it comes to hair?

Same! I definitely get off on the public aspect, the audience etc. But the actual legal risk is real for some of these things. That's a great way to get the same kind of experience but in a safe space. Some of us get off on the audience but not the actual risk!

I think this is a struggle that goes both ways too. Telegram has always been my preferred platform for the nitty gritty client chats. (Maybe I should be using Signal?) But getting clients to chat there is often like pulling teeth. Very few seem willing to use it. WhatsApp is an acceptable alternative, but it requires sharing my phone number. Which I’m certainly not squeamish about. Until guys instead invite themselves to use iMessage instead… 🤦🏼‍♂️ It would seem that if you’re a sex work enthusiast on either side of it, you’d value the discretion. I’m not sure if the issue is a convenience issue? Or not understanding the value of encrypted chat?

I did a duo photo shoot with him a couple of years back, and got to know him pretty well. One of the most genuinely decent, thoughtful, and caring people I’ve met. Truly vers, great at sex, and physically hotter in person. That and he smells amazing. If you can connect with him, you’ll find nobody better!

Marcus Mojo was for sure my porn crush in a different life! And I had the privilege of doing an erotic duo shoot 📸 with Aiden Ward, and he's everything you'd imagine.

I know him in person fairly well and have collabed for clients. He's amazing. Hotter than his photos. Boundless sexual energy. Very vers. And I've only ever seen him freshly shaven.

I’m working on making this happen! Thankfully I have a friend who lives nearby I can crash with, cause InnDulge looks full. 😫 Fingers crossed, this sounds like an amazing time.

A little late to the game on this, but this seems like an amazing time. And it looks like InnDulge may still be booked, though the site suggests I call the property to inquire. I'm guessing I could only do Thursday or Friday through Monday. Is it still worth it if I can only do a limited time? Or if I can't manage a room at InnDulge?

Seasonal smooth bottom provider here! I retain a tiny bit of au naturel this time of year to please the naturalists. 😏 Find me in the spring! 🤣

This question is bonkers to me. As a provider, I can’t imagine wanting to show up to a new client without them seeing everything they need to see to know they like me. Granted, this feeling may be tied to having grown comfortable being widely naked on the internet. But so much of my comfort showing up for a new client is tied to them knowing everything they need to know in advance.

Yeah, this is the takeaway here, and maybe a necessary reminder. Stop running at the mouth about yourself to new clients.

Worth addressing: the difficulty of assigning a number to the intangibles of cock size. There are so many other qualities to a dick than just what the ruler says that impact your perception of size. I prefer to say 7 and let my photos do the talking. Mine stands up straight and gets super hard - careful it'll break before it bends! - so it's visually impressive and looks bigger. I'd rather have guys gush, That's gotta be more than seven! than turn skeptical Is that really eight?? This is when I miss cable TV. The old Spectrum remote was a great visual frame of reference for photos!

Sent you a DM. 😇

These kinds of questions are ideal. It’s so helpful knowing what turns a client on when you arrive.

I love these posts that basically invite bottom providers to brag. How can I not pile on? Agreed that every situation is different. Some situations are so ass-focused that nobody in the room cares about your cock, and it just makes a quiet exit. But not gonna lie ... nothing beats working my rock hard cock - or getting it worked - while pleasing a man with my ass. Usually accompanied by a steady flow of pre-cum. Learned my lesson about sharing visual evidence here, but happy to send privately! 😇

Oh jeez. THIS question. 🙄 I didn’t card him. But I can say he looks exactly like his photos and is stunning in person and looks believably like the age he’s stating. Fit men in their 30’s and 40’s it can be impossible to discern. But he’s definitely man not twink.

I know him in person, but am also a provider. I’ve never hired him. But his photos are absolutely true to life. Face pics are current. Body is even more impressive in person. No smoke and mirrors here!

I know him in the real world, and he 100% looks like his photos. The physique is flawless.

** raise hand ** Very into the fluids thing! And always happy to do it with clients. 😇

Longer than waxing? I don’t think so. I think they’re the same thing in terms of ripping hair out at the root. But sugaring is gentler and doesn’t require heat.

Sugaring is less likely to irritate your skin. And heals faster. And seconding all the praise of Sugar Daddy. He and his team are amazing.

I feel like it’s code for … Hire me for many hours at my very high hourly rate. Just a guess?

@Damizzon.bsky.social