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lol. Now THAT feels uncouth here.

Isn’t that the dream for all involved?

Is it uncouth to recommend myself?

This is so odd all around. As an escort, I try to bring my authentic self front and center whenever possible. But even with that, why bring up potentially trigging topics? Even odder…. Why not just politely shut the topic down and move on? Hitting the eject button and leaving a bad review seems excessive.

Hahaha, yes, chalk it up to chemistry. And eagerness for particular D.

It sort of runs the gamut for me, and kind of depends on the vibe with the client. I definitely can stay rock hard as a bottom, but it requires a bit of attention to my cock, and I generally have to get there before the fucking starts. Some tops though are so ass-centric, they don't pay any attention to my cock, in which case all my sexual energy lives in my ass. In those situations - even as I'm crazy turned on - my cock may not get fully hard.

Love a CMNM moment!

I love hearing provider stories, so I'll bite! I started off primarily as a nude erotic model, and was generally uninterested in sex work. After a period of time doing that, I'd established a bit of an online presence as a nude model, which led to its own array of offers, dubious and otherwise. I'd been approached by another provider - now a fairly well known porn personality - who had a client searching for fit masc bottoms to fly in/out for a single day of work. I said to myself: 'I can bite the bullet and do this, no problem.' Well, as it turned out, no bullet biting involved at all. It was a terrific and very satisfying experience. Come to find out, I had some sexual empathy in me. I had some ability to sense what got this guy off and could find pleasure in providing that. Not long after, I was approached by an acquaintance of mine - a provider looking to transition out of the business. He had a special long term client he couldn't in good conscience leave high and dry, so he approached me. It was from this experience that I learned how rewarding that ongoing client/provider sexual friendship could be. Which ended up opening me up to other similar situations, and ultimately my own little niche in the sex work world. I'm not on Rent Men. If I have 3 clients in a week, that's a busy week for me. But I love it, and I'm not looking to quit anytime soon.

Hahaha yes very that! Once you read between the lines you move to telegram!

I maintained a pretty thirst-trappy Instagram model page for a long time which attracted a bunch of those offers. “Do you ever meet up with fans?” “Do you ever do one on one work?” “Do you ever take additional evening work?” Those are coded questions that always worked for me! Though I can’t speak to spooking non-providers. I certainly got weirder questions than those and just ignored.

Don't know him as a provider, but he's one of my favorite humans / sex partners. He's the real deal.

I am! 🙋🏼‍♂️

Nice guy in NYC here! 😇 Vers with a great cock. (I can't believe I'm the first to chime in with this... lol)

Wow, this is a super erotic description! Super lucky sub that gets hired for that.

I've done some S&M sub work, including impact play, and it's been a really hot time. I've only ever had good experiences doing it!

This has been a thing for some Dom clients I’ve connected with on Recon

Some clients I can’t tell either way if they care if I cum. There have been plenty of times - primarily as a bottom - when I haven’t cum at all. Not because I wasn’t enjoying myself, just because they didn't seem interested in me cumming. Didn’t feel like that’s what it was about. Though you’re making me wonder how many of those guys were disappointed! I do have regulars who are clearly very invested in my orgasm and I always cum for them. Have you made it clear that it’s important to you?

I honestly don't think I've ever connected with a kinky client by way of any of the mainstream platforms. They've literally all come from Recon!

😈😈😈 Can't wait!

I had a client ask me to show up in a pair of assless neoprene pants once. Turns out neoprene doesn’t breathe too well under jeans.

Not gonna lie, big fantasy of mine being that server.

More of an escort than a masseur here so maybe it’s different. But I love getting that kind of a direction from a client. Especially on a first meeting. Gives me a real sense of what he’s about and what gets him off.

I feel super naive here, and I can probably guess from context. But I’m gonna go out on a limb here - maybe look like an idiot - and just ask… What does this actually mean?

This is between a man and his own penis. Full stop.