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Hey thanks for posting me here! 😇

Hey thank you for posting my photos here! NYC based provider here, appreciating the post. 😇

This is a funny one for me, because nude photo modeling was my original gateway to sex work. So I definitely became comfortable being widely naked on the internet before I seriously pursued escorting. So I come to assume that most men who inquire have already seen everything. I realize I’m coming from a certain specific position here, but it’s hard to relate to being squeamish about sharing nudes.

All I can think of, reading this, is what a miserable job escorting must be if this is your attitude. I’m quite certain I wouldn’t be able to do this work without some real human empathy for my clients. Also, I’ve built such genuine ongoing friendships and sexual relationships with my long term regulars… It would genuinely hurt my heart if they thought I viewed them as ATM’s. This one legit made me wince!

We’re super fortunate to be living in an era where we have things like prep and doxy pep where sex workers and clients can enjoy bareback sex with relative safety. But it’s a calculated risk. Nothing is 100%. And all of these protective measures - like anything - can be subject to user error. No SW wants to have to send the hey-you’d-better-get-tested texts out to their client base, so they tend to be more vigilant. But in the age of prep and doxy pep, it’s incumbent upon everyone to learn how to protect themselves if they want to enjoy bareback.

Hahahah. My bad! Pay me no mind.

I’m sorry, I know this isn’t aimed at me to weigh in, but I somehow can’t not. A HE on a sugaring??? OUCH! I get sugared monthly and cannot imagine this. You gotta heal those pores heal!!

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Semi, on topic here... I definitely just got booted from Recon for soliciting. And I don't even use recon for that! lol Simply identified as a SW in my profile as a point of identity. So be careful outing yourselves on the wrong platform!

If you approach me on Instagram, I'll move the chat to Telegram or WhatsApp.

M Social hotel is a great location, has decent - if small - rooms, and a super active lobby where nobody will notice anything. Unfortunately, no-key walk-up is a rarity these days in NYC, and not usually worth the sacrifices you have to make.

There's a school of thought where people think riding a cock is a great way to start. And it does work for a lot of guys. But honestly it's the relinquishing of control that gets you in the right mindset for bottoming. And if you're hiring an intuitive skilled top, letting them work their magic is for sure the way to go. Doggy style is great, but unless you're in great shape, that can be a stress position for a lot of guys. I've had a lot of luck opening up nervous bottoms by laying them on their side. That way they're super comfortable, more able to relax, and you still get access to working their cock as you do it. Also: manage your conceptual framework of success! Goal oriented sex can feel unnecessarily high pressure. Having your ass teased by a very hard cock can be pleasurable enough. Taking just the tip can be super satisfying. If you allow yourself to enjoy the process rather than fixating on some arbitrary goal, you'll most likely surprise yourself!

Ah, you are the master of the brutal tease! I for sure recognize these from Twitter. 🥵

lol. Now THAT feels uncouth here.

Isn’t that the dream for all involved?

Is it uncouth to recommend myself?

This is so odd all around. As an escort, I try to bring my authentic self front and center whenever possible. But even with that, why bring up potentially trigging topics? Even odder…. Why not just politely shut the topic down and move on? Hitting the eject button and leaving a bad review seems excessive.

Hahaha, yes, chalk it up to chemistry. And eagerness for particular D.

It sort of runs the gamut for me, and kind of depends on the vibe with the client. I definitely can stay rock hard as a bottom, but it requires a bit of attention to my cock, and I generally have to get there before the fucking starts. Some tops though are so ass-centric, they don't pay any attention to my cock, in which case all my sexual energy lives in my ass. In those situations - even as I'm crazy turned on - my cock may not get fully hard.

Love a CMNM moment!

I love hearing provider stories, so I'll bite! I started off primarily as a nude erotic model, and was generally uninterested in sex work. After a period of time doing that, I'd established a bit of an online presence as a nude model, which led to its own array of offers, dubious and otherwise. I'd been approached by another provider - now a fairly well known porn personality - who had a client searching for fit masc bottoms to fly in/out for a single day of work. I said to myself: 'I can bite the bullet and do this, no problem.' Well, as it turned out, no bullet biting involved at all. It was a terrific and very satisfying experience. Come to find out, I had some sexual empathy in me. I had some ability to sense what got this guy off and could find pleasure in providing that. Not long after, I was approached by an acquaintance of mine - a provider looking to transition out of the business. He had a special long term client he couldn't in good conscience leave high and dry, so he approached me. It was from this experience that I learned how rewarding that ongoing client/provider sexual friendship could be. Which ended up opening me up to other similar situations, and ultimately my own little niche in the sex work world. I'm not on Rent Men. If I have 3 clients in a week, that's a busy week for me. But I love it, and I'm not looking to quit anytime soon.

Hahaha yes very that! Once you read between the lines you move to telegram!

I maintained a pretty thirst-trappy Instagram model page for a long time which attracted a bunch of those offers. “Do you ever meet up with fans?” “Do you ever do one on one work?” “Do you ever take additional evening work?” Those are coded questions that always worked for me! Though I can’t speak to spooking non-providers. I certainly got weirder questions than those and just ignored.

Don't know him as a provider, but he's one of my favorite humans / sex partners. He's the real deal.