DznNYC

Yeah, this is the takeaway here, and maybe a necessary reminder. Stop running at the mouth about yourself to new clients.

Worth addressing: the difficulty of assigning a number to the intangibles of cock size. There are so many other qualities to a dick than just what the ruler says that impact your perception of size. I prefer to say 7 and let my photos do the talking. Mine stands up straight and gets super hard - careful it'll break before it bends! - so it's visually impressive and looks bigger. I'd rather have guys gush, That's gotta be more than seven! than turn skeptical Is that really eight?? This is when I miss cable TV. The old Spectrum remote was a great visual frame of reference for photos!

Sent you a DM. 😇

These kinds of questions are ideal. It’s so helpful knowing what turns a client on when you arrive.

I love these posts that basically invite bottom providers to brag. How can I not pile on? Agreed that every situation is different. Some situations are so ass-focused that nobody in the room cares about your cock, and it just makes a quiet exit. But not gonna lie ... nothing beats working my rock hard cock - or getting it worked - while pleasing a man with my ass. Usually accompanied by a steady flow of pre-cum. Learned my lesson about sharing visual evidence here, but happy to send privately! 😇

Oh jeez. THIS question. 🙄 I didn’t card him. But I can say he looks exactly like his photos and is stunning in person and looks believably like the age he’s stating. Fit men in their 30’s and 40’s it can be impossible to discern. But he’s definitely man not twink.

I know him in person, but am also a provider. I’ve never hired him. But his photos are absolutely true to life. Face pics are current. Body is even more impressive in person. No smoke and mirrors here!

I know him in the real world, and he 100% looks like his photos. The physique is flawless.

** raise hand ** Very into the fluids thing! And always happy to do it with clients. 😇

Longer than waxing? I don’t think so. I think they’re the same thing in terms of ripping hair out at the root. But sugaring is gentler and doesn’t require heat.

Sugaring is less likely to irritate your skin. And heals faster. And seconding all the praise of Sugar Daddy. He and his team are amazing.

I feel like it’s code for … Hire me for many hours at my very high hourly rate. Just a guess?

@Damizzon.bsky.social

Maybe 'migration' is inaccurate on a technicality, as you can't visibly tell what people intentions are with their twitter accounts. But if you join Bluesky on the short term you'll see there's a visible wave of gay men all with accounts under a week old.

There is a visible mass migration happening now. I’m posting adult content and interacting with others who are doing the same. A lot more actively there for me now than on Twitter. But surely a lot of that is just the novelty of it. My plan is to keep my Twitter for a while longer until Bluesky has a few more features and I’m active enough there. Has anyone found any starter packs for male sex work enthusiasts? I’m at @damizzon.bsky.social. Say hi if you’re there!

Joining in the great gay migration from Twitter (sic) to Bluesky, and it seems to be going well. But my lady FSSW friends are definitely using the platform for community building in a way that we - their male counterparts - don’t seem to be. They’re creating ‘starter packs’ - groups of users with similar interests - to network to other FSSW’s and to clients. Are any of their male counterparts doing the same thing? Am I just not finding them? It seems like a potentially valuable tool for connecting. This may just be a cultural difference between how male and female sex workers connect with each other and with clients. Curious if anyone has thoughts. @damizzon.bsky.social if any of you have made the jump.

BlueSky has Starter Packs. You can post a link to networks of people with shared interests. A lot of female sex workers are linking together on Bluesky via Starter Packs. But it doesn't seem like the male sex workers are doing that just yet. Any other male FSSW on BlueSky find appropriate Starter Packs on BlueSky? Add me! @damizzon.bsky.social 😇

I have been flown in as a provider. He purchased the flight for me. He reimbursed my travel expenses - Ubers, airport meals - in addition to the agreed upon rate. I would not have fronted airfare on my own, simply on faith it would be reimbursed.

Damn! You caught me just a month too late!

BRF is an ICON!!

I’m pretty aware that my dick and/or my ass have opened a number of doors for me. But I’d like to think it’s the rest of me that has guys coming back. Lol

You’re making me miss my long hair!! Two months ago it was nipple length! 😩

Yes, THIS!! This is one of the great potential joys of a client/provider relationship. You have the gift of being able to fully free yourself of the pressure of wondering if your provider is having fun. It's a situation inherently structured around you getting exactly what you want in a zero judgement safe space. Are you harming your provider or causing undue discomfort? No? Then don't worry about it. Also, consider that maybe some of us are wired differently. Some of us are drawn to being providers because our sexual joy comes from providing. If you can relax, let go, and enjoy feeling like a king for couple hours... that's when your provider truly enjoys himself. (Fully ignoring the kooky implication that you only pay providers for things they don't enjoy. That's bonkers.)

Yes and super grateful for it. 😇

I certainly don’t bill myself as a masseur as I don’t really have the training for that. But when that’s the framework the client wants, I would start him on his front, massage his back side. Then when the time comes to flip, I’d massage his front and then - when the time is right - hop on. If the client is a bottom - a little rarer for me but happens - I would do most of the massage while actually inside him. But let’s be honest, the legit massage aspect is minimal! It ends up being something of a pretense, or more comfortable path to actual sex.