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Being bi, I could understand being into MTF providers. Beautiful breasts and a cock, as odd as it might be to experience IRL. But FTM makes little sense to me. You get to have sex with the vagina, but lose the breasts, and for what? Maybe it's because I'm a breast man, but that is the least appealing option of all to me.

A stellar provider wouldn't call out the appearance and performance of a client, even if the client was unsatisfied. Even if the provider thinks the comment was untrue or unfair, there is a professional and classy way to handle it. I didn't look at the pics or location of this provider, but it's an easy pass for me

I think they might be inclined to participate if they could easily sign up just to get sucked. But in reality, the client will ask to be touched, sucked, or kissed as well.

Tough to say. Until very recently, I only hired on business travel, so repeating wasn't easy as cities changed. Now that I'm home, possibly for good, maybe every month or two, time and funds permitting. I had one masseur I loved the first time, but suddenly wasn't comfortable doing the same things the next time, so I stopped seeing him. More recently I had a great massage, and returned a couple of weeks letter for a more escorty session before he left town, and it was great. If he stayed here, I'd try and see him monthly, but I'm not sure when he'll be back, so I may have to find yet another. So I really don't know what it would be if I found someone I liked who was permanent here. I'd guess roughly 1-2 months though until I get rich.

Why is just gay a requirement? Why not a smooth muscled top as well? I mean if specific sexual preferences are important in a financial advisor, why not go all the way?

It really has a double meaning. I was just enjoying some wordplay. You were fine.

I've seen a few providers on the heavy side, but none that big. 😉

I'm kind of the opposite of this. I find getting a new provider stressful. When I find a provider that ticks all my boxes, and seems to enjoy our session and appreciate my business, I lose the interest in searching for a new guy. I actually stop looking at ads, etc. and just look forward to my next appointment.

Shaving my chest hair would look silly with as much back hair as an ape. 😉

I think for me it's fem if I can tell someone is gay without the topic coming up in conversation. Just by how they move, talk, act, etc. I don't know how my gaydar even is, but that's my barometer.

Thirst trap photos for just a therapeutic no-MT massage is disingenuous at best, bait and switch at worst. I just ask about what the rates are and what their massage is like. The answer tells me what I need to know. "$xoxo for 60 minutes with both nude, mutual touch and HE." If a provider wants to overperform and go further, that may be great, but as long as my expectations are met, great. Now if the rate is truly a therapeutic massage rate, I'm fine going for the massage and what happens, happens. But I can get a therapeutic massage at Hand and Stone for $89, so don't tell me that your therapeutic massage is $200. Why do I care what you look like or are wearing if I'm just getting a legit massage?! No sympathy here for the guys who post topless or less photos, change double the massage rate and then claim just therapeutic when the time comes.

I'm not sure tax rate is the relevant part of the equation. Why should a fair amount to pay be dependent on earnings anyway? Is someone making 2 million a year getting more services than someone making 50 million? Or 20K? One could logically argue that if someone pays a million a year in taxes, they paid "their fair share" regardless of their income.

That's a great talking point, but it's simply not true. The top 1% of earners pay 40% of all taxes. The top 5% pay 60%. The lowest earners have a negative tax rate, as they get refundable credits far above what they put in. Those might be the ones to have a problem with.

Froy is heading back to California from Orlando, and I couldn't be sadder. See him when he gets back. Thank me later.

Just had my second visit with him. Splurged this time for some extras. This guy is so seductive and sweet. Had me considering things I'd never done before. I'd love to say he was overrated and keep him for myself, but I can't do that to him. He really makes it feel like he enjoys being with you. He's so cute and good at this. I had to see him once more before he went back to California in a week or so, but see him wherever he is. You won't be disappointed.

Not only am I in the same boat, I'd find it hot to be the guinea pig for a newbie. Practice can be fun!

Why do people keep making this false assumption to make their point. For an hour, or even an evening, the goal isn't an intellectual match made in heaven. Sure, it's great if you connect, and if the escort is mature, intelligent and can quote famous literature. But as long as they are kind and agreeable to your arrangement, the physical attraction is why they were hired. When you watch porn, is it always older guys, because the young ones must be so immature when they're sucking cock? If not, it would be pretty hypocritical.

I thought we were hiring for an hour or two of fun, not proposing marriage. And isn't it the provider putting himself out there for just that purpose? If you think this arrangement is sketchy, you're probably in the wrong forum.

And Rich, good looking, and having/wanting/willing to pay is even a more exclusive animal. I'm just happy when their ad shows their true colors so I don't waste my time.

At this point, it's a strain, and therefore I'm very cautious with my hiring. Like everything else in the world though, you have to pay for quality, but it's still nice to find a bargain when you can. I think of it as any other part of my entertainment budget. I don’t go on expensive trips, and don’t spend money on alcohol or drugs. I used to travel for business, so I had a hotel and meals paid for, so I could reallocate more of my spending money for 'fun'. Sadly, that's ended for now. But I still like to eat out and get massages ('legitimate' and otherwise). I wouldn't go into debt for this hobby, but if I got an inheritance, I'd definitely dabble more and share the wealth...especially with those providers who I already like that haven't tried to get me for everything they could.

So clients with common sense who have been burned and are trying to help others are trashy. Got it. Funny, but we think providers who insist on a deposit when they aren't traveling out of their area are the suspect, trashy ones. Its all about perspective.

Honestly, it isn't something I'd even notice. Unless he was 5'5 or shorter, or 6'3 or taller, I wouldn't even notice height.

Huh? Your post was partially a complaint about the expense required to travel when clients may flake. Now room sharing might not work out for you, but to say this reasonable suggestion had nothing to do with the topic at hand is ridiculous. It sounds like you just want to vent and not hear any possible solutions. And that's fine, but you're dealing with men here, not women. Women generally want an ear and sympathy, while men hear problems and want to solve them.

Just met with Froy for the first time. Very sweet. Rearranged his plan to take me on short notice. Didnt ask for a deposit, but that might only be for outcall. Very low bed massage, but I'd say 60% erotic vs. therapeutic. Welcomed touch. And he was adorable. I could fall for this guy. He's bi though. Bi-coastal that is, so may be in LA, which might save me some money.

He has one line of text and there's either a typo in it or a language issue. Gives me pause.