Mark_fl

Couldn't agree more. If additional services are given, sure, but no other service provider does. A plumber let's you know the cost of the service call, and then adds travel expenses later. (And one might argue these providers are plumbers

And they could make decent money twiddling other things. Even if it is only $150 or $200 an hour instead of $300.

Sometimes I feel like the opposite everyone else? Finding out someone has OF or does porn makes them less desirable for me. If certainly not pay more because of that. Maybe because I like the BF experience, I'd prefer the illusion that I'm a little special. 😉 I also have a tough time paying a lot for someone I've never met and don't know how comfortable I'd feel. Someone whose pictures are all graphic or talks only about the size of their equipment isn't erotic to me. I'd much rather have a humble guy with lower rates and tip him well.

I'd like a longer first session in order to get comfortable with someone. I would want to start with a massage and some talking before I'd jump into sexual acts with someone I don't know. After that first go around, I think an hour would be fine.

I absolutely sympathize with having to deal with idiots like that. Unfortunately it's something we have to deal with in any customer service field. I know I don't have the option of telling everyone that because of some pain in the ass people, everyone else has to jump through hoops to get to me. I don't fault you, but personally I'm out when all I get is an autoreply to a carefully written reach-out for something specific.

I hate this idea. 1) While most providers may have a throwaway phone number, most clients don't. I don't necessarily want everyone tonhave my phone number. 2) if you don't correspond via RM, apparently you can't write a review. (Not that reviews are worth much) 3) I wish they would ban autoreplies completely! I hate getting them. Not only are they impersonal, they don't usually answer the question I've asked, they usually tell me that I have to do something else to contact you AGAIN, and are often advertisements for OF or another service I don't want. Now if they said something like "Thank you for your interest. My rates are "xxx". I only check this email every couple of days, I apologize for the delay, but will give you a personal reply shortly" I think that would be fine. But otherwise when I get an autoreply, I move on to another provider. I'm interested in how other clients feel about this. Maybe it's generational, but ita almost like a phone tree where you can never get a real person ;).

My one piece of advice as a relative novice myself.is to book two hours. You want to be able to go slowly, get comfortable with each other, and not feel rushed. As for the other particulars, I'll leave that to the experts, as toppings or bottoming isn't part of my menu.

So has anyone actually met with this guy? I'm intrigued amd may be stuck in the Charleston area a few days.

I'm sure clients could come up with a pretty good list of "don'ts" for providers as well. 😉

He must have shrunk. His listing nowstates 6'3"

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When you seach rentmen.com in your town, how selective are you? Is it a buffet for you, and you want to try one of everything? Or do you put on a bunch of filters, and still are happy to find one or two you'd be interested in hiring. Or somewhere in the middle? Im in the "lucky to find one or two" group. I'm wondering if its because Im bi/leaning straight and just not into most guys, or if this is normal for all guys. And did this change for you over time?

Don't think so. It's just a matter of degree.

I cant imagine spending $1k for any guy. Maybe Farrah Fawcett back in her day, or Kristen Chenoweth a dozen years ago, but with guys, I need to know them before I'd get that worked up.

What are your biggest HOF snubs? 1) Kenny Anderson, Cincinnati Bengals, football HOF. Until he gets in, this HOF is a joke. His numbers are better than many in the hall. He poineered the west coast offense, and did so with mostly bad teams. 2) Pete Rose. Say what you will, but his records are already in the hall, and unlike the PED crowd, all of his amazing stats are legitimate.

Height isn't a factor for me at all. Since I prefer smooth slim guys, they tend to run shorter, but as long as they qualified on that basis, height wouldn't be a deterrent.

Jakefromstatefarm looked kind of cute. What did they say the problems were?

I think as a client its very easy to fall into this trap. First you select a provider that you are attracted to. Then you make sure he will do what makes you happy. Then you pay him to do just that. On top of that, he you pay him to make believe he's as into you as you are to him. And to top THAT off, sex releases chemicals that make you bond emotionally. Personally, I'm very cautious and don't let myself get attached to people easily, but it's happened to me as well. It's a recipe for a very expensive disappointment. It sounds like maybe you aren't cut out for the BFE if you're feeling that way. And if you are ever thinking the feeling is mutual, ask them if they want to hang out off the clock. That'll wake you up in a hurry.

Maybe it was me, but he was very affectionate, and seemed pretty genuine, so I don't know. Ymmv

Took the plunge this morning. Sweet guy. Pictures accurate. But doesn't even do oral, so make sure you're specific in what you're agreeing to. Somewhat disappointed.

And as a perk, we would know which providers are rated 'prime'!

Problem with autoreply is that if someone asks a specific question and gets an autoreply, they feel ignored or that they aren't going to get a reply. I'm not thrilled when I ask a question and get an autoreply to text my question somewhere else.

I may not be typical, but I don't need a video or explicit pictures. A few natural shots of the body waist up is fine, face photo (smiling preferably) and intelligent text. Humble is better than arrogant for me. Someone looking to please a client goes further than one looking for 'generous' clients. That's always an easy pass.

Actually, if you are actually reporting the right amount of income, the ACA will cover most, if not all, of the premium. I know nobody here would ever think of not reporting all their income, but if you are able to report the right amount of taxable income, either through actual earnings or pulling income out of pretaxed income like a Roth IRA, its actually very cheap, if not free. Sometimes it pays to be the editor of a financial planner.

I didn't mean spefics or breaking confidentiality. Just previous trips to this town or a trip they went on