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Must be me, but neither OF or live strippers appeal to me at all. I just find it cringe. If the nudity isn't in person and just for me...not interested.

If we get to go back a bit, Ill go with Brockstar

To hell with discipline. If you had the ability to make an extra payment every month, get a 15 year mortgage instead.

Im just curious for providers how long you've been providers, and clients, how long and how often you've hired? Hopefully this is confidental enough that people don't mind sharing. It might give some perspective on posts here. Personally, I'm 60 and had no male interaction since fooling around with a friend at age 13. In the last year I've started to explore with some guys. I had 2 1-hour hires and realized that wasn't going to work for me, so I arranged a 2 day visit with someone on a work trip, which worked out perfectly. Not sure if and when I'll hire again, as quick interactions aren't enough for me to have a comfort level.

Yeah, this post is turning into a PSA for providers. 😀

Not sure if it qualifies as a fetish, but I love my shoulders and upper back bitten medium-hard. Maybe because the hair is some kind of buffer, but that feels so good to me.

Be careful. You may even get a parting gift!

Aren't we supposed to be getting 2 for 1 today? 😉

I saw the topic about clients who like to give the provider their own happy ending. Do providers generally appreciate this or think of it as an obligation? Or does it depend on their obligations for the rest of the day? Or how hot the client is? Or how skilled they are? Probably as many answers as providers, but curious as to if the consensus thinks of this as a bonus or a hindrance.

To add to an old topic. Things that generally make me pass on an ad: Excessive piercings and tattoos Obscene gestures A lot of hair facial or otherwise. Gaping asshole photos And while these aren't an automatic pass, I don't get excited about jockstraps or bikini briefs/thongs. The latter group not very manly to me. A lot of pictures with tongues sticking out. I think I just prefer a more subtle sexuality vs. IN YOUR FACE.

I think part of what providers do is flirt. It makes the client feel good and want to come back. If they do it well it feels genuine. If they do it poorly, it feels like sucking up. Now if they get to know you better, its easier to not only find something they like about you, but to read what kind of compliments you would appreciate. It doesn't mean the compliment isn't real, but as long as there is something in it for the provider, take it with a grain of salt.

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I wouldn't filter for that, as I don't care about dick size. Its just that I fear having an average dick is preventing a lot of normal, All-American guys from being providers.

I know most providers exaggerate their endowments, but I think for me, and maybe a lot of others, there is a market for average guys in good shape. I don't even care if a dick pic is posted, nor would I ask for one. I just want to see a flat stomach, smooth skin (minimal hair) and a boy-next-door, clean-shaven face. These seem few and far between from what I've seen. Most guys showing off their big dicks and hairy assholes. I know you give the people what they want, but I wish more average guys would put themselves out there.

Maybe this should be the approach if they just say ask? You're asking if they'll accept a quote

I'm a bit stocky, and 60, but my concern is body hair. Arms, legs, back, everything. If that is a turnoff to a provider, I want him to know before agreeing to see me. So I put that, and what I'm looking for in my profile and ask them to read it and see if I'd be a good client for them. If I don't hear back, no big deal. Could be they don't travel that far, don't like what I want, or don't want to deal with the hair. I'm not butt-hurt, and I've not met anyone that made me feel unwanted.

It's not just the younger ones.

I think once you have a relationship, that can be fine. But sight unseen, before meeting, its just cloying to me.

Yeah, the 'daddy' thing always seemed weird to me with a girl or guy it just smells like incest to me. 🤢

Just curious how everyone feels about what they like and don't like in communication with their provider or client. I reached out to a guy I hope to meet ina couple of weeks and he started calling me stuff like "sexy boy" and kiss and heart emojis. I am 60 and pretty average. It just screams phony to me, and turns me off, so I asked him to stop. Is this part of the fantasy for some guys? I know most providers are acting, but that's too much, at least for me. I want a real-feeling connection, not smoke up my ass. What sort of things do you guys like and not like in communication?

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It seems to me we're talking out both sides of our mouth here. First we say people are too hung up about nudity and it should be no big deal to be naked or shirtless. It's just a natual body. Then we turn around and say just being naked is a sexual environment. So do you blame someone who doesn't want to be looked at sexually for not changing in public?

I used to be able to hear audio when the rentmen providers posted videos introducing themselves. For some reason I no longer have volume and don't see any setting for it. Anyone else have this problem on android or know how to solve? Thanks

I do not have the other requisite qualities to be successful. It's not an easy job, making believe you're excited to be with old, hairy, stocky guys like me! 😀

When I get a commitment from a provider and have selected a time and date, I will gladly set up a call or send a pic. If I want a stress-free experience, I will make it as stress free as possible for them as well.