Mark_fl

I tried to break in 2026 with a masseur I enjoyed once before, but he claimed to have missed my text after sending me his availability. He's been reaching out to me, so I know he wants a return engagement, so that was unfortunate. So I have nothing on the calendar this year, sadly, and no trips scheduled, which is when I usually book, so I'll be doing without for the time being.

I would assume most people don't tip providers. I hope they would just bend them over gently.

I think this is a point that hasn't been broached here yet. I've had many business lunches and dinners I didn't really want to go to, but went because it builds relationships. If one is serious about building a business, you should be ok doing some of this. There are worse things than having someone buy you dinner without charging an hourly rate.

Personally, I like when I see they are accepting of all ages and body types. I'm in the world of average plus a little weight, so I describe myself best I can so if they want to decline, flake, or ghost, I'm saving myself some disappointment. It's fine, good even, if they insist on cleanliness. Red flags are when they give discounts for younger guys, or mention any physical preferences of their own.

Strange.But it says log in two hours ago and a long time ago!? Just in different places

There are rent-a-friend websites where you can pay a fraction of what you would pay a sex worker if that's all you wanted. If you wanted to pay a particular guy because you find him attractive and it might lead to more, I think you should be prepared close to their going rate. If you truly want platonic friendships, rent one from a non-erotic site. I think after you have a relationship with a provider and you both enjoy each other's company, it's possible that the provider might enjoy a meal or event with you and have you just pick up the tab. Providers are people, just like clients. They aren't emotionless drones. They may be better able to avoid emotional attachment caused by sex, but their type of work gets to know you in a way that most of your friends even don't and that can be bonding in its own way.

You've also said you blocked those who havdn't given you a perfect rating. That sounds like a complaint about a client who wasn't 100% satisfied to me.

I got your answer, just not your logic. I'd like to hear other provider opinions as well, since it seems pretty much everything clients do upsets you from what I've read.

If they looked at the menu online, the restaurant wouldn't be bothered in the least, and they might be pleased that they enjoyed it enough that they may return. Especially if it was someone too far away to visit regularly, but would if they came back to town.

I get that the "legal line" is that you are paid for your time, but I think that is rarely the case. From what I've seen, providers have quoted rates based on what my expectations are, and how 'invasive' we might be. I would think if I got to the point with any provider that I wanted to spend social time at dinner or some event, it would be because we have a mutual like for each other, and paying all expenses of the day would be ample, plus maybe a small gift. Otherwise, for me, I would find the experience off-putting. Paying someone to be intimate with my old, hairy self is one thing, but I'd like to think I'm enjoyable to spend time with. If they didn't feel the same way, it would suck the fun out of it for me anyway, and I'd rather pass.

There is one provider that I saw and can't wait to see again, but he's most of the way across the country. But if he ever travels to my neck of the woods, I will see him again, or if I'm ever wealthy enough to fly him in and put him up myself. So I occasionally drop him an email now and again, asking how he's doing and wishing him Merry Xmas and such. I don't think he minds, as he always reaches back in kind. In my mind, he's a regular, even though we've only spent the two nights together.

And check to make sure he isn't charging anyone less than you. Fair is fair.

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Please change this color scheme. It's painful to read.

How would you feel if someone booked, had a good time, and THEN looked 100 times to relive the experience in their mind?

If I keep looking at a profile, it's because I hope to hire at some point. I would reply and say that I may be in that area at some point and will reach out if I can make it work. If someone I look at once reaches out, and I have no intention of hiring, I might block just to save us both discomfort. I don't want to lie and lead him on, and I don't want to say that I don't care for them for whatever reason.

To be honest, I want a low-pressure, relaxed experience. If a provider is getting that worked up over a window shopper, they're likely doing me a big favor should they block me.

I guess I'll throw in my 2 cents: June: Had a 2 night stay on a business trip with a cute guy I'd been trying to see for a while unsuccessfully. It was worth the wait. Just what I needed as my first foray into this. Would love to see him again if the planets aligned. I still reach out now and again to keep in touch, and he always replies. October: Hired a masseur who did a nice job and offered a "release" for a little extra and surprised me pleasantly by including oral as that release. Will repeat. Maybe today December: Saw a rentman in NJ (Already posted about the experience here) and was surprised when he said he didn't do oral after discussing that would be important, but claimed he must have missed it. Conflicted, as he was cute, nice, VERY affectionate and reached out before and after. And I saw in his profile and pictures that he does more.

This seems short-sighted to me. I often look at profiles for places I might be going to. Often long before I have trips finalized. I get providers dont want to feel like free porn, but it seems like the cost of doing this business. Personally, I dont need nudes to know if I want to book someone anyway.

Nobody goes there any more. It's too crowded.

Because it's less silly than paying to have someone sleep somewhere else.

Generally if I'm not touching the guy or girl, I won't get aroused until my cock and balls are touched. Actually, I'm usually asked if I want a HE at massage places because I'm not hard from just the teasing.

I just read someone's post that when they hire overnight, they have a separate bed for them. Doesn't that defeat the purpose? Sleeping together, for me, is the whole point. I'd want that closeness, just not someone handy in the morning. Also a fetish of mine is fondling and sucking (with permission of course) while sleeping. Anyone else hire overnights and not sleep in the same bed?

I am beginning to understand the choice to leave law.

You clearly missed the point. The point was that even in this economy, sometimes prices have to come down. I didn't think it was that difficult a topic. Where did I suggest providers should start eating at McDonald's?!